Dating a nurse (or other medical professional)

I had a lovely young woman physical therapist when I broke my hip. She was from Peru. She helped me get going again, walk without crutches and get "physical" in other ways. As I remember it was on the kitchen floor. I didn't any trouble getting "up" at all.

I am married to an RN and she has let me preform exams on her...but she really isn't into the medfet thing herself.

I dated and almost married a nurse/ x-ray tech way back when. I blame her for introducing me to the world of enemas.

When I was in college, I dated a nursing student and the relationship continued after graduation. I was lucky to be able to have her as a practice patient for a couple of years. I wouldn't necessarily have called those sessions "fantasy exams", but portions of them were certainly pleasurable and there was very few procedures that we agreed not to do. We were very close to being married, but a tragedy in her family caused her to move and we eventually lost contact with each other,

My ex boyfriend is a RN and he was already into medical play but nothing real extreme, just playing doctor, doing play gyn exams and messing around on the exam table

Susie-after reading (and enjoying) al your posts here over the years, I do believe you would qualify as a "fun date"!!!!

I was engaged to a nurse, and *she* is the one who suggested giving me enemas! :-)

She was fine with receiving too

I dated a nurse once. Great in bed. But she used to scream every time we had sex. No it had nothing to do with me or my penis. She just used to scream when she had an orgasm. She would totally wet the bed with her juices. BUT she didnt like the fact that I wasnt circumcised. Didnt pursue that relationship. In fact thinking back she was weird.

I'm married to an RN. She's not into it. I've been into it forever - before EMT, Medic, or RN!

I had a female classmate in nursing school and I truly wanted to be with her. She did give me one SSE but nothing else.

Then she told me that she preferred other girls to men, a big letdown.

I am a physician who has been married to two nurses. The current wife of nearly 30 years is, sadly, not into medfet. My prior nurse and wife was into it and I gave her a few enemas and suppositories as well as anal sex. I do wish I had been more assertive about my wishes (more!!) when we were together. She knew I was into enemas when she found my stash of Water & Power in the 1970s. She eventually found drugs and that was it for us. I also dated two doctors, both of whom were kinky and second one extremely so. Unfortunately, our residencies ended and we went in different directions. Life is like that. Enjoy the moment.

I am an RN & NOTHING we do during our work life has anything to do with medfet. Absolutely nothing. The 2 entities just never mix. For a nurse to have a med fetish has nothing to do with any procedures we do. If I give an injection to someone, it's an injection, period. It doesn't matter if the patient is 30 yrs old or 100 yrs old. If I'm putting in a foley cath, I'm doing so because I need a urine specimen or to keep an incontinent pt dry. A patient is a patient & there is nothing sexual about it. It isn't a conscious decision at all. A patient's body parts are just like any other patient's body parts. If a plumber is fixing a toilet, is he thinking of a pretty woman using it? No. It's a toilet & it needs to be fixed. The thought of sexuality doesn't enter into it. I'd bet the plumber doesn't have to make a conscious decision to not think about bare butts sitting on the toilet. For a medical person to have a medfet, it is no different than anyone in any other profession. It's about the vulnerability & the exposure just like anyone else.

I can understand a nurse not wanting to wear a nurse's uniform in the bedroom. They want to feel sexy & there is nothing sexy about a nurse's uniform to any nurse. A uniform takes away our individuality, making us all the same. Why would we want to feel nondescript? When not at work, we want to express ourselves in what we wear. Often times, when running into a doctor or a nurse outside of work, one or both almost always comments on how different the other looks. Just recently, one of my coworkers married another coworker. Both have said they would never have noticed the other had they not seen in other in street clothes, in their "normal" life, outside of work. After working together for more than 2 years, it wasn't until one of them had moved into the other's neighborhood & started running into each other @ the dog park that they started really seeing each other as an individual & started dating.

^^^^ Very good post

The ONLY thing I find with medical professionals who are into medfet is that they already have a different level of technical skill and a more realistic deportment. This enhances the play. For inherently dangerous play (catheterization, sounds, injections, etc), there is a different level of trust with a partner that has real life experience and training.

I had never really thought about it until this post. Work and play are two totally different things. I have been asked before if I ever got turned on by a patient. My answer is no. I have had girlfriends who have never seen inside a vagina. So it is no big deal for me to let them look. Sometimes they want to look inside themselves and I will help them. I guess the modesty and shyness goes away when you are not in an actual work/clinical setting. But, I never mix the two....even in thought.

I am perplexed why this was a question in the first place. Someone must have had a fantasy world view of medicine.

I think booksmjm1 said it very well below. Got to give a karma for that.

@ booksmjm1^^^ Quality (definitive) post....Karma+

I am so glad to hear other nurses saying what I always thought and I hope other members will see not only that work and play are separate but that we only get turned on with our partners--partly because we love them and partly because when we play, we are healthy specimens.

A diseased body having medical care is not fun to play with and doesn't turn anybody on.

I've never dated a medical professional, but I have had a play exam from somebody who was a nurse. It was a long, thorough exam and it was lots of fun. She focused mostly on my chest/heart/lungs, but that's always the best part. 😄

I do agree with you ladies.

I met a woman sveral years ago through a fantasy site, and it happened that she was a nurse.

Obviously she never mixed up both sides of course, but willingly agreed to be auscultated (being at the other end) and let me examine her with speculums too; just like any gf (sorry for the expression) that would nt be in ht medical field.

We both left our work outside our relationship, which is essential to feel well together at home

My girlfriend is a doctor, and she is not at all into med fet. Nevertheless, I consider myself very lucky that she takes my rectal temperature as foreplay, once in a while, and at one point even performed a DRE on me.

I was married to an R.N. for 12 yrs., dated a Rad. Tech. and a lady who was chief resident in Internal Medicine. NONE of them were into Med Fet, anal anything, or enemas. Guess they want nothing to do with work procedures when off the clock.

While we see enemas as fun and enjoyable, they may see it as work. Not too many young nurses know about anything but Fleets enemas.

Mashie is a good example. She is a nurse who also enjoys medical play but keeps the two separate. I would love to bend over for her injections in either capacity.

My long time GF is an RN and is a perfect example of the absolute professional at work who sees her job as doing whatever is needed to make her pts well and comfortable in the process. At home she (and some of her kinky friends) is all about having pleasure for herself and me. Her professional and playtime lives are completely removed from each other. Susie, Mashie and other real world nurses are right on the mark about this.

Never dated a Nurse, guess I never had a chance, would have like too. But I do know if you treat them with the respect do to them, your stay in the hospital or clinic procedure will be much better. I need to see them almost monthly, and some of the procedures I enjoy, but never,,, ever cross a line. Everything goes well, and they are happy to see me

Girlfriend is a Nurse in training, she does not know about my fetish as i have yet to find the courage to bring it up with her.

She has practiced her practical assignments on me as she needed to practice obviouslythough so that was a big plus!

I almost (should have) married a nurse/tech, that is who got me into this.

I dated, was actually engaged to, a nurse who was both very bright and way ahead of me kink-wise. I have no reason to believe that she was anything less than professional, or even found anything erotic, in her workplace. I would have trusted her with my parents or my children without reservation. Had I had been a little more sexually "sophisticated" at the time, my sex life would have undoubtedly turned out a lot different! OTOH, I would have had a whole different life, different kids...

I knew a sonogram tech who would get very excited at the thought of having her heart on the screen as she was being pleased. I guess it depends on how you can separate the clinical from the sexual.