Lubricated finger inserted before enema?

I never remember mom ever putting a finger in me or even on me before I got an enema. I think she just lubed the nozzle as was taught in Enema administration 101 in the nursing handbook. She had a headboard with all her nursing manuals and one of them had a section about giving enemas and had a doctor spreading a ladies cheeks and administering. These old books had to be from the forties and older and made me hard as a rock in my early teens. I never fail to use my finger though, it is just too much fun.

YES !! Was always one of my secret pleasures.

And now, as a certified colon therapist, it's the right thing to do for any rigid object insertion.

The lubed finger makes sure all of the involved surfaces are lubed gently before the nozzle gets there, not after.

Also, you want to know you're not trying to insert right into a "blockage', and note any difference in angles of insertion, anal sphincters condition, person's reaction to something being put there.

A finger is "educated" and tells the enema giver a lot, besides getting the receiver prepped for insertion

Enematically

Steve

CCI

I well remember mother pushing a vaselined finger deep into me, before she pushed the lump of soap up into me.

Im well aware of better lubes these days, but it was about all there was back then, and i like it now for the sexual aspect of using it, and even the word vaseline i find a turn on.

I actually prefer Vaseline for enema nozzles and fingers because it doesn't evaporate like the water based lubes but I use them for toys. I like the word Vaseline myself and like a jar perched by the bedside for visual effects

I do not remember my mother putting her finger in first. She just shoved in the vaseline lubricated nozzle and opened the clamp.

hankb

My mom never lubed my butthole with her finger. She just greased up the nozzle of the bulb syringe with Vaseline, shoved it up my ass and got down to business.

There is nothing better than circling the browneye with a finger and then letting it slowly penetrate into her depths. I love the feeling of her bung gripping me tightly. Very Hot.

YUUUUUUCK!!!

Maybe it's because I never had a Mom and Dad had to fill the role, but I have trouble imagining that!

If I needed lubrication, I was handed the nozzle, and the tube of Generic, Wal-Mart brand KY Jelly and essentially told how much to put on the nozzle. Once it was on, and the nozzle was in, I was then given a damp wash cloth to clean my fingers.

LisaK said

YUUUUUUCK!!!

Why is it YUUUUUUCK!!!

Is a visit to the gynecologist YUUUUUUCK!!!

It's the same thing.

Mom always lubed me by getting a glob of Vaseline on her finger and inserting it into my anus, She would move it around to be sure I was thoroughly lubed before inserting the nozzle. When my enemas were given by an older sister, the two that did not like enemas would only lube the nozzle; Lisa, who was anally erotic (like me) lubed me just like Mom, but usually spent a lot more time doing it.

My mom started giving me enemas at age four with a bulb syringe, and she always first massaged my anus slowly with Vaseline. She would then slowly insert a lubricated finger into my anus and move it around to make sure it was loosened up prior to putting the lubricated nozzle in my anus. I found that to be very relaxing. Over time as I got older, she began to use larger bulbs that had longer and thicker nozzles. She would continue to do what she did previously, and sometimes at the end of the repeated insertions of the nozzle my anus would feel uncomfortable. She then would again massage my anus slowly with Vaseline which took away the discomfort. This practice was followed by my aunt as well as a woman friend of my mother who gave me enemas when I turned age ten and occasionally had an erection during the enema. They would just ignore the erection and slowly give me the enema which made me over time stop being embarrassed when I had an erection which became more frequent as I entered my teen years. I now have an enema once per week and occasionally have colon hydrotherapy. I am healthier because of enemas and colon hydrotherapy.

No. I never had a finger put in me first. It was just a well vaselined nozzle and the order to come closer and get over her knees. I too enjoyed the sensations of the enema, and the whole naked in front of my mom. Now I too go solo.

Mom was one of the best RNs on the planet. Yes, on the rare enema I got from her, she lubed me with a rubber gloved finger and then slid in my enema nozzle. Very smooth and professional but also pleasant and unbeknownst to mom, erotic for me. The rest is history. Thanks, mom.

Eric

Yes. Vaseline® was used.

For me, when with a partner, it's both before and after. When soloing, it's usually before only, and not full insertion, which requires more contorting than I can comfortably do at this stage in life. The practical benefit of a well-lubricated rectum is obvious when anything is to be inserted. The erotic pleasure derived depends on the individual. Personally, I find a deep, persistent, bare-finger anal massage pleasurable in the extreme. I should add, when the massage is given by a person with fairly slender, well-manicured middle finger. It's so incredibly intimate! Of the three enema partners I've been lucky enough to have -- ex-wife, lady friend, and man of similar taste -- all have obliged me with "prostate massage", including while I was retaining an enema they had just given me! My ex-wife would compound the pleasure with constant eye contact, gently wiggling and working her finger and being incessantly verbal. She'd calmly "interrogate" me with questions like, "You know why I'm doing this, don't you? To make the point that I can invade your most private place any time I want", and "What did Mama have to give you for being naughty and disobedient? You know the answer -- begins with an "e". Those wonderful sessions pegged my lust meter, and thinking about them still does. A unique kind of erotic experience, thoughts of which never get old!

I love it when the giver inserts a finger before and after an enema. A nice prodding in and out before the nozzle, then at least two quarts of liquid. Then a finger or slender toy after the enema is given, gently probing my prostate gives me the best O's. We do our enemas for health reasons, but a little happy ending never hurt anyone!

Before giving enemas or Colon Hydro Therapy (colonic) I will always give the patient a rectal exam. It is to feel if there are any issues within the rectum where the nozzle will be inserted and for no surprises. All patients know it is going to happen and I tell them so they are not surprised and when you explain why you do the rectal exam with a lubed finger they all understand.

Always, routine practice for giving or receiving. Very pleasant, soothing and exciting.

Eric

Yep every time, i don't want to hurt you she would say. She would feel around i think how constipated i was and if a was.

I have had colonics from a half dozen providers. One, in San Diego, did a rectal exam first and clearly enjoyed it. A second, in Ft Lauderdale had a great technique. She would lift your upper cheek with one hand and then quickly and discretely slip a finger in followed immediately by the speculum. You almost could not tell it was the finger first and then the speculum but it made for a very easy insertion, The others just shoved the lubricated speculum in. The Ft Lauderdale lady's technique was the best making for a very easy insertion. I wish I had a video of how she did it because it seemed like she needed 3 hands to do it.

I didn't receive many enemas but I was given countless suppositories. Those suppositories would always be preceded by what in my home was called a load check. First I would have my tummy felt, prodded and poked to see if lumps of withheld poop could be felt inside then I would be laid down over someones lap in the diaper change position and have my pants and undies pulled down (or up actually as I was laying upside down!). A well greased up finger would then be inserted deep inside me and moved in and out and round and round to 'break up the nasty poo'. I used to scream and cry and kick try to get away as I hated having my bottom invaded. Of course that was all to no avail, it was along and arduous process and I was staying there until it was completed. Eventually a suppository would be inserted and held in place by that same finger and I would have to maintain my diaper change position until ready to expel. Hated then but oh so evocative now!

As a child getting an enema from either mom or grandma, they just lubed the nozzle. When giving to myself, I always insert a lubed finger before. And when I could entice my husband into giving me one I insisted he lube me with his finger. Isn't that a big part of the fun?

When I received enemas as a child, mom would always lubricate the nozzle and my butt. I always do too, whether it's solo or giving to my wife.

I still do it every time. Even though the nozzle is coated with lube, I use my finger to prepare the anus for the nozzle entry and to make it as smooth as possible. It also feels real good which is a great side benefit.!

Using a finger to ensure the hole is thoroughly and deeply lubed is one of the best parts. I always do it whether giving an enema to someone else or myself. Even though my wife did not enjoy enemas as I do, she enjoyed the finger lube part. So much so that even after she stopped accepting enemas from me she enjoyed a well lubed finger in her butt as I did oral on her. Drove her wild!

I love a good en thorough Manual Exam before the nozzle goes in for a good enema.

Does anyone else find it strange how many respondents mention their mothers giving them enemas? Is that a common thing? I didn't know it was generally accepted practice, seems kind of odd to me.

@Cheryl7717 said...As a child getting an enema from either mom or grandma, they just lubed the nozzle. When giving to myself, I always insert a lubed finger before. And when I could entice my husband into giving me one I insisted he lube me with his finger. Isn't that a big part of the fun?

Yes, it is definitely part of the fun! When I administer an enema to MrsFn, I always lube her tight little bum hole by inserting a lubed finger first. It is fun to make slow circles in her ass to relax her and elicit some soft moans before inserting the nozzle .

Always. Did it to myself this morning (and palpated prostate as well).

A lubricated finger should ALWAYS be inserted into the anus prior to ANYTHING ELSE being inserted.