Most Painful Implement

What do you think is the most painful implement?

For me, the wooden paddle really hurts. I have never been caned.

what do you think is the most painful implement?

for me wooden paddle really hurts. I have never been caned.

You don't know what you've been missing, especially with a 1/4" or 3/8" diameter nylon rod/cane. 😮 >😄 😮 >😄

It makes a traditional cane look like a child's toy.

There's also, always the sjambok. >😄 >😄 >😄 >😄 >😄

Canes rank right up there for sure.

About a year and a half ago, I had an idea for a unique implement to produce severe welts without breaking the skin on the bottom's bottom. This was intended for a friend who cums when she gets a welt on her ass or thighs. I had found some small, tightly wound coil springs similar to an old-fashioned screen door spring, but smaller in diameter. I got a professional whip maker I know to take one of these and plait very thin leather over it. He attached a nice wooden handle which he also plaited. All the leather work was done with wet strips to make it meld together and be smooth. He did a wonderful job, but he would not send the implement to me. When he and his wife tried it out, he said it was the most violent thing he had ever made. It tore flesh with even a mild stroke.

For me, I usually like a simple wooden paddle made from a cut down paint stir stick for 5 gallon buckets. This is sturdy, has a good whack and makes things very red. The most painful thing we use on me is a cane like implement made of a plastic plumbing supply tube. The end is rounded over and a nice handle has been fitted. It produces very little thump, but the thing bits like a snake and leaves big welts. Applied to male genitals, with a bit of discretion, it is very exciting, indeed.

Speed

At the risk of being repetitive, I would say again that a 1/4" or 3/8" nylon rod (dowel), a 1/2" one would be a weapon, plain and simple, is extremely painful and will tear through the skin and leave welts you have to see to believe. The nylon or Delrin rods are polished smooth, but pack a wallop because they are very hard and dense and weigh about three of four times what a traditional cane made out of cane (the grass) weighs.

SS, the cane is a formidable implement of discipline or punishment; some even find their pleasure with it.

Butt, if you've not experienced a single tail whip, you might change your opinion about which is the "most painful implement". I used to make canes when I was a part of the San Francisco community, floggers too. I purchased my single tail whip while I lived in the City; however, I never mastered the proper technique to use it properly, so I only touched one woman's ass cheeks with it at a small party one afternoon.

At a dungeon party one evening, in a jail cell with a close friend who loved the cane, next to us in another cell was a couple (friends of mine), wherein he was a connoisseur and a great technician in the use of his single tail whip. She, his submissive, screamed many, many times that night and loved every minute of it. A true masochist... But, too, one of the most impressive Administrative Assistant at Levi Strauss where they make the world's best blue jeans... Not only was she a true masochist, loving every minute of it, but she also loved providing exceptional service, and gave same to her bosses who never truly understood here… Her Master had a gr8 understanding of all of her attributes...

As always, I am

Kindly yours,

Hermann

I will also agree that a single tail whip can be extremely severe.

I have been caned, birched, paddled and whipped. They all have different qualities of pain. I did have to be restrained for the birch and the whip and wish I had been restrained for the cane. It is still my opinion that the difference is qualitative and either instrument can cause fantastic stimulation to the nervous system of the victim. The physical damage is different, I have had severe orange peel and bleeding from the paddle and bruising that lasted a month and still have a little tattoo effect from a lexan paddling a year ago, cane marks can be permanent as can whip marks. The birch marks the whole bottom or back and could be permanent but I think less likely than the whip or cane.

In summary they all can hurt like Hell and in the wrong hand cause lasting damage.

Guess it depends if one fears the dull widespread pain of a paddle, or the crisp sting of something thin like a cane. Very different experiences. I used to spank my exgirlfriend with a paddle for her excitement, and the thin cane for punishment. She felt it went beyond the stimulation she received from the paddle.

Interesting comments - helpful too. i've tried a variety of implements - don't like the wooden spoon, a nasty little thing, but a good hard caning has caused to the endorphins to flow - such a good feeling.

i realize i need to graduate to something more severe, and now look forward to trying wood/nylon rods. Thanks.

A long stem rose, minus the petals.

Try an apple tree shoot. Easy at first but just wait a while.

I think it's between the paddle and the cane

When I first started out over 3 years ago, all of this fetish stuff was new to me. I knew nothing, unlike these days, now I know what BDSM stands for, and a few other things, but am still very much a newbie all things considered.

Anyway, because I didn't know what I liked and what I didn't, I wanted to experience different things, see things, etc. The one thing I knew I did like was to be given an open hand spanking, not hard enough to bruise, not even hard enough to stay red/pink for more than 30 minutes or so. Yes, I am light weight. I can and do dish it out when requested, but can't take it, lol. Anyway, moving on....

I was so new, I didn't have any limits because I didn't know what limits were or what they were for, lol. Lucky for me, the people I was playing with are well versed, highly educated, and mighty experienced in medical fetishism and BDSM/spanking etc.

So, Steve-o suggested a few different spanking implements and I got to pick out which one I wanted to try first. They have racks and shelves of everything you could ever want to be spanked with. So after a few minutes of looking things over, taking into consideration that I am not a pain slut, and using what I thought was logic, I picked what what I thought looked like the least painful item. A cane.

Steve-o being the nice guy that he is even explained to me the different sensations I might experience depending on the location of where the cane would land. He let me pick it's destination, which I chose slightly lower than center.

He said he would only hit me once, then if I wanted more he would continue till I said stop. He also said that he would start out on the lighter side, and I honestly believe that he did, although I didn't know then, and still don't know now if there is a lighter side to a canning, lol.

I watched him pull his arm back. I remember thinking to my self, 'this shouldn't be too bad' because he only pulled his arm away from me about a foot maybe, maybe a foot an a half. Then he torqued his wrist back, I'm guessing to give the cane a more of a whipping action as apposed to a straight on blunt action, then he told me to put my elbows on the table and look straight ahead.

Like an obedient and good Doobie I did as I was told. A split second later, I heard a slight whistle of the cane as it broke the air between it and my fanny, and then a whipping snap sound as it landed on my cheeks exactly where he promised me it would.

Almost instantaneously with the sound came the searing red hot pain/sting from the cane. My knees buckled slightly, and I had to gasp for a breath. After a few hard pants, trying to catch my breath, I was able to stand back up straight. The pain was not subsiding much either, but I was able to catch my breath only because your body does a good job at sending out endorphins and a quick shot of adrenalin to help you cope with the pain so in case you are in real danger, you can get your whits about you, think clearly, and protect yourself. It's basically the fight or flight reflex.

So, tush still on fire, stinging like mad, but able to breath normally and think clearly, Steve-o asked me how I felt, and if I wanted some more. My reply, "you had better NEVER come at me again with that thing. And hell no I don't want any more!"

Getting one swat with that cane was absolutely the worst pain I have ever felt in my whole life, and I have had two kids if that tells you anything. I had a cane mark on my fanny for about 3 or 4 days I believe, and for the first two days after the canning, the memories came flooding back each and every time I sat down.

I really really enjoy a good old fashion OTK open hand, bare butt spanking. I like it to sting, and get to the point when I need it to stop because it's getting to be too much. I like to be spanked because obviously it's a turn on. But on a psychological level, it's way deeper for me than just a sexual thing, it makes me accountable for my actions, puts me in my place, and in a sense, allows me to forgive myself for the things that I have done wrong, even if no one else knows about them but me.

That cane however did absolutely nothing for me sexually, was way too painful to even consider getting any kind of enjoyment, and on a psychological level, it scared me so much, and still does when I see one that without even knowing it, I start getting red faced, get sweaty palms, and before I even realize it, I am either backing into a corner, or backing to the exit. Not even joking. Again, it's my body's fight or flight instinct kicking in and telling me that flight is the best option in this situation.

So, after a way too long post, the most painful implement I have ever experienced, and will ever experience is the cane, or as I like to call it, "Satin's finger".

If I am on the receiving end, Just the sound of the cane flying through the air scares me shitless.

I've often wondered why some people think that a little, light-weight flexible cane isn't painful. The reason is they have never had one used on them.

The cane, next to the burdizzo (my real favorite for those who deserve it) and the sjambok used for corporal punishment in South Africa and Singapore (for spitting gum on the sidewalk--literally, among other crimes) is the most painful. If you want to up it several notches, use a cane made out of nylon!

For me it is the cane. Just the swishing noise turns me on.

How about a properly prepared bull's pizzle? Combines the concentrated impact of a proper cane with the impact of a leather implement.

Speed

When I was 15 my aunt got permission from my moher to spank me for a severe indiscretion on my part. She bent me over her leg and locked my legs with her other leg. She proceeded to give me well over 100 smacks with her wooden hairbrush on my bared bottom. My bottom literally blistered; the louder I screamed the harder she smacked me with her brush. I literally could not sit for two whole days; it was the most painful experience I ever experienced.

The Tyburn bought by my friend is made from 3mm tarred hemp. 12 strands are knotted and whipped. The strands vary in length to spread the effect of the fall. ouch

Also second is the cane; really hate it, and my partner only uses it when I've really really pissed him off so not usually that often.

Small crops are ugly implements ... The sting like hell 'cause they are thin. You'll have to be careful; they can easily rip the skin, but in proper usage they are really painful.

Indeed the cane, especially a nylon or Delrin® one, is quite brutal and probably supplies the most pain. However, pain is in the 'rear of the beholder,' as it were, and seemingly depends a great deal on the situation, circumstance and the couple involved.

Not being a masochist, I dread and avoid pain for the most part. But when I sought the services of a Contract Disciplinarian to help me break some longtime habits, I knew that pain was going to be an effective tool. Fortunately (for me!) the Mistress I found was understanding and very helpful. She had an arsenal of implements, and although her canes were at the top of the list for pure sensation, another device she used was far more controllable and very effective in accomplishing the job at-hand.

This was a wide leather paddle, about 14 inches long, with a spring-steel core. I have since seen these offered on the Internet. Used conservatively, it had a warming/stinging effect that was not totally unpleasant. But then smack that warmed, stinging flesh with 150% of the force and it sends the subject through the roof. A most effective implement when used to 'punctuate' the discussion of specific issues.

I think that of all implements used for spanking, nothing represents genuine traditional authority stronger than the traditional hairbrush. There is real history behind its authority, hard yet nurturing. The hairbrush is for applying unambiguous, no-nonsense discipline in a caring fashion. The physical weight of a hairbrush suitable for discipline gives it substance. As a threat, it will never be taken lightly. The flat wood back of the hairbrush is truly hard, and its discipline can be just that rigid and uncompromising. The brush is sturdy and compact. Its place in the home is to foster stability; when needed it will bring a problem into the most vivid focus. In most homes today, the hairbrush is associated with hair. In any home where the brush is used for spanking, any reference to the implement will steer the mind directly to spots used for sitting. A proper hairbrush spanking is, indeed, applied to the safe, sitting area of the behind, and it will leave a blazing message that will not be forgotten. The burn of the brush is something to fear, and if your behavior has been very bad, you will know you've been punished that day. At bath time, when you twist to check your bare seat in the mirror, you will know you got it with the brush that day. When you sit on that brush-marked bottom that week, you'll remember you got a spanking.

I'm not sure if it's the most painful, but a wide plastic hairbrush sure does the job. Once I get my wife over the knee, I start with the hand, and then on to the hairbrush. She sure will kick and try to get away. That hairbrush on her butt makes a wonderful pop sound. I usually just go with the hand, but for more serious offenses, her ass is sure to get the brush. I've used a wooden spoon on her too, but I like the brush the best.

I would have to say from experience a long wooden school paddle. It lands with a thud and bruises the skin puple, while leaving a deep searing red heat in the the meat of the paddled butt cheeks.

The wooden paddle with 3/8" holes hurts the most and leaves the marks longes. the hair brush, any size gives more pointed sensation

The first time I was with Don, the only dom I've ever known, he wanted me to see all of the tools he'd eventually use on me. They included different types of paddles (thin paint stick-types, wide paddles with holes in them, leather covered paddles and split leather ones, etc), floggers (wide soft leather, narrower harder leather, a 9-tail braided one without metal tips), single tail whips, 3 different crops and several kinds of canes (natural, plastic, braided covering, etc). Of course, I was scared to death the first time he put the leather cuffs on my wrists and ankles and told me to turn over - as well as trembling with excitement.

About the 4th time we were together, he warned me that this session was going to last for a long time. And it did - nearly an hour.

During that session, he told me he used every one of the things he showed me and I began to tell the difference between stingy, thuddy, sharp and other kind of pain. Even though I was eventually screaming out on each stroke, the pain was tolerable. That's when he leaned down and whispered for me to raise my ass up in the air and hold it there.

I brought my knees up slightly and raised my ass and that's when I heard a swishing sound before I felt this flash of white hot pain and couldn't help but just crumple back down onto the bed writhing and trying to get away from whatever he was using on me.

He leaned over again and whispered that for each time I didn't hold my ass up nice and high, he would start over on the count of the number of strokes he was going to give me. I raised my ass off the bed again and that's when I heard the swishing sound again - and again felt this incredible searing pain. It was really the most intense single stroke of pain I ever felt.

I remember my knees started to tremble and I had to struggle to hold my ass up and not avoid the crop. He gave me 3 more strokes of the crop before he leaned over and lightly stroked my ass told me I had been a good girl and could lower my ass back down onto the bed.

Then he released the tethers holding the cuffs on my wrists above my head and my legs spread-eagled and told me to get up on my hands and knees. His cock was bigger than average and as he penetrated me anally and pushed himself deep inside me, I could feel his pubic hair scratching my tender, torn-up ass.

Suddenly, without him touching me anywhere else I started having the most intense orgasm. He felt my ass clenched around him and he started pumping himself as deep as he could and came almost immediately, too. That was the only time I've ever come just by being stimulated anally. We collapsed on the bed and he stayed inside me until we caught our breath. When he pulled out, he told me to go to the bathroom and look at my ass in the mirror.

I couldn't believe it - it was swollen and dark purple. That's when he told me that during our session the strokes from the individual whips and floggers had just begun to merge into one big mass of dark purple and that's when he got the idea to finish off with the crop. The next day I had a lot of trouble sitting on the 2 hour flight home and had to spend most of it hanging around outside the bathroom pretending to be waiting to use it.

As a child I was always getting spankings for many different reasons. Most of the time I was ushered into my room, my hands held above my head, my pants and briefs pulled down to my ankles, and I was switched with a willow switch on my bare butt and my lower thighs. It really stung badly. The length of the time was dependent on the severity of the infraction but usually it was ten or more swats.

To me it is a long handled paddle with some holes in it. The pain is mind blowing when the spanker takes full swings!! You will not be sitting for a week!

I would have to say nothing excites me and fills me full of fear in equal measure than my daddy picking up my large wooden hairbrush that thing stings leaves me bruised red and sore for at least a week. After I have been spanked with it it hurts more than any other implement i have ever been hit with and is the only implement guaranteed to get my crying and promising to be a very good girl. It is also strangely enough the only implement that gets me reaching back with hands to protect my bottom from its blows. The last time I was spanked with that thing I felt it for 10 days after but that could be because my daddy is very very very good at getting my sit spot with it. The words fetch your hairbrush now young lady are likely to have me begging for mercy before I have been spanked so for me it is the hairbrush every time. it is very traditional and i think it has an authority no other implement has.

It really depends on how it's used (force and speed). Though I've never felt the cane, a wooden paddle with holes gets my attention best.

The most painful for me was when my gf would use a yard stick on my bare butt