Do you prefer faster or slower enema solution flow rate?

Depends on the situation

The first one I like to have it fast, It’s only purpose is a clean out. After that I like long slow fill I like to call a soaker. Let my body feel what I have put in it. Rather peppermint or something else.

Definitely slow

Both, it depends on the mood of my colon. I always start out slowly and increase the speed, it also depends on the nozzle I’m using. Sometimes I’ll do the entire enema slowly, other times I’ll increase the speed to full flow, especially when I’m in the knee chest position.

I love Emom’s description (395), because giving myself an enema admittedly has been a “time away“ when I gave myself permission to savor the sensations of doing a slow cleanse that I needed medically — and which often gave me an emotional lift as well.

I love giving a slow, relaxing and filling enema. Taking the time for as large a filling my partner can take and hold for as long as possible to give a good cleansing. Constantly softly talking to them, giving encouragement while gently rubbing their belly to aid in the admission.

Definitely slower, nice relaxing fill with coffee, salt and baking soda. Sometimes adding a little wine 🍷, so nice to feel the warm filling. Be safe and chaotic upcoming holidays. Cold weather is coming, best to take warm enemas to stay warm :-)

Slow is nice but sometimes faster is fun too. The “flume zoom” of a wine enema is quite a rush.❤

Fast for first one then lube nozzle with Vicks and slowly take peppermint soap in. Mmmm

After some thought I realized with an in-line pump, I get them at auto-marine supply stores, I’ve the best of both😍I start with 8-16 squeezes then no pumping for a slow enema🤪But when I want fast, I do 32 pumps then 32 and finish with another 32 squeezes😈Green tea, coffee and wine pumped fast gives me awesome body rushes leading to my very “happy ending”🤩

I usually go as fast as the 2 quart bag will flow... wide open. But I pinch it off if I start to cramp. I prefer to enjoy the feeling of the warm water percolating up into me.

If I am adding warm beer ow wine to the bag I usually go slower as it cramps more.

When it comes to flow rate, it really depends on what the purpose of the enema(s) is and my mood, as well as the mood of my bowels and, how my partner gives me my enema(s) or if I’m solo; how much time I/we have available to indulge is also a factor. Generally speaking, and if time is not an issue, I prefer having may partner alternate between very slow and relatively fast flow, depending on how my body reacts to the solution. Starting slowly and gently after a very thorough anal massage and play with lots of lube definitely helps prepare the area to take a medium sized retention nozzle (such as this: https://siliconenozzles.com/products/of-2?variant=45786218397994) very easily and the whole thing has me both extremely aroused and relaxed at the same time, which is perfect to get lost in the joys of a large, hot and soapy enema. My partner can read my body language very well and instinctively knows when I’m ready to take my enema faster or I need him to slow down and breathe through a cramp or readjust my position etc. and we make a point to talk to each other during the entire session (my moaning also helps 😉, as does a very attentive partner, of course), especially if it’s the first of a series or if my GI tract has been bothering me or I’m tense for some other reason. I’m impatient and my brain craves the enema to be fast, but my partner has introduced me to the glorious world of being filled slowly with the odd burst of the clamp being wide open, followed by a few seconds of no flow at all and paired with a back or cheek massage and a little belly rubbing. It is phenomenal and it beats a very fast flow rate any day. Personally, I really enjoy letting my partner decide how to combine the different flow rates and surprise me with unexpected changes and various forms of stimulation, either through the aforementioned massages or by playing with the nozzle as I let the hot solution fill my bowels and just enjoy feeling everything and enjoy the emotional, physical and sexual connection that accompanies the actual enema. A good, hard spanking just before starting the enema and a slightly lighter version while I am taking it or holding it are both delicious, and can make the moments of slower filling or the retention easier and even more arousing. As I previously mentioned, I need a relatively thick nozzle in order to relax my bowels and allow the solution in (regardless of how fast or slow it is), but I believe that it’s a matter of preference (I just can’t relax if I worry that it will slip out or if I have to focus too much on holding it in).

When I am solo I try and replicate the enemas my partner gives me, without ever being able to reach the same level of pleasure and bliss that I achieve thanks to him. There’s just no comparison -but I make do during the times when we are apart, and it makes our play time even more special.

Hope I answered your question!

Play safe,

B x

It usually takes about 15 minutes for me to finish 4 qt enema. Empty that and wait about 30 minutes and fill up again. May have a rinse after that. Depends on how clear it is.

I’m pumping 2 1/2 qts of very warm water, J&J and 30ml of liquid glycerin with my marine clyso for my first enema right now. I only stopped at 1qt then 2 qts and for the last 16oz😈I wanted a fast fill and my SNC buttplug nozzle will let me ride the waves of enema pleasure😍After expelling, a 3qt rinse with water and sea salt just went in fast🤪I’ll follow a with green tea 2 qt enema with a long retention for my “happy ending”😈

It’s all relative, fast or slow, so we each probably have a different opinion of what is fast or slow. What works best for me, is the clamp opened to the second notch, which flows my two quart bag in about four minutes. If I have previously emptied my rectum I can take my usual one quart of coffee at 103-105F in one and one half minutes.

It depends on why I am taking it. Sometimes I like to have a slower enema.

There is something to be said about not rushing the intimate time spent together, the distractions that are provided by your SO are a welcome part of being taken care of.

Speaking for ourselves, we both seemed to do better by beginning at a very slow rate for the first enema of a day. I believe there is a natural tendency for the valve action at the juncture of the colon and rectum to prevent a reverse flow from the rectum back into the colon. There are sensory nerves in the walls of the rectum that detect when it is stretching from normal faces accumulation and that is the trigger mechanism that tells you to go to the toilet. It seems logical then that a pint of solution quickly introduced is going to be responsible for triggering a strong sensation to defecate, and also to prevent the enema from going up into the colon. Our method then was to slow the first pint of solution, maybe ten minutes for that, to avoid triggering that reflex, after that you could quickly introduce the next quart or more and it easily moved higher into the colon.

Subsequent enemas were easy at high flow rates from the start and were easily tolerated for the rest of that day or maybe even out 24 hours.

Still have to go back to the first observation, why rush an intimate time, there are lots of possibilities.

If intimacy's are not a factor like with illness or what ever then let the need establish the speed. The aspect that I like more than anything is for there to at all times be more solution so every few minutes another 25ml is given. We normally had two bags filled, maybe not fully, for the act of finishing one and another one starting seemed more enjoyable.

There are lots of comments about the techniques to achieve a slow flow rate, foremost on our minds was not allowing the reverse flow which is difficult from cramps and more so from an orgasm. The newer equipment is often fitted with a check valve that prevents that, this opens a new method to introduce the enema to your SO, that is to open the clamps fully and just pick up the bag for a few seconds or more and lay it back down for a pause.

Depends on the situation

I hang my bag on the door handle and open the flap completely. I don't know how fast or slow it is.

@Mike_E said,

There is something to be said about not rushing the intimate time spent together, the distractions that are provided by your SO are a welcome part of being taken care of.

When I was a teenager, my girlfriend and I started swapping enemas when we were fourteen for cramps during her period. Having found out from my sister, that we swapped enemas with one another for various reasons, and one of them being period cramps. She approached me about swapping enemas with her, starting something that lasted until we finished High School. In the beginning, I gave her enemas to help relieve period cramps, and she gave me enemas for my constipation issues. Because I didn't like using the bathroom at school and waited until I got home. Something, my sister conveniently informed my girlfriend about, when she told her why we swapped enemas. Over time, our monthly enema swapping for her period cramps or my constipation issues, became something other than the original intent. They were becoming more and more intimate, and less and less about our health issues. We found ourselves purposely doing everything we could to please one another, trying to make the feelings last as long as possible. Like running the enema slow, while using a long-curved douche nozzle moving slowly back and forth with a little twist. And I can’t begin to describe what it felt like for both of us.

I much prefer slow enemas. Fast ones just irritate my colon and force evacuation almost immediately. Also, slow enemas extend the time that I am receiving the enema which I like, especially the feeling of the nozzle in my backside and the relaxing nature of the experience. In making love to a partner I am a "slow hand." I like my enemas slow as well.

It all depends upon what the lady needs and desires. Sometimes a fast flow for a quick rinse is the plan. At other times a slow and sensual experience becomes the main event in and of itself. The slow spreading warmth can be a nice addition to other explorations. Or, with the tiny bulb the experience lasts even while the brief bursts are quick. Enjoy what turns you on and brings pleasure.

An enema afficianado for years, I used to hang the four-quart bag about five feet above my anus and just open the valve completely, letting it fill me until I heard the final telltale gurgle. While challenging some days, it typically led to effective clean outs. I would repeat the operation several times per session. IN the past year (and probably a bit of mellowing with age) I've lowered the first bag and let it fill me more slowly, also retaining it longer. This seems to be more effective in cleaning me out. Then, I hang the four-quart bag high and take several additional enemas. I also used to almost exclusively take enemas on my knees with my chest to the floor. Now, I take the first one or more bags on my left side and/or back. Once well cleaned and relaxed I revert to the more subservient (and sometimes harder to keep tidy) knee-chest position. I still administer my four-quart enema in under four minutes in total, even with the slower fill up.

As I had said on an earlier post, I love taking enemas slowly so I can fully enjoy the warmth of the enema as it goes in and feel the sensations as my partner moves the colon tube back and forth across my prostate; however, there is one exception - getting an M&M enema. This kind of enema results in a powerful cleanse when taken quickly!

Here are the steps I follow to get an effective M&M enema: First, I watch my partner warm the goat's milk and blackstrap molasses mixture to slightly below the boiling point, pour about 1 liter of the mixture into a disposable enema bag, and hang the bag at least 5 feet above the floor. Next, I listen to her instruct me to lie on the floor below bag completely naked, on my back with knees bent and legs spread so that I see the bag full of the black solution hanging above and she gets clear access to my anus. I listen to her describe how she will be releasing the enema into me quickly so it flows deep into my bowels once the temperature cools down to about 100 degrees. If she notices that I have an erection she will smile and tell me this enema will make my erection disappear. When the enema temperature is close to being ready, I will feel her finger gently lubricate my anus, insert a rectal tube, and inflate the interior balloon of the tube so it will create a firm seal against my anus. Finally, she will bind my hands over my head, smile, and say "are you ready?" At this point there is no way I can change my mind. When I say I'm ready, I'll hear the infamous "click" and in less than 30 seconds the bag will be empty and I will begin to feel powerful cramps. As the cramps intensify I will plead with my partner to deflate the interior balloon, pull the tube out and let me rush to a nearby toilet.

@jofesig That sounds absolutely incredible!

Looks like I start almost all my posts with "it depends"....as with everything else we all take pleasure in different way. Personally I like to do quick ones if the time is limited and you want the playground ready. If you are planning a leisurely, lazy, pleasurable one, by all means start with a quick cleaning and rinse, but then do you filling slowly, taking in as much as you want. taking it slow also allows you to retain lot longer...remember, quality always before quantity.....

I use two clamps, a vintage metal that produces a loud SNAP, plus a graduated clamp so I can control the flow. It feels nice to open both clamps fully for the first few seconds, enjoying the rush of the warmth. Otherwise, I am slow and gentle when I’m giving myself an enema so I can retain the solution easier. The same for when I’ve given to my husband and daughters.

The first time a nurse gave me a warm water enema, I was terribly backed up from taking pain meds. I remember her telling me that she was going to make me uncomfortable, but the enema was going to “work its magic” and I would feel much better afterwards. She was absolutely right.

Fast. With the 4 qt bag hung from the shower curtain rod I insert the nozzle and get on my knees with my head down and my ass up and open the clap about halfway. As soon as I think my colon will accept it, I open the clamp all the way and let the enema have its way. When cramps hit I will slow the flow to a trickle, as indicated by the spinning wheel flow indicator, but very rarely stop it entirely. When the cramps subside the flow is restored to as fast as I can tolerate.

There can be no unambiguous answer. This is from my personal experience. A lot depends on the mood. Let me put it this way. It is clear that there is a moment of excitement, but, a large volume (say more than 2 liters) is quite difficult to take quickly. Fast flow will increase the risk of spasm. Which will lead to pain and the procedure will have to be postponed or stopped.

But, at the same time, if the person taking the enema is not new to this issue, the rest of the water in the bag can take a little faster and accordingly it will be necessary to raise the bag higher. I speak from years of experience in giving enemas to my husband.

Personally, I prefer small volumes on a slow flow. Although I am not a fan of the procedures.

A lot depends on what one's goals are. If you want to cleanse the intestines, of course a fast flow is out of the question. Yes, and let's not forget about the temperature of the liquid itself. The cooler the better (subjectively).

Elena expressed her opinion. Thank you all.

I like my first enema to be slow and the water hot. Love the slow flow and the feel of the hot water spreading into me.

The 2nd enema I like fast. A very soapy 3H enema gives me the pain and pleasure that I like.

The last enema is cool water with salt using a Higginson syringe. Letting the water in slow and alternating with a hard fast squeeze of the pump. My erection gets rock hard and I cum from putting the nozzle right on my prostate and asqueeze of the bulb. Feels so good!