First Semen Ejaculation - sudden or gradual?

I was almost 13 when I first cummed. But it all started long before for me... I was given enemas by my doctor and my parents and I was terrified of enemas but at the same time when I was given them I got what I called a tickle feeling inside my bottom. I had no idea what I felt and I figured it was part of the enema. I of course wanted to see if I could cause this tickle feeling and being a very inquisitive boy I started to poke around my bottom playing like I was having an enema when my mom put me down for a nap. I used a marking pen and as I played around with it in my butt I in short order felt that tickle sensation. Even at this young age it got intense and felt so wonderful to me.. It got to a point I could not keep my hands away from my bottom. LOL. One time I was probably 6 It got to the point where it felt so great it took my breath away even. It was like I could reach a special tickle inside of me. It was incredible. I know I experienced a full male orgasm at only 6 years old. Of course then it was dry but it felt so great to me.. I got hooked on it naturally. Then I had Sex Ed at school and I put it all together. I knew what I was doing was sex. Masturbation. I was taught it was bad to do it. Of course being told this never stopped me because it felt so dam great to me. Finially when I was 12.5 in the summer I played around and it happened my penis spurted out a slime as I got my wonderful tickle feeling. It was even more incredible for me. It felt so great. I got more hooked on it.... In my teen years there were times I would be left alone and you probably know what I was up to. LOL... A few times I think I went off over 15 times in one day when I was left to myself at home...

Around the age of 12 or 13, I had done a lot of reading about sex (in the pre-internet days) so had an idea what to expect. I would often rub my penis against my pillow and it felt intensely pleasurable, but I never kept going to orgasm.

My first ejaculation was a nocturnal emission (I say that instead of wet dream because I was not conscious of having had a dream). When I woke up in the morning, there was a little bit of white material on the tip of my penis. I was pretty pleased.

Based on my reading and what I'd heard from classmates, I tried many ways to stimulate my penis to no avail, until one day I suddenly had an orgasm and ejaculated. I would say it was a full blown ejaculation, not gradual. Having discovered the technique, I tried again that night and it worked again. It's been almost daily since then (twice a day when I was younger). They say it's good for the prostate....

I was 16 when I reached full puberty. I had been masturbating to orgasm but had not, up to then, ejaculated. I was embarrassed by my delayed puberty. One day, I jerked off to orgasm and felt like something was coming up the shaft, but no eruption. But I felt certain, that I was finally there. I just knew my next orgasm would be the one to end in ejaculation. (Trumpets blow here now, lol). I WAS CORRECT!

I can remember the first time I came, I was probably 12 years old and saw my sisters nylons laying in the bathroom floor, I picked them up and loved how they felt in my hands, so I decided to try them on as we were about the same size at that point. I tried them on and they felt amazing! As I admired myself in them in the bedroom mirror I started feeling very flushed with excitement, all of a sudden a wave of uncontrollable pleasure took over my body as I felt something going on near my penis that wasn’t subsiding. I looked down and this white thick fluid started oozing out and then this weird feeling of guilt, it’s been adventurous ever since!

Around the age of 13 - Sudden .

I was already 15 when I did ejaculate for real the first time. I was surprised and it happened during a game of thruth or dare. My first ejaculation did shoot out suddenly and was a really intense happening as we were playing with 2 guys and 3 girls, 2 sisters of my best friend, a girlfriend of the youngest sis and my best friend and myself.

As it was summer, we already were wearing only swimming gear, such as bikini for the girls and swimming trunks for the guys. We were playing the game in the tremendeous attick they had (with at least 5 small rooms and one really big one). We were in one of the smaller rooms.

The youngest were about (so almost) 14yo, my best friend and myself were 15 and his oldest sister was almost 18 and really dominant, horny and hot

So, those games wer more exploration and discovering of eachother and we most of the times ended up being naked, etc ... For one or another reason, the eldest sister was dared to show what happens to guys when they are 'ejaculating' ... after accepting the dare, as whe didn't want to do it with her brother, she did choose me. I wanted to refuse, but was pushed to comply ofcourse. Knowing I didn't really ejaculated yet I dreaded what would happen, but I don't know how it suddenly happened, but this time I did ejaculate and it did shoot out landing between the youngest sister and her gf...a few days later I did end up together with both sisters in their room while my best friend was training with the soccer team. (that was the summer of 1980)

I was 11 when I ejaculated for the first time. It was unplanned, and unexpected, and happened as I was laying in bed, thinking about a girl that I had a crush on. I was scared, and didn’t know what was happening. I spoke to an older brother, who explained everything to me, and convinced me that I had reached puberty early. I’m in my late 60’s, and I haven’t lost my passion for attractive women.

I can recall masturbating from the age of about 7 or 8. Dry, usually thinking about spanking. First wet ejaculation was when I was about 14, while looking at photos of girls wearing bikinis.

I started noticing small drops of sperm when i was ~13, and gradually my ejaculate volume increased. Before that, my orgasms were dry when i masturbated, but still very enjoyable!

I started with erections at about age 11 or 12, often at embarrassing times. I was also experiencing wet dreams that left my pajamas gooey and messy but didn't know what to do about it. Finally, while playing with a friend he taught me how to masturbate and the next time I took a bath I did just that. I was absolutely shocked at the result - several ropes of that gooey stuff shooting at the tub side. I have loved masturbating ever since!!!.

I discovered the "good feelings" of an orgasm quite by accident when I was 11 3/4.  It happened while I was taking a bath one night.  I was washing my 4” cock with a washcloth and it felt so good rubbing the washcloth over my cock head that I just kept doing that and soon - - BAM - - my 1st orgasm - - dry!  I soon figured out how to achieve that "good feeling" by using my hand.  A month before my 13th birthday I was jacking off at night in bed as usual and when I reached orgasm I realized that my cock head was wet - - a single drop of clear semen had oozed out!  So that was the beginning of my wet orgasms. 

After “fucking” my large teddy bear on my bedroom floor aged 11, I would open my teddy bear’s legs and push my erect penis between the underside of the teddy and the rough bedroom carpet.

After a few minutes I felt an extraordinary, strong feeling in my young penis, it went into a spasm, sort of a cramp, then it jerked and bobbed..my first DRY orgasm.

At first I thought I had done something wrong, I thought I had somehow damaged my penis.

Maybe a week or so later, I was getting constant erections, pulling my tight foreskin right back examining my glans and newly developing pearly penile papules along the corona.

I would lift up my foreskin and rub the end of my penis between both hands, soon I was experiencing that slow build up of an orgasm, but this time, instead of my penis throbbing dry there was some clear liquid, sort of musky oozed out of the peeslit in my glans.

Another week went by, and after more constant masturbation, sitting on the toilet after school, trousers down, I rubbed and rubbed, then….out it came, some clear jets of semen followed by some thick lumpy white clots of semen.

My first sperm!

I would gather the lumpy sperm in my foreskin, let it dribble out over my thigh, then rub it in like a moisturising cream.

Eventually by the age of 12/ 13, I was cumming loads, masses of thick white sperm, often like clotted cream

I would save all of my sperm every day after school in a small plastic container which held a camera film. I found that the sperm would no longer remain white and clotted, but become clear. I would keep this in my desk drawer, hidden away. I would open it and smell the pungent odour.

I was fascinated by my sperm, and would often use this to pour over my exposed glans, fill it inside my foreskin, and masturbate, so fresh sperm would squirt out mixed with the old.

All of this aged 11 - 13.

I was so horny, in fact, I always wanted my mother to masturbate me at that age, for her to watch my first ejaculations - but that’s another story!

My first several were sudden during dreams that I was urinating except when I woke up it was not urine and I was not sure what was happening. I finally found out from an older relative what it was and how to stop that from happening since my titey whiteys were getting stained.

I used to get hard on when i was 12 years. I was in school football junior team. So we used to shower together. As a brown boy i had some hanging size even without pubic hair. Once when only 4 class mates were there one boy said it gets big when we touch others. We all touched others and it got big. I had pain when it became small again. Then again i got wet dreams and leaking in sleep. Though i heard of masturbation I never tried it.

So when i was 15 i got my leg broken with football. I was in a hospital with plastered leg. I had a forest down there that time. I was dressed and cleaned by a nurse in her 30s. She asked about the white marks in my hospital trouser and i told it happened during sleep. She said i had to masturbate and next she wanted to teach it to my with a promise of not letting others know. So it was my first one and i came really fasr in 2 minutes

My first ejaculation happened as I was giving myself an enema, didn’t know what happened but it felt really good. I hadn’t been masturbating yet but after I started it happened when I was about 11. Talked to friends to figure out what had happened though I didn’t mention the enema part. After that anytime I could I would take an enema and have a good cum. Almost daily after school when I could.

I was ( 12 ) helping out our neighbor, a single older widow, watching her house while she was out of town. I had seen her using a hand held vibrator, through the window and loved to see how much she enjoyed the vibrator. I snuck over to her house, after my parents went to bed. I got her vibrator out and plugged it in and i liked the vibration. I dropped my pants, layed on her bed and put the vibrator on my penis.. WOW this was amazing until I came so hard I almost forgot where I was.. I opened my eyes and couldn't move.. I cleaned up the wet stuff ( i didn't know what that was ) .. I made a few more trips over to the house before I almost got caught.. My first real Ejaculation..

@muffasa I suppose there was the thought that the use of her vibrator which had been used on her, now on your cock added to the pleasure.

My first ejaculations were wet dreams when puberty (finally) arrived. The early wet dreams were clear fluid with some stickiness. I was very naive and un-educated at the time and thought I had urinated in my sleep. Fathers: talk to your sons before the "change" happens.

I remember getting my first erection while watching the Fear Factor episode where the contestants had to walk down a runway completely naked (with their nudity blurred out)in front of around 100 people including photographers. I remember this first erection felt especially thrilling and my heart was pounding in my chest. It was like my eyes went into tunnel vision and all I could see was the TV screen. I looked up the episode on IMDB and found that it originally aired on April 15, 2002, when I would have been 11 and a quarter years old.

Not long after that I started masturbating and I remember the first thing I masturbate to was the womens underwear/swimwear section of the spring/summer 2002 issue of JC Pennys magazine. My mom always kept her JC pennys magazines in the bathroom which made things convenient. At that age I didn't realize I could masturbate using my fist so while the bath water was running for my nightly bath I would look at the women in their underwear and swimsuits to get an erection and then get in the bathtub with my hands holding me up and my legs bent at the knees so the water would pour on my penis. I had my first orgasm that way but it was "dry". My penis twitched like it was ejaculating but no semen came out only precum came out although since I had water on my stomach I couldn't really tell until I ran my hand over it and it stuck to my fingers.

For my 12th birthday my parents got me a satellite TV for my bedroom and I then started masturbating by humping my bed completely naked while watching late night TV with censored nudity like The Howard Stern Show and Girls Gone Wild commercials. A few months later towards the end of my 6th grade year in the spring of 2003 when I was 12 and a quarter I had my first "wet" orgasm while masturbating this way. I remember feeling something warm and sticky on my bare stomach so I reached down and saw a white fluid which smelled musky. I was surprised because it had never done that before and also felt intense shame because now I had a mess to clean off my bedcover. I didn't have paper towels in my room so I got dressed (getting semen in my underwear and on my doorknob), scooped up my semen in the palm of my hands, and went to the hallway bathroom but instead of dumping it in the toilet I stupidly dumped it in the sink and washed it down before getting paper towels to clean up the rest of the mess. The next morning I walked by the hallway bathroom and noticed my mom inside as she called out to my dad that the sink was clogged. My dad then went in and pulled the drain plug out with my first ever load of semen dangling from it. My parents then both looked at me as i just blushed and walked away with my head hung in shame. None of us have ever talked about it with each other.

Finally when I was 13, I started masturbating to uncensored pictures of naked women on the internet and that's when I found out I could masturbate using my fist since that's pretty much the only my you can masturbate in a computer chair. Sorry if I was too self indulgent.

@Sup17 Not at all self indulgent. It was a true and honest account of what happened. I think the majority of us men went through similar experiences. At that young age, almost ANYTHING of a mildly sexual nature would make our penises erect.

It is all part of growing up.

Sex was never discussed in my house when I was 12 I was getting erections I didn't understand completely and one day all of a sudden I started ejaculating into my hand it felt really good but scary at the same time that's when I started learning about masturbating

I can’t recall my first semen ejaculation but I’m going to say it was sudden I just remember I was in jr high and heard my friends talking about jerking off and would go home and lock myself in the bathroom and think about them or a cute girl at school it took me a few tries before I was able to successfully cum

I clearly remember my first ejaculation. I was masturbating as usual (I'd probably been masturbating for a year or two and had orgasms without ejaculation) and at the moment of orgasm, I had my first huge ejaculation of very runny semen. I was very scared 🤣🤣🤣

After I learned to masturbate i had dry orgasms for probably several months. I still remember the first time a few drops of clear fluid came out when I came. I knew what it was but was still a little freaked out by it. Still kept masturbating every day. I do not recall how long after that it took for spurts of the white stuff to start spraying out.

First time I remember was my first wet dream. It was, naturally, sudden and intense. Woke me right up from a sound sleep.

I was probably around 10. It was my first wet dream. I woke not knowing what was happening, pulled my PJs bottoms down and let to go on the linoleum floor.

In the morning I inspected and cleaned up the mess. No idea what had happened but couldn't wait to see if it would happen again that night.

It felt good!

First time was sudden and also around 10 for me. Very surprising

My first ejaculation was very sudden and unexpected. I really didn't know what that gooey sticky stuff was and was quite worried. I had been enjoying dry orgasms for years, but had never ejaculated. Those dry orgasms often came about during attempts to pull myself up on playground equipment or climbing a pole etc.

In hindsight, I recall that straining to garner enough strength would create sensations that would build until I would have a full body reaction that sure felt good, but beyond my understanding. It wasn't until I actually ejaculated that I learned what those reactions were all about. Enemas would also trigger those reactions and the douche nozzle was a favorite to tickle my innards.

Much later in life, I realized that those dry orgasms were a result of causing my prostate and pelvic muscles to be stimulated. This is very similar to those sensations while doing some "Kegel" exercises. In fact, I could sometimes cause an ejaculation by concentrating on Kegel types of straining my pelvic and perineal muscles and tissues. The ultimate result when successful, would send chills and sensations throughout my entire body and spine. My heart rate and breathing increases and it takes a few moments to calm down. Ejaculation, or at least some pre-lubrication is quite common.

Some very interesting answers on here, and very informative.

I honestly do not remember how young, but it was very young. My father died when I was 7 and he caught me doing it once, must have been 5 or six. I enjoy masturbating so much and really enjoy mutually doing it with a partner!!!