I prefer amateur pics and videos. I don't want to see the media's idea of physical perfection. I want to see real people having real fun and showing real emotion. I like seeing lovers who share affection with each other and who obviously care about each other. I'm not too keen on anything that looks staged, so no role play and no scripts for me.
As far as what turns me on visually, I don't like videos with an in-your-face view from the very beginning. I like things to progress naturally. I love long kisses, heavy petting, slow seduction before moving on to intense lovemaking. I want to see people who are really enjoying themselves and not just trying to put on a show. I don't want to see them change frequently from one position to another just to entertain the camera. I want it to be realistic. I love seeing real-sized or plus-sized people, not skinny women with huge breasts and no waist or men with rock hard abs and huge penises. I prefer that penises and toys be of average length and width and not look like something I could hit a baseball with. I don't care for intentional tans and tan lines are a particular turn off to me.
Sneering and spitting turns me off, too. I don't like "angry" sex. Some BDSM is sexy to see. I have a few movies where the Dom is very matter of fact about the punishment the lady is going to get and that is arousing to me. Nothing degrading, abusive or humiliating and no name calling.
Very deliberate intentions, in a BDSM setting or enema setting is very hot. The whole "This is what I'm going to do. It's completely natural and normal and there's nothing you can do to stop it, so you might as well lie over my lap and enjoy the ride." mentally kind of makes me melt.
I do have a few fetishes that turn me on. Two guys and one girl videos are nice, especially DP scenes. By DP, I mean one man in her vagina and one in her bottom, not two in the same orifice. I love spanking videos. I love oral, especially rimming. Rimming feels so incredible and I love seeing it and imagining it happening to me. I love watching gentle, slow anal sex, leading to more intensity, the way it is naturally. Not like the tiny holes taking giant cocks and immediately being able to take it until the woman's eye bulge out.
Videos showing a man fingering a woman drive me wild. That's one of my biggest turn ons. I've even paused, rewound and replayed scenes of men's hands, even in a completely vanilla setting, such as John Goodman wiggling his fingers while talking about bowling on the tv show Roseanne. One of the first things I notice about a man is his hands and fingers. I look at them and wonder how skilled he is, whether his hands are soft or callused and how they would feel caressing my skin and imagining how the length and width of them would feel inside me. If his hands are small, I wonder if he'd be able to fist me and take me further than I've gone before.
I love watching men being rimmed, fingered, having a prostate massage, being penetrated and receiving anal sex. I have always loved anally adventurous men and have had the fortune to run into a few of them and convert a few who thought they would not like it. Mwhahaha, I have my ways...
Needless to say, I enjoy enema videos. I love most everything about them, but prefer not to see and messy or noisy expulsions. I detest crude of childish language, especially in regards to enemas. The words poop, shit, crap, etc. really aren't appealing to hear. I prefer polite euphemisms and general terms such as "I need to use the ladies room, the bathroom or need some privacy." Most other terms are the equivalent of scat to me, only verbally instead of visually.
If you are strictly a heterosexual man, you might not want to read any more of this...
I love watching two men make love. Seeing two men kiss and make out makes me wet. It's so freaking hot! Watching a man give another oral sex and rimming and watching them have sex is a huge turn on for me. I've had a few bisexual lovers and have been in male-female-male threesomes and watched my lover enjoy oral sex and a little touching, but not full on kisses and sex. I would love to be in a threesome with two bisexual men who play together. Heck, I'd love to just watch it in person. I wouldn't even have to be involved. Put me a little corner of the room and I'd be a happy gal.