Anal sex

I find it sad that so many distrust an anal penetration. Something that can be so pleasurable, so ruined by mock kinksters who don't understand what must happen :-( I'll read on but find that I'm totally "disgusted" but what I read.

Oh my, have I not commented yet?! Yes, after the clean out and a plug or natural stretching, I want it! I actually like the cum exploding in me but I do not 'get off' this way, rather when I have been properly explored and am feeling naughty.

I can't imagine anyone not having an irresistible urge to try anal sex. That urge will not leave your mind and can be satisfied only by anal activity. Desire will overtake you. Just be aroused enough (by whatever means)to be relaxed and, very importantly, take your time. You shouldn't have problems. I began by inserting large dildos and vaginally while siting on a vibrator for my clitoris. Having all that going on sent me over the edge, and I was permanently hooked. Anal intercourse, anal beads, enemas, rimming, and whatever is enticing and safe are all ineffably pleasurable and satisfying. Anal is extremely intimate and thrilling.

To make my wife even more submissive, I make her push her butt up against my dick as I penetrate her ass. I slap her ass to make her push hader. We both enjoy the experience. I don't cum in her ass. I save my cum for her mouth later in the session.

I love anal sex and stimulation. But it's definitely something I have to warm up to. What works best for me is to have an orgasm through masturbation and then I'm nice and relaxed and ready for my husband to start fingering my anus. When it comes to anal intercourse, I've taken a penis in my ass in every position imaginable, but have to say that my favorite is the spooning position. It's very gentle and relaxing. And nothing is more arousing than feeling a man cum inside of my rectum. The warm flow of semen is amazing and always sends me over the edge into bliss....

To reply to gynoslave I would see that I do like the feeling of the penis going up the bottom. I find it to be the most delicious sensation of all. I didn't always like it though and you have to learn how to relax and to appreciate the sensation. I particularly like being able to forget about my genitals and indulge in the very special feelings that having my bottom filled (the fuller the better) give me.

I love anal sex, but have yet to include enemas in my play. I've found most of the women I've been with to be very open to anal play, though not all open to anal intercourse. At some point with my wife, I will bring up the enema idea. (Much of this post I've posted elsewhere on zity.biz.)

I first realized my interest when I saw a photo of a woman in a Playboy magazine who was squatting and whose anus was clearly visible. I was so so turned on by the sight. But I felt ashamed for this interest. Later when I was 16, I had a girlfriend (15) and we started to become sexually active. One night, the first time I pulled off her panties, she was lying on her stomach and I began massaging her bottom and couldn't help but spread her cheeks just so I could see for myself. The sight of her anus (I still remember like it was yesterday: tiny, pale pink, no hair, barely wrinkled) was overpowering. She never let me insert a finger and she had no interest in my anus. However she did let me tongue her there as much and as often as I wanted.

It wasn't until college when I had a serious girlfriend who agreed to finger my anus. Finally -- what an incredible feeling it was. She said it felt "weird" (she had never done that before) but was happy to do it whenever I wanted. I still felt ashamed about this desire, but of course it was only something between me and her, and since she was OK with it, I was. She enjoyed when I would stimulate her anus (tongue or finger caress), but did not want any penetration, claiming it too painful. Once I asked to insert my finger in her bottom, just to see if she could handle it. She agreed and knelt, bottom up, head down. As I applied vaseline around her hole, she said, "See, I like that, when you touch around the outside". But once I pushed in (and I pushed in as deeply as I could), she said "No, that hurts" and wouldn't let me stay inside her. She didn't make me feel bad about it or try to make me feel 'perverted'; she just claimed that she was "too small there".

I've had several partners (all women) since college and am now married. All of those women (except one) enjoyed having her anus stimulated in some way (from caressing to fucking to shove-that-dildo-in-my-asshole) and all (except that same one) were happy to stimulate mine (again, some just caressing, some fingering, and one who strapped it on and fucked me). Of those women, 4 of them actually initiated the anal play: one simply told me one night, "I want you to fuck my ass"; one woman started loudly moaning "yes yes yes" the first time I spread her cheeks for a peek inside; one guided me to her anus as I was fucking her from behind while she lay on her stomach; and the other woman, while I was performing cunnilingus, simply turned over onto her stomach and presented her bottom to me, and I wasn't sure if she didn't like what I was doing to her pussy or if she now wanted me to do the same to her anus -- turned out to be the latter.

That one woman, the exception, was completely different and DID make me feel ashamed, horrible, perverted, and less-than-human. She certainly had her issues, and it became clear later that we were incompatible in many ways, and then broke up. Basically, the one time I dared to lick her anus (during a massage), she freaked out, accusing me of all kinds of things, including of wanting to eat her shit (no, I don't have that desire). Once, when I asked her why she was so against my stimulating her bottom, she said, "I'm afraid I might like it." Anyway, that was the beginning of the end for us.

My wife is very open to my desires, as I am to hers. It's clear that she doesn't have the anal-focus that I do, but she is willing to indulge me and absolutely doesn't make me feel weird about my desires (the first time she penetrated me with her finger, she later said it was a "strange" experience but that she was completely turned on by how it made me moan and groan). The first time I explored and kissed her anus, she was silent because she was taken by surprise and a little embarrassed but later said she liked it because it tickled. I have told her that I still have a sense of shame about my anal desires, that somehow I am perverted, but she has only been understanding about it, thankfully. Enemas next?

My ex loved anal stimulation (fingering, licking, just rubbing the outside), but we never succeeded at anal sex. We tried a couple times, but even when I went slow with lots of lube as soon as the head of my cock popped in her ass it was too painful for her and we had to stop. I guess I should have worked on loosening her up slowly.

I've always been very anally erotic, but I have trouble admitting it to my partners. One night when my ex asked me my ultimate fantasy, I took her finger and shoved it up my ass while she gave me head. After that, she would reach down and either rub my premium or press down on my asshole whenever we were having sex to finish me off. I don't think she really liked fingering my ass full-on though, as she would only do it when I was taking a while to cum and never out of her own curiosity.

I love it!I wouldn't choose it everyday...maybe every other.

Good tips , but don't forget the lube , plenty of good lube ;-))

after a such treatment : sensual , slow , soft and lubed everyone will ask for more and more

Definitely have to have a partner who is patient with you. I find the best part of it is the preparation. If done correctly you will not only be ready but wanting.

I think anal sex can be the most intimate stimulating form of intercourse. Deliciously tight & with undertones of being slightly 'dirty' or 'wrong' The last lady who I enjoyed anal with insisted on a condom as she said it helped things go more smoothly. That was fine with me - now all I need is to find a lady who'll give me a gentle anal didlo fuck in return!

Wish the wife did 😢

We haven't done it much lately, but some of our best orgasms ever were from anal.

Very erotic! slow and smooth until you just explode .

I love anal sex but the best part is getting cleaned out with a nice soapy enema then get in the love swing an get pegged all night !!! Oh what a feeling!!!

A must for me on the receiving end

I wish I could go back to when I was 14 and got it again every night for two straight years.

Best ever. I actually prefer anal to fucking the pussy but unfortunately my wife doesn't share my enthusiasm.

I like anal sex with my wife a lot, but she's not too crazy about it. We don't do anal but two or three times a year. She's just so little back there, and my dick is more so thick than long. I have to go very S..S..L..L..O..O..W..W .. to keep from tearing her. That's the last thing I want to do. Sometimes we have to just stop and forget about anal for a while. She has to be super horny to take me comfortably in her ass. To be honest, I wouldn't trade vaginal for anal sex. My wife can make me cry "uncle" with her pussy at the drop of a hat. More than enough satisfaction vaginally, but I still love the forbidden thrill of plugging that tight pooper ever so often.

I LOVE IT and I do it every chance I can! It can be anything and everything I want it to be. I can be that dirty, naughty girl or depending on the role I can feel so submissive or totally in charge and dominating as the giver. It doesn't have to be anything other than simply the most intense, purely pleasurable intimate experience between two lovers .

Interested in trying it - think that I will really like it. Been a solo player for a few years, with interest in enemas, butt plugs, etc. The absolute best orgasms that I have experienced have been with a plug or dildo in my ass. Usually I need a vibrator on my clit to push me over the edge, but the feeling of my ass spasming as it clamps down on something solid really takes me over the edge. It is a very different feeling than having my vagina penetrated when orgasming - much more rewarding for me.

I suspect that there are a lot of people out there who, like me, are anally erotic. Definitely worth a try!

What I'm saying is really about trying it as the recipient - but I also find the idea of using a strap on and giving it to a man to be strangely hot. Something on the bucket list to try.

In my naivete, I assumed that someone who enjoyed one would enjoy it all but I was wrong. Anal sex and enemas are not always enjoyed together. In fact, many people who love anal sex still think of enemas as taboo and disgusting. It doesn't make sense to me but some people are like that. I think if you enjoy anal sex, either as the giver or receiver, wouldn't you want th rectum to be squeaky clean before engaging in it? I wouldn't dream of having anal sex unless I knew I was clean. Whenever my lover comes for a visit, I take care to have a series so I'm up for anything he's in the mood to do. And he does the same. It's more fun that way.

I only had anal once with a guy. I was staying in a hotel outside of Atlantic City, NJ, alone about 10 years ago, after an unpleasant breakup. While I was in the lobby, a Chinese man began chatting me up for some reason. (It's always surprising to me when men start chatting me up). We decided to get a drink and while at the hotel bar he told me about himself. He was born in China, but had gotten US citizenship; he lived in NYC and was a bus driver. He was in AC because he had relatives visiting from out of town and they wanted to see the sights. They were driving from NYC to Washington, DC and had stopped in AC for a day or two.

This guy was really interesting to me and I liked him because he was so plainly open and honest. He had a clean, handsome face and eventually our chatting got more personal. He asked if I had a husband, a bf, why was I in AC, etc. I told him I was newly single, had gone through a tough separation with my ex gf and needed some vacation time away from life and that I was just hanging out alone by the beach and the casino for a few weeks. He said he really wanted to get married, but had a hard time finding a gf who was interested in doing the things he was interested in, such as going to see baseball and basketball games, going dancing, seeing live music, cooking a nice meal together, going to museums together, etc., which are all things I enjoy doing. We hit it off immediately. I had never found Asian men attractive before this guy and I am sure it was this guy in particular that made the attraction happen.

He said he was really shy around women and had a hard time getting intimate because he felt that his penis was too small and also that he had the problem of losing his erections. He got them ok, he said, but he lost them quickly and couldn't come. Bear in mind, this conversation evolved over several hours, during which we drank a little, danced together (he was a really good dancer) and were enjoying just hanging out as "pals". We did not touch at all, except for when we were dancing. Eventually, I asked him if he would like to have sex with me. He said he was concerned about the things he had already told me, but yes, he wanted to. I told him to go back to his room and wait for me, that I would be there in an hour, and not to worry about those things.

I went back to my room, did a quick Fleet enema, showered and got dressed. I was completely flying on impulse and not thinking too deeply about it. I had no doubt that it was going to be good, for some reason, although I hadn't been with a man in at least 10 years by that time and I certainly had never picked a man up at a bar and fucked him before, or since. But, I was really turned on by the guy and the thought of actually having a partner, a bf, to go to basketball games with and who could dance and who was very respectful, and who appreciated art and enjoyed cooking with his woman, well all of that turned me on, too.

His size concern also didn't trouble me for I knew that most women, the ones that I was friends with, didn't really enjoy a man with a huge package in reality as much as they may have in fantasy. For many women, a real big dick just hurts, especially if you haven't given birth or have only had a C-Section (not a vaginal delivery).

When I got to his room he, too, had showered and changed his clothes. He had put on a suit. This touched me because he clearly seemed to think that we would go out before we had sex. I would have been turned off if he had been in bed with his junk out already, actually. But, the fact that he had put on a fresh shirt and dress pants, etc., just made me want him even more. He wasn't a pig, you know?

I put on some music and we started dancing a bit again and I began to undress us both. We started messing around and I could see he was getting hard. I kissed him and we got passionate and I put a condom on him (another big turn-on for me) and we began to have sex, but sure enough, as soon as he entered me I could feel him begin to lose his erection. I could see him begin to get upset and he started mumbling to himself and he seemed like he wanted to crawl off and die but I took him in my hand and started kissing him again, pushing my breasts into his chest and putting his hands on my ass. He got hard again. As soon as he did, I put some ky on his cock, grabbed a pillow and turned onto my stomach, the pillow beneath me. I told him to lay on me and let me guide him in. I doubt he knew what I was going to do because as I gently guided him into my ass I could feel him stiffen and he quickly sucked in a breath as I pushed back against him. He stood rock hard and still as a statue with his dick in my ass. I tightened my muscles and squeezed him in me and he groaned and moaned, but didn't move. I think he was either afraid to move or just stunned like a deer in headlights, so I pushed back against him and rocked back and forth until he got the idea. He fucked my ass really well and my word, the sounds he made when he finally came in my ass! It was so hot, it felt so good and I reached beneath me and touched myself as he fucked me in the ass and as soon as he began to come I also let myself go and it was amazing. The feeling of a man coming in my ass was indescribable. The post-coital throb, his affection afterwards, the deep penetration, the things he was saying to me, all of it was just great. That was the first and only time I had anal with a man. It would take a special man to get me to do it again, although I certainly would be up for it under the right circumstances. Getting fucked with a toy just pales in comparison to the sensation of having a real cock in your ass. It's like comparing freshly whipped cream to Cool-Whip.

I love anal sex. I discovered by accident when I found a partner's finger up my arse and couldnt believe how stunningly wonderful it is. Vaginal sex is a complete bore, if I dont get anal somehow I have to fantasise about it but then I always come.

Has for years been my favourite place, but dont go there much, right now im having errection problems ,so assuming it might be difficult to penetrate now, or does anyone know differently, god, id love to have a womans bum again.........i do also like enemas and everything anal, maybe that makes me weird, but, hey, i enjoy it !

Isn't the term 'anal sex' so off-putting? It says a lot about society's attitudes that there's no non-latin, non-crude word for the lovely bumhole. Oh, except maybe bumhole, which unfortunately the Americans think is something to do with tramps.

Anal sex has been aroud since the begining of the human race, probably considered normal until a few centuries ago, there does seem to be a large increase in anal porn film these days , especialy lesbian and men been fisted by women, even though i love receiving anal it's not something i tell everyone, nothing like a 16 inch strapon being ramed up my arse and a catheter inserted in my penis

I love it!! Whether I'm with my partner and she is using her fist or a dildo, or I am by myself using a dildo, I love it. Make me orgasm hard every time. To enjoy it to its fullest, I have a series of enemas first. Just adds to the excitement!!

What isn't there to love! If you are the receiver, you get your hole pounded into submission and the sense of fullness and being stretched is so intense you fall into a trance and eventually have an orgasm that rocks the walls. If you are the giver, you get to feel a tight anus wrapped around your dick and as you push in further she starts to squeal and pant more loudly. Eventually as she loosens up you begin to pound away until you explode inside her. Then you allow your erection to soften inside her before slowly removing it as she pushes you out. Incredible either way!