Boys getting spankings

Having two older sisters, I was the only boy who got spanked at my house. I never saw the older sister spanked and only saw the younger sister get spanked once.

Now at the two houses of cousins it was a different matter. They had more kids and a more of a mix. At one, both the boys and girls were within a few years of my age. I saw them spanked pretty regularly but the boys definitely got more spankings (and I was just one-of-the boys). Boys were usually spanked naked while the girls just had their bottoms bared. Now most of my visits where I got in trouble were in the summer when we boys were often in just shorts and maybe a tank-top.

At the other cousins house, all the boys were older than me by a few years. They were spanked less often but more severely (a belt or strap applied to their naked butt). I only got the strap once or twice there. The girls were mostly younger than me. They were spanked with a paddle on their panties, although the oldest (my age) got her panties pulled down in front of me to add to her punishment.

Amybody here still gets spanked im 19 and still get it

That would depend on the reason it's done. Is it for fun, pleasure, gratification? Is it part of play-acting?

Or is it intended as a physical punishment for what someone else considers bad behavior? In that case it could be against your will and not really something done to an adult without their permission. I would think it is widely known that hitting people is frowned on.

My experience as re: boys/spankings today comes from being a confirmation teacher in a rural church. …So other boys (age16) began to tease each other about guys who still got paddled/ switched----and I was surprised how many guys still got paddled or switched and clearly their friends knew about it----so it still happens at least in rural USA

I know there is a great debate on the appropriateness of CP but I have been lead to believe by one grandparent that his children discipline using CP and most of their friends do as well. I know my nieces and nephews have been my one sister in law use it as a primary form of discipline and the other it happens less often but still happens. I do have a fetish for CP I was spanked a few times as a kid. I know a huge number of spankos who never had any CP growing up at all.

As a kid and teenager going up never really got punished like that and yes did get the belt a few times for being way out of line. Now going up I can say I been spanked a ton more by my Dominant Girlfriend then I ever did when growing up. She is very into discipline and says any naughty boy like myself should be punished reguraly which I am.

I happen to teach confirmation to 15/16 yr olds this is a rural area so we are4 probably berhind the times- It happened that a guy in my class was doing wheelies after class after class there was tons of snow so he got the car stuck---His dad came and as they drove away he started to give him spanks and said in everyo9ne's hearing -"Its going to be on your bare ass when we go home" I dais to the guys standing around that his dad was 'really tough"Some guys volunteered that they still got it bare---I was surprised but they had no trouble saying they still got paddled bare---so I guess it still happens at least in rural mid west

I went to a school where corporal punishment was always a threat (the headmaster had a cane in his study) but it was never a a reality.... or I never heard of anybody being spanked. However there was one teacher who would slap you thigh (we had short trousers) but hardly enough to make it sting. I guess it was more of a humiliation.

As a boy, I was subject to spanking at school and home. The principal took his paddle to naughty boys; my dad had no qualms about blistering my bare butt with his spanking belt. The worst was getting the paddle at school only to get the belt at home when my parents learned of the school paddling.

I got spanked by my mom and my best friends mom. I got spanked in front of my friend and his younger sister by both moms on the bare or naked with a belt. All my boy cousins got spanked too. Usually by my uncles with a belt or by my aunt with a hairbrush. My girl cousins also got got spanked but not as frequently as us boys.

I was talking to another older Zity member and we both agreed that unless you were bought up in the 1950’s and early 1960’s it is difficult to understand how little modesty was given to particularly boys when being punished. I was telling him about a memory from when I was around 8 so 1957. I was invited to a birthday party by a school friend. I went to a boy’s school so the party was all boys of the same age except two sisters who lived next door and were slightly older, say 10 or 11. They were dressed in the party wear of the time, with bows in their hair and white socks and white sandals. Finally, there was another boy, a cousin who was staying with my friend. He was around 13 or 14, a boy with a big build (chubby). He was wearing grey shorts, a white shirt and a tie. Even children were expected to be smart in those days. The older boy was what we would now call ‘social awkward’, very shy and uncommunicative.

It was summer and we were playing in the gardens but had all come into the dining room. I don’t know what the older boy did but my friends mother came into the room and started telling him off. We all stopped talking and looked at what was happening. She then called him over, sat down at one of the dining chairs and started to undo the boy’s shorts. He was bright red and looking down at her undoing the shorts like he couldn’t believe what was happening. She then pulled down his white underpants and tucked his vest and shirt up and turned him so he was standing sideways to her. She then started slapping his bare bottom with her hand with some force. The boy was sort of marching on the spot although he was hampered by his shorts around his ankles and his underpants around his knees. The thing I noticed was that his bottom was very big and white and that his penis was large and stuck out and he had the faintest trace of pubic hair. I say this because he wasn’t a child but a growing teenager but was bared in front of everyone without any fuss.

When the lady had finished, she pulled up his underpants and then did up his shorts and told him she didn’t want to hear another peep from him. She then called the girls over and they told to sit one either side of him ‘to make sure he is a good boy’ everyone took their seats for Birthday tea.

The boy was looking down and trying to avoid everyone’s eyes, I have never seen cheeks burning so bright red! I recall thinking that sitting next to the girls and them being told to keep him in check must have increased his shame as they had seen not only the punishment but had a good look at his penis.

The idea that spanking was for younger children must have come in the 1960’s as it certainly wasn’t the case when I, or the zity member I was talking to, were growing up.

Growing up here in the UK, during the 1950s /1960s, boys being smacked, slapped and spanked (both at home and at school) was simply a commonplace, virtually everyday (for someone) occurrence. All teachers at my junior school never hesitated to smack / slap our bare legs / thighs (virtually all boys up to c.age 12 wore short trousers all year round at school), nor to spank us if deemed necessary for minor infarctions / misdemeanours. Nor did they hesitate to use the slipper / strap for more 'serious' (in their view) crimes. All of these punishments were 'informal'( thus no need to be entered into an official punishment book) and alwsys meted out in front of the whole class.

At home (as my father worked long hours driving lorries)...my mother always punished me. She had a fiery temper and she was quite feisty. Although only 5'2" tall, she was surprisingly strong (typical working class housewife - who did a lot of physical chores, scrubbing floors, beating carpets etc). In the vontext of those times, I generally deserved the punishments. They were much the same as at school. Slapped/ smacked legs / thighs & spankings. Unlike school, she would sometimes pull my trousers / underpants down and spank me on the bare. She would also sometimes use a hairbrush on me.

My mother stood no nonsense from me. Justice was always instant (but never out of control). As it was the kind of neighbourhood where relatives / friends / neighbours were always visiting each other's houses -my mother did not hesitate for even one nanosecond to punish me (even if it meant exposing my backside) in front of whoever might happen to be in the house.

At the age of five starting kindergarten, I was quite familiar with spankings by mom and dad. Pants and undershorts to the ankles over the knee with the hairbrush or a small paddle. Sometimes naked from the waist down. We did not have spanking in the public schools but phone calls and note send home with you that had to be signed by your parents. While I can’t say how many whacks in a spanking because that varied depending on the offense, it definitely more than three. If mom said wait until your dad gets home, I knew I was in deep trouble. In cases but often sometimes mom would spank me and then I would get it again from. Usually it was one just parent doing the punishment. Once i got into puberty, I graduated to the belt, bare bottom on the bed from dad. This was into high school but least frequently and for more significant infractions. My parents spanked myself and my brothers much more than my sister. I guess she was a princess but she got it when deserved. My parents did not tolerate nonsense, poor attitude, disrespect or direct disobedience. Any of these infractions would get you swift justice - a bare bottom spanking.

I was a boy in England in the 70s-80s, we were spanked at home by my mother and grandmother, until my father took over as I grew older, and punished me with his belt, at school we were caned, or in the case of the PE master slippered,

for me I think physical punishment for missbehaviour and lack of effort were the right thing, and I lament that the society in this country now seem to abhor punishment in favour of childrens rights, it is my opinion that this lack of discipline is one of the reasons for the decline of England to become like a third world country

I have a teenage stepson who I send to a private school and occasionally he receives a paddling at school which he knows means a session with my belt on his bare bottom and his mom totally supports me using the belt on him and she’s usually present in our bedroom when this occurs.

I had plenty of spankings during my schooldays (mostly for persistently refusing to participate in PE/games) and many more from my parents (especially my dad) at home for various violations.

I grew up in the 70s and 80s and was spanked at home and school. It was common then, but even when it was banned in school it continued at home. It was a part of life at the time.

In the 60s and 70s, paddling was used liberally in our schools. Boys in particular didn't have to get very far out of line to get paddled by a teacher or the principal. Like many around here, I could expect to get a “good” spanking at home if I got paddled at school or if a teacher sent a note home informing my parents that my behavior was less than stellar.

I am a boy and i was spanked whit a paddle until 19.

I didnt get very far of line for to get the paddle on my ass.

Dad was a expert in paddle spanking.

I think it so different for the girl. I think we spank the boy harder than a girl.

I grew up in 70-80s and I got plenty of spanking at school and at home. Even got a paddle at school my senior year and a belt when I got home that evening.

At home (…) my mother always punished me. She had a fiery temper and she was quite feisty. Although only 5'2" tall, she was surprisingly strong (typical working class housewife - who did a lot of physical chores, scrubbing floors, beating carpets etc). In the vontext of those times, I generally deserved the punishments. (…) Unlike school, she would sometimes pull my trousers / underpants down and spank me on the bare.

Punishments looked pretty similar in my house. My mother spanked me without waiting for my father to come home from work. Always before spanking my buttocks were exposed. My mother used a special belt to punish me.

My mother stood no nonsense from me. Justice was always instant (but never out of control). As it was the kind of neighbourhood where relatives / friends / neighbours were always visiting each other's houses -my mother did not hesitate for even one nanosecond to punish me (even if it meant exposing my backside) in front of whoever might happen to be in the house.

It was very similar here too, but not quite. Justice was served as quickly as possible. However, this was preceded by a thorough investigation. I have never been unjustly spanked. However, if my mother decided that I should be spanked, no requests made her forgive me.

However, I have never been spanked in front of third parties. My worst memory was being naughty away from home. Mom decided to spank me. One didn't want to postpone the punishment until we got home. She visited a woman who was her friend. She asked if she could punish me in her apartment. This women friend agreed, much to my embarrassment. The punishment took place in a locked room. The friend was was in another room, but for me it was very embarrassing that this woman knew I had been spanked. She didn't see the "execution" itself, but she heard my screams.

As a middle school teacher I had a student who had bullied a younger kid for money. Since it happened on the bus I was not directly involved. But the principal shared. The boy’s mom revealed she had taken him to his bedroom with a hairbrush. Pretty sure it was a bare bottom spanking as mother was quite upset. No spanking at school, but a good one at home.

Punishments looked pretty similar in my house. My mother spanked me without waiting for my father to come home from work. Always before spanking my buttocks were exposed. My mother used a special belt to punish me.It was very similar here too, but not quite. Justice was served as quickly as possible. However, this was preceded by a thorough investigation. I have never been unjustly spanked. However, if my mother decided that I should be spanked, no requests made her forgive me.

However, I have never been spanked in front of third parties. My worst memory was being naughty away from home. Mom decided to spank me. One didn't want to postpone the punishment until we got home. She visited a woman who was her friend. She asked if she could punish me in her apartment. This women friend agreed, much to my embarrassment. The punishment took place in a locked room. The friend was was in another room, but for me it was very embarrassing that this woman knew I had been spanked. She didn't see the "execution" itself, but she heard my screams.

You are Lucky you was not naked in front stranger

You are Lucky you was not naked in front stranger

I agree, it's a good thing this woman didn't see me spanking. But the fact that she knew about my spanking and heard my cries of pain was very embarrassing. She was tactful and did not comment on what happened in her apartment.

Spankings were very common in my house growing up. Hand or belt was used liberally. I don’t recall getting spanked at school, or with a paddle. I was never completely naked, but it was done bare bottom. My dad had a saying, that red bottom goes a long way to insuring better future behavior.

I left school in 66, and at school they would just cane you for something to do,and if you didnt flinch they would do it harder, either on the hand or across the backside

I was spanked as a child like most of my generation but in many respects I'm please that there appears to be much less physical punishment these days. For me though, knowing I was going to have a spanking from my father terrified me when I would be sent to the shed in the garden and to told to striped naked and wait there. The wait for horrible but when my father arrived he would bend me over a bench and give me 6 lashes of his belt. Sometimes I would wet myself during the spanking but most of the time I just cried and screamed from the pain. As I got older into my teens the punishments would last longer and be more intense with 12 to 18 lashes of the belt but I just leaned to cope. My last thrashing from my father was when I was 15 years old.

Since then, spanking remained a part of my life and has remained so to this day.

I was brought up in the 60s and 70s . As a little boy I wore shorts until I was about 9 till going into “long trousers “ . The only punishment I had was a quick slap to the legs . I was never spanked and certainly no way were pants removed . I don’t think I was unusual so really don’t think spanking was that typical . A good verbal telling off was sufficient .

I think spanking may now even be illegal in Scotland .

any spanking I give / receive now is purely for pleasure and certainly not to minors

I was raised in the late 80s through the 90s, and my father was a firm believer in the belt. My oldest brother got it the worst, because he acted out the most. My dad's rule was, if you lived under his roof he lived by his rules. So I got spanked into my early 20s. My oldest brother got stinged I think until he was about 30.

I always thought my dad spankings were very brutal, but looking back they really weren't. Sometimes he would give me up to 100 lashes with the belt, but he never broke the skin, very rarely did I have an actual bruise. I think it was about control.

The same way my dad always kept us in briefs when we lived at home. Boxers were for grown men in his eyes, and we were still boys as long as we lived off of him.

I can relate, as spanking was allowed at my elementary school when I was growing up. It was very rare for me to do anything that warranted correction at school, but one particular teacher in 7th grade would keep me after class on occasion and spank me, then I was so ashamed, I never mentioned it to anyone. This happened several times.

It was very rare for me to do anything that warranted correction at school, but one particular teacher in 7th grade would keep me after class on occasion and spank me,

What excuses did that teacher give for the unwarranted spankings?