A Surprise Yesterday

Lady Di, I can understand what you are feeling. My wife is 24 years older than I am. I am very sexual and she used to be. Couldn't keep our hands off each other for several years (we have been together almost 15 years) Now she is sexually dead...Enemas? No way no how. I am sure most of the problem for me is that she physically is in bad shape. She takes over 9 meds everyday. She knows that it is a problem but still doesn't try to do anything about it. Now here I am with a raging erection when the wind blows because of doing without. I don't have the words for you but I think what WCR said is pretty close to what needs to happen. I know that if my gal said she would get satisfaction elsewhere then I would be taking a long hard look at what is going on. Best wishes to you in this journey Darlin.

Johnny,

That was a beautiful post and wonderful advice. As my husband and I get older I know that this is bound to happen. But I will always be in love with him, no matter what. Sex starts in the mind then works it way down to the lower parts. The history and love that we have as a couple is what matters most. It sounds like you have a beautiful relationship with your wife.

Lilady ;0)

Lady Di,

I will back you up on this one. You are right on target. I have been married for 30+ years and I have to say that it is not so much the act as much as it is the intimate time that we spend together and sharing each others bodies and pleasuring each other in ways other than the actual sex act.

Lilady ;0)

Eleutheros, have you read the Canitcle of Canticles? (Song of Solomon/ Canticum canticorum) Wonderful piece of erotica in the Old Testament.

And, good post, by the way.

Lady Di;I believe your husbands lack of sexual interest could be physical performance issue and he is ashame to admit it,because he does'nt want to hurt your feelings. He should see a doctor for a check up,it might be something that can be treated.My wife is 16yrs younger than I am,she has no interest in sex at all at age 57,she takes several medicatins for Parkinson disease,so now I live with that because I know what the problem is.Good luck.Lethe good times flow.w/m72yrs/Western Ma

Twobagger, it is a shame about your wife's disease!

As they say, getting older is not for sissies!

I hope that you two are the great companions that you

each probably deserve!

Health and happines to you and your wife!

All men hope this can happen, atleast I do.

There are certain things my wife doesn't like to do and the same for me. My wife and I respect each other and would never do anything the other doesn't want to do.Usually, I go to bed before she does and once in a while she would fix a bag of soapy water and wake me up and tells me it's time for my enemas. she leads me by the hand and to the bathroom we go. Not only is the enema bag hanging but there are candles lit and wow it is the beginning of a great night.After 2 or 3 enemas we go back to bed and have wonderful sex.