How often do you take an enema?

“Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”

It can be messy, takes a long time, feels weird. Which makes it all the more titillating when I dawns on me that, "Oh, I really *want* these sensations."

I go through a process from entertaining the idea, to donning my ritual enema-receiving outfit, setting up the equipment, filling the bag and finally, taking the plunge. I'm not a victim. It's me stepping into this strange world.

In my domination fantasies (or rather submission fantasies) my dom is asking me if I want to consent, if I want to give up my power and subject myself to whatever it is. An electric feeling surges through me as I realize, yes this is what I want, yes I crave to have my senses dominated, played from the outside. I imagine it goes back to sensations of early infancy when we didn't have agency, when we experienced whatever our caregivers chose for us. At that time, our only agency was to coo or cry. Some of us may have learned not to cry, or cried and had to surrender anyway.

Whether enemas or whatever external domination, they touch a primal part of ourselves that I experience as a kind of loneliness or hunger that is deeply gratified. Hence the added thrill of thanking the dom for the enforced discomfort, chosen as a path to pleasure.

And I'll add that I still await the day (maybe lacking the courage or agency to ask/pay for services) that some virile female says to me, "Sure, I'm ready to dominate you. I would enjoy doing that."

It’s been two weeks since my last enema series and I’m super horny for a filling😈My enemas are for relaxation and sexual release😍But I’ve been doing 2-3 a week for awhile now😏

About 2 hrs ago now. 2 - 2 quart enemas with retention nozzle

Once or twice a week, being careful not to become physically dependent on it. It depends on when my dad wants to clean me.

I'm at least once a week now, usually at least every Saturday evening. One or two bag enemas per session. Usually my girlfriend helps out but sometimes I do it myself. If I do it myself it doesn't matter if she is here or not and it doesn't matter if she knows. She has been in the bathroom while I have sat naked in the bathtub giving myself an enema. Simply put, if I really need an enema and she's not in the mood to help, I give myself an enema. She's okay with that too. Sometimes I actually prefer giving one to myself. I don't need to hide any enema activity when I'm at home. My enema bag is usually kept hanging on a towel bar in the bathroom. I always have disposable enemas in the bathroom closet. Nothing's ever really hidden much anymore. If I need or want an enema, I get or take an enema.

On average, about once a week, providing I get the alone time in to do it lol

Too many people coming and going out of my house all the time

Bulb enema daily

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Everyday, I do at least one quick clean out with my combination bidet and enema system that is adjacent my toilet complete with a small water heater to keep the water around 100 degrees F (38 degrees C). Very convenient to squirt some warm water in and wash out the rectum.

About once a week, I have a formal enema either with the silicone bag hanging from the shower head or using a one-gallon (3.8 litre) jug using a Higginson pump.

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I take one enema per day, usually 4 quarts with a colon tube.

I also have a bidet-like shower head attachment which I use whenever needed. Whenever I feel like there is stuff logded in there, I do a quick rinse. Maybe 1-3 times a week; too often and it becomes irritating.

When I have time and am in the mood, I have a cleanse which involves multiple enemas. Maybe every 2-3 months? Time is a factor since I need 2-3 hrs just for this...

Six times a week and twice on Sunday....whoops that was a song....in reality, twice a week with an occassional bonus onee or recreational moments. Denise

Only 6 times a year on average. Sometimes it's for pleasure, but most often it's out of necessity to completely empty my bowels.

Weekly cleaning

Every other day - Usually. Many times after a few cleansing 'E's' I take an 'infused E' - for my chronic back pain.

Que Sera, Sera...

Que Sera, Sera...

Yes brother. We all can but hope.

Every day!

At least two (but often more) every morning, with two liters of salt water, choosing the nozzle based on my mood or the sensations I want to experience. The older I get, the more I appreciate the slow intake and retention time.

Depends - as often as I can get the time to solo play without getting caught! Sometimes a couple a week, sometimes only 1 every month or two.

We are going to be on vacation for a couple of months, so I expect the enema schedule to be more random. My wife gave me a 3 qt. ivory soap enema yesterday ( the hot water in the condo doesn't get all that hot, enema was barely 100F). Took over an hour to stop draining out of me, then she started with 4 qts. salt water, double balloon nozzle, got about 3 1/2 qts. in before I "cried uncle" out of the enema. This enema only took about 40 minutes to be all out. Next enema time will probably be in a week, or so, and I'm going to take 2 salt water enemas with the max volume I can tolerate, I'm hoping at least one of them will hit the 4 qt. mark.

Hi Everybody…. I still take enemas but far less now. it’s on an as needed basis. Once a week, more or less. Not daily like it used to be. But, I can not move my bowels without Dulcolax liquid or bag enemas! On my own, I never get the urge to poop.

I will say that the only way I can orgasm nowadays is by taking big “hot-ish” enemas. It’s been like that for 60-something years. The first orgasm I ever had was when my Mom was giving me a big, hot soapsuds enema. I will never, ever forget how good it felt. I have tried many, many times to replicate it but it’s never been like the very first time as a preteen. I was shouting, “It feels so GOOD”!!!! (While wiggling around on the toilet seat, lol.)

* Forever etched in my memory.*

Anyway, I just wanted to check in. Hope everyone is doing well! 🌸

Good morning @Moms_Egirl .Good to see you are still "enjoying" life even if not quite to the extent you were used to! As someone else who has struggled with chronic constipation for sixty plus years, daily enemas have been my go to option. More recently, thanks to my GP Practice Nurse, I have been using Microlax mini enemas when we are away from home or it's not convenient to use my bag. Another option, recommended by @DommeOB is two Ducolax tablets at bedtime and a suppository first thing. But I will often use this regime as a precursor to an enema. However neither alternative is anywhere as satisfactory as a bag full of warm soapy water with a Higginson to really activate peristalsis. Well you know that! It's soooo good to feel really clean and sadly neither of my wonderful colon hydro-therapist ladies are now working.

Sigh: I’m trying to learn what enema frequency would work best in my new, gallbladder-free life.

I now seem to back up at the drop of a hat, especially before my period starts. I used to have some warning, but now one day everything’s fine and the next, not to be graphic, but my rectum is full of rocks. Other than hormonal fluctuations, there’s no rhyme or reason.

Alternatively, if I’m not careful or able to eat regular meals, the next time I eat after fasting seems to irritate my intestines—not enough for loose stools like some report, but enough for lasting low-level abdominal pain. Baking soda enemas seem to knock that right out and help me feel more rested; the pain is too subtle to wake me all the way but must be enough to disturb my sleep.

I used to try for an enema every other week but am now considering bumping it up to at least weekly if I can find that kind of private time and the inclination. Nightly would probably feel best but doesn’t seem realistic for my life.

Were I a billionaire, I’d employ an enema butler—which, come to think of it, will probably turn up as a future fantasy on my blog.

Like Mom's Egirl, I too have difficulty going. I never get that urge to signal a bowel movement. On my own, I never get the urge to poop. I get a "full and sluggish" sensation after two days. I take Miralax and Citrucel together EVERY day along with 850 mg of Magnesium Citrate in the morning and 325 mg at bedtime and still cannot go! I have several go-to remedies, starting with the most popular, glycerin suppositories. I also use two Dulcolax at night, followed by a 6 oz glass of warm prune juice in the morning. If neither of those produce results, then I bring out the trusty tried and true enema bag. It provides immediate relief! On average I take a castile soap and warm water enema about every 10 days.

When we go on vacation, I have no inclination for a bowel movement. I have a travel enema bag which contains no metal to easily pass through TSA checkpoints. On average I will take an enema every other day, so as not to feel uncomfortable on vacation. My wife even sewed a cloth travel bag for me to carry the bag, hose, hook and nozzles in.

All in all, nothing is better and more effective than a nice full soapy and warm water enema.

@Sweetest_Relief : I use a bidet-style nozzle for quick relief. If needed, I can inject water in less than 30s. Usually, 3 such mini-cleanses in succession stimulate a larger bm. And then, I can get a great night's sleep.

Just saying, maybe give it a try... Just make sure the water is warm - cold causes cramping.

Sigh: I’m trying to learn what enema frequency would work best in my new, gallbladder-free life.

@Sweetest_Relief, I had my gallbladder removed in early January. Ever since, my intestines can’t seem to settle on whether to be constipated or have diarrhea. I finally became so constipated last week that I needed a 2-L soap and bisacodyl enema. Now I’m back to alternating constipation and diarrhea. I’m considering scheduled enemas every two to three days to get back on track.

I have not been doing them as much as normal since i am much older now but i do occasionally take one still. I have been thinking about abstaining permanently from this

@Iris1858 here’s hoping a regular enema schedule gets things back on track for you!

If my partner enjoyed administering as yours does I would not hesitate to give that a try. My husband did help me at about five days after surgery when it was clear the anesthesia and pain meds had ground me to a halt and I couldn’t bear the necessary twisting to solo administer. The enema my husband gave me worked well and restored peristalsis, so I’m not complaining one bit. But sadly it felt like much more of an anthropological curiosity for him than something he’d be likely to enjoy or perceive as sexy.

Having opened this door, so to speak, I would ask him for help if I ever have another IBS flare put me into 8/10 pain. However, I don’t want to create a slightly distasteful chore for him with the routine maintenance I suspect I now also need.

I compare trying to figure out my post-cholecystectomy colon to puberty. It certainly carries the same sense of “Is this my body? What the heck is happening with it now?”

Let me know, please, if keeping a q2-3 day schedule works for you.

@Iris1858

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If I understand you correctly, you belong to the group of medically educated people. That reassures me to the extent that you succumb to the magic of enemas as well.

Once the gallbladder is removed, the bile produced by the liver flows continuously and uncontrollably into the duodenum, even when no food has been consumed. This throws the system off balance, resulting in the symptoms you described. Usually, this settles down somewhat after a while. Adjusting your eating habits can help; eating several small meals throughout the day can bring noticeable improvement.

But you already know this... you have superior medical knowledge.

In any case, I sincerely wish you a speedy recovery from your ailments. And as a bonus, you might even get a few extra enemas. Don't forget that...

Take care

„How often do you take an enema?“

I don't think it's done often enough. It could really be done more often.

I take an enema every 3 to 4 days for the last 5 years since I had an anal prolapse. It wasn’t bad enough that I needed surgery but I have not had full or adequate control due to a weakened outer sphincter muscle. I either get too loose or stopped up if I wait any longer and neither situation is workable. I am glad that I like enemas so much because it would really suck if I didn’t. I keep it to a minimum as much as possible and I have had to cut back on the soapy ones or my guts get a little bit gurgling but I have found that coffee with a bit of salt is working really well.