How often do you have anal sex?

@soundcurious i hear you. Wifey isnt so much into anal receiving and so I maybe get to take her arse three times a year. She pegs me maybe once every two months. So i get into a lot of solo anal play. she has mentioned the idea of outsourcing my anal desires and needs to someone. Haven't found the right someone. A bit tricky

I love having my ass played with so there’s anal play involved probably every time I have sex. My husband has a girthy cock. It’s average length but it’s wide. I don’t love him taking me anally because of that. He prefers taking me vaginally anyway as he can thrust harder without hurting me and we like it fast and hard. Sometimes though, he wants to ‘take’ me (or I am feeling the need to be taken) and we’ll have anal.

I’ve a FWB who takes me anally almost every time we get together. Why does he get to? Well he’s a LOT thinner cock wise than hubby is for one and we don’t get together that often anyway. I find I tend to want the FWB when I need to be degraded a little. Even when he’s degrading me, I always feel like a princess with hubby. A part of me needs to feel like a worthless whore sometimes. It’s not a big part and it’s not a part I’m proud of but it’s one I’ve accepted

I love having my ass played with so there’s anal play involved probably every time I have sex. My husband has a girthy cock. It’s average length but it’s wide. I don’t love him taking me anally because of that. He prefers taking me vaginally anyway as he can thrust harder without hurting me and we like it fast and hard. Sometimes though, he wants to ‘take’ me (or I am feeling the need to be taken) and we’ll have anal.

I’ve a FWB who takes me anally almost every time we get together. Why does he get to? Well he’s a LOT thinner cock wise than hubby is for one and we don’t get together that often anyway. I find I tend to want the FWB when I need to be degraded a little. Even when he’s degrading me, I always feel like a princess with hubby. A part of me needs to feel like a worthless whore sometimes. It’s not a big part and it’s not a part I’m proud of but it’s one I’ve accepted

Dear Nurse !

Once more many thanks for this very readable comment !! - enjoy this pleasure whenever you are in the mood of it and also play safe !!

Kindly regards from germany !!

I love having my ass played with so there’s anal play involved probably every time I have sex. My husband has a girthy cock. It’s average length but it’s wide. I don’t love him taking me anally because of that. He prefers taking me vaginally anyway as he can thrust harder without hurting me and we like it fast and hard. Sometimes though, he wants to ‘take’ me (or I am feeling the need to be taken) and we’ll have anal.

In my experience, both giving and receiving, the key to accepting a thicker cock is preparation and foreplay. They tell me that I'm much thicker than average so usually (unless someone is really raring to go) I at least take my time with a bit of anal massage and don't get ready to try until I have at least 3 fingers inside without difficulty. (Plus, playing with a guy's butt is fun.)

And being on the receiving end the man who popped my cherry is just plain old big. He was aware that I had some bad experiences with inconsiderate tops when I was younger and he took his time. He didn't even try anything until he had 4 fingers in (me, gasping: "How many is that?" him: "Four." me: "oh my god"). He then pounded me for an hour (thank you trimix) and even came twice and it never hurt at all.

As for the actual question: I top much more than I bottom. Topping usually once a week, bottoming maybe once a month.

My wife loves to fuck my ass with her strapon.

And I always cum...because I love anal !

Since my first time I am addicted.

Merel

My wife loves to fuck my ass with her strapon.

And I always cum...because I love anal !

Since my first time I am addicted.

Merel

Surely it will be interested to get the strapon from your girlfriend !! - but otherwise have a try with a " really piece of meat ", and you will know and explain the difference !!

About twice a month, with me as the giver. About once a month with me as the receiver (either a strap on or just a prostate toy).

It's been years and years since last time. My wife tried it a couple times over the years and did not like it. She also tried fucking me with a strap-on, the first time she was over-excited but now it does not titillate her.

About once per week.

My wife and I used to enjoy anal sex quite often. She claimed to enjoy receiving and pegging me. Nine years ago, she suddenly started telling me that it was off limits. She has actually recently told me that I should outsource those needs, if they are important to me. They would be nice, but she is more important to me than that.

I've never had anal sex. I don't understand the appeal when there is a warm, wet vagina centimeters away. If a woman asked me to do it, I would, but it is not something I lust after. Is that strange?

Nine years ago, she suddenly started telling me that it was off limits. She has actually recently told me that I should outsource those needs, if they are important to me.

It would not be a good idea to take up a wife on such a suggestion. Sooner or later this will surely be used against you in one manner or another, even if only as a recrimination and reminder of what kind of 'reproachable sexual proclivities' you have.

Why does anybody think that women enjoy anal sex !!! They dont have prostates to massage !!

Why does anybody think that women enjoy anal sex !!! They dont have prostates to massage !!

Sort of a false equivalency here.

Just because men have prostates, does not mean that all men enjoy anal sex.

Anal sex can be pleasurable for either gender because of the nerves in the anal muscles, sphincter and inside the rectum, not only because of a gland inside a male body.

Surely you have read the many accounts of female members enjoying anal sexual activities.

And surely you have read the accounts of many male members foreswearing anal activity as well, despite their prostate glands ... ha ha

Of course I have read some accounts of "women" in here and I dont doubt that there are many men who do not get pleassure from anal sex but that does not make me withdraw my question.

Why does anybody think that women enjoy anal sex !!! They dont have prostates to massage !!

@JSChallenger In the same vein, I have often wondered if women enjoy giving oral sex or do they just do it to please their partner. An honest question...

In answer to Horace I would say that you need to differentiate between Physical pleasure and psychological pleasure which are both enjoyed during love making - In the case of women, I think the Psychologiocal pleassure of giving what you know your loved one enjoys would be the stronger than the physical one.

Why does anybody think that women enjoy anal sex !!! They dont have prostates to massage !!

I love anal sex and think a big, throbbing cock in my ass feels amazing 🍑🍆💦

Men as well as women can enjoy anal pleasure without stimulating the prostate (if they have one). My wife has pleasured me many times with toys that did not stimulate my prostate - and it was always amazing. There are a ton of nerves around the anus.

@agracier I agree completely about not taking her up on it.

@Allie80 Can you describe the different sensation between a big throbbing cock in your ass vs. a big throbbing cock in your vagina? Do you have a preference?

Maybe 5x a year. I haven’t fallen in love with it yet.

Seen it and felt it while anal fingering women... Also, during vaginal sex a female partner having had enough, would simply lightly press my butt-hole, causing me to blast-off (so I think that had nothing to do with my prostate).

@Repetitious_Old_Bastard you’re right. You can stimulate the prostate by externally putting pressure on the perinium between the testicles and anus. I was taught that many years ago to facilitate peeing and to prevent dribble or leaking. Just lightly touching your anus would stimulate a lot of pleasurable nerves, likely not your prostate as you suspected.

Not often enough. My anal play partner lives out of town and I only get to see her infrequently. 😢

3 to 5 times a week 🤭 love to get my butt filled with his hot cum 💦😁

@JSChallenger in direct answer to your question. I personally believe women enjoy anal sex because they have 1. Asked me for it. 2. Told me in conversation that they love it. 3. Openly discussed ways of making the experience even more pleasurable. Your presupposition on why they wouldn't like it is narrow to say the least. I have had many sexual partners over a long period of time and I can say with conviction that over 90% of them not only enjoyed anal but asked for it from me frequently.

Been way to long! 😞

We usually have anal sex one or perhaps two times a month; to clarify one or two times a month with me being the recipient. I enjoy it but it is not something that I like to do without properly getting myself ready; to feel good about doing it I like to have myself really clean. Probably nine times out of 10 my husband indicates his desire for anal sex or nonverbal communication; most often he puts my enema syringe in the shower. If I find my enema syringe in the shower later in the morning I know he would like to have anal with me later. For preparation I usually take a sequence of three or four enemas to clean myself out. To avoid any possibility of "a mess accident" I stay on a liquid diet until we do it. A couple of hours before bedtime I inject two shooters of anal lubricant. I usually use a retention butt plug to hold the lubricant in so I don't leak. The plug also stretches me so the cock insertion is pleasant and pain-free!

Dita

I did it three times in my whole life 23 years

Maybe its time for number 4.🤔@Mary1