Dating a nurse (or other medical professional)

Aside from the fact that all of us professionals and our supporters will tell you, we do absolutely without a doubt keep play play and work work. Also true that I found quite interesting in here was the comments about us being in scrubs and or uniforms. It is true for the most part, I agree. But for me it is slightly different because Doc wears dress pants and a dress shirt to work, so seeing him in scrubs is a huge turn on for me. And him seeing me in them is the same because we don't work together.

If you get the chance to date and or play with a true medical professional who is kinky you will absolutely find that our level of play is a lot more advanced for lack of better terms. We know stuff, we know good kinky medical stuff and we have all the cool real toys, lol. I have often heard that sex with a doctor or a nurse is usually better. I wrote a story once about when doctors and nurses get together to have sex. You can only guess what my opinion on that topic is. Same can be said for when two medical professionals who are both kinky get together, lol, it's kink to the tenth power, lol. Then you take that medical kink put it together with two medical professionals, and sex, and when those two people love each other. Well there just are not words.

Mashie

My girl friend is a CNA and we have talked about it but have not brought it into our sex life yet

My current girlfriend is an RN and seems to enjoy medfet. We play regularly and she enjoys wearing her scrubs. We'll often use medfet as foreplay before having sex.

Think two concert pianists sitting down to play a duet. Imagine the music they can create together! (Two colon therapists? OMG!)

Have had a few friends that were in the field but never got past talking about it i am afraid

I've never dated a medical professional but I have an ex who temporarily worked in a hospital cleaning rooms and I've gone out on dates with guys who worked in hospitals

If I was single I'd totally date my gynecologist lol

I've been married to fellow physicians twice. There was little in the way of medical fetish involved. Earlier in my life I dated quite a few nurses. That was an entirely different story!! I was administered to in a number of different and novel ways. Perhaps they were interested in having control over me.

Liquid, there are basically 3 types of nurses. I have found this to be true so many times I stopped keeping track. I'm just pulling a number out of my head but I would say that 80 percent of nurses are not kinky at all, or they are in their own way, like keeping the lights on, doing a 69, or having sex on the kitchen table. Then there are the 20 percent who actually are kinky, not always in a medical kink sort of a way, some are and some are not. And their kinks run the spectrum. Then there is the third type of nurse....me, hehehe.I'm naughty, dirty, kinky to the max. I'm sub, I'm Dom, I'm bad oh so very very bad. I like things rough I like things hard. I want my injections to hurt, I want to be naked on the exam table and in turn I want to do the same to Doc. And last but not least, I'm horny all the time. Just sayin, lol.

Mashie

If only I could have a nurse like you, Mashie!

Nick

Hee hee Mashie you're such an animal no doubt! If I'd ever found a nurse like you I'd never have messed around with pediatricians or surgical residents.

I went on a couple of dates with a paramedic. Sadly it went no further but some of the things she would casually drop into a conversation gave just enough of a hint that there could have been soooooo much fun ahead. Sadly it wasn't to be but I often wondered about it!!

I really am interested in being taken care of over being horny. Some of the stories on here about spouses that are doctors have turned me on the most. I like thinking that I can't hide not feeling good. That I can't hide if I need to go to bed to avoid getting sick. I think it comes from a lot of my friends coming to me when they don't feel good. I've had my first responder, cna and considered going to nursing school. I can tell you, even from a patient stand point, that real life is way different then play. I talk to a lot of docs about this topic and they always want to know about my real life exams and what was done and did I get turned on, no matter how many times I tell them that they are very different. Now, if you are asking me, during play talk, because you care about me, now that's a different story.

If things work out with the guy I'm interested in, he's had emt training before, and has studied up a lot on medical stuff, so it could be pretty interesting.

Mashie wrote:

I'm naughty, dirty, kinky to the max. I'm sub, I'm Dom, I'm bad oh so very very bad. I like things rough I like things hard. I want my injections to hurt, I want to be naked on the exam table and in turn I want to do the same to Doc. And last but not least, I'm horny all the time.

Wow! When did you first start to feel this way? Was it when you were young or older?

I found this out when I was about 38 actually. So somewhat late in life according to some.

Mashie

It betting to date student nurses so they can practice on you whatever nursing they in,, LIKE pediatrics infants to practice first-aid to practice medical restraints to practice maternity,,,,, YES I am a male

I am a nurse, i love to play medfet, although i haven't for a long long time. I specialise in infections, fertility and wound management. I no longer work as I am a kept woman but did 4 years in a sexual health clinic after quickly working my way up the ranks, then worked on the wards where everyone was barrier nursed due to infection and disease.

I would happily play nurse to a play patient but as I am naturally submissive I prefer to be the 'poor patient'

I dated a nurse for a few almost a year. I got her to give me a very good physical exam with a prostate/rectal exam and then she gave me a shot in my butt. She was very good, realistic and I really enjoyed it. I also enjoy spanking and got her to give me several school paddlings. I have found that most women are open to much more than people think. Almost every woman I have ever dated has been willing to paddle me and do roleplay with it. Medical fetish is a bit more of a stretch. Anyway, I bring up kinky stuff early on, if the stop sign comes up I move on. Life is short!

Itsameah, you say that you bring up kink early on and if the stop sign comes up you move on. I say good for you! Life is way too short to not be happy or have someone that can make you happy in the sack and on the exam table. I think you are right on track with that. Just thought I would let you know.

Mashie

Mashie wrote: I found this out when I was about 38 actually. So somewhat late in life according to some.

I think that's much later than most. I was interested in medfet well before puberty. Of course, I had no idea what medfet was or even what a fetish was - I was simply drawn to these things. I wouldn't be surprised if many human beings are born with these fetish orientations.

Beach, I did in fact say that I found my medical fetish out when I was 38. That is correct, but only part way. I guess I have told this story so many times I just assumed everyone knew. I have had my medical fetish since I was probably about 6. It started with either a very painful GG shot in my fanny laying over the doctors lap or when I watched the episode of MASH when everyone gets the flu and Margaret bends Hawkeye over the desk for his shot in his fanny, or a combo of both of those. It wasn't until I was 37 or 38 that I realized what I had been feeling all these years had a name, and that I wasn't the only one who felt this way.

Mashie

You are certainly not the only one to feel that way, Mashie. Even in my youth, when I hated the painful humiliation of bending over receptionists' laps for injections in my vulnerable bare bottom, I used to fantasise about the ordeal when no shots were imminent and I would love to get them that way now. It is often the case that what one feared most in childhood becomes a fetish later in life.

Nick

When I was in my early 20s I met a surgical tech at a night club and brought him back to my dorm room and fucked him all weekend long, he used to stay the night in my dorm room with me and we were having sex with eachother for a good 6 months or so and then I graduated and we lost contact, I was 23-24 and he was 43 and very good in bed and had lots of experience lol

I so love older men. I always have and probably always will. I sort of can't understand the ladies who like to play with the babies that are between 18 and 24. They may have some stamina, but that's it. To be honest with you, I love hair on a man. Bald chests do absolutely nothing for me at all. I also like my men with some meat on their bones as well and some gray in their hair. Older men just know exactly what they are doing. As far as the stamina thing, it's not always the babies that have it. Give your man 25 mg of Benadryl and see how long he lasts. It might be for someplace around ummm, let's see, ummm, an hour and 45 minutes........just pulling a random amount of time out of my head....perhaps?

Mashie

Well I've been enjoying this thread...A note of thanks goes to Mashie in recognition of "older men"...it's a nice feeling to know !!....And yes we do generally know exactly what we are doing....but I wont say that is true all of the time...not realistic !!...And yes I did say the word "generally"...as some simply refuse or cannot grasp either through ignorance or simply cant get their head around what it takes to openly display maturity in a confident manner...learning through errors of judgement...because it is often through experiences in failures one finds guidance & enlightenment...then learning to embrace change...That ole axiom comes to mind -- "change to remain the same"...as its just as important to hear not just listen..because some never see the light for the doorway...one must never stop learning...that is not to say the younger male has no idea...just on a learning trajectory....provided they learn to harness those life skills attained & be willing to accept failures as a natural progression...growth if you will...as that provides the greater lessons insofar as attaining better understanding.

On the subject of "Dating a nurse(or other medical professional)" and bearing in mind their standing in communities at large...apart from the exceptional time invested in making our lives function as best as possible...and the many unseen thankless tasks performed...It bodes well to remember they too are only human & it is important that we the general public accord them every respect....one never knows when your life may depend on them !!...Be outwardly courteous in acknowledging them....Overall they are a fairly decent group of personalities... treat them as such & use common sense...Applying the same principle if that person were to be available as it were....be openly honest,but above all be yourself....add in a little bit of light romantic flavour too....Hey you might just end up on the exam table having the time of your life !!...LOL

You know Mashie I kinda regret removing my initial post to which you had taken valuable time to respond ...To me I felt somewhat unsure as to whether it really addressed this topic satisfactorily...However my comments as to Nurses / Professionals overall & how they acquit themselves I find genuinely commendable & do for the most part appropriate acknowledgement...for without them we'd be up sh*t creek without a paddle !!

I'm going to be brave and post here....this is a first time for me. I'm going to allow myself to be vulnerable for a minute or two. This is hard for me but I'm learning. Being in the medical profession, I have to say I am intrigued by this thread as well. Since I've been on this site, I have learned more about myself by talking to others and finally getting my feelings and desires out in the open. I have worked in the ER, have been a medic, and I now work in a Cardiology office where I've been for almost 14 years. My last relationship of 13 years was with with a Paramedic who I knew and worked with for a few years prior to us getting together. He in NO WAY had any interest in anything medical outside of work, so I never brought up the subject at all with him. He would've thought it was silly and I would've been laughed at. One of many reasons why we're not together anymore. I can also say that work is work and play is play. No lines crossed there. For me, I agree with what Mashie said...at my age, I am definitely interested in men who are around my age or older. I appreciate the honesty and feelings most have learned how to express along the way. At this point in my life, I just can't imagine being with anyone strictly vanilla anyone. I have to be able to let my true self find her way into my next relationship. I would love to be able to get to know more people on here and learn a lot more. I can't send friend requests yet as I haven't posted here enough. Lastly, I want to take the time to thank the people who have helped me on my journey so far. You know who you are.... Thank You....

Curious, a few things to keep in mind while you are on your way to discovering yourself. First of all, you are welcome here. You don't have any reason to be afraid, nervous or scared. We are like minded people. Most of us have been in your shoes. It's time for you to stop being so afraid, you are safe here, and protected. I promise you no one here will laugh at you, make fun of you, think you are weird, or think you are silly. You also need to realize and understand, which for me was probably the most comforting of all that I have said to you so far, but you are not alone here.

So take a deep breath, relax. We accept you, appreciate you, look forward to getting to know you, and look forward to having you share your thoughts and yourself with people who, by you just joining us, have already accepted you for who you really are 100 percent.

Mashie

Thank you Mashie. ?

Not quite a medical professional (yet), but my girlfriend is applying to medical school and has doula work in the past. She is completely okay doing medical roleplay with me. Even has her own scrubs, steth, and bp cuff!

As others have said, she sees med play and her professional life as completely separate. She plays out of an affection for me, not because her own work turns her on. I do my own part to be emphatic about my being attracted to her for her, not for her profession. She does enjoy sending the occasional pic of her wearing a mask at work, knowing it will turn me on 😃

I think there's no use in saying that those in the medical profession are categorically more or less inclined to be interested in med play. To me, the biggest predicting factor is a general open-mindedness.

Several years ago, I found a young lady wiling to try out a medical fetish visit... We talked quite a long time before she came for her appointment, and I finally learned during the exam that she was a nurse (she never really answered the question before).

I was definitely surprised and even shaking a bit after having heard that.

Littmann, please take some advice from me. Find out from her exactly what she is looking for. People are very different in what they want from their kink experiences. If she is into fantasy stuff and isn't into accuracy then do whatever you want and she will be happy. But, if she is looking for an exam as close to reality as possible, with few to 0 variances, then if you want her to come back to you over and over, then you have to read up on how to give a complete physical. Go and buy a real medical physical assessment book for 5 or 10 books, read it and re-read it, learn it, know it, practice it.

See the problem with playing with real medical professionals, ones that like to keep it real as possible that is, and the reason we real medical professionals really only like to play with each other is, because we know the right way things should be done in an exam. The minute you place a stethoscope in the wrong place, it's over for us. Seriously, we are done and it's hard to refocus and go back to our fantasy zone. The scene has been broken and it's really hard to get it back.

So if your nurse likes to keep it real, you need to act like you are real. Please trust me on this. If you do this she will come back to you over and over and over.

Mashie