Can an enema giver refuse to be an enema receiver?

As teenagers when my brother, sister, an I gave each other enemas, it was a given, the giver would become the receiver. The same was true with my girlfriend and I. The only time the giver didn’t become the receiver that I was involved in, was with my girlfriends younger sister. My girlfriend an I had forgotten to lock the bathroom door one afternoon at her house, while swapping enemas, when she walked in on us. My girlfriend allowed me to give her younger sister enemas, but wouldn’t allow her younger sister to give me enemas.

Communication is key.

My wife absolutely hates to receive. But she gives me enemas better than anyone ever has… because she and I actually sat down and had a discussion, fully clothed at the dinner table.

She told me that she enjoyed giving me enemas because of the way I react (it gets really intense when I get enemas… like I once actually blacked out with pleasure for a second).

But she told me she never wanted to receive unless it is for a medical reason. FYI, a headache is not a medical reason… no matter how much you try and sell it. :-)

Have chats outside of the play area and be prepared to hear something you did not expect. Honestly prevails.

Happy enemas! Jeff

Fortunately, my wife loved to give and receive. She would get a devious look on her facenozzle as she inserted the nozzel. Sometimes she would pull it out just so she could insert it again. She also loved to wring the bag just before it was empty to give me an extra little kick.

To answer the OP. Of course someone could enjoy giving enemas and not wanting to recieve one. Same with spankings and of any BDSM activities. Lots of members here (and at least a couple of well known moderators) love to give enemas but not to receive them. Their choice is same as our own

Given the opportunity. I’d be a giver to a female. Love exposing rosebuds😀

When it came to enema play with my male partners, I was the reverse of this - I loved to received but would never give. With women, both giving and getting was always pleasureble.

Personally how can you dish it out if you can’t take it.

How is this complicated? It's whatever you and your partner decide to do. There are no rules.

I do think having recieved at least a few basic enemas makes you better at giving an enema.

That being said, ofc not, you do what you and your partner agree on, doing something you don't want to, isn't an option.