Butt Stretching--3.5 inches wide and beyond!

@Sean said

IMO, butt stretching is nuts. By this I don't mean having a passage big enough to pass a large, firm poo of perhaps 1 1/4 to 1 1/2 inches, but much larger than that.

If you stretch more, you may well be faced with the choice of being incontinent and never being able to control when and where you poo or having to have your anus surgically repaired, which may or may not be possible.

Inserting a butt plug with a hole may be fun and you may enjoy losing control and messing your diaper for a while, but when you are done plying, you can go back to being in control. If you over stretch, you may lose that option.

YMMV

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Your logic is reasonable but that's not how it works and yes, YMMV

I have used this gymnastics analogy in several posts before:

If you never did a split and a coach grabbed both your shoulders and forcefully pushed you down so your butt hit the floor into a front to back or side to side split, you would tear several muscles in your legs, suffer great pain and require medical attention. If you spent time every day SLOWLY stretching into a split, in time you would reach your goal and have strong muscles that could have a great deal of stretch. It's the same with your anus. Careful stretching can yield the desired results without any injury. Gymnasts have very stretchy muscles and they can still stand up straight without falling over because their muscles have been trained. You can do the same with with an anus. If you try to stretch too fast and you INJURE OR TEAR the anal ring you could require anal reconstruction surgery and you might lose your ability to keep your anus closed and in that case, your anal play days may well be over. There will be a point where the muscular ring will be stretched to a point where it is damaged and too thin to spring back, but in most people a three inch or more diameter is not a problem once the muscles have been trained.

Injure yourself and you will have trouble closing or keeping your anus closed.

@SwitchableSusie

It's a matter of risk/reward. It is certainly possible to train muscles to stretch more than usual, and unused muscles tend to shorten with time, but I doubt it's possible to train them to stretch to twice their intended length.

Also, if someone is pushing something big into you, things can easily go too far.

You must make your own choices, but be informed, and be prepared to live with the consequences. An enema will make you poo, but stretching to far could be really damaging.

@SwitchableSusie

It's a matter of risk/reward. It is certainly possible to train muscles to stretch more than usual, and unused muscles tend to shorten with time, but I doubt it's possible to train them to stretch to twice their intended length.

Also, if someone is pushing something big into you, things can easily go too far.

You must make your own choices, but be informed, and be prepared to live with the consequences. An enema will make you poo, but stretching to far could be really damaging.

There are many people here who do fisting who will tell you that statement is not correct.

You do have to go carefully and incrementally, taking many months to achieve your goal.

You can guide a person helping you to stretch your anus.

@Sean, not meaning to disrespect anyone but you really are talking bullshit here.

Lots of people here are anal gymnasts and they do take large toys without destroying their asshole. You may want to try yourself before telling everyone how their butt won't shut tight anymore. I guess they do know how their butt keeps up better than you.

As Suzy said - just be sensible and listen to your body.

I really wonder how there's so many posts on internet about how you'll end up incontinent without actually trying any size out. Just ridiculous.

@afternine, I agree, and Suzie is certainly intelligent and educated. My experience is that no matter what I do with colo-rectal awesome experiences, my passages naturally go back to a normal state, and it doesn't take very long.

Everything I've done could have led to the perspective of 'a totally blown open wide open uncontrollable asshole'. I don't have that. There are other internal components that naturally have a tendency to return to normal state. And I'm certainly glad that happens.

Geo biophysical resiliency, if there actually is such a thing. My sigmoid colon, rectal valves and anus return to normal. In a nutshell

... Leave the exaggerations!

... Who do you have to prove to?

I prefer to be on my knees and to sit on my toys. I've enjoyed stretching for close to 40 years. The experiences I've had have been nothing short of awesome. It wasn't until a couple years ago that I finally gave myself a hernia. That put me out of commission for six months. Man that was a tough six months...then I got careless going deep and reinjured myself. I'm finally getting back to the fun but I really try to be more careful. Pushing is the trick but it can also be the end all. I can't believe I've been going this long and still love it. Can't do what I used to but man that stretch still feels good.

I'm stuck at 3" so far.. working on depth too. Can take 1 3/4" 18" so hoping to stretch the second ring.. and get some more depth and with too.

I'm stuck at 3.2" as that's the largest diameter toy (B10 Tango) I have. However, in all honesty, I normally only take in the next largest bump of 3". I have to be mentally prepared to relax enough to let the 3.2" bump fill me. There are times I am ready and times I am not. At my age (75), I'm beginning to think this will be my stopping point. Until, and if, I can regularly take the 3.2" diameter bump, there's no point in trying to go larger. I think I started my size training 50 years too late.

I agree that with time you get to the max width you can take - further playing gets you there faster (less foreplay with smaller toys needed) and more comfortably, but your pelvic bones won't let you pass any larger solids.

Squeezable (soft silicone) and inflatable toys are another topic - but I "avoid" going big with those as can damage the tissues that need to get displaced to make room for the inflated toys - when there's blood in pee then you know you overdid it.

Play safe!

... when there's blood in pee then you know you overdid it. Play safe!

Unless, of course, like me the 5 times you've had blood in your pee you also had kidney stones. But, that's a whole different topic. Yes, blood for no apparent reason is a tip off to be careful.

IMO, butt stretching is nuts. By this I don't mean having a passage big enough to pass a large, firm poo of perhaps 1 1/4 to 1 1/2 inches, but much larger than that.

If you stretch more, you may well be faced with the choice of being incontinent and never being able to control when and where you poo or having to have your anus surgically repaired, which may or may not be possible.

YMMV

Sean, your comment is not informative and wrong. Yes, people can damage themselves if they are not careful and do not move slow, etc. But skateboarders can hurt themselves too if they don't take precautions. Misinformation is bad for everyone.

I am in my 60s and have been having and enjoying anal sex and large dildos, plugs since I was 18.

If you are shoving items too big, too, quickly with no warmup, then yes, of course damage could be had.

SSC and RACK. Google them.

I agree with @Turkey1 ..... I got more injuries from skateboard practice than shoving things in my ass.....?

Za

I totally agree that slowly working on getting you ass to open is perfectly safe and enjoyable. I have graduated to some pretty big stuff in there and my ass always returns to normal. Many years ago had a buddy work on fisting me for weeks and one wonderful day it just slid in. Took him in there regularly and easily for 2-3 years. Haven’t done that in several years and back to tight as hell. Go slow as in many weeks and months and you will be surprised how much can learn to open up down there. It’s all the journey and what a wonderful trip it can be.

I have been in to anal insertion for many many years. I love the feeling of being stretched. Recently I bought a Giant Ribbed Anal Cone and love it. Due to the small starting size I think this may be good for beginners wanting to stretch a little more. Each rib gives a pleasurable sensation as is pops in and out. You can work it in and out slowly to stretch gently. I will link a product, but you can buy them from several different places. Love mine https://www.extremerestraints.com/giant-ribbed-anal-cone.html

I can stretch to take 3.5" and I have no problem with leakage or retention. Men can do kegels too 😃

I’m wondering how long it took to get to that point..

Bigger isn't always better.

I want to feel fully penetrated but I don't need 3.5 inches and beyond.

After a lifetime of having my bottom fucked, by myself and by quite a few girlfriend and friends with benefits, I learned that I can't handle anything too big. One very anal-oriented woman I dated loved to inspect, examine, play with, and penetrate my bottom and anus. Fingers, tongue, dildos, buttplugs, beads, strapon, thermometer, magnifying glass. Several times we tried using her big black buttplug on me, which I inserted in her anus on many occasions. It was not quite 2 inches diameter. But after a long time of painful attempts she gave up trying to push into my tender pink hole.

What I realized is that it doesn't need to be big for me to enjoy it. Any sensations on and around my anus are incredibly enjoyable and erotic, even without penetration. The sensation of being penetrated by a rectal thermometer is enough to send me over the edge. The whole RT scenario and process is so erotic and stimulating.

But when it comes to being fucked, I want to feel full. Not pain, not 3.5 inches, probably no more than 1.5 inches, which is about as big as I can take. But it has to be big enough that I feel "WOW, oh my god!", gasping breath and my eyes open wide when it's first inserted. But more than the size and stretching, it's the motion, the fucking, I want to feel the full length of it going in and out, whether it's a strapon dildo or a buttplug or her finger or three of her fingers.

The largest measurable item I've enjoyed is the 2.25" diameter wooden baseball bat that appears in my photo album contributions.

When I get that thing going good it feels awesome! I don't have any other devices to experiment with 'expanding my capabilities' but always have ideas happening.

Yesterday, (for when this post gets old, November 19 2020) i broke my record...

The American Bombshell™ - Shell Shock - Large - 3.3 inches or almost 10.5 inch circumference, made it inside me... 😃

Talk about a adrenaline rush.

When I first started reading this post I said that'll never happen. Over the past couple two years I've slowly increased from about 2.75 as a max to the bases of my 2 largest two dildos breaking th 3.5 diameter. The largest is 3.66 or 11.5 circumference. If not for the softer silicone it would be skeletally impossible.

I'm stuck at like 2.5" and having a hard time working up to my biggest toy which is 3.5". I dream of the day when I can fit those giant ones like in the videos.

I was able to get a vicks nyquil bottle up there with alittle coaxing alot of lube too. Smoked a joint to relax me and success.

I can bounce up and down on my 3.75 inch in the shower or while my wife holds it down (suction cup base). Am working up to the 4 and 4.25. The wife can use both fists in me. Rewarded with hot piss.

The most recent time my wife has double fisted me I had to ask if both were in

I can just barely get a plug of about 3' inserted but have no real desire to go ang bigger than that

I usually work out with my two 3" wide Dildo's that are 10" long. I always use anal ease, although I can take a 3 incher in my ass without it. I also have a Dragon Tongue that is made of a soft material that is 4 1/2" wide. I don't think it is 4 1/2" wide when it slips into my ass, though, because the softness of it actually gives a bit. I'd bet on 4", or even a tiny bit less than that. I have, once, managed to insert a 20 oz. pop bottle into my ass. For some reason, my ass felt as though it didn't want to stretch out enough to take the bottle, although it should have, with no problem. I'll try it again some time. So, for the record, I'd say I can take a 4" wide Dildo in my ass.

Oh, I almost forgot. I've got a cone-shaped Dildo that is 4" at the base, but even when I "bottom out" on it, I really wonder if I'm getting all of it. I've went back to the Bad Dragon website to try to buy another Dragon Tongue, but, because of the covid virus crap, they claim they are not making anything at this time, and a lot of the items I want are "sold out", or "out of stock". Do these things come from China?

How many others, like myself, need to wear a Diaper after a good fuck-session with their ass? I have to wear one for a few days.

On a Butt Plug note, I quite using them when I almost "lost" a 3" wide plug in my ass. The base part, which isn't supposed to go inside me, decided to do just that, after I inserted the plug and walked about 40' with it in my ass. I got really scared, because once the anal ease wore off, I might not be able to get it back out, and I really don't want to go to the hospital for that! I had to "cough" and grab at it to get it out. Never again. If I could find one with a very long base on it, something that couldn't slip inside me, I might use a plug again.......

Gee, Soggy, I can relate to that, I was fucking my pillow with just a vibrator up my bum but I wanted ALL of the vibrator in me so I pushed it right in so my hole closed. When I had CUM, I reached inside to get it out, AND IT WAS GONE. I looked around on the floor thinking that it had fallen out but NO, I could still feel it vibrating inside me. SHEER HORROR, I took me ages to get it out and I won't be doing anything like that again without a string attatched to whatever I push in there. regards, irrigator333.

Hey irrigator. I had a very similar situation years ago. I was using a 7" rigid vibrator that had a variable speed control disc on the bottom. The bottom was flat.

I inserted it past my anal sphincter and stroked my cock. Next thing I know it was lost into the sigmoid colon. It was in there about 2 hours, buzzing away until my wife came home and went in with her hand to get it out. Eventually that vibrator found it's way to the trash. The speed control eventually failed