MAJOR TURN-OFFS:
Like Quincy said: Masturbation in a vagina.
When I suggest what I would like, hearing him say, "Don't tell me what to do!"
When he focuses on what makes him feel good.
When I have to undress myself if I want sex.
When he shows no response whatsoever to my new pretty lingerie.
When his idea of a good time is skipping all foreplay and seeing how quickly he can ejaculate.
When his reason for wanting sex is because: "It relaxes me and I can fall asleep quicker."
Lack of imagination and resistance to anything experimental or exploratory or time-consuming.
Never ever asking what I would like or what it would take to help me reach a climax.
Being content with always reaching an orgasm without any concern that I never do.
Everything has to be his idea: when to have sex, where, and how.
And he wonders why I sometimes "have a headache" or am "too tired"?