Butt Stretching--3.5 inches wide and beyond!

Oh yes please. I'd love to feel what that was like opening me up and going in bit by bit.

Eyes got a bit bigger than (slightly below) my stomach, because I couldnt find 3.75" toys, so I ordered a Titan dildo, which has a 4" head. I was tired of looking and failing to find 3.75" toys (only recently discovered Mr Hankey which has an amazing selection in that range, still might get one.).

Stretched out with the Cyclops I got from amazon (which is identical to Mr Humongous on amazon too, I see no difference in them!) which has a 3.65" head and 3.5" shaft, and stared poking a medium plug in as well til i could get its 1.75" in with it. 😃 That stretched things out well enough, moving slowly (and using boy butter this time, first time, better than vaseline!).

Then I sat on the Titan, which is a bit tall to manage well. Need to have knees up high to open things up well enough down there (ie get the cheeks out of the way, stretched over the pelvic bones in back) but then need most of my weight to get it to start squeezing in.Truly might be near my pelvic limit lol. Lucky the toy is a bit soft tho that requires holding the mid of the shaft to ensure it keeps forcing in the exact right direction.

Was quite tricky to even get to the point where I could feel it against my inner sphincter- had to bounce on it a bit to get that, but once I got there, ith a few more bounces it started sliding in, and then suddenly - WHAM! - it popped in. A 4" head! wow!

So much inside pressure. Pretty much impossible to move around with it in, and its all I could do to stop my body fighting to eject it 😃 Amazing sensation though, being so incredibly packed. Could only keep it in for about 60 seconds tho, just too much. Made my front go a bit numb too with all the pressure. And forced out a lot of precum.

Putting the cyclops in afterwards was quite easy 😃 Could slide in and out at leisure, also an amazing feeling. Could easily slide the plug in with it too, no discomfort. Even packed a smaller 3" dildo in with a 2" realskin with ease... felt amazing sliding in and out.

Anyone who says 3" is their max is probably wrong, or they're a very small thin person. It took me many years (but I wasnt in a rush or anything) to get to this point. Any anyone comparing 2.5" to 3" is not experienced, that's a huge jump (3-2.5/2.5 = a big increase). Go to 2.6 or 2.75 first!

Note the extensive pre-stretch, and going slow - important. And no blood or any pinkness on any of the toys (which is why I prefer light coloured toys to see if I've overdone it - a bit of spotting of pink can indicate you are likely getting small tears near the anus, less likely to get problems inside unless you are using hard toys, not recommended!)

As for the fearmongers out there, no Im not sore at all today just a slight warmth back there (might just be my pleasant memory of getting fucked properly). Everything's as tight as it was the day before (I can whistle a tune just fine if conditions are right! 😃 And using it for the boring original purpose is just fine too (and boy butter doesnt leave a residue like vaseline, nice).

Afterwards my hamstrings in the back of my legs below my glutes were sore, but not sure if thats from kneeling for a longtime playing or what. An odd muscle soreness in the area, not even the tailbone, was more like sore from a workout. I think there's muscles that naturally keep everything closed up in that area, and when you force them out of the way, they work to press things back together...

Im working on large 3 bumps for your rump and just over half way on the 3rd bump oh fuck I don't know I really try its 3.5 at largest bump its pain and awe and pleasure and stretch all in one

3.5 is really really big. 2 was a challenge a few years ago. then 2.25, then 2.5 and then I thought i'd done it with 2.6 and 2.75, but...

I tried a 3.0 and it took a month but it finally popped in and almost gave me an orgasm right there.

I hope to get to 3.5 but 4.0, which is also a very good tennis rating, seems a stretch, so to speak.

***first post. keep in mind, if you do have some advice, I already have tried everything just about on all the lists from balloons to markers to candles to handles. etc***

I get wild horny at times and will fuck anything I can. I know toys are the safest but not really available for some of our situations ie nosy roommates, privacy issues etc.

so for stretching (I'm trying to train for my ✋) I have had the best luck with a butternut squash or large bottle with appropriate shape.. although obviously, these are under forgiving in the long run and just keep sliding out before I can go deeper.

What else is good for stretching training?

Also, depth. I love the feeling when the muscles relax and accept the probe deeper inside.. but not everything works SAFELY for how damn horny I get.

What are the best (other than dog toys) alternatives that can be used for deep anal masturbating?

worst part about all this is if I had more privacy I would just get the toys I need and not have to worry so much about pain or discomfort because it makes it hard to relax when you are using an unsturdy (lack if better word atm) set up

well. thanks for your advice!! and I have read some of these diy projects posted here and will definitely try some out, I'm handy my self, just prefer simple designs because they are easier to dispose of.

cheers!! happy cumming!!!

Lately what I've started doing is buying magnum condoms and slipping them over water bottles. Smartwater bottles are good, because they're smooth and symmetrical all the way. Recently popped in a Dasani bottle, which was a challenge because of how the top is thicker than the body. Was worth it, though. Also, Neuro bottles have a great bulge that can press wonderfully against the prostate once it's in.

Since I finally managed my 10 inch circumference toy a few months back, I am going for the next size.

Not easy to find in the local adult store, so I placed an order online, can't wait for them to come next week. They are 11 inch or so.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B008WEPEH0/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Master Cock The Cyclops Massive Dildo:

The Cyclops measures 10.25 inches in total length, 9 inches of which are insertable, and 3.25 inches in width. The balls base measures 4.25 inches in length and 3.5 inches in width.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0027CU1EE/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Doc Johnson Titanmen - Ass Servant:

7.5, Insertable Length: 6.0, Maximum Insertable Width/Diameter: 3.7, Maximum Insertable Circumference (Girth): 11.6

I'm a great believer in "different strokes for different folks" so don't take this as a criticism please. I wonder sometimes when I read different posts if there aren't some safety issues involved with this business of stretching? I also wonder if perhaps some of us aren't trying to make this some kind of contest?

I'm a great believer in "different strokes for different folks" so don't take this as a criticism please. I wonder sometimes when I read different posts if there aren't some safety issues involved with this business of stretching? I also wonder if perhaps some of us aren't trying to make this some kind of contest?

Read this thread.

What you ask has all been discussed here.

You can decide if this is a bit of a contest.

(I think it is for some)

I stand corrected!

@MS Erin did you get the cyclops in? mr humongous I cant see a difference between.

The titanman ass servant is a different shape though. got it in once, but its kinda really slimy material and comes off on towels and stuff - low quality, i got rid of it. probably not safe. shape is not nice either.

Wish there was a tantus tex in xx-large 😃

Just this morning I was able to get a Doc Johnson Titanman Ass Master (the outer cover removed) inserted completely after having tried for 5-6 months. A Whopping 4.3" wide or 13.5" Circumference. Was not expecting this jump from my Emu egg which was 3.82" wide and 12" Circumference. Until now I had only been able to make 1/4" increments in diameter if even that.

Wow that’s awesome! I love to stretch but I’m at my limits when I get fucked in the ass by a guy. Did you gape after? I find that pretty hot too.

Yes, I had a wonderful gape after taking the Ass Master. My hole was alive, moist and throbbing. I really noticed a difference when I pushed out my rosebud. Popped right out and felt soooooooo good. Took a couple of hours before my gape started closing back up. Usually if I have to go to the store soon afterwards, I will wear a diaper to absorb the leaking lube as it seeps out for a while later. Feels like someone just pulled their cock out of me after shooting a nice load. I never thought I would actually be able to insert such a large circumference toy, but slowly increasing over an extended period of time paid off. Now my ass starts to get moist and self-lubricate just thinking about sliding down on him again.

Wow analnkinky that's impressive! Love the way you describe that play session. How long of training did it take you to work up to managing to fully take that plug? Currently I'm maxing out around 2.8 inches and don't play enough to get beyond that. Gonna keep trying though

This is a true story for those of you who are into Butt Stretching. I am a retired police officer and handled many incidents in which people were injured or killed. I once had a case in which a male (I believe he was an attorney) had impaled himself on a pipe that was part of a round swivel piano stool. The way it happened:

He had made a number rubber butt dildos that he would insert into his butt. He was never satisfied by them because they were not big enough. So he continued making dildos until he had one that was about 7 inches long and had a width of about 3-1/2 inches. Now he had to figure out how to get it into his butt. He then got himself a piano stool. He had secured his dildo onto the end of a round stick which he then inserted into the stool's pipe into which the stool could be turned to raise and lower it. Now, with the stool turned upside down, so four legs faced upward, he tied ropes to each leg. He then put pulleys in his ceiling and ran each of the four ropes through the pulleys and attached pull handles to the ends of the ropes. He would get himself aroused by reading health magazines... not even porn! Then, to get himself "off", he would sit himself down onto the lubricated dildo and pull the ropes up and down ... thereby moving the stool with the dildo attached in and out of his butt. However, the pain was a bit too much for him, so he got an old world war two gas mask and some kind of inhalable substance that would reduce his discomfort. So, with his dildo equipped piano stool, hooked up to pulleys on his ceiling - and with gas mask on - he sat himself down on the contraption with it firmly inserted into his butt. Unfortunately, the substance he inhaled was too strong and he became unconscious and collapsed onto the device - which ended up being inserted a lot further up his rectum than he wanted. It impaled his internal organs and never saw the light of day again. This is a true story ... you can't make this stuff up. You can just imagine the bizzare scene we had to write a report on. So, a friendly word of advice. If you have similar desires, ... you know what you shouldn't do.

The largest toy I can get in is the bed knob Buddy XL which is right at 4 in. I have a question for all you size queens. How long can you keep your largest toy inserted? If I am playing with the tantus Mister universe which Is 3 in. I can keep it in for quite a while. but when I get my bed knob buddy XL fully inserted I can only keep it in for a minute or two. Also I have fabricated a couple blocks that I can set down and sit on with my bed knob buddy in and I let it come out just to the point of full dilation. But at that point I can only stay there for a few seconds! The feeling is way too intense. so are there any tips on to how I can extend the length of time I keep my largest toys in?

Since you've come this far, I guess you already know the answer...

By doing it often and doing it a bit more each time...

Happy plugging!

@panty-I have to imagine that you didn't just suddenly jump from 3" diameter-9.5 circumference to 4" diameter and 13" circumference without something in between?

Not so sure I want to be stretched much further than maybe 2"½ - 3" ... I do have an inflatable plug that I’ve been able to inflate quite large but that’s about it. My dildo I use is just average size but I would like to have my limits expanded slowly and mostly safely

It took me maybe 18 mos or longer before getting to this point. I had trouble at the 3” mark, the 3.5” mark and after that i could no longer get pvc coated plugs inserted. Only by switching to silicone plugs like Squarepeg toys was I able to go larger. Because most seem to be a perfect circle my body will not allow that large an object. My Squarepeg toys though starting at about 12” circumferences are of a softer material and not only oval in shape but contour to slide past the tailbone. The Emu Egg Plug is one of the largest round Plug I can get in. After that only oval shaped plugs allow me to go bigger. I was only able to get the Ass master plug in because I removed the outer cover leaving the softer and smaller remaining plug that gave a little bit. I need something that tapers more on both ends though and am seriously looking at the large or xl splitter. Elephant or probus plugs though their height also comes into play. Prefer those that allow me the full width within 6-6.5” of height otherwise they cannot go in far enough. I am having trouble with my Bad Dragon XL Diego because it is so long I can not get the full width inserted though still very pleasurable

This subject is both fascinating and puzzling to me. I love anal stimulation and also love the feeling of being filled and stretched, and like others, continuously keep wanting more. But it also feels a little crazy to me and I wonder where it comes from? I'm already at 3.5" and have discovered that as a small waisted male, that is the absolute limit of my pelvic bones and that's where I will stop.

In contrast, I imagine that most women perhaps have a higher limit because they tend to have a larger pelvic passageway than men for obvious reasons.

This desire for more and more seems odd to me. When is enough enough?

Is it simply that the pleasure is in the strain of being stretched and once achieved, is no longer satisfying?

I apologize, I don't mean to turn this thread into a philosophical discussion on the extremes of anal eroticism, but there it is.

If you want to try and go further @radio, then you might want to consider the Squarepeg Toys. Their silicone toys have a lot more give to them and quite a few are designed with the oval shape and contoured to go past your tailbone. IMHO I would consider the Dino Stretch. It will allow you to possibly to move up to 12.5" circumference or 3.9" diameter and possibly beyond. You might find yourself being able to insert it that width right off the bat and supposedly it can allow you to stretch even further. Once you are able sit down on it with all of your weight, you can feel it trying to slowly stretch you depending on how long you can keep your full weight on it. I am only able to stay on it up to 60 secs at a time and I love rocking it in and out of me and then trying to sit on it with my full weight as long as I can. I think it takes a differently designed body frame to be able to insert a 3.5"+ round toy than it does for the 3.5" that you can insert now. I also have a smaller frame pelvis (I am tall and thin) than some I see on the internet inserting even bigger toys, especially those PVC coated ones. They are too hard and rigid for me and my tailbone cannot handle the larger circular size. The more you exercise your ass, the better the chance to expand it even more. I guess my goal is to enjoy the ride and just find how large a toy I can actually insert. I may not be able to go much larger than I can now but it sure feels good regardless. There is nothing like feeling both the stretch and my ass being completely filled. And remember it is not just finding what your limits are (I do NOT want to break my tailbone forcing in larger toys); it is the enjoyment of the ride getting there. I still play with my Bad Dragon toys occasionally since each gives me a different sensation. My Dino Stretch is my first morning warm-up toy and then I later insert my Emu Egg and if I am feeling really relaxed, I will try my DJ Ass Master with cover removed. Different days give different results. Please feel free to message me if you have more questions.

Square Peg Toys are just too d**ned expensive.

My favorites are the SI Novelties Ignite "Goose" toys because they're shaped like an entire forearm and hand in duck shape and have zero chemical odor. Sadly, they seem to be discontinued, but fortunately, I have the sizes I've worked through so far up to and and including the next biggest one which frankly scares me a bit, so I do have something to work toward.

I would love to be able to do that big! I’d need some help though. When I take as big as I can, I love the same feeling of being stretched and split by the object.

It seems like only last year that inserting a one inch diameter plug took work. Now over 3 inches is comfortable and pleasurable. It's taken me many years to be able to take such big plugs with no damage to my precious butt. The stretch feels so so wonderful

I know somebody is going to bash me for what I'm about to ask but I'm going to anyway. What I'd like to know is for you guys who goes to three and a half and larger on a regular basis what kind of side effects do you have? For me I noticed that I can't hold my gas anymore. I can be walking along and it just comes out. It can be embarrassing in a crowd. Also the week after I usually spot my underwear. I'm to the point now where I'm starting to wear a panty liner so I don't stain my underwear. In fact the other day my stomach was a little upset and I full fledged shit myself. I'm really starting to wonder if going to 4 inchs was a bad idea. There is a guy named Kirk who has posted a lot of videos of him going to 5 inchs on the web. that guy must wear a diaper after he's done.

You have definitely over-done it. Spotting your underwear and uncontrolled farting in public is not good.

My husband takes my arm to my elbows (I guess about 3.5") and can take the XXL Slink all the way but he built up to it very slowly. I can grab his ribcage from the inside. My arms are toned but not like a weight lifter. I can give him a 3+quart enema after a good fisting and he holds it without any problem--his anus closes right up, no gaping at all.

@panty, I'm not sure about the extent of your injuries or whether this may be too little too late but I highly recommend A) taking a break from anal play and B) doing kegel exercises at least twice daily. Download an app for it and seriously commit to doing it every day. Working those muscles and not stretching further is your best bet right now. Give it time!

as Susie stated, you could have pushed yourself too quickly too fast and potentially have torn your sphincter muscles. If your symptoms don't lighten up from the suggestions I've made here, and unless anybody has any better suggestions, I highly recommend seeking professional medical advice. Be honest with them too, regardless of an humiliation or shame.

Then there's the alternative option and that would be to embrace your new incontinence and develop a diaper fetish. Lol I kid, but you can see perspectives on that here on Zity too.

I have used this gymnastics analogy in several posts before:

If you never did a split and a coach pushed you to the floor into a front to back or side to side split, you would tear several muscles in your legs, suffer great pain and require medical attention. If you spent time every day SLOWLY stretching into a split, you would reach your goal and have strong muscles too. It's the same with your anus.

Injure yourself and you will have trouble closing or keeping your anus closed.