Small Penis

I am not saying a lot of us need to join the Male Inadequacy Support Group BUT, several of the posted photo do show penis size a little shorter than average. Average being 5.5 to 6.2 inches long erect. I do not recall any showing Micropenis or less than 2.75 inches erect.

I have a small penis and some think that is the reason I developed an enema fetish during my teenage years. My small penis syndrome was clearly a factor in not being overly sexually aggressive with girls. I am sure I lost a girlfriend for not making the right move on time.

I wonder if other guys found relaxing with a good high enema to be less embarrassing than letting your date find out your on the small size.

All I have to say is that I have had men with large penises who were lousy in bed and couldn't make me cum, usually because those macho guys shot their load in a hurry and men with small penises who were wonderful lovers.

Penis size isn't everything.

Did you know that a 700 pound gorilla has a three inch penis?

I have always found the listed "average" most people tend to think of as pretty interesting. More often then not it lacking in some way, either by sheer number of subjects or its done in an area where so much of the population comes from a specific gene pool. Whats average in one area isn't really average in another. (I'd love to see some researcher do a really large scale study on this across the world, but I am not sure that would ever happen.) I've run across a good handful of "micro penises" over the last couple years. While I don't think this fits everyone, a good bit of those people really embraced who they were. It really wasn't a source of embarrassment (but I wouldn't doubt that a good portion of that could have been because of circumstances.)

I think a lot of men really tend to think size matters a lot more then it does, and I think the unusually large man tends to be just as "cursed" so to speak as the unusually small one. Granted depending on the situation sometimes there really isn't anything you can really do - but even then as all of us know there are still a lot of fun things to get pleasure out of it.

A large penis isn't everything,the guy has to make the best of what he has to please.The penis is not the only tool in his arsenal either to please her with,that's why God gave men lips, hands and a tongue.Whatever works to make her happy also makes me happy.

I wonder if other guys found relaxing with a good high enema to be less embarrassing than letting your date find out your on the small size.

Relaxing and enjoying an enema can, without question, be a sexually gratifying experience without being fraught with the concerns of rejection by another. That is the the whole aspect of self gratification, that is not limited to just enemas, it applies to just about any solo sexual activity.

There undoubtedly are those of both genders that will turn to a solo sexual activity as a compensatory offset to real or perceived personal sexual rejection. Of those that do so with enemas, I speculate that is due to their already present anal orientation and enjoyment of enemas in general. Were the same individual to not be anally oriented and enjoy enemas, it would most likely manifest in some other fashion using other 'play toys'. For me personally, I would have developed my love & enjoyment no matter what. Enema pleasure for me started when I was quite young,long before I was ever concerned about the size of my penis, all I knew then was that it made 'my thing get really hard and it feels good'.

Please forgive the coming bluntness. There are women who will not be satisfied unless they are "stuffed full" by the size of a penis that borders on being found on large animals, and there are men who are not satisfied unless the woman is "so tight you can't use a Q tip".

Obviously, by definition,those are two extremes. The important thing for me to keep in mind is that a woman who is going to be concerned about my "lack of size" is an individual that is not right for me,and to ensure that I am not one of those men who obsess about "lack of tightness" in a woman, that would make me a man who isn't right for her.

There are other factors to penile endowment that influence a partners attraction and often don't get the light they deserve...how long you stay erect,is the shaft smooth or veined & muscular, how long the ejaculations and orgasmic twitch's last, the shape of the head, the texture of the penis itself, is the pre-ejaculate a constant flow or several large crystal clear prismatic drops...to name just a few. I remember quite well several girls in high school and a number of ladies into my twenties speaking clearly and distinctly commenting positively on these and additional aspects of what they found attractive about my penis and why they wanted it. One in particular a year after graduation, from Texas who was visiting up north for two weeks, came back the following year and stayed for a month and a half. One night, I asked her what the attraction was, she replied with out any hesitation at all with genuine sincerity..."In addition to just flat out liking you, you are one of the few guy's I can take completely in my mouth without gagging, or get filled in the front or back without it hurting".... That particular statement along with others like-in-kind before and after did wonders in helping me to realize that girls and later women did indeed find my penis attractive and ultimately allowing me to be comfortable with what I have. Being smaller in some respects than others allows women and myself to do things they absolutely would not consider out of fear of physical harm with men who have a larger penis.

G.N.

I have never Measured it but I know that when soft it at best is really small and often goes almost all the way in and almost dissapears with mostly just the foreskin sticking out. When erect it still is not very big though I have not measured it. I have had it examined by several doctors but nothing has ever been done. I am not sure i would want surgery even if that were possible. I am still a virgin and have not had any sexual experiences of any kind. My most embarrassing experience regarding my penis was when I was in the hospital after having surgery and had to urinate into a container i was given. I was having a tough enough time since I was only able to use 1 hand after the surgery and there were 4 female nurses in the room for no apparent reason staring at me virtualy naked with the hospital gown pulled up trying to urinate. I don't know for sure but know of no other reason for all those nurses to be in that room at that time but to see my remarkably small penis. I was unable tourinate while they were watching and they eventualy left the room long enough for me to finish. Nothing else was going on in the room at that moment so there was no reason for them to be there. I got to believe in a busy hospital there was somebosy else who would like to have had trhe nurse helping them rather than staring at my tiny penis. I was asked if I needed help but I really did not want anybody helping me urinate though I was having a tough time urinating into that container using only one hand with the other one being in a large cast after surgery. I don't usualy care if anybody sees me naked though not many people other than doctors or nurses have. I do prefer not to have a large audience while attempting to urinate though.

I can't honestly tell you why the nurses were all in there, but I can pretty much assure you it wasn't because your penis is small, or you think it is.

We see penis' all day everyday and seeing another one no matter how big or how small isn't something we really want to see. We actually could care less.

As far as your penis being covered, or going up inside you, rest assured that this happens to probably 50 percent of all males no matter how big or how small. Not to worry, this is normal.

I too have a very small penis. I felt the way you did until my first sexual experience. I was nervous but the lady i was with didn't flinch and some ladies i have found actually like a smaller penis. Easier for oral. and as long as you make pleasing her a priority you won't find anyone complaining. And if they do find someone who like you for who you are. also lots of people don't like peeing in front of others

It isn't the inches, it is the attitude. Be who you are and what you are.

I have been blessed with a small penis all so just under six inches. Mistress is pleased with it's look's and pleased with it's performance. It's always hard. Last night during my inspection to see if I was clean in side and out Mistress pulled out a new butt plug shaped enema nozzle attached with a red rubber hose with a power pump bulb she had me bend over and inserted it in my back side. Mistress had me stand in the corner for a 1/2 hour needless to say my small penis was as hard as could be every every couple of min. Mistress would pump some air in to me keeping my small penis twitching finally Mistress let me come what a load of course I had to eat it 😳 Small penis know problem !!! LOL Bobbie joe

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I have been blessed with a small penis all so just under six inches. . . . .LOL Bobbie joe

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Six inches is NOT small. It is actually more than average in size.

Thanks, Susie, for confirming what I read. In any case, I also read that thickness is more important than length for an enjoyable experience. True?

Well, yes. A cock with some width feels yummy!

Just don't jam it in on the first thrust.

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Well, yes. A cock with some width feels yummy!

Just don't jam it in on the first thrust.

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My thoughts exactly Susie, on both accounts. Mmmmmm, I so can't wait!!!!!

I am just a barely average at 5.5" long erect and about 1.5"cir. Being a good lover does involve much more than penis size and I think "average to small" guys pay alot more attention to the total sexual experience, and are into learning to read what their gal really likes. And there are a lot of variations into what is a turn on for different women. (We all know that being on this forum!)

I got more into enemas when my wife's libido just went away after menopause. It was very hard for me to adjust, and I took a lot of comfort in my enema bag. But the more enemas I take, I find it takes more and more to get off now (age 5😎 and become satisfied, than when I was younger (40-50). It's true--getting older does suck--but it sure beats the alternative!

Sometimes.. smaller is better! I have had a guy with an uber large penis and i wasnt letting him get near my ass with that!

It's small but it's a fighter. It doen't matter anyway. Most women cum from manual or oral stimulation. Although my partner and I achieved mutual orgasms when we were younger it was in the scissors position where I could touch manually touch "the man in the sailboat" while inside her doing the old in-out, in-out.

Guys are way too obsessed with this subject. I can't honestly say I would have ever noticed the penis size in these pics. I'm not saying women don't care, but I think for the most part, we care way less than men do.

Mama always said 'tis better to be tickled to death than choked to death.

Limp penises will usually look far smaller than they really are when erect.

Also, it is said that the larger a penis looks limp, the less it grows when erect.

There are "growers" and "showers"

If size is an issue with your partner whether it is a male or female partner the issue is their issue - If you get erect, stay erect and function then you're way ahead of the game.

Only once, in my early twenties, was I with a man who was really large. He said something about having eleven inches, and I smarted off with, "Nobody has eleven inches." Later that evening he laid it up against a yardstick I had in my bedroom, and I'll be danged, he really did have eleven inches! He actually caused me soreness and discomfort.

My husband has a "retractable" model penis. When he is completely soft it will retract inside his abdomen so only the tip of the head is visible. When he is fully erect it's a full firm six inches. Think of a stallion or a bull. They are fully endowed while mating, but they don't go around dragging it in the dirt when it's not in use... it retracts up inside their sheath just like hubby's.

Hugs,

Diane

It's not the size! The motion of the ocean

I can relate to azdiane's husband, as can quite a few of the men posted in albums interestingly enough.

Having done a little reading on the subject in the wee hours this morning, I find it curious that so many guys consider a retractile penis to be undesirable, and even something to perhaps be surgically "corrected." My pilot hubby considers his to be the "upscale" model, like a retractable-gear airplane is generally higher-performance than one where the landing gear is always fixed. He says he read that about eight percent of men have that design.

While I admit it took me by surprise at first, I've come to think that if I were a guy I'd want that type. I can't even imagine how inconvenient it would be to have a tender and easily hurt sausage hanging loose down there 24/7.

Hugs,

Diane

If you dont know how to use it, it dont matter what size it is.

The magic is in the magician, not in the wand. If you know how to use it and make your partner happy size is irrelevent.

I have a very small penis, does not give much pleasure to women, quite a few have told me it was way too small for them to enjoy. I feel that is one reason I enjoy dressing and having gay and bi sex. Anyone else like me?

It is not the size of the instrument. It is the music you play on it.