CBT is one of the hardest types of pain play for men to wrap their heads around if they are not into receiving it. A friend of mine is into CBT and wanted me to administer it to him. I had to start out very slowly, the concept was so foreign to me I could not imagine the things I was doing to him were pleasurable for him.
The way I abused his cock and balls, if done to me, would have killed my libido instantly. I used to view fetishes from the perspective of did I want them done to me. If I did, they were good, if not, I wanted nothing to do with them. What a dummy, lol!
I found after getting over my initial confusion and apprehension about CBT play that giving CBT to another man could be a huge turn on.
The first time I stuck a needle into his balls was rough. Today, I'm looking forward to our next session where I'll be using 24 needles!
I feel sad for all the men into CBT whose partners have yet to understand their craving and will not participate. Guys and gals, please know that if your partner is into receiving CBT he is not crazy and slowly experimenting can be a blast for both of you. Guys into CBT, don't go for the brass ring with someone new. I know you want it hard and extreme but baby steps please, otherwise you risk asking them to do far more that they are mentally capable of at the moment.