Most Painful Implement

My thinking on this is that the paddle or other hard object contacts a smaller location (because the butt is curved) so the force is concentrated in one area. A strap curves with the butt and so the force is spread out. Both hurt though. I do kind of like the look of the after-strapping pictures, with the nice red band that's pretty even. Paddle shots are much more irregular.

I think a crop or a cane is much more painful than a paddle although I guess it would depend on configuration. I typically warm up with a paddle (I had a leather paddle that a member here made for me that would certainly make a bottom very red.) then use a strap or cane. Makes for a very hot bottom.

Funnstrict said

and a a bull whip in untrained hands

And that would be a major red flag, in fact, RED!

Anyone doing that should have one used on them so they know what it feels like them self.

A size 12 leather soled slipper, like the one used by my Dad, REALLY STUNG I can tell you! The wooden spoon and clothes brush used by my mum was extremely effective as well. Especially the latter!

Master Dorson said

And that would be a major red flag, in fact, RED!

Anyone doing that should have one used on them so they know what it feels like them self.

i confess, i am thoroughly out of my element here. S/M has never appealed to me... well, hand spanking has and affectionate humiliation. But generally, i do not connect with pain as a form of connection. I remember being bullied as a kid and to this day, bullying evokes an almost violent response from me.

Also, as a kid, my mom would whip me if i did something she perceived as 'wrong.' l remember one particular incident where i went off on my bike, playing. It really was an unconscious thing, i was pretty independent, even as a little kid, and she wanted me to tell her where i would be. But on my bike, i was all over the place. I got home and she was seeing red, it wasn't just correction, she was pissed. Looking back she may have been afraid for me, idk, we lived in L.A.. She took a green switch from the tree in our front yard and whipped my legs until their were welts. I have no desire to experience that from a partner, that was pretty painful.

About bullwhips: A bullwhip is capable of cutting through the skin and into the muscles below. It can cause serious injury and potential for infection. IMHO, it is foolish to submit to a bullwhip, even a well-trained whipper can make a mistake.

The bullwhip is the most painful, then a whippy cane and then a paddle made from a non-yielding material.

I recently witnessed a whipping* from a twelve foot leather bullwhip. It was intense and amazing. All that kinetic energy from the whip's length concentrated into that six inch cracker. The screams were blood curdling.

A flexible cane imparts an intense sting and can blister the skin.

A large paddle has mass going for it and imparts deep tissue trauma that hurts like a MF.

* this was a scene between two very experienced players who had a history of this type of edge play

Oak Paddle or hair brush and wooden spoon are the most painful for me right now.

My parents use a doubled over leather belt or wood paddle with holes in it both on my bare bottom and I’d have to say the paddle hurts the worst.

Which implement? Hmmmmmmm??????? For me this is a "difficult" question to answer because of some other factors. Such as, how much force is the person using when administering the spanking? Or, how sensitive is the recipients butt?

Growing up our Mom could really swat with her open hand for she played tennis and she ALWAYS spanked us on our bared butts while across her lap. Now our Dad would remove his belt, fold it in half, bend us over the back of the couch or the bed and also spank our bared butts, OUCH!!

Now …. as time has passed and experience has been obtained I am inclined to agree that a Lexan paddle is the most painful for the overall sting & intensity seems to be the highest. Lastly & of importance, if you closely observe the person's reactions while they are being spanked their responses will literally "tell you" if the spanking is too severe or clearly hurts more then the "other" one. We ALL agree that spankings must hurt to some degree to be effective. However, I truly believe that it is a profound requirement to be fair & reasonable with the recipient who is being spanked. More easily said,

"think of it as your bared butt that is receiving the spanking!"

I agree that while a strap or a flogger can be painful, the cane takes it to another level. Stay safe people.

Too inexperienced to say what the most painful impliment is, but of what i have tried the cane does the trick. Looking into buying a leather flogger

Probably the single tail whip, but I usually don't count it among spanking instruments as it can do too much damage if used wrongly. I think of it as more an instrument of sadism and cruelty. I have Been whipped by a few skillful people and suffered no damage but I did not thing of those as spankings.

Excluding the single tail I would say any of the spanking instrument can be as painful as any other depending on the skill of the person wielding the instrument. I have been spanked by about anything one could use and in the correct hands they can all hurt. The sjambok is more of a whip/cane combination and hurts like hell and maybe should be classified as a hybrid. I had aguy use one one me a while back along with multiple other things and he made a razor strap hurt more than any of the others, I think, because of his skill with it.

I would pick any of the tools of correction and say that one is the most painful depending on who was using it.

Rob

I would pick any of the tools of correction and say that one is the most painful depending on who was using it.

Rob

I agree with Rob, the most important thing is who's doing the spanking. The most painful spankings I've gotten have been with a wooden bath brush, but that's probably because I like how it feels, and angle for longer spankings. Have had spankings with a leather belt which really hurt too, but in a different kind of way - more of a sting?

Like others here, I've never been caned. I like to fantasise about a stern male headmaster caning my hand or bottom.

I've experienced a few implements that are extremely painful, Tawse was by far the worst! Left very painful and colorful reminders for days! With a very close second would be the cane! Paddles hurt like hell but floggers and straps feel wonderful even full force, It really does depend on your personal pain threshold and who is at the other end of the implement. Always play safe! 😃

Jilly;

Thanks for the follow up comment. I like you like the bath brush and tomorrow I will probably get a sizable dose of it along wit several other instruments. This a different spanker and I think he likes bath brushes and razor strops. A friend reckoned him as a stern discipliner.

Will report on it after.

Rob

I would say that the dreaded wooden paddle or plastic with holes in it is

the most painful spanking implement that I have experienced. A wooden hairbrush vigorously applied would be a close second. Denise

For me it is the switch otk 2nd the hairbrush

The razor strop. I only got it once at the hands of my uncle and grandpa, but I've never forgotten that experience. Intensely painful!

I got plenty of good old-fashioned spankings growing up--with a belt, hairbrush, and switch--but none were as bad as the one I got with the razor strop.

NESpanker I would be most curious to hear about being spanked by your grandpa and uncle... I have never had two men deliver a single spanking before.. I must admit I am intrigued if one or the other didn't think you had learned your lesson or if it was planned for both men to spank you from the start.

@Canuck_Brat Only my Uncle spanked me. The spanking took place at my Grandpa's home with my Grandpa's strap. Grandpa helped out by holding me down while my Uncle thoroughly blistered my bare butt. From talking with my cousins, I learned that this was not the first, nor last, time that these two worked as a team to discipline naughty kids.

@NESpanker I must admit Sir, I rather like the idea.... although in my mind the scenario ends with the "grandpa" giving me a few swats of the strap too...

For me least to most, slipper (plimsoll) in PE, Belt from my father, school Cane worst, or suppose most effective

I received a good dose of several instruments last week. As I suspect he liked the bath brush and really laid it on with it. I was over his knee for much of that. He the used the school type paddle with me in several positions. he gave me an unknown number with that then said I had been exceptionally bad and I had to bend over the desk for fifty. I actually bent over a pillow at the en of the bed for the fifty. The first ten were moderate and I thought this was not going to be too bad but gradually he increased the power of his swing until at 25 he was pretty much full bore and this last twenty five had me hunching that pillow as if I were making love to it.

He then switched to a double razor strap which was wide like the ones in a barber shop. I think he gave me about 80 to 100 with that thing. I don't know if it was the sheer volume of strokes or his skill with that strop but that thing hurt about as much as anything I have had applied to my hinie.

Rob

As a teen in 60's rural my friends and i got paddled switched thru high school and no one questioned it----I got paddled with just a skinny piece of wood---My worst experience by far was with a switch--We were 16 and my best friend's dad took us on a camping trip for serious disobedience he literally cut a switch and we got switched on bare butts bending over---It hurt way more than being paddled at home

Hmmm. Sounds familiar @texasheart . My brothers and I got whatever was handy too, usually the belt from dad's pants. Never had a razor strap experience, thank goodness.

I had a member here make me a stiff leather paddle. It really stung and got those cheeks to a bright red quickly. There is nothing worse than 30 or 40 with the cane though. Having to count them makes it even better. Don't miss one or it's start over.

The studded strap was the most painful thing ive ever felt.

As a child, my dad's paddle and wide belt both hurt like dickens. Comparing them is a close tie. I think the paddle might have been a bit worse: there was something about the sting of the wooden paddle that really gets to you even worse than the belt. But as a kid I never could really compare side by side, since I got the paddle and belt at different ages, however such were my memories of how it felt, and later roleplay re-enactions seem to confirm it.

But the worst of all were bare-bottom switchings from my mother. Luckily for me, spankings in our house were almost always given by Dad, and he did not use a switch, only Mom did, and Mom spanked only on rare occasions when Dad was away on a work trip and some particularly egregious misbehavior required immediate discipline that could not wait for a few days until Dad comes back. I got only a few switchings throughout the childhood, but they were very memorable and in a league by themselves.

Nothing ever compares to the anguish that a slender fresh-cut whippy switch inflicts on a naughty boy's bare bottom, and nothing penetrates a naughty boy's mind like a sharp searing sting of a switch across his bottom! I remember clearly when I or my brother were spanked with a switch by Mom, even the pitch of our yelping was very distinct and different from when we were spanked by Dad, much higher and with even more intense tone of urgency. But for all the sharp spanking pain my mom's switchings caused, they left no "damage" except, sometimes, fleeting puffy pink lines across our bottoms, which were gone soon, but no soreness of the bottom like my dad's paddlings produced.

Also, luckily, I did not have to cut a switch for myself, my mother always did, so at least I was saved from the mental agony of having to cut a switch for myself, although not from the agony of a bare-bottom switching.

Hello everyone! New to this group. Looking forward to sharing experiences. chatting and making some friends. My parents were farming people and due to the nature of their work their hands understandably became quite hardened and calloused and developed a leathery sort of quality. Consequently the spankings we received from them were no laughing matter! Mum and Dad''s hands, particularly my father's - which was really heavy as well - stung like anything. Mum was no slouch either! Bare bottom hand spankings from Mum and Dad were experiences you did not soon forget!! Also hanging from a nail in the hallway was a sturdy old wooden paddle. The burning sting that that thing could impart on a bottom, especially a bare one, was incredible. We shared a big house with another family and with the exception of my Dad, the two Mums and even my Uncle, sometimes put it to good use! To say it left an impression would be the understatement of all time!