Butt Stretching--3.5 inches wide and beyond!

If you need an in-between size toy, put a thick sock or two on the toy, and put a condom on it.

Post #96 and replies - I've never gotten a substantial amount of the big tool (the crackstuffer) in. But having later bought an inflatable vibrator, I find if I've used that, inflating it to the point where I start to get trapped-wind discomfort, I can insert a little bit of the crackstuffer afterwards (it'll have the fucking-shit-out-of-myself effect of course!)

Pity I don't have much opportunity to "play" - most days of the month there's always four or five people in the house and I'm kept busy.

@squidgicunt if at first you don't succeed, try, try again.

As corny as that sounds, it's appropriate. Progression to a larger toy is possible through repetition over time. Always plenty of lube. One piece of advice that in my experience is seldom shared though is that inserting a toy in your arse is easier if you bear down upon it as though you were trying to push out a turd. That causes your arsehole to open and stretch.

Thats not corny because I do the same thing when inserting my 2.0” diameter plug in my ass hole.

I started out with a 1.3” plug then progressed to a 1.5” then 1.8” and finally to my current 2.0” diameter plug. I have a 2.5” plug waiting in the wings and plan to try using it after Christmas.

At 3.5" and beyond any extra 0.1" wide is huge - even circumference where 0.1" diameter = 0.314" additional circumference, even adding 0.1" circumference can be felt.

I've got the Destructor butt plug - but it was too long so I cut the top off, not great shape now and its kinda tacky, like its dissolving 😢 It's not a good product. However it was about the largest thing i've ever had in I think, but the narrow part isnt 'long' enough to keep it in. Had to use my hands to keep pressure, unfortunately. So not great. Supposedly 3.8" wide? Not sure it's that big. (Circ. listed is 11.6, that'd be 3.7". Possibly I got that much in 😃

The thing that attracted me to it was the very wide 'narrow' point. I want to be kept open at least 3". Tantus Tex slims down to 2.25" and while for long term wear this is ok (my record is 6 hours), it's not that big. (My wife's taken cocks that big in her ass and she's not very pro. This is an amateur size! 😃

I have the Cyclops plug and it's a little tricky to get in at 3.5" wide (11" circ.), the shaft is 10" circ and slides down easily. Too bad it's so long - it bottoms out with 2-2.5" to spare. If it was that much shorter, I could wear it!

Trying to find a plug that keeps me open at least 3" wide, or a shorter dildo so I can wear it in tight pants/cycling shorts or something. But in the 3.6-3.8" range (can't do 4", I think my pelvic bones wont allow it). Suggestions?

I am also stretching my butt and thought I would never insert my Renegade 3" wide butt plug. I had been slowly inserting larger and larger plugs and then one day after about 6 mos it popped in. Talk about surprised. Anyway I was eventually able to get my Doc Johnson American Bombshell Shell Shock Small in with was 2.9" wide but longer. I am working up to my American Bombshell Shell Shock Large which is 3.2" wide and even longer. I have been also using my Bad Dragon dildos in increasingly larger widths to not only allow increases in width but also length and because of the difference in softness allow me to get as large as 3.45" inserted. I am waiting for my new Diego XL which will allow me to insert a 3.89" knot if I ever can. As many others have suggested, go slowly. It is easy to find yourself wanted to go ahead and force the larger size in but you risk tearing your muscle and hurting yourself permanently. Think of it as a journey and enjoy the "ride". If and when your body will allow a larger object into your anus it will be worth the wait. One thing that is definitely helping is an inflatable butt plug. I will pump it up and push it out and and try to reinsert over and over again. I pump it will it forces itself out and this helps to stretch without hurting myself because it unlike a harder butt plug will adjust its size as it stretches allowing you a more gradual stretch. Using a harder butt plug does not have the "give" and if forced might rip something. It might cost more to get slightly larger and larger toys in order to stretch but sometimes the smallest increase can take quite a while to get inserted. I have a Doc Johnson Ass servant which I ride between inserting my butt plugs and may never get it fully in being as it does not give like some of the others but helps with stretching never-the-less.

Have fun and always be careful. That trip to the hospital is not something any of us want to make.

Like you I enjoy butt stretching, but using metric values ( 😈 ) , it's so hard to have an accurate view of the size, reading and ordering toys I made like a translation spread sheet starting at 0" and ending at 3" upgrading step by step of 1/32, including the daimeter and the circumference in both units. All my toys are classified by size, OK I have a severe .xlsx addiction, and like to progress gently and progressively with the stretching. Soon I'll place a .jpg off that spread sheet.

@tylon

I guess a dildo with a harness would work best for keeping the stretch at 3". Plugs with a nech that size aren't easy to come by, nor to insert them.

At 3.5" and beyond any extra 0.1" wide is huge - even circumference where 0.1" diameter = 0.314" additional circumference, even adding 0.1" circumference can be felt.

Could not agree more, although limit when the smallest increase in diameter or even just another shape with same diameter (oval vs circular) is felt as huge difference, is personal and everyone has it's own.

I want to be kept open at least 3". Tantus Tex slims down to 2.25" and while for long term wear this is ok (my record is 6 hours), it's not that big. (My wife's taken cocks that big in her ass and she's not very pro. This is an amateur size! 😃

He he, 2.25" is an amateur size... My take is that 97% of people will never have something that big in their ass... That would make it a very pro...

Happy plugging!

Looked at the Bad Dragon stuff - seemed a bit silly to me at first, the theming, but they do have great customization and website (3d view!) and a size chart -- and actually know the meaning of extra large (usually > 4" diameter, some 4.5!) (I'd have to borrow a woman's pelvis to get that in...)

Looked at the Diego XL you mentioned - only issue is that it's 9" usable length, and it looks like the knot doesnt start til 6" down. Might not get far enough down or start feeling uncomfy before you're even past the knot (assuming you can get it in). That's my worry.

Some of the shapes of the others are plain ridiculous, I can't imagine for total size queens that adding shape challenge will help. Though some are 'smoother' than others I guess.

If anyone else has suggestions love to hear - wish the Tanus Tex had a Tantus Yosemite Sam that was 3.6" max dia and a 3" narrow part... but I realize 0.3" each side might not be enough (when im stretched and well lubed, the tex can be hard to hold in already) - so Im thining inflatables might be key, if I cant get past 3.6" but want 3" open - need to inflate inside - but where can I find a 3" solid core on an inflatable?

@afternine 2.25", well she doesn't have much choice in size these days 😉

Like you I enjoy butt stretching, but using metric values ( 😈 ) , it's so hard to have an accurate view of the size, reading and ordering toys I made like a translation spread sheet starting at 0" and ending at 3" upgrading step by step of 1/32, including the daimeter and the circumference in both units. All my toys are classified by size, OK I have a severe .xlsx addiction, and like to progress gently and progressively with the stretching. Soon I'll place a .jpg off that spread sheet.

Wow! I don't know if that's commendable, or dangerously OCD. My organization system- Throw them all in a drawer. Pick one. If it doesn't feel big enough, pick another.

I know I've said I'm maxed out before...so we'll see.

I think I have the largest dildo that a human can take now, and even if someone makes bigger, I can't see anybody using it.

My Goliath by Mr. Hankey. It's terrifying, intriguing, and deviant. I got to the balls last week, and finally thought my mother's prophecy might come true- That I would never close up again. It took a few hours, but I'm as good as new. Every morning I put it on my desk, and wonder if I should use it again, then tell myself I must have dreamed that it went in once. It did. The 4 1/2" butt plug that I use as a door stop to my office doesn't look so absurd anymore.

I think I have the largest dildo that a human can take now, and even if someone makes bigger, I can't see anybody using it

Every morning I put it on my desk, and wonder if I should use it again, then tell myself I must have dreamed that it went in once. It did. The 4 1/2" butt plug that I use as a door stop to my office doesn't look so absurd anymore.

Wow! I don't know if that's commendable, or dangerously OCD

I think you are (like many of us here) borderline (dangerously) OCD. I'm eating my own dogfood, too.

happy plugging!

@buttwoman you discussed this with your mother? 😃

5 inch diameter, that's crazy. Glad you're having fun though! (office? got any coworkers?)

Some of us mortals are working to find a plug that's just 3" at the narrow part still 😉

One thing I am finding is whether or not I am using a hard/extra firm butt plug or dildo or a medium softness one. I have found I can take a larger diameter in a medium firmness than a fixed/hard firmness. A softer one has more give to it which allows it to adjust its shape rather than forcing a fixed shaped object in my ass. I can only get my Renegade 3" dildo inserted and not my 3.2" diameter American Bombshell inserted but I can get my Bad Dragon Pierce which is 3.45" in diameter. I use my flexible plugs/dildos to help stretch along with my inflatable butt plug and then work on inserting my harder ones next. Still finding my maximum insertable diameter which is probably going to be less than 3.5" in a fixed firm dildo. I worry about ripping something and therefore try to increase the size of dildo gradually in 1/4" increments and only after working up the closest smaller size first.

Tylon- When I was a teenager my mom walked in on me with my boyfriend hilt deep in my butt. Thats when she warned me that my ass would never close up again.

No coworkers. Several guests have pointed out my doorstop.

@buttwoman I just looked up the Mr. Hankey dildo. That is jaw-droppingly enormous! Color me impressed. I've been working up the nerve to take a serious stab at using the Belladonna Bitch First I bought several months ago. Looks like I need to man up and give it a try... 😃

@buttwoman considering your appetites sounds like you shoulda had two boys in your room with you, hilt deep 😃

The cyclops with two thin nylon sports socks over it and then some condoms is not ideal. The toe sew-line makes a ridge that is a bit tricky. Maxes out at 28.6cm/11.26" but its not exactly circular, hard to measure circum.

really need a better toy. I've been putting in my inflatable and then my 3.1" head (2.8" shaft) then pumping the inflatable, but of course the pressure keeps it from really getting all that big, and it pops out easily. Can't get even one hand free with that.

@love anal - 1/4" increments for diameter is huge. even for cicumference at your max its very large. Im trying to find stuff that's going up by 0.1" dia steps... course not vendor is that accurate anyway 😢

. . . . Maxes out at 28.6cm/11.26" but its not exactly circular, hard to measure circum. . . .

It's very easy to measure curcumference of irregular "cylinders."

All you have to do is wrap a piece of string around it and measure the string.

What you cannot do is measure those things to tenths of a millimeter or hundredths of an inch unless you have an optical scanner. (big bucks)

@switchablesusie Well I wrapped a sewing tape (fabric tape measure) around it, has cm and mm marks, the mm are easy to see/match up - then divided by 2.54 to get inches (i cant figure out when im looking at a 32nd or 64th of an inch!) heh.

However, the profile of the cyclops isnt cylindrical at the top at all, has a 'glans' like a real dick, so it's not quite a regular shape, but yeah, thats what the tape measured.

One could throw away the string, the sliderule, and the abacus...

Lube it up, stick it in appropriate hole.

If it's too small, get a bigger one.

If it's too big, put it aside for another day.

I know I've said I'm maxed out before...so we'll see.

I think I have the largest dildo that a human can take now, and even if someone makes bigger, I can't see anybody using it.

My Goliath by Mr. Hankey. It's terrifying, intriguing, and deviant. I got to the balls last week, and finally thought my mother's prophecy might come true- That I would never close up again. It took a few hours, but I'm as good as new. Every morning I put it on my desk, and wonder if I should use it again, then tell myself I must have dreamed that it went in once. It did. The 4 1/2" butt plug that I use as a door stop to my office doesn't look so absurd anymore.

Buttwoman, a couple of months ago, SwitchableSusie compared increasing the size of ones anal insertions to training for gymnastics feats. If you're a novice gymnast and immediately start trying to do balance-beam splits, your going to be tearing up muscles for sure. You must have trained correctly to develop the super-human ability to conquer the 5+" Goliath by Mr. Hankey. If anal insertion ever becomes an Olympic event, you'll make the Canadian team for sure and certainly win gold!

I think it's time to celebrate and rest on your laurels for a while, and maybe try some new events, since you are certainly world class now.

I just purchased an Intruder Hand purported to be 3" diameter. I haven't yet measured it. Regardless, it popped in easier than my 2.75" dildo. I expect it's the shape that allowed it to go in so easily. I will try to find a bit larger hand sometime soon and see if I can get to the 3.5" mark. It's good to have goals.

Regardless, it popped in easier than my 2.75" dildo.

The softness of the material and the shape have much impact on how easy the thing goes in. However, more often than not, manufacturers outright lie the measurements about the size of the toy. It's cheaper to make a smaller toy than a bigger one (less material thus cost), and you're left with a toy that is too small for your needs, so looking for another one, potentially one of their line of products.

I wish I had the nerve to send all the toys with incorrect size declarations back...

The softness of the material and the shape have much impact on how easy the thing goes in. However, more often than not, manufacturers outright lie the measurements about the size of the toy. It's cheaper to make a smaller toy than a bigger one (less material thus cost), and you're left with a toy that is too small for your needs, so looking for another one, potentially one of their line of products.

I measured it today. It has a 3" diameter in that the distance from 1 side to the other is 3". However, the widest points on each side are about 1/4" off horizontally from each other. The actual widest diameter on a horizontal plane is 2.75" Still a most enjoyable toy.

A few months ago I purchased the "Ass Servant" butt plug. It's smooth, cone-shaped, and has a diameter of 3.75 inches at the widest point. The first time I used it I was able to sit all the way down on it, but it caused some bleeding so I was kind of scared of it for a while. But now I can pretty easily ride it with only a bit of warm-up. More recently I purchased the "Ream and Dream" butt plug, which is even bigger. The product description says it's 4.5" diameter (but it's not a circular cross-section, so maybe the 13.5" circumference is a more useful measurement). So far I haven't been able to fit the whole thing in my butt, even sitting with all my body weight bearing down on it. But the big stretch feels good and I'm making gradual progress toward taking it all.

Does the ass servant stay in? I found many of those conical plugs have too 'short' a narrow part. The destructor for eg - which is also too long. Looking for wide not long - searching for a dildo larger than cyclops (3.5"?) as well if anyone has suggestions (master series 'humongous' is the same in a different colour).

Too bad the bad dragon stuff is all wierdly shaped, hard to get a plain nearly circular cross section dildo (though they have lots of sizes!)

I just upgraded my Bad Dragon collection to the Diego XL whos measurements are:

2.56" Diameter Head, 3.55" Diameter Shaft, 3.89" Diameter Knot w/ 9" Usable Length & 12.5" Total Length

After about a month I can now slide him in right up to the 3.89" knot but have not yet be able to get the knot in me. It gets a little further in at times and feel it is just a matter of time before I can feel the pleasure of his knot go deep inside. I also have the Ass Servant but something about the conical shape is a challenge. Once I have mastered getting Diego in me though, I might find it easier with time. The largest hard object I have been able to get inserted is the Doc Johnson American Bombshell - Shell Shock Large - Total Length: 8.4, Insertable Length: 7.5", Maximum Insertable Diameter: 3.3". I can get it inserted about 1/2 to 3/4 fully inserted but my pelvic structure seems to stop if from getting inserted any further so far. I just keep trying day after day and perhaps I will find myself bottoming out on it also. Just keep trying and do not force things which may end up hurting you. Let your ass slowly adjust to the larger objects and eventually you might break the 3.5" barrier. If not you can still have a fun time enjoying the ride.

Does the ass servant stay in?

Not really, it just isn't the right shape for that. Maybe you could keep it in with a harness or something.

Let me tell you about the largest object I've had up my butt: For my birthday a few years back, my partner gave me a Fist Dildo as a gag gift. It was so enormous we laughed ourselves silly. But for me, a 16" dildo with a 3.75 diameter fist on top wasn't a gag, it was a challenge. About two weeks later I surprised the #%$@ out of him when I came out of the bedroom with the fist buried deep in my hole and the arm dangling between my legs. After that, he really got into it, and eventually managed to stuff the entire thing up my butt, completely inside me!

The replies are a tribute to anal ingenuity and patience. It's amazing how large we can go with some work and luck and good lube. I'm hovering around the 3" mark now and find the "pop" when a plug that size goes in quite sensational. nothing like it, maybe a real fist if I ever get there.

@SwitchableSusie

I think members on Zity have seen some of the surgical videos I have posted or retrieving various objects from the rectum along with the glass jars and bottles that have broken inside the rectum.

Please could you tell me where I can find those videos?