Pro Doms, does money takes the fun out of it?

What do you think about the pro doms and dominatrix? does money takes the fun out of it?

Based on my first-hand experience - no.

There are hundreds of Pro Doms and they stay in business because they have clients who like their services and consider the value of their expertise and kinkiness to be worth the investment. I have been disappointed a very few times, but the vast majority are great. Knowing what you want and being honest about your desires will usually get you a great experience if you have shopped carefully.

Most Pros will advance their approach gradually over a number of sessions. They've been burned by the "I want it extreme" guys who did not understand that their imagination didn't go as far as hers, so don't expect "it all" the first time. A Pro needs to know that you are trustworthy, too.

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Most Pros will advance their approach gradually over a number of sessions. They've been burned by the "I want it extreme" guys who did not understand that their imagination didn't go as far as hers, so don't expect "it all" the first time. A Pro needs to know that you are trustworthy, too.

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VERY WELL SAID

A novice telling a pro domme they want a severe session will usually cause them a great deal of pain and suffering because the pro domme KNOWS what a severe session is, and the novice only has a poor idea of it in his/her, usually his mind.

Oh okay, thanks

No, there are many pro's that realy enjoy what they do.

No Ihave found two pros who seem to enjoy thier work and give good value. True some have been less than just try again. I would stay use escort girls, too little eperince and interest.

Good Dominants, whether Pro or amateur, will talk with the sub and establish what the sub expects from the play session, especially if the sub is new to them.

They will establish the use of safe words and any limits whether soft or hard, and will check on the sub's condition as play progresses to ascertain their condition, especially newbies since they may have never experienced subspace and it can be a very trying experience if not aware!

I've been to many pros domme. Some actually enjoy it (and the money of course!). for me, i don't want family to know about s&m so the best alternative is going pro. I'd say its good for people who don't want to be in full time s&m

I enjoyed paying enema pros. Yes they wanted the money most were honest and dedicated, and no rush. I think they were part phycologest and the good ones wanted to know the limits and safe word. If there are any olg gals out there mine was"70".

I have seen several Pro Doms. No bad experiences but some better than others. I have found that they all enjoy what they do and several get quite turned on. The best way to get the most out of it is to be completly honest on your level of experience and what you want. I have not had any start heavy but they work up to it stopping at your level of tolerence or enjoyment. ALWYAY HAVE A SAFE WORD! Most will have several which will indicate how things are going like green for ok, yellow for approaching the max and red for stop. Many will ask for references to make sure you are not a flake. You should try to check them out too. Many are listed on different web sites that have reviews. Look at the reviews to see if they are good or bad. Read the bad ones to see what the problem is. Many times the client wants more than the Dom is willing to provide (like sex) so they get mad and "even" by a bad review. Not fair to the Dom. Most will want to spend some time before a new session begins to learn about your experience and what you expect out of it. Ironically, I have found some to be physiology majors and very smart people. When done, they will know you better than you know you. Almost all of them will want a longer session the first time. That's the getting-to-know you time. Well worth it. As for the fee, well worth it in my opinion unless you are fortunate to have someone in your life.

Some years ago I discovered that I could find escorts who would do spanking and give an enema. Sometimes I had to teach them how to give an enema, and that was kind of fun also. A couple of them thanked me for teaching them. The sessions were usually good but not always. Some are not very professional. Sometimes they agreed to terms over the phone and then after they arrived, wanted more money. I felt that asking them to give me an enema should be easier for them than someone wanting sexual intercourse. I more recently discovered the world of pro doms. There are two that I have opportunity to use a couple times per year. These pro doms are honest, professional, educated and intelligent. They have their own dungeons where we do the scenes. We discuss the scene before hand and it is always safe, sane, and consensual. They don't do sex and that is how I want it. I am not looking to cheat on my wife. The satisfaction I receive is much more than from any of the escort sessions. The benefit to my overall enjoyment of life is definitely worth the cost of a couple sessions per year.

It can still be VERY good!

The money just take the fun out of it the money puts the fun into it If you have some fetishes that aren't being satisfied in other ways. Simplest thing to do is just find somebody to do it for money.

Money doesn't take the fun out of it for me. I specify my desired treatment with a nurse dominatrix in advance by email and then pay for it the same as I would for real private medical treatment. On arrival I therefore experience the realistic treatment I so feared in my youth - being made to drop trousers, pull down pants and bend over a receptionist's lap for the painful humiliation of injections in my vulnerable bare bottom. Paying for the treatment actually enhances the thrill by making the "nurse" strict with me.

I went to several pro doms unftil i found MIstress Angela. We hit it off at the first session.

Her sessions were very playful. Afterward we always talked for a while. The money transfer was vsry natural. Just a part of the session. Due to money constraints I had to break off our relationship.

To a degree as ultimately the payment puts me in charge

Good to get it out of the way and try to get into Her space as she takes charge in the role play - would be best to have a relationship but paying fills a gap