Enema and Anal Intercourse

Hi there

My girlfriens and I give each other enemas as foreplay before intercourse. We also have anal intercourse - both ways. I use my penis in her butt, and she uses a strap-on on me.

We also try to fist-fuck each others arseholes - but up until now we haven't been able to get a full hand up.

Do any of you have experiences you want to share?

We live in Denmark, in the Greater Copenhagen area

I have never had anal intercourse but I have thought about it. My boyfriend has asked me if I wanted to try it but I am not ready yet. My girl friend advised me to take an enema first then use a lot of KY. She also said to be sure that I control his entry into my bottom. Does anyone else have any advice for me?

I had a similar experience with my girlfriend before we started having anal intercourse. The most important part is to use lots of lube. I'd recommend Astroglide over KY for the lube. In my experience, it seems to last longer but if you can't get it, KY will work fine. Make sure that your boyfriend goes slow and doesn't thrust too deeply. This will help you get used to the new feelings. It might seem obvious but have him stop right away if it hurts. This will help you both enjoy anal intercourse. Have fun! 😁

The ladies I have enjoyed this treat with have enjoyed lots of anal play after an enema. It helps relax the muscles and open them up. We usually do the enema, take a shower together, and then just snuggle and touch each other alot. She enjoys the traditional 69 with her being on top and that's when I work the lube into her very softly and slowly massage her with first one and then two fingers or her toys if she asks. It took us a while to get to this ritual. She likes anal alot and had a bad experience before I came into her life. I have always been gentle with her unless she asks be to be something else. Good luck and know that if you are going to enjoy it you need to be in charge by telling your guy what feels good.

Robin,

Tell your boyfriend you want him to give you an enema. That may get some serious attention.

Robin - as I think a few have already mentioned, an enema first both cleans you out and helps relax you "back there". Second biggie is to use a position where you control the penetration. For first timers I like spoon, both on your sides with him behind you. You move back onto his penis, going only as far and as fast as you feel comfortable with. If it starts to hurt, STOP and wait until you relax more and can proceed without pain. Good luck, and let us know how it goes.

Warren

Robin

Warren is right... spooning is a great way to start as you are in control. remember to use lots of lube in/on both of you. We like to put a towel under us too so we can add lube without worrying about the bed and in the heat of passion it is sometimes hard to hit the target.

My husband gently helped me into taking enemas to improve our anal intercourse. Now it is a hole new world. i cum from the enemas, I cum out my ass from the post-enema anal play, and my ass cums on his dick!

Having anal sex when your partner is full of hot water is very enjoyable! also for a twist, you can use cold water.

Ouch. Cold water? Doesn't that have the same effect on penis size as the cold ocean?

OMG! This talk of enemas, anal intercourse, and stap ons is really cranking up this recyled retiree rock and roller....yes yes.

This was several years ago,but my Wife would connect me to a full 2 quart enema bag with a double balloon rectal catheter, then release it slowly then straddle me,as she controlled everything her movements also made me release pee,so it was a very "wet" copulation.

lynn

A number of years back I had a relationship with a nurse. Discovered during foreplay she was very anal erotic. Things progressed and she would climax much faster with a finger in her anus. I suggested it might be fun to give her an enema. She was lukewarm about it until one time she said OK and she took it lying flat on her stomach. It became a frequent part of our foreplay. Once or twice we had anal intercourse with her full with the enema. WOW, it was like a water hammer thrusting into all that water and it sure got her going since each thrust was like an additional small enema. It was great sex.

Yes had two good enemas today & then had anal intercourse w / my frend we are bouth mem

and love doing it to each other.

I absolutely, positively love to have a series of enemas to thoroughly clean me out before anal intercourse. I insist on giving my husband an enema as well before I use a strap-on dildo on him. He isn't particularly into enemas like I am but he's always a good boy and takes the noz for me.

I think besides using ky jelly to ease anal penetration you should sychronise your breathing outwards as you are penetrated slowly into your anus

Michael

Being a solo player who loves getting anally fucked, i always have a good clean out before i please myself. i dont use a bag at all, i use the hose on my movable shower head, adjust the water temp to warm and give myself a thorough cleaning by inserting the hose in and taking god knows how much water in then expelling, i do this a number of times untill im squeky clean 😁 😁 😁. i then stretch my self with my fingers to make me receptive.

then i fuck myself for hours with my dildos..... anal sex is great for me and the orgasms that i have are mindblowing...would be nice one day to have a female with a big strap on tie me up and fuck me bruttally... then fist fuck me as well....

robin is right with his breathing tip..always helps...

i use ky exclusively and never have a problem....mmmmmmmm might have to have one now !!!

My girlfriend and I alway have a enema secession prior to any any play, especially intercourse. We both enjoy it more when we know everything is clean inside. Liquid KY is usually our choice of lubrication, but we have found "wet" works nicely also.

Works very will to do berfore having anal intercouse It cleans and relax and feals good to do

My girl has more fun getting the enema than I ever thought, makes for a long night, but a good one,.

Yes just got done with two enema,s and anal intercourse with John my friend. Bob in springhill,fl.We love doing it with each other. 😃

Hi

What would help is have mine finger you to help you relax and have him slowly insert two fingers and slowly finger you till you can take them really easy OK

Luvaw

Bill

I can't wait to try that. When I first read this topic, it reminded me of the tickle pink blowjobs that I have done and he really loved that.

My ex wife would let me give her an enema every once in a while. She did not like them. But she loved giving to me till I was clean then use either a strapon or dildo on me. Which I really enjoyed.

We always do it in preparation for anal sex, but enjoy the enemas as well. Kind of like foreplay

My girlfriend like anal intercourse while holding the enema i teached her how to do so and her rectal contraction make me too excited

One of the best treatises I've read on anal sex, was by "chelsea girl" on her blog "Pretty Dumb Things" I'm not sure if it's on blogger or wordpress but google it then use her search engine. That post is several years old and ageless in my humble opin.

Girl, you just get on top and control everything! Once you're used to it, a whole new world has been discovered and just so you're clear, turn-about on him, is definitely fair play. We use the "feeldoe" and like it very much. Or, a double-ended strap on dildo (one end for you and one for him) and any number of possibilities in between.

Ciao'

J

The most important thing if you have never had anal is to start slowly. A clean vaginal cream applicator works well to start with, work your way up from there. Every time you get an enema slide something up your butt keep getting bigger until you are using something the size of your boy friend. Anal is the best, both men and women can get off, don't let anyone rush you though if someone or something is forced into your butt before it has had time to stretch it is extremely painful and will probably turn you off before you even get going.

Some have questioned whether the pre-anal sex enema(s) should be done earlier in the day. That is a personal choice. One group feels that the enema is a tool to cleanse and make the rectum "ready" for anal sex without soil or embarassment, and without any impediment to entry into the rectum (even higher up). Earlier

cleansing allows for complete evacuation of any residual water, even though a well cleansed bowel will only have clear fluid remaining in small quantities, some would like to be totally emptied. The body will absorb any left over fluid in an hour or so. However, most enema lovers find that the actual giving of the enema is a very sensual and exciting turn on, for both partners, and therefore is part of the sexual experience and should not be separated from the sexual experience. The retained fullness of the enema, further stimulates the internal pleasure zones of both men and women, as well as the large volume of water influencing more absorbtion right during the sex, enhancing the swelling of and rigidity of the penis and the clitoris. This accentuates the orgasm, and positively influences the volume of the male(especially) and the female ejaculation which also enhances the orgasm. Others have explained their pleasure and sexual excitement in cumming into a very warm water environment inside the rectum.

All in all, I would suspect that most prefer the enema play during the time of sexual activity, not several hours befoer as a detached procedure just for cleanliness.

Robin, my girlfrind likes to lay on her back at the edge of the bed and I approach like the missionary position, only slowly into the anus. Let me know what position worked best