Rimming

In the new movie version of CHIPS one of the two CHIPS says he always eats ass on a date. His partner asks: "How do you know they want it?"

Response "If they have baby wipes in the bathroom they want want."

Partner: "And If they Don't have any baby wipes?"

Response: "They still want it!"

Similar to post 13 by @Soggy in "BI and Willing" Discussion: https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=103079;last

I enjoy being rimmed and its one of our regular relaxing prep kinks before we do anal sex. But I will not rim him. I know turn about is fair play and all that. But is a turn off for me to give.

I did it in earnest yesterday day on my wife. We have been married 22 years and I have never done. She didn't know what to think. She kept wiggling around the bed. I ask if I was hurting her and she just said "it's weird", but she didn't stop me and let me continue.

The first time I was rimmed was in college. I remember telling my partner. "I think you're in the wrong place." He retorted. " I know where I am and it's not the wrong place." I answered. "Alright, it feels good, different but good."

I've never done it. My wife took a while before she was comfortable with cunnilingus ("it's dirty!"), I wonder how she would react about rimming, even if she's just been washed down there.

Is it that good for the recipient?

Lowell, Massachusetts many moons ago in a drug store my husband buys a Tootsie Roll. Me says, "Whacha Gonna Do Wit Dat Dere Tootsie Roll? He says, when we get back to our motel I'm going to slip it up your ass and a couple hours later I'm going to eat it out of you! I thought for a second and blurted out " I'm Game"

A few hours later I was booty up with a pillow under my belly. I'll never forget when he spread my cheeks and slipped his tongue into my rose bud! I felt electric! I mean this was seventh heaven (That's A State Of Euphoria) for me. He dilated my butt hole with his tongue and I pushed against him while rotating my hips. He told me to push and out oozed the mushy Tootsie Roll! Slowly it seeped out of me and he went to town! About that time I lost it and had a wonderful orgasm. He's back there smacking his lips like a baby going after him mamma's titties! That was great! There have been many, many, many butt hole sessions since then.

When we were back in Boston getting ready to go back home this song lyric popped into my mind, "Oh I Love That Dirty Water, OHHHHHHHHH, Boston You're My Home!"

It's "Trick or Treat" day! Iffin me finds a Tootsie Roll in our grand sons goodie bag guess who will snatch it up? You got it! Me! We take them door to door every Halloween. They are not fond of Tootsie Rolls but old grandma Gwen knows how to soften them up. I know, I'm terrible! Blame my husband!

@Pecan_nutjob asked, “Is it that good for the recipient?”

OMFG HELL YES !!!!

Bridgette: I may try to gently approach the topic... She's still at times hung up with the smell/taste of her genitals..

@Pecan_nutjob, if she is self conscious, perhaps wait until she is fresh out of the bath/shower. Or set a romantic bubble bath with candles , music, to start the mood. A few glasses of wine or cocktails surely never hurt to loose some inhibitions either. Lol

I too was first very self conscious, especially when my lover asked me to not immediately bath prior but his enthusiasm and appreciation was so evident I quickly lost all those hangups and thoroughly savored every moment.

Each time afterward has been just as amazing as the first.

One evening she was in doggy playing herself with vibe against her clit. I was fucking her slowly with my two fingers in her pussy. My other hand was spreading her butt cheeks and I gave her a few kisses on her buttocks. She liked it so I used my tongue too and played around till I come closer to her little butt hole. She never liked anal, but she moaned more and more and suddenly she moved a little and my tongue touched her butt hole... I continued with gentle lick and soon she was moaning in orgasm.

She is still shy about it, but when play like this I can feel sometimes she is pressing against my tongue... biggest turn on for me and I absolutely love giving it to her.

@Pecan_nutjob

Me being the recipient changed my life! I love being rimmed! I like @bridgette suggestions. Follow her lead and see what happens. I like face to face sit down and talk sessions also. Letting her know you desire to love all of her will help her feel accepted. Acceptance is important! Knowing her cute little butt hole is as sexy and beautiful as the rest of her body may help! Verbalize what you think and desire! You stay true to this woman and you will hit the jackpot. Let her know she is your one and only! She will be yours 100% if she feels you will be 100% towards her. A strong loving relationship is built on trust and devotion. You make her believe she is the only girl for you and the gates will open. She wants your 100% love! You do that, and stick with that and what you desire will most likely happen. Most women will go that far only if true love is shown and practiced. There is a stigma to overcome. A mental condition is in the way. You break that barrier and let your lady know you desire to love and respect all of her and you will receive the gift of her acceptance. She must know her "Rose Bud" is as beautiful as her lips! No inhibition means the gates will open in the right direction with the great desire to be loved in all ways will follow.

This type of love does not often happen over night. You have to know one another first. And there is nothing better than a face to face talk!

Rimming came naturally to both my wife and I. Back in the 70's there was a spa in San Jose, CA - "Great American Hot Tub" (I think). We would run over there at lunch time and soak and make out. I put her up on the edge for oral sex - and gradually lifted her legs up to expose her butt hole - and gently went for it. She had a tremendous orgasm fingering herself while I rimmed her. She immediately swapped positions with me and after a very short blow job - lifted my legs and returned the favor. We never talked about it - it just came naturally. It was a staple in our sex lives - we incorporated it almost every time we had sex (except for quickies in the morning before we rushed off to work!)

The first time I ever rimmed anyone what a girl I was dating in high school. We were both still virgins but one night she let me massage her bare bottom and after a while I got curious and wondered what she looked like "in there". So I gently spread her cheeks open and saw her very small and hairless anus. Very pink, very clean, very beautiful. She did not react or say anything. I leaned in and kissed the skin of her cheeks and looked more closely at her little hole. It was so inviting. So I leaned in further and kissed it. Then gently licked it. And I didn't stop doing that for a long time. She just breathed deeply and let it happen.

We dated for several months and I rimmed her bottom many many times. She never touched me back there and never let me penetrate her anus with a finger, just with the tip of my tongue.

It was several years before someone rimmed me.

This is why when I’m eating a girl out I like her to be in the doggie style position so I can have her asshole right at nose level and I can go straight to it from time to time when I get tired of the pussy. I love eating a girls ass

I love giving rim jobs to women but most women are squeamish to rim men

Almost all the women I dated or hooked up with let me rim them but not all of them would rim me. The women I had anal intercourse with (4 girlfriends) all loved being rimmed and also rimmed me frequently, they were all very anal oriented and 2 of them stopped wanting vaginal penetration after awhile.

Many of the women I rimmed would never discuss it but never stopped me from doing it. A couple of them would be still and silent as I kissed and licked their bottomholes. Some would breathe very loudly and deeply. Some would moan and wiggle. I remember asking a cute woman I dated in college if she would rim me after I rimmed her for the first time in her life. She blushed immediately and said 'I don't think I could do that" so I nudged her facedown onto the bed again, spread her little round cheeks, and continued licked her tiny hairless hole. Another woman I dated after college loved to be rimmed and fingered anally and also loved to finger my hole. She was the one who first initiated it in the bathtub one evening, slipping a soapy finger into my anus. We played with each others bottoms alot but the one thing she refused to do no matter how clean I was was to rim me. She said she just couldn't bring herself to put her lips or tongue on my anus.

My girl loves it when I eat her ass and play with her clit. Really turns me on to see her squirm with pleasure.

Rimming a women is always a real pleasure the issue is the first time to see what type of reaction she will have

Rimming a women ...well what's not to love.... the small warm little hole and the squirming in response ....nice

Yep, love to lick a lady there.

I especially like to rim a woman after some anal dildo play. Then you can get your tongue inside the rim and lick away. Of course cleanliness is very important. Nothing like tongue fucking a nice ass.

Love to receive, but love giving more!

Both GF and I love rimming with deep tounge insertion, but to be honest I like better giving than receiving and most times she have great orgasms while my tongue is deep inside her ass

I enjoy both giving and receiving. As I am obsessed with cleaning and always before playing myself and my partners have a deep clean enema, I consider that rimming our asses is safe and brings only pleasure. When I rim I like inserting my tongue also and licking and sucking good my partner's ass. When I am thr receiver, I let to my partner's decision on what he/she like to do.

Anyone ever combine taking a shot and licking? Thinking Honey whisky on her taint would taste awesome ... we both love to provide deep tongue in the other ...

TS Sec never ddAnyone ever combine taking a shot and licking? Thinking Honey whisky on her taint would taste awesome ... we both love to provide deep tongue in the other ...

I just enjoy the natural. We never engaged in any food sex. Just not our preference. Loved oral and anal play. More power to those that do enjoy food play. Enjoy just be clean ?

I'd agree that giving is better than receiving, except that for me giving IS receiving .. after 5 minutes of wetly kissing, licking and snogging my girlfriend's anus, I finger her building up from one finger to three, which sets me up for ass-fucking her with my cock. What's better than feeling your throbbing cock ejaculating deep into your GF's bowels while feeling her tight ring gripping the base of your penis? Also, what's not to love about your GF alternating between sucking your balls and sucking your anus as part of a two-way rim-fest in the build up to anal intercourse? I find my tongue is the key to most of the anal sex I've ever had.

Be careful when rimming a woman....you might be opening Pandora's box! I tried rimming my sub as a reward for being a "good girl"...turned out she became an even "gooder girl"! When she would beg...this became something she begged for....her responses to this were almost too intense, especially when I got her anus relaxed and swirled my tongue inside her as I held her cheeks apart.

I enjoy rewarding her when she does something really spectacular.

Adding my positivity to this one, I love it too. Last time I did, was blown away by the taste, was so disappointed to be pulled away and made to have sex

@GyneDoll I've never had anyone eat a "Tooties Roll" out of me but raw oysters are another story. I don't believe that I just typed that.

The Devil didn't make me post it but the Devil in me did.