Major turn-offs in the bedroom

My wife says pubic hair is a turn-off

Selfishness is the biggest turnoff because that causes the self person to never think they could improve in any aspect of life

My biggest turn offs are lack of confidence, an unwillingness to be adventurous, and difficulty honestly communicating. I think sex is most fun when both people are entirely open and ready to try new things. When a girl is self-conscious about her body, I can understand, but she would recognize that my erect member is more than enough evidence that I think she's sexy as hell. If she won't tell me what she likes and I feel uncomfortable telling her what I like, I feel trapped. There's nothing sexier than whispering your deepest dirtiest fantasy into a loved one's ear and getting a devilish grin of compliance in return. Even if she isn't down, I think a good sense of communication helps both partners respect those limits. When you tell me you want to have sex and you don't mean it, your body language screams that you aren't interested and I can't get off if I think I'm causing discomfort.

Selfishness in a partner, a man who wants oral but refuses to give it that is a big turn off.

That is a lame excuse for a man who won't do his lady like she does him...

My first rule is "after you my lady"...

Chivalry is a dying art...

In other words I love to gratify my lady orally first, giving her a few mind numbing climaxes before she addresses my needs...

Then after she recovers from her climaxes I have never been disappointed...

I have always been orally gratified by a very grateful lady...

My two cents worth 😉

When you go down on your lady and you get little pieces of toilet paper in your mouth. Yuck what a turn off and bad breath is another. I love to kiss and have oral sex. I tried talking to the lady about it but she wouldn't listen.

Hair - down below - agghhh - like my men shaved and smooth, far tastier

^^^^ My husband has plenty of hair on his body (he's a cuddly gorilla) but he actually waxes himself at the base of his penis so I don't get a mouthful of hair when I go down on him.

When I am horny and I don't get any! :'(

My ladyfriend and I both agree that taking a good shower is a must before sex. Often a nice enema too, depending on what we are thinking about. We do keep each other shaved on a regular basis. Also never! turning down each others requests.

Okay... aside from the totally disgusting idea of not showering or grooming properly (and that means everywhere and everything!) I am turned off by someone who is boring and selfish.... please have a sense of adventure and imagination... and please be willing to share!

Long fingernails...thats the worst thing anyone can do to me. have long fingernails. ewwww. im ready to throw up just thinking about it.

Extremely overweight people. Not those that have gained 30-40 even 50 pounds, but those that have doubled, or more, their ideal weight.

How about a partner who seems to be willing to engage in sexual activity but puts about as much effort into it as someone doing their taxes?

Jeff

A major turn off to me is the guy wanting to be the "sexy" one, I don't really like feminine guys, or guys that are so into themselfs they can't make it fun for me. I can't think of too many other turn offs other than the basics. But those things really get me out of the mood and fast

Farting. Nothing kills the mood quite like the sound/smell of dude letting one rip - ew.

After I discovered that so many people were getting rid of their pubic hair, I unwittingly became repulsed by pubic hair. It was a strange thing to have happen, but at this time, pubic hair turns me off.

Another thing that turns me off is to find out the man I'm fucking is only with me because I'm available, has no personal interest in me, although he faked it to get me in bed.

Rule No. 1 for Guys: After anal sex, do not fall off the woman and go to sleep.

Assumption of superiority (by men). Being lectured on some topic as if I know nothing about it when in fact it could be something I'm very well versed in.

Not paying attention to my nether regions. Not paying caring attention to my nether regions. Not paying enough attention to my nether regions.

And just personally, I hate tongue or blowing in ear, tongue in navel, tongue in an un-enema'd butt, toe-licking/sucking, face-licking, expecting me to swallow cum, pinching or twisting my nipples. That's just me. I know those are turn-ons for some people.

When I am horny and I don't get any! :'(

Ladies after I manage to get you off 3 or 4 times, don't suddenly get "too sore!" 😮

BO, Bad breath, blood and pee.

As others have mentioned, poor hygiene (although I have never dated or slept with someone who is not well-kept and well-groomed), and a greedy lover who takes but gives little in return - who is insensitive to my needs. I am turned off by baby talk and I HATE it when someone sticks their tongue in my ear. I know people find this erotic, but it annoys me to no end. Unimaginative lovers are boring. I also dislike bad kissers. Kissing can be so amazingly erotic. A bad kisser, if we even make it to the bedroom, can spoil the mood for me.

Arianna

I hate smoking, bad b/o, but pubic hair is the grossest! A clean hairless body on a woman is so sexy...........

As far as hygiene, there is freshly sweaty and there is rank. It's ok with me if my man has a whiff of fresh sweat. In fact, I enjoy that a lot!

If you don't know how to use nail clippers, keep your talons off my pussy.

If the best you can do is fumble about thinking this is foreplay, then progress to penis-in-vagina unimaginative sex, don't ask me out in the first place.

If my hood piercing leaves you dumbfounded, DON'T FUCKING TOUCH IT!

When in the missionary position, support your weight yourself, asshole. I enjoy breathing while I fuck. I cannot do that if you are crushing my chest because you are too inconsiderate to prop yourself up on your arms.

Rubbing my clit harder isn't going to get me off faster or better.

I can understand if you don't want to shave, but please at the very least trim up good.

Talking about how terrible you feel about the inadequate size of your penis is what REALLY makes you pathetic.

On the other hand, if you tell me that you are the best fuck I will ever have in my life, I will count myself surprised if you can even get it up.

My major major turn-off is a guy that is injured (broken leg, arm, etc.). I am always having to take his injuries into consideration as not to hurt him. Yes, I can get him off, but I don't get the satsfication that I would like to get from it.

My major turn-off is when you suggest something kinky and the other person is obviously NOT into what you suggest and is even perhaps disgusted by it...

I once had a boyfriend who was very reluctant about performing oral. I finally learned that the first two women he had gotten up-close and personal with in that way both had serious hygiene issues down there. Gaaak, who could blame him?

When he discovered I tasted like me instead of like a billion bacteria he loosened up.

A huge turn off for me is when a guy smells. I'm not talking normal, run-of-the-mill, being out all day type of smell. I'm talking about smelling like he hasn't showered in a month. My sex drive goes right out the window.

OK if were in bed please don't say "you don't really find me attractive" or "I don't look like I use to"........

Being cold myself, the other person being cold next to me. As with other postings - lack of personal hygiene. Not paying 100% attention, mind elsewhere and just paying me lip-service. I could go on ... but I wont.

The TV...

Being in such a hurry....the longer the better

Electronic devices, and I'm not talking e-stim!