Gape, Gaping, Anal Prolapse

Idk how they do it, but i wish i knew... i cant imagine that its good for you though

The gape like that is only achievable if the internal weight in your body is pulling your insides towards your chest so the big empty cavity is achievable. I do it all the time. All you have to do is get on all fours drop your head and chest on the ground with your butt in the air and either pull your fingers in your butt and pull to the side and let the air flow in and continue to massage and before you know it you will have the gape. Or you could put something like a dildo in there with the face down ass up position and pull it in and out while relaxing. You can get a better gape that way and its deeper. There are other positions to do it in as well you just have to keep your weight towards your chest and you will feel the air go in and know uv done it right. I hope this was a help 😃

Let's do some research. I volunteer my ass for gape research.

All kinds of posts on this thread discussing all kinds of things. I'm reading them over trying to get a sense of what it takes to make an anus gape, and there's only a couple of messages discussing this. Hackjuan's post is interesting, though I don't quite get it. We may just have to try it and see what happens.

Jimmy Pop's post makes sense too, i.e. the position matters more than almost anything else, once the anus is relaxed enough. Hmmm....

My mistress and I will just need to do some experimentation it sounds like. Stretching an ass and producing a gape are 2 different things entirely, it seems. I can take toys up to 2.5" in diameter, though most of the time, I'm unable to gape. As most of the discussion seems to be focusing on loss of sphincter control, I will assure everyone interested in this subject that my butt is nice and tight when we're not playing with and stretching it.

If anyone else really knows how to produce a gaping butthole, please post a descriptive and thorough reply!

What I think is really wild about some of the actresses that I have seen who can gape wide is that they have great control of their sphincters overall. In fact, sometimes they can open and close in rapid succession. Hotkinkyjo comes to mind. I enjoy a big gape, but I can do without the anal prolapses that sometimes accompany this. A rectum retained inside is a deep, inviting cavern to explore, whereas a prolapsed rectum is a slimy looking wrinkled pink mess.

Absolutely agree with permitdrab on this one. Prolapses are just plain ugly. I don't see the point of it at all. Hotkinkyjo can be simply incredible when she's gaping. Beautiful body to go along with it. I've been also wondering if heat application might do something. Like warm up a glass toy in the microwave before inserting? It makes sense that it might help to gape. Hmmm... we'll give this a try & see what happens.

Beats me why I love to see a lady bend over & gape, butt I do. Extremely exciting for me.

Beats me why I adore it when my lady gapes wide open. I just know that it's a major turn on.

The sight of an ass gape is a total turn on. An open pussy also..... niceeee.......

That's the point in which I try and cum when they remove a large toy an I can see their pussy and huge anal gape

I adore my pussy and asshole being stretched wide open. Mmm.

Hmm is this 100% safe ? But any way I like it 😃

Anal gaping done properly is perfectly safe. The size and duration of a gape varies by person. My partner's ass gapes after every session of anal sex. Mine however, refuses to gape even after inserting huge toys for extended periods of time....

As most of the discussion seems to be focusing on loss of sphincter control, I will assure everyone interested in this subject that my butt is nice and tight when we're not playing with and stretching it.

I'll second that. Mine is still tight as ever, which could be annoying as I need to properly warm it up prior to every anal session...

I'm going to try and resurrect this thread, as I find it fascinating and a huge turn-on. To me, there is nothing more visually stimulating than a gaping anus when it's being played with. For me, I need to be on my knees with ass in the air. No other position allows me to gape. Jimmy pop may have nailed it with his reply below.

Another thing that works when in this position and still not gaping, is to close your throat and act like you're inhaling, which takes even more weight off of the abdominal cavity and expands the chest, which allows the rectum and anus to expand.

Anyone else tried this?

I haven't tried that YET Paynefan , butt the weekend is here again , my arse is twitching in anticip............ation !

Thanks for the tips , i did have a better gape at times this weekend but as yet not of porn star quality , i guess if at first you don't succeed ........... P.S my arse WAS really up for a pounding , how or why is that ? does it have a mind of it's own ? Perhaps it's like an erection which occurs for no apparent reason .

I have had play exams where I a on my back, knees up, receiving an enema while the "dr " repeatedly stretches my vagina open while adjusting the nozzle.

Gotta be careful with this, especially the bum. It's not hard to do actual, permanent damage by stretching too much and tearing, nevermind the possibility of losing what you're using up there. Nothing more embarassing than going to the hospital with a rectal foreign body.

My wife and I used to gape her vagina a lot. We had very large plug that we used exclusively for that purpose. I would start a slow enema in her using a Barium nozzle, and then slowly insert the plug into her well lubed vagina. The plug would hold the nozzle into place, and left her hands free for other pursuits. very enjoyable experience for both of us.

I would love to be able to gape. But however big the toys are that I play with, I just can,t. What is the secret?

@aholestretcher, try to have your ass up in the air and upper body lower than your butt, so your insides are not pushing toward your butt, but toward your chest. So when you pull out your toy, there will be nothing to push on your sphincters and your but will stay relaxed and open. I'm like you, I have to have my ass up in the air to have a gape, like laying besides the bed with my head and shoulders on the floor, back leaned on the side of the bed and ass and legs up. This is also the position which shows the biggest gapes in the porn movies. Doggie position with face and upper body on the bed, which also works for a nice gape, makes it difficult to handle the toys yourself. Report back how it goes!

I have played with a partner where we were using a butt plug and after a while of slowly working it in and out the gape began to appear. The position we used was doggie style- ass up and head down. It is one of my favorite things to see when the person's anus totally relaxes and seems to enter a zone of pure pleasure. Their ass almost seems to say keep filling me up.

My advice is to go slow and let the person being penetrated get totally into it mentally and physically and that wonderful gape will appear.

That sounds really sexey I did that with a guy once where we acted out a birth sean where they pushed it out of there ass I gusses you could also do it with a girl and there pussy

I understand the wish of gaping. When I do have anal intercourse with my wife she gapes sometimes. I figured out that gaping if some sort of relaxations of the anus. If she relaxes and pushes a little bit the anus seem to stay open.

Ok so my gf wanted me to try gaping so I used plugs for a while and I got a ok gape but last night I went in front of the mirror to check it and when I pushed to try gape almost like a fart came out but it was like cold air coming out and I had a huge gape it was like a compression being released and the gape was even there without me holding my cheeks open but when I moved it closed back up and I could do it for a while that night but now I can't can anyone tell me how I do it again please? My gf needs me to have a big gape for some fun play

You need a butt plug with a wide neck, say 1" diameter neck or more, and to use it on a regular basis. You will not be able to hold this type of plug in for long because it holds the sphincter open rather than how a narrow-necked plug allows the sphincter to close onto it and keep it in place. Gaping usually occurs in the moments after removal of an inserted object, and when you push outward slightly, like doing a reverse kegel. Definitely do kegels alternating with reverse kegels to eventually develop the ability to open and close at will. You have to do kegels/reverse kegels and also use a butt plug with a wide neck on a regular basis in order to maintain the flexibility and muscle control that allows gaping. Like any other form of muscle training, you need to warm up first and if you discontinue it then you just have to start over.

Thanks for the help but I wear a small butt plug and this night I was able to get a gape atleast two inches wide like I could probably easy fit my fist in there like how do I do that again?

Click "More" at the top of any page on this forum, then click search, and search for the keywords of any questions you have.

I will tell you right now that stretching of all kinds, anal or otherwise, must be gradual. You might hurt yourself if you go from using a small butt plug to trying to cram your fist in there, skipping all the sizes in between. Never insert anything if it is uncomfortable. Just keep practicing with the width just below it until it is comfortable.

Does anyone else enjoy the post play gape from a heavy toying session? Idk if I have an abnormally loose rectum or what, but I love the feeling of lube oozing out of my ass after a serious stretching. I use cum lube now which doesn't feel too much different than regular lube when oozing out after a good play, but its more of a psychological pleasure. If that makes sense... I'd love to hear about others' post stretching "euphorias!"

After you pull out a 24" Slink or my arm from my husband's butt, his anus closes immediately and if I immediately gave him a few quarts of enema solution he would not leak a drop. I don't gape either after anything is removed from my anus.

For me, gaping serves no purpose. If I want to get right back in, I go right back without any resistance. The whole gaping thing seems to be a porn movie stunt with no real purpose.

Heck, I WANT it to close after whatever has been in there is removed!