Butt Stretching--3.5 inches wide and beyond!

Hi there,

just wondering how many of us here can take a 3.5 inch wide dildo anally. I'm now at 3.75 and I love the stretched out feeling of a massive dildo slowly splitting me open into submission. It took me years to get to this point safely but the journey has so far been great. Are there any other anal size queens here?

Alas, I am stucked at 3.25 😢

Damn pity - I have such a nice toy which I would really like to master.

A really clean ass and some good lube will get you there my friend. Also, try squatting down on the toy. I prop mine onto a small stepstool and sit down on it. It really takes the stress off you because you're using just your weight to get the toy in.

Thanks for the encouragement owne20342.

Could I ask you, what size to you begin at in a session? If you max. is 3.5", do you start at 1.5", 2", 2.5", 3" or..?

As you suggested I always clean our before I begin. Then some lube and a normal size dildo. Will then squat over a 2.25" x 18" which literally works like a key - the depth instantly relax my anus. Then I shift to a hand-like dildo (not a fist - a beak) which I also squat over. And that is as far as I can go. In rare cases - after a lot of work, carefully working it up by 'pushing' against it - I can reach a dildo at 3.25". A real rush, but my ass will be sore at this point - quite possibly with a drop of blood in the lube. Time to call it a day, I guess.

The reason I ask is, that I wondered if there is a link between the size you can easily take when you start a session and the possible endpoint. After having play with large dildo's for several years, I am somewhat surprised that a penis-sized dildo still is needed as a starting point. Would have thought that you in time would get 'larger' down there (so much for all the dark omens about leaking).

Anyway, seems like I just can't relax further. Wonder if I go at it too fast? Also the 3.25" dildo I use is not perfectly round and the way it turns DO make a differnce. Perhaps there are bones and stuff in there which sets a physical limit at this point. 😢

The stepstool sounds like a comfortable solution. I will try that.

Have fun, mate

I hope you guys realize how painful and difficult anal sphincter reconstruction is after a rupture, not to mention that your extreme dilation days among other things will be something you'll only able to reminisce about.

Be careful.

Very valid point, Switchablesusie.

Safety is always a priority (but never a concern, so no, I haven't spent many thoughts on anal reconstruction).

Easy for me, because I don't tolerate pain very well. Uncomfortable? Bring it on! Pain on the other hand is an instant turn-off. I like to think that this will keep me well inside the safe area. However, I know that others feel differently about pain which could compromise their safety.

That is also the reason that I for my part would never mix any kind of substance abuse to my play - I prefer to have the full feeling with what I am doing. Wouldn't dare less.

However, having experimented with both anal and urethral dilation, my experience is that you can get really far just by taking your time. And why shouldn't we? After all, the journey to the goal is MUCH more than half the fun.

Thanks for caring.

Agreed,

When expanding your limits it is always best to NOT use any types of drugs.... So why do I use them? Because I know myself and my body and I know the signs that tell ME to stop, and when those signs come up I stop. Plain and simple.

If you are new to edge play and do not know the difference between good stretching pain and permanent damage pain then always proceed MUCH slower than you think should and stop every now and again to check for those warning signs (blood is a very good indicator).

And as usual, use more than enough lube and just when you think you're using enough USE EVEN MORE!!!!!

1.5 x 6 with lots of lube

3 1/2 inches wide? my dick is barely that LONG!. lol i can't imagine anything that large up my butt.

DrBatch, you said you used a 2.25 x 18 in your anus. Did you take the entire 18? Did it hurt? I had a man put a 12" penis in my butt and it hurt in a very good way. After a few strokes he was able to get in all the way.

For length.. i'm stuck at 8" and for width.. i'm only at 9" circumference 😳

Dakinkyone, 8" is good depth. thats currently my comfort zone, any deeper and its becomes uncomfortable. Width wise, 9" cir. is bigger than 2-3/4" so thats not bad, thats pretty well my upper limit. I can insert a pop can on a good day, but I'm working on bigger toys.

My goal is to be able to easily take dildos 10.5" cir but I'd also like to be able to get a really flexable 12"+ length toy in me..

I'm just an amatuer compared to some of you. I was always concerned more about circumference than diameter. I measured my toys around their largest part with a seamstress's cloth tape measure. The biggest I could ever take was a 6 7/8" cicumference or about a 2 3/16" diameter. And that was on a good day, I couldn't always do it. And it was also before radiation for prostate cancer that left the inside of my butt a lot more fragile. Nowadays I use toys the size of an average cock and nothing more.

This is far off the topic of how big a thing we can stuff up our asses but Arthur makes a very good point. The metric system, based on multiples of 10 makes far more sense than our inch system. It's so much easier to do math in your head with the metric system. In manufacturing we started seeing metric prints back in the 70s. Today over half of the prints we see are metric and almost all of the automotive prints are metric. Liquid measure is also based on a system of tens. Celsius temperature measurement makes more sense too. 0C= 32F (water freezing) and 100C= 212F (water boiling).

OK, now back to sticking it up your ass. 😃

GrumpyBoy,

Pretty impressive. Once again I've been out sized by the heavy hitters around here. My colon tube is a mere 30F, 30" long (.762 meters to you, arthur) 😃 and I usually only use about 1/2 of it. But it still gets the job done, oh yeah!

Can't find huge toys? Try an eggplant. They can get huge, they're cheap and they are doable.

I get them a lot.

Well I couldant imagine how good it would feel to out a 3.5 " in my rectum I can just only get a1.2 " hopefully oneday I will and it will be a great day

^^^^ They certainly look like butt-busters!

Could you imagin how hood that purple 4 1/2 " would feel shivers thinking about it pone day maybe

I have been stretching for sevral years now.

And reached 3,5" and abit more, I think it is about 4" now.

It is a lovely feeling to be streached, and then fisted.

After a nice series of enemas just a while ago, I started stuffing my ass and rubbing my clit. Got up to a full three inches. What a wicked full feeling! While I didn't have an orgasm tonight, my ass is very loose and I feel pretty good. There is always tomorrow.

I can take 1.5" with pleasure. Why would I go on stretching and loosing the simple pleasure of my 1.5"

In all the years I've been enjoying enemas prior to stuffing my clean colon, I've never been able to get above 1.75" or about the diameter of a toilet paper cardboard roll. I feel like a slacker compared to some here. Guess I'm not ready for fisting just yet!

MISS L has her special ways of getting me to take a huge dildos

3 1/2" and better she wouldn't normally strap a leather Velcro cock ring around my cock and balls real real tight stopping me from cumming so fast

for me the easiest position to be in he's on the Liberator wedge ramp combo Black Label addition . she would restrain my thighs pushing my knees all the way up almost behind my head

restraining my ankles spreading my legs real wide sometimes she even attach a spreader bar to the thigh strap to make sure that my legs spread wide open for her

she will slowly start finger in my ass hole and start with a 1 1/2" x12" dildo andand starts working my ass real good and work her way up .after she ugets a 2/1/2" x 12" dildo in me , she start forcing her fist Into me

She will fuck my asshole with her fist till my asshole nice and loose by this time I'm so hot and horny I'm ready for almost anything she has a huge purple dildo I think it's called the Great American she plunge the head of that massive dildo into my ass the head of that dildo is about 3 inches wide and the shaft gradually tapers to 3 1/2" when she gets about 12" of that massive dildo up into my ass she will start pounding my ass with that message dildo she will un strap the leather strap that's around my cock balls I usually explode a massive load all over my chest that's the biggest dildo that we own she keeps wanting to buy something bigger for me

I'm currently quite comfortable using a plug that has a 2.5" diameter. As for dildos, the only thing I have is an 18"long, 1.5" wide one that I can fully insert.

I'm actually wearing the plug as I type this.

For those of you looking to expand their minds and asses, here is a tutorial:

First off you have to remember that this kind of thing takes YEARS as in one or 2 YEARS. When you start you usually move right on up through the widths but eventually you hit a wall that may seem insurmountable but is not...

To start off you need to use good lube-no scratch that.... You need INCREDIBLY GREAT LUBE....... I've tested and made some pretty whacky concoctions but in my experience Albolene Make-up Remover is THE BEST BY FAR!!!! It is sold in the cosmetics section of any Walgreen's in the U.S. If that is not available, J-lube and Crisco is your next best choice. Keep in mind that lube is what helps you get over plateaus in stretching and keep the pain and injury to a minimum. When you are stretching your ass you're working it much like a body builder works his muscles..... In short you're VERY minimally and VERY slowly tearing the muscle and skin around your sphincter so that the body can accommodate the toy the next time around. It's the body's way of adapting to the situation and like I said, this takes YEARS to do SAFELY.

Now for the intruders er umm toys.....for just getting used to having your ass open for any period of time, use toys that taper so that your ass can slowly stretch during your sessions. Squatting is the best position for this as it affords you great control and stability and leaves your hands free to do whatever you choose. I started with and still use to this day a DOC JOHNSON large butt plug.... It comes in SM Med and LG if I'm not mistaken but it's not the toy you will be training with. For this you need a series of toys that will open you up in increments and get you used to the feelings. for this I recommend dildos that don;t have too much of a taper and can hold your ass open during training. Butt plugs wont do this. Make sure the dildos are increasing in width by .25 iunches to ensure that stretch sessions are done safely and comfortably

Cheers and if for any reason you need help, IM me and I'll try my best to help.

It's taken me about two years to get to where I am now. I can handle a bit over 3.25" of even diameter. I really want to get to 3.75" because of a couple larger toys that I have. One of them will require additional depth training due to the length of the taper. When I started, my desires were larger than I could reasonably handle. After making myself sore a few times, I understood that a increase in a diameter means an even larger increase in circumference. Starting at 2" diameter of firm material was not reasonable, but start just shy of 2" diameter of softer, squishier material worked very well. I moved upwards in increments of .25"diameter or less over the course of months. There were periodic breaks in between and I thought I had topped out a little under 3" until I made some key discoveries that helped. Hopefully these can help others:

-the right kind of lube is key. Some people have sensitivities and that will certainly detract from the experience. I found that an all natural water based lube was the most comfortable when pushing the limits.

-understanding the function of your sphincters helps a lot. When you reach a point you think you can't overcome, push out as if you were emptying your bowels. When you do this several times, relaxing in between, you will find that the sphincters loosen and allow you to move further.

-plugs that have narrow necks after a width girth are fun, but they don't necessarily help will long term stretching. I love the popping sensation that such toys deliver as much as the next person, but a wide neck or shaft that you can rest on will really help you loosen up. Thick dildos or stout plugs with wide necks are great for sitting sessions when your body will relax around the invading object.

Some of my favorites for width are Tantus Mr. Universe, Doc Johnson Ace of Spades (wish the neck was much wider), Tantus Tex and Titan Men Intimidator (great for depth too).

I love having my hole stretched.I can fairly easily take a dildo three inches wide now.Having my ass pumped with a large toy is heaven to me.

The largest I've been able to manage is DJ Ace Of Spades (9.42" circumference) but I didn't like it due to the flimsy base and non-existent neck. I have used other items that are 3" wide but I'm not even close to the 3.5" mark. I have Tantus Tex on the way, which should be fun.