What type of Medfetter are you?

I am person into BDSM who enjoys medfet. I actually came across and enjoyed the medfet side before the other kinky/bdsm side. I found kink/bdsm beucase of this website a while back, I was always interested in medfet and being a patient and as I learned stuff here I learned more about other fetishes and kinks. I soon found out I like being a sub in the BDSM world and a patient in the medfet world, they go hand and hand perfectly for me.

None of those really fit me. I like to play patient mostly. I like the nurturing and attention of medfet. Plus I enjoy the experience of being examined and examining someone else.

MedFet for me is an opportunity to explore anal fantasies. Enjoy dom or sub.

I like medfet because i love anal play/enemas. I personally prefer to get checked, I believe that every exam should involve rectal/prostate exam.

I think I mostly fall under 1.

I am into light BDSM and I am mostly sub (never hat the chance to really play the dominant part though).

I am not into humiliating stuff. Like verbal abuse and this stuff. Really a dominatrix calling me pig or make fun of me or my penis or such, or even get called 'naughty boy' just kills it for me. More than a cold shower.

Medical play however, makes you not a victim or a slave or a naughty boy - but a patient. You have to do what the doctor says, because he knows best. Yes even here you can play a bit darker (like sex-crazed scientist using you for unspeakable experiments). But for some odd reason, being called a guinee-pig doesn't disturb me that much...

Then I just love playing with toys and machines, or better being played with toys and machines.

Be patient

I want to be managed everywhere.

NG tube, ventilator, urination, drip, enema. Anal catheter, body restraint. Wheelchair

I guess I have fantasized frequently about being a real doctor who has an occupation that allows him / her to touch and view parts of the human body that are off limits to the general public. Since I never became a real doctor, the next best thing to do is to role play the fantasy.

As a patient, I have learned over the years the parts of the exam that I enjoy in real life. All too often those parts of the exam go by too quickly. As a med fet patient, I find that the "docs" I have played with tend to spend more time in those parts of the exam. As the patient, I also have opportunities to incorporate age play where I can be a boy just entering puberty and go thru the suspense of the first complete physical, the timidity and embarrassment of being naked in front of a stranger, and lastly the experience of the doctor touching me in places that excite me.

Would having a cast fetish fall in this category? I love wearing legs casts and putting them on others..

The one that suits me best is 1.

I live bdsm, particulary the D/s dimension and it is precisely the verticality of the Doctor-patient relationship that I find exciting.

My body quivers pleasure for authoritativeness, the power exercised over me, my passivity, my surrender.

I was an enema guy to start and through the site met a nurse who showed me the ropes of how to do a proper exam. I like having the control and examining all the bits. I also started with spanking and expanded my horizons with my late partner who liked a hot ass then a load of suds . It's all good for me.

4. and also would add I think a person with a disability who has received much care and examination and fantasizes it was more either out of boredom and/or coping mechanism.?. Not sure if I am saying what I mean...I will think on this...

I'd go for 4) and an option not on the list: reliving personal experiences which were turn-ons afterwards. And not something you can often experience without feeling scared or threatened.

Think im between 1 and 4 now

I'd go for 4) and an option not on the list: reliving personal experiences which were turn-ons afterwards. And not something you can often experience without feeling scared or threatened.

Im into realistic medfet, and not so much fantasy

Just wanting anonymity.

I'm definitely in the category of remembering medicals past and recreating the embarrassment and humiliation of being examined in fantasy medical roleplays

I'll treply to my earlier (2016?) post on this: I'm still no expert on BDSM. Far from it. But nowadays, I do see a "dom" aspect to a doctor making a girl wear a mask, beit for anesthesia or for protection (N95 and the like). And a see that girl as being somewhat of a "sub" for submitting willingly to it.

But, again, I am clueless on BDSM in general.

I like medfet. I don't fall in any of the above categories. I just like reading about and sharing exam experiences and this place has many people with similar interests, which makes it a fun place to be, that's why I am here.

Now in active

I know that this is an old topic, but thought that I'd chime in because I just recently was able to put a name (MedFet) to what I've been feeling.

I posted earlier about playing doctor when I was a kid - basically as the youngest cousin at family reunions, one that was shunned by older cousins, I ended up being the patient for two older female cousins who had me playing "hospital" in the basement of the old farmhouse of one of my aunts and uncles.

I never really had any anxieties about medical exams until a couple of years ago when my primary care physician retired and was replaced by a female doctor (my first female doc). It really came to a head (so to speak) in the last couple of weeks when I went for my first full body skin exam at the dermatologist. I found myself extremely anxious and nervous about the upcoming exam. After doing extensive web searches, I found this forum and finally knew that what I was feeling wasn't something that only I was going through.

So, what type of Medfetter am I? I really don't know yet as I'm just exploring how I feel about it all now that I am beginning to understand why I have been feeling the way I do.

Looking at my experiences, I guess here is a pretty rough summary:

I guess I am a medfetter who likes the helplessness of being vulnerable and at the whim of the doctor. I guess I like the vulnerability / lack of control side of it - especially the vulnerability of being in various stages of undress and being examined in detail by a fully clothed doctor or nurse - especially when there is one doing the exam and one observing. This was never really a thing when I had a male doctor, but with more and more female doctors, physician's assistants, and nurse practitioners in practice these days it has awoken that part of me - especially since many female medical providers will have a "chaperone" present during an exam on a male patient.

I am still a novice at this - and I guess it kind of makes sense when I think about that early experience of playing "hospital" with my older cousins. I know that there are a lot of people here who are into various "play" exams - and while that intrigues me, it also terrifies me! So, one step at a time.

I would fit best into two of the Medfet categories listed:

1. Person is into BDSM and enjoys that in medfet and 4. Person is a would be medic, who wants to fantasize that they are in the medical field.

From the time I first had my briefs down for a doctor at age 11 years, I have found each exam experience to be extremely embarrassing but exciting to think about afterward. The whole scene around the pants-down experience excites me to think about. I like to recall the sequence of the exam, the doctor's exact instructions, that kind of sick-to-the-stomach feeling when the briefs first go down.

"...that kind of sick-to-the-stomach feeling when the briefs first go down..."

I believe this is a central element of the MedFet experience, for either patient or examiner.

Dr. Fox

Which one is : Wants to recreate the feelings of all those old doctor's office visits of years past? That's me.

Which one is : Wants to recreate the feelings of all those old doctor's office visits of years past? That's me.

Me as well. My role play exams as the patient are administered to recreate exams I have had earlier in life. My examiners work from a number of scripts I created based on old exams. I published a few of these as blog pages if anyone is interested.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=member;ox=contrib-blog-pages;u=44155

"...that kind of sick-to-the-stomach feeling when the briefs first go down..."

I believe this is a central element of the MedFet experience, for either patient or examiner.

Dr. Fox

Absolutely! As I lie back for the abdominal exam, both the doctor and I know the big moment is getting close. Auscultation of the abdomen, then palpation of the abdomen and that queasy feeling begins and intensifies. The doctor moves from his position to get the gloves as I become almost overwhelmed with terror that it is about to happen. Then I hear the dreaded words “step down off the table and stand right here facing me.” Once I am in position he says “let’s go ahead and slip those shorts down for me” and it happens. The grand reveal!

For me it's to relive a role play exam I experienced many years ago which piqued my interest.

My Medfet does stem from a school exam , where the guy in front of me had his pants removed and all I could see was his back, bottom and the doctor crouched down in front of him doing something to him . That’s just such a powerful image . You obey doctors unquestioningly . The other part is of course that nakedness was not encouraged when I was brought up . While others write of seeing brothers etc naked my family was never like that. So it made nakedness a bit of a taboo . So. Seeing someone naked and being examined was a completely different experience, which is where I get my play doctor tendencies from . I think it’s a natural extension to bdsm . Helpless guy tied, doing things to him.

Me too, friscokaty and examdoc. Number 4 I guess.

I guess there are many more reasons why a fetish is started. Mine started because of experiences at the doc’s and during home exams and spankings. So I guess 6 would being hooked because of knowing to like it although it was embarrassing and often hurtful.

A number 4 I guess, but like to be examined too