Would you be embarrassed if?

Embarrassed at first, but I'd go ahead and tell them.

since I wear diapers and plastic pants all the time, I have always wonder if my wife has said anything to her friends or sisters. I knew one of her friends years ago knew and she would often smack me on the ass as she passed. I always loved it.

There was a time when I would have run a mile but now I would be relieved it was out in the open. Most of my friends and family know I am incontinent and wear nappies but no one mentions it.

I've in diapers 12yrs + so if they ask would just tell them due to being a diabetic wet the bed and myself.The diapers have become my under ware my wife insists to keep her and bed and things dry.

Probably not embarrassed. Right now the idea of being discovered is making me quite aroused. I think I would ask for open frank discussion with the girls and perhaps put them on the spot too. Ask them if they would like to try nappies too?

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I think it would be an enjoyable conversation. I'm at an age where many of my lady friends are using some kind of protective underwear and it would be interesting to share experiences.

No..... I be passed out by the shock of being asked....when I recovered I'd have to excuse myself for a diaper change...lol...

Ya- you have to wonder sometimes just how much discretion is in the household. Besides my wife probably confiding in some of her friends, we have had several cleaning ladys over the years that have laundered my plastic pants and periodic wet beds when the diapers leak.

Yes i would be embarrassed. But once over the shock i would ask them if they wanted to change my nappies and treat me like a baby

In earlier days, yes, when my intense desire for reliving the diaper experience of earliest childhood was a closely guarded personal secret and I never imagined my peculiar fetish was actually shared by another human. That all changed overnight when diagnosed with prostate cancer in late '00 and in learning of my upcoming post-surgical need to wear diapers 24/7. Cancer does have an upside for anyone who can accept the inevitable facts of life and find the good in things. Back in '85, I'd become aware that my enjoyment for diapers was, indeed, common to others upon my discovery of sexual fantasy ads placed in certain publications that led to membership in DPF, but it remained my darkest secret (aside from a similar love of enemas) outside a closed group. Once my medical need was established, the ice was fully broken and I quickly let family and friends know about it. Since that time to the present, I will happily discuss the subject of adult diapers with anyone with a curiosity or interest.

Everyone in my life knows about my IC , he'll my own mom asked me for a good diaper rec when she needed them towards the end of her life. Most of them have stood in for my aide at one point or another when I needed changed but i couldn't do it ,I can honestly say I would be more embarrassed if they acted all diaper virgin / uninformed then if they asked my favorite diaper .

I would be so humiliated and disappointed over the lack of discretion shown by my wife to let this "cat" out of the bag. While i am not ashamed of it, I think privacy and trust is the keystone of any relationship.

I would answer the question with, "It Depends!".

I would be shocked, but humbly answer yes i wear cloth diapers made up with jockey shorts and towel. As my wife would probable be telling me, for all the rest to hear, Tell the truth, unless you want a spanking in front of all of them!

I don't wear diapers, but in an overall sense I would be greatly disappointed if my wife chose to reveal anything that personal to a group of friends; especially with me right there. That would be completely uncalled for.

I dont know what she says or doesn't say to her female coworkers when they go out for drinks after work. But I wouldn't be as bothered by that since we don't do anything with them socially as a couple.

I would be so mortified I would probably wet my pants and start sucking my thumb.

Well, it wasn't my wife's friends but something like this did happen. We always used to have a gang over for New Years when the kids were still at home. I was in the kitchen cooking up all sorts of snacks for the evening. My kids and most of their friends where in there too. All very lively and loud as kids are. AS all this was going on, one of the girls walked up and rather loudly asked if she could have a diaper to wear for the night. WHAT???? She repeated that she wanted one of my diapers to wear so she could be the New Years baby. I stammered out that no, we don't have diapers.... YES YOU DO she came back. We know you have diapers. I kinda went numb and deaf. Everything sort of blurred. I said something again about not having any. She was rather put off by this and wanted to press the subject, but I think he saw I was going to pass out. The chatter in the room never stopped and although everybody heard the discussion the party just kept on going.

So, in a word yes. If it were adults that brought up the subject I'd likely have a heart attack. Embarrasment would be too inadequate a word to what I'd be going thru. I smile about that experience now though. But I wouldn't want to go thru it again....

I had a similar situation about 15 years ago. My kid (about 8-9 at the time) had one of his friends over here, they were running through the house raising hell as young boys often do. They ended up in the guest room wrestling on the bed.

At this time, the guest room was typically where I always went to put on my diapers, change them, lay there getting off in them, etc. It had a big double bed which I'd cover with towels or a blanket so I didn't get the bed wet, but when my 'fun' was over with I always packed up all of my 'stuff' and hid it back in my closet. Or so I thought!

While they were in there horsing around I heard his friend start howling with laughter and looked down the hall to see him standing there in the guest room holding up a pair of my Lollidots plastic pants (clear with little blue / pink / white dots all over them). Somehow when putting away my baby clothes I'd missed them and left them under one of the pillows, or somewhere.

The friend was asking "HA HA HA! WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE THESE?" I thought I was going to die! I had no idea what to do so I just grabbed them from him and told both of them "You're both TOO LOUD! GO OUTSIDE!" They did. I quickly put my plastic pants away. Neither of them ever brought this up again so I assume they both forgot about what happened.

If your kids are anything like mine, you can forget about them forgetting. lol. They probably know EVERYTHING about your stash. My kids are older now and occasionally they'll make a quick remark that freaks me out about what they know. Life goes on though and our relationships are really close. So I doubt they were damaged by the knowledge. ( mine didn't go blind when they found my stuff anyways) LOL

You may be right. When I remember what a nosy little bastard I used to be--going through my parents' stuff when they weren't at home--well, if mine were at all like that then they probably have seen it all. But they still may not know if I need it or just do it for fun. Either way, they've never said a word about it so, if they do know, they must respect the fact that it's my business.

I would be embarrassed. But since they know i would be truthful and tell them anything they wanted to know.

RobbyBayB ME TOO! ( sucking my thumb & wetting my diaper)!

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Not sure I'd want my male friends to know about this, but if it was a group of my wife's friends and / or female coworkers who did this, it would be a fantasy come true!

ME TOO! Also, during a diaper change, being spanked by them as other women were holding me FIRMLY in place for long & hard paddling, then with my head in one of their laps feeding me my baby bottle!

I wouldn't be embarrassed one little bit. But, I would correct them with a bold faced lie. I'd say something to the effect that: Yes, I do wear diapers and have for a long time. That's one of the possible consequences of losing your prostate to cancer. Another consequence is never again getting an erection which has been my case, too. Knowing that, do you still think I wear diapers for fun and sex?" The only lie in there is that I lead them to the conclusion I'm incontinent - which I am not.

I’m not into diapers but love to wear panties. I’d be excited if my wife or girlfriend let her girlfriends know about my fetish, especially if they wanted to see in person. A kind of CFNM come true.

Sorry if my post above was too far off topic.

Is embarrassing still but I' like itt that way

Back when my wife and first started living together, we both wanted a normal social life with friends we could visit, or invite them over, or go out with for dinner, shopping and such stuff. She understood how important my diapered life style was, but insisted I didn't need to hide it from our friends and we agreed to let our closest friends know. The first time, we invited her closest girlfriend from college over and after a glass or two of wine, my not yet wife told her friend, in front of me, that her boyfriend, me, had something important to tell her and then proceed to pat my diapered covered bottom and told me “go ahead hunny, tell Anna what you did.” I felt so embarrassed and small, but sheepishly told Anna, “I wet my diapers while we were talking and drinking our wine." My wife then admonished me and told me “now hunny, tell her why you wear diapers at your age, and tell her the truth, that you like to be diapered and go potty in them, but you have no medical excuse. You're just a diaper lover.” Reluctantly, I did what my wife told me to do, and told Anna “I know its weird and silly, even childish, but I have had a diaper fetish since I was a teen and now I wear my diapers and rubber pants almost all the time.” Anna started to laugh hysterically, looked at me and said “you're kidding, I don't believe it. Show me.” So my wife dropped my pants, revealing my pink plastic pants, pink cloth prefolds held with pink ducky head pins and said to Anna, now you know what a naughty boy Mikey is, and look how wet he is. I'm going to change him, would you like to watch."

I would, literally, freeeeeze like a deer in headlights, leaving me completely speechless. Nervously, I would try to, somehow, defuse the situation, and unless they really pushed it, I would find it very tough to answer their diaper preference question.

However, if this group of ladies did push me for an answer, I might actually give in and tell them. Plastic tapes “Simplicity Diapers”. They are not exactly high quality. They are more plastic tapes ultra thin Pampers style, but, fit me really well, since, I am a 31” waist, right in between, smalls and mediums. They fit me extremely well.

I would have to, eventually, come clean and admit this to these ladies, but, only if they, confidently, as a group, pushed me to answer.

Then I’d worry about afterwards. When they approach their men and let them know what diapers I normally am in. Yeah, just great. Perfect.