I didn't know about fisting until a leather dyke friend of mine stayed the night with me after a party at a mutual friend's house. She had left her keys at home and needed a place to stay so I took her to my place. We talked and hung out and soon she was talking about what she liked to with and how she'd get her whole hand in there and it was warm and squishy like putting your hand in a cake that was filled with pudding because the ladies would gush when she got inside. She hit on me blatantly that night and every other time I talked to her but I like femmes or soft butches. She was an ugly bull dyke with a shaved head and mohawk, had no upper teeth, was into hardcore bdsm, kept a filthy house and was way too promiscuous and a was a braggart. So I didn't let her touch me. She was so gross and graphic that she turned me off women for years.
Later, I had a boyfriend who was five foot four, had a medium build and small hands. I loved (and still love) being fingered and he would always give me my fill of it. He would get four fingers in me and part of his hand but I couldn't take his thumb. In fact, once he did that and there was a terrible noise followed by terrible pain so we didn't try it again.
Years went by and I went out with a widower who had lost his wife a few years before. It was his first date in 40 years. We went out to dinner then back to my place where we sat on the couch and talked. Somehow, we started talking about sex. He told me how his wife just loved it when he would lick her pussy and put his hand in her honeypot. "Your hand?" I asked. He said yes. "Your whole hand?" I asked incredulously. Yes, he said, and pointed to his wrist. My jaw dropped and I was greatly intrigued and his use of the word Honeypot just made me feel all warm inside. We kissed each other goodnight but didn't go out again. It was too soon for him, he said.
Warm, gooey pudding and cake, honeypot. All these rich, luxurious expressions for something so intimate really turned me on.
I have continued to enjoy being fingered by fisting didn't come up as a viable option until I met Mike here on Zity. We've been trying to do it for four years but his hands are long and my vagina is short so he quickly runs out of room. There is another very sexy gentleman here whom I have met and shared a bed with one evening who has rather small hands and I know without a doubt that he could take me and make me melt around him. I'm looking forward to that opportunity.