Gape, Gaping, Anal Prolapse

I agree with switchable on this. Sometimes I wonder about where these ideas come from

It is a stupid pet trick, but I can still grip a cock like a teenager.

I discovered the thrill of anal self stimulation at a fairly young age, maybe about 13 years old. As part of this experimentation, i often used a small aquarium air pump to inflate my rectum with air. I noted that during this play, i could cause my anus to gape to what for me at the time was a very surprising size. This occurred despite using very small diameter tubes to allow the air in. Other objects that I inserted included enema nozzles, etc. I never used a huge toy or other object for this play. The older I have gotten, i have decided that this phenomena had more to do with the elasticity of the anal muscles and the ability to relax them to that degree. My ability to gape, much less maintain the gape that i could attain as a child has long past. Perhaps the result of some scar tissue and the decrease in muscle elasticity. When I first realized I could gape very easily and painlessly, I was shocked at how truly large the opening was. i remember feeling it with my finger, to confirm what I was feeling with a finger, I got a hand mirror and saw what i was feeling. Still such a vivid memory for me.

Why should a gape have a purpose?

Of course it is a porn trick, but gaping and relaxing and feeling the air after the romp is really nice and fun. I gape only with my butt up the air and head down and this is a position I don't get much into, but when I do, gaping is the cherry on the cake.

I personally enjoy the feeling, separate from it serving any specific purpose. It's like a reminder of how much fun I had dominating myself unlike just masturbating and pulling the pants back up to go about the rest of my day. I don't blame those who don't find any enjoyment in it, just as I don't like being deeply penetrated, but it does prolong my eroticism post-orgasm

I love the feeling of the gape after playing with anal toys. Especially like others have said about feeling the wetness of the lube leaking out of me. What I have found is that my ass will self lube and leak which is an erotic feeling. I find I have to wear diapers for a couple of days after using larger butt plugs or dildoes so I do not leak though my pants. I will find myself going back for more play when it does self lubricate.

I enjoyed Hackjuan's story about inflating his rectum with an aquarium pump as a youngster. I had tropical fish when I was a kid and never thought to trying inflating myself. Dang. Another missed opportunity.

Assuming that most people who find this post consider themselves anal-erotic.. What are your feelings toward ass gaping, rosebuds, and the more extreme prolapse?

I think the gape and rose are fairly erotic but can't get too far into anything hanging out. In your own play, do you aim for either of those? or is it more of something you enjoy in porn?

I have not been able to achieve ass gaping, at least the way I understand it, but in more recent times, after some good anal pounding, I noticed that my ass does attain a bit of a rosebud which does add to my perceptual pleasure. Nevertheless, I have come across some extreme porn videos of hkj and dgg prolapsing their anuses and I honestly felt quite intrigued by this feat; it really blows my mind how they seemingly effortlessy achieve a prolapse. However, after doing some research on the subject I realised it is not an healthy practice to be followed...

I enjoy gaping, rosebuds and prolapse when it comes to porn. When it comes to me, I don't ever want to be able to prolapse. I would feel a small sense of accomplishment if I were able to produce a nice rosebud or a reasonable gape; but, neither of those are in my repertoire. I do play with reasonably thick toys (up to 2.75" diameter) and believe I could be relatively easily fisted by a gal with an average size hand. But, gaping and rosebuds apparently aren't in my future.

In terms of gaping, it's not something that I easily exercise conscious control over like a lot of the women in porn, but after using larger toys - 2 to 2.5" wide or so - my anus does stay relaxed and open and "loose" as I continue playing, with insertion being almost effortlessly easy. Since I can't hold a wide-open gape on my own, I've occasionally used 2 or 3 fingers from each hand, inserted deep into my anus and gently pulling my hands apart while relaxing my ass as much as possible. I've gotten some seriously wide gapes that way, and actually once managed to take a quick photo that visibly showed the inside of my rectum. I also later used a three-prong speculum to open myself up, looking and feeling myself inside as I was stretched open. When I've gaped and stretched using my fingers, I've found it's easier to get something close to a prolapse or rosebud. When my anal ring is stretched that far open, it's easy for me to push and contract my rectum, sort of opening and closing and farting a lot of air in and out. The most I've ever been able to push out while very gaped was just enough to be able to feel my rectum pushing out very slightly past my ring - protruding just barely, but definitely not prolapsing. This isn't something I do often - I prefer large penetrations to gaping or prolapsing - but it was definitely interesting to feel what it was like to push out my rectum in that way.

I love gaping my ass and pushing out and playing with my rosebud. When I first ran across the porn scenes showing gaping and rosebuds and prolapses I was not turned on very much. Later though, especially when I started playing with larger butt plugs and dildos myself, I realized how incredible it really felt and I began enjoying seeing their asses stretched and their rosebuds and even their prolapses.

I enjoy gaping and being able to push out my rosebud and something about seeing myself in a mirror as I play with my large toys just gets me turned on that much more. The extreme prolapse though for me is going a bit too far.

I just read all the posts and see that gaping is a biological hit or miss or with a bit of stretching time and practice can be done.

I get a kick out of a gape when I see it in porn. I just want to stick something (my penis, fingers, fist) into the "gape".

So after reading everything I got out a toy got on my hand and knees butt up and drilled my well lubricated ass to see if I could in fact be able to "gape" on demand. Overall just a bit-not a natural gaper- but I do get the hollow, so something is there but dildo was bigger than the gape for certain.

A rosebud on a pretty round ass is sexy too me as well and most likely would get a good lickin'

We both enjoy the look and feel of our asses opened up, gaping and stretched, rosebud exposed. We find it is a combination of almost all of the techniques already described below….definitely ass up and shoulders down, preferably even bent over on your stomach over the back of a sofa, chest rested on the front edge of the seat cushion, hands on the floor for any needed support, your play partner standing behind the sofa, doing as they please with the new you view and easy access! This grew out of our pleasure with anal explorations of all kinds… I find that after she has deeply pegged me, or fisted me with more of a plunging in and out method, that my response is to push out against her invading fist… which further relaxes my anus and allows my rectum to remain open. This also produces some wonderful rosebuds, and if that is one of our playtime goals, then I will use a vacuum pump after cleanout, pumping my anal lips to a nice puffy and sensory heightened state.

She was amazed and erotically responsive the first time I bent her over, after fucking her pussy excessively rough, and then stuck my fingers inside her and used two of them to push back out through her ass! Next time we play I plan on using the vacuum pump on her asshole again, as well as a small one on her clit, making both nice and swollen. Then, repeating the above only with two, maybe three fingers curved through the back of her pussy and out her puffy puckered and rosebud ass!

For me, she instructs me to push out against her strap-on or fist(s), bearing down and holding it while she pummels me and my ass relaxes and opens wider, following her outwards and then staying there, open and ready to suck her back inside me.

Advice is to go slow, work up to this kind of play, take time to warm up and clean out completely, and then use TONS of lube. This makes the pushing out and bearing down safer and cleaner, although there are never any guarantees with anal play so agree beforehand that shit happens! As for prolapse, we haven’t gone there and have no desire to. Everything short of that is already enjoyed and part of our repertoire.

Sunday I had the chance to play all day. So the morning started with a good clean out. Then the warmup began (can only play once or twice a month). Once I was able to take the Titanman 4 all the way. I took a break. I over did it last time with not enough lub, so working on lots of lub and no lasting affects this time.

So I decided I was going to play for 15 mins every hour for 18hrs.

So every 45 min my timer would go off and I’d shove things in. 18”x 1.7 doubler header, soy sauce bottle, water bottles ? My fingers, titan man and anything and everything to stretch me deeper and wider. As the morning progressed. I was enjoying the feeling my anus not quite airtight during the 45min breaks. As the afternoon progressed the gape was big enough my tunnel plug wouldn’t stay in.. sweet. By evening time my bigger red plug wouldn’t stay in.. the anus was gaping nicely, the air breezes was very nice. So erotic.. and the best part no discomfort.. pure slippery gapping hole. My ass had been gaping for over 12hrs now. Now big enough to casually sit on the titanman 4. (To this point it was a stretch). Now the 8.5oz ribbed water bottle , and soy sauce battle were expanding me more ...

Laying by the pool I could feel the gape wide open. Smile with the hidden fun!

During breaks it was fun to reach around and feel my anus gaping quite widely now . Evening wrapped up with my anus gaping so big only the titanman would plug it .. too big to sleep in I put the red one in hoping it would stay. Nope. Woke in the middle of the night. The gape was still there. By morning the anus was air tight. For those starting out worried that stretching causes issues. I’d say the opposite. If done right it’s stronger .. same for my stretched balls. (Can lift 1lb with my sac muscles)

Report two days later. It’s tough to push a finger in. Gaping is very erotic, the feeling of your body open and air blowing in. Very cool. Fisting is the next level for me

I have a nice size gape and i can still do a real pretty ( to me) rosebud, i enjoy the feeling of fingering the prolapse too , amazing warm feeling

Hi Anne, how are you?

Pls be careful about rosebuds......I receive warnings from members here that are nurses that I should give up that.....

Play safe

Za

Gape training before birth a bb a mast do routine

I became fixated on anal gaping women, as a reaction to my (then) wife's hatred because she suddenly claimed, after seven years of frequent anal sex, that it had always hurt. I was reeling from the shock of my transformation from beloved husband to hated abusive pervert, when I saw first saw an anal gape on a magazine cover.

The woman was bending over, spreading her buttocks, and displaying a gape so wide that the lighting showed an inch or so into her rectum. Intellectually, I realized that extreme buggery had seriously damaged the poor woman's anus, and I could absolutely never do anything like that. But emotionally, I couldn't stop longing for anal sex with a woman who was so completely "open" to it that she'd never say it hurt.

Years later, I won the anal eroticism lottery when Carla and I fell in love. Within a week or so after our first anal, she was so into it that she'd thrust her hips back as soon as she felt my dick against her anus. After I shared with her my anxiety about causing her pain or excessive stretching, she began thrusting back harder and sighing audibly with pleasure as I slid through her sphincter. That beats a wrecked rectum any day.

I still like images of obviously well used females asses, but Carla's receptive bottom has to be the best ever.

I would think the arousal about anal intercourse would be the tightness of the anus, not the opening being stretched.

Sundaybrunch, you would be right about some, but wrong about others I prefer loose.

Two nights ago after a good thorough cleaning out, I inserted my medium butt plug and wore it for about an hour. Then I got into the shower with my 14 inch double ended dildo and started working it in and out slowly, going deeper with each insertion. The furthest I've ever gotten it is about 11 inches. After playing for awhile I got out of the shower and started working my b7 bombshell in. I was really worked up and in no time I had all three bumps in. I began pumping it in and out faster and faster and I set it on the edge of the tub and began riding it hard. I then got out my inflatable butt plug and put it in. I got it all the way up to 11 pumps. The full feeling was incredible. I couldn't push it out that full but I did manage to work up to 6 pumps and expelling it. I was quivering in ecxtasy. I got in front of the mirror in the doggy position and started working it in and out inflated. I pushed it in and pumped it up to 6 and pushed. It felt incredible stretching me and when it came out it made an audible pop and my ass was gaping so wide. I nearly came without even touching my cock.

For me, seeing anal gape right after anal sex is something I find exciting, but seeing prolapse turns has the opposite effect, turning me off.

Sundaybrunch, you would be right about some, but wrong about others I prefer loose.

If someone gets too loose, they will be wearing diapers!

Outside of porn, I’ve never seen a gap. Prolapse would be gross. My wife’s butt puckered up immediately after sex.

I love having my asshole gaped. I usually tape over my pussy with duct tape to know I’m not allowed to play with my useless hole, the stretch my asshole with various toys till I can see the inside of my hole. i then pull it open and put tape just on the inside off my rim and stretch my hole apart. I then put a big dildo in and force myself to walk around the house on all fours. Since my hole is spread apart I can’t hold on to the dildo, and everytime it falls out I zap my clit with and electric wand

The higher the butt is stretched the more impressive and longer lasting is the open hole after appropriate treatment.

I have loved female gaping stretching and fisting both anally and vaginally for a long time, but I also love stretching gaping and fisting of my own ass.

Ive took pics of fuck buddies gaping as well as my own ass gaping many times.

So I understand why it turns you on and throughly enjoy having it done to me too.

A fantasy for me is also to be with and penetrate a woman hugely and gape her, and possibly result in a small rosebud visible in the huge gape.

The fantasy is stronger because I’m aware of just how huge I’ve got myself with practice over the years combined with the knowledge that some women’s hip structure make them potentially even more capable.

(I find HKJ and Siswet’s huge penetrations and big gapes mostly extremely arousing but DGGirl the opposite, the big prolapse shrinks my penis as fast as a cold swimming pool)

I've been playing and stretching my ass for years at this point and my gape is not like what I've seen out there in porn or even on reddit. I mean I can get a little gape butt my whole just wants to close up after I've taken anything out. Maybe it's like licka said, a biological hit or miss. I wonder if there is a gape gene?