Lubricated finger inserted before enema?

I don't recall my mother ever inserting her finger in my anus before an enema when I was a kid. She just lubricated the nozzle with vaseline and pushed it in.

My mother always lubed my anus and rectum before giving an enema. Many times I was really full and she needed to know if stool would clog the nozzle. This had happened more than once.

Mom never lubed me - always just the nozzle of the bulb or bag. Things might have gone a bit easier for me if she had taken the time to put some Vaseline on my anus first.

Always. I want to be well lubed, I can't stand it when the nozzle squeaks

Yes!

And it also does my colon hydrotherapist before inserting the probe, but to hear if there are hemorrhoids

It might not allways be necessary to finger the rectum prior to an enema but I do it anyway for the fun of it. ?

My Mom always lubed the nozzle and my anus with Vaseline. I can't say I recall her pushing her finger in very far, but I was always well lubed, which made accepting the nozzle very easy and pleasurable.

Neither my mother nor my grandmother(the very few times I got enemas from her) ever inserted a lubed finger before inserting the nozzle. Whether it was the little white bulb in my early childhood or later when I moved up to the bag, the only time vaseline touched my bum, was from the lubed nozzle.

Even today when I take an enema, that's how it still is. This is partly do to probably carrying over habits from childhood/teenage years, and also the fact that I like to feel the nozzle. Too much vaseline or other lube makes it feel too slippery and I wouldn't want it to slip out accidentally ...LOL

My aunt always used lots of vaseline for the lube. Insertion of the finger to make sure it was in all the right places.

My mom mostly did suppositories on us kids when we were constipated

When she did give an enema I always got a lubed finger first.

She gave them to herself often I believe. I can remember the bag hanging in my parents bathroom as a kid.

My wife and I enjoy the lubing proccess very much. It is the fore runner of what is to come. Coconut oil is used a lubricant for my anus. Hand lotion is used all over my buttocks and back. My wife will part my butt checks exposing my rectums with one hand and use a glob of coconut oil on her finger and circle my rectum . When she feels my rectum relaxing she will slowing insert her index finger as far as possible. She will work her finger all around inside my rectum all the while using the hand lotion massaging my back and squeezing my scrotum. When she feels my rectum is dialated enough to accept the colon tube we continue on to the enema. This procedure seems to relax me and accept the entire length of the colon tube as to just lubricating the colon tube and inserting it.

My first ever enema, administered by my mother many long moons ago, did not include a lubed-finger insertion prior to that bell-ringing moment in my life.

Fast-forward some 55+ years later, I managed to meet-up with a Forum member for my first enema session to be administered by someone other than myself. He took an extended, highly pleasurable time, thoroughly lubing my anus until his full finger was inside me. It was the most relaxing moment in my life in a great time span. I could have called it a day just with his finger administrations to my anus even if he hadn't followed it up with a nice enema series.

My mom lubed both the nozzle and my anus...thoroughly. So much so, that she had to keep the nozzle securely pressed against my butt hole to insure it would not slip out. Afterwards, I was a Vaseline and soapy slippery mess...as a child it was all I could do to keep from slipping off the toilet seat post enema....

as a child I was all I could to to keep from slipping off the toilet seat post enema....

What did your mother do, lubricate your butt across your cheeks from thigh to thigh? 😁

My best memory of finger insertion goes back to Boston in the late '60s when I first stated going to Mildred Burgess' colonic clinic. Sure, as a kid playing with neighbor Janet there had been a lot of finger insertion, which I loved. In fact we would finger each other to bring on a BM, before we finally had a way to sneak off and give each other real enemas.

But back to Mildred. My first colonic had been at a long defunct clinic on a trip to Los Angeles. The person giving it was pretty uninspired and dissapointing. Then I discovered Mildred.

On my first visit I am pretty sure she was rather pleased to have a younger than average male client. As part of that first colonic she told me she needed to examine my rectum and spent a lot of time her finger inside. I was in heaven. She would always tell me if she felt "stool" in my rectum, and if it was hard or soft.

I was a bit nervous during that colonic, and Mildred told me I wad not getting good results, and that we should stop and she would give me an enema with a colon tube. Mildred was exquisite with the tube and I could feel it go past the sigmoid and into my transverse colon.

So after that we didn't do many colonics, and each session would start with a deep and long exam followed by a series of enemas, and once in a while a colonic. Over the several years I saw Mildred she acquired a number of nozzles and the unmentionable retention nozzle.

But in spite of the incredible enema play there were no happy endings, except the ones I did solo while I was expelling. I knew to get the most of a session, and I think Mildred knew too, I would not masturbate until after I was told it was the final enema of the session.

Some years later I had a colon therapist in Palm Springs, California that would give a series of enemas, that same 3 again, and I would masturbate while expelling the third one.

And there was Grand Dames, back in the early '90s where I could give and receive and, yes, receive a happy ending. That was purely sexual and as much fingering as I wanted.

Mom would always do the Vaseline covered finger in the anus and rectum in prep for the enema nozzle.

In us kids earlier years, when struggles were common, she would say, "this is so you can't stop me from pushing the nozzle in"

Also, when she pushed Suppositories in, she would set the Suppository in as deep as her finger could push it, and then leave her finger in for about 10 secs, so we wouldn't push the Suppository back out, right away

This reminds me of the nurse who gave me Phenergan suppositories when I was nauseated. I could feel her gently pushing the suppository against my anus. She asked me to take a deep breath through my mouth. Then she thrust the suppository into me as deep as her gloved finger would go and held it there for what seemed like forever. If you've ever had a Phenergan injection, you know how it burns. The nurse said the suppository would burn a little, but it was more comfortable to take. She was such a kind nurse.

I never realized how wonderful my enemas were until I went for a colonic when I was in college and the therapist just inserted the obturator with just a little vaseline on it without lubing me. My mom and my Aunt always spent plenty of time opening and lubing me getting my bottom ready for what was to come. After that first painful experience, at the clinic, I always ask for a good lubing prior to enemas etc. If I got a very large enema fill, she would put a finger in as she removed the nozzle and help me on the toilet then take it out and I would explode into the toilet. So now one of the delights of having an enema administered to me is that 10 minutes of thorough lubrication and prostate massage.

Mom always lubed us by inserting a finger of vaseline prior to inserting the nozzle. When Sis and I started playing together, we always lubed each other the same way. Now, we take our time lubing each other, and enjoy the feelings.

A finger inserted before the enema is the most natural thing.

It can be done just to prepare the enema itself, but can be done also as part of the enema foreplay that increases the sexual excitement. And finally it can be done because before an enema it is great to use a glycerine suppository and that needs to be pushed deep enough so that the finger needs to get in mostly entirely...

An enema without any finger insertion sounds a bit of a lame thing otherwise, or at best a missed opportunity!

Sometimes I will, sometimes I won't (this is on me - if I were giving to someone else I would be much more likely to use a finger first). Yeah, it helps to relax the anus, locate the "lay" of the anal canal/rectum, verify that it's clear, and ensure that the receiver is lubed, but some mornings if I'm just doing a "keep me going" enema it's not worth the bother of twisting myself around to get my finger in my butt. A dollop of lube on the anus and a coat on the nozzle works OK.

If someone else was giving to me then yes, I think it's probably a good idea for all those reasons listed above.

If it were an enema with a sexual component then hell yes. I wouldn't want to waste a chance of either playing with my wife's ass or having her play with mine. Of course if she's putting a finger into my pre-enema butt and I need one there's always the very real risk of shit being encountered, not sure how to handle that. I think I'm probably more worried about it than she would be, though. What's the take from other members on the poo problem?

Moliere, I don't have any upper rectal sphincters and often have stool just inside the anus. I always start an enema session by injecting an 8 oz. bulb of tap water to clear the rectum, then insert the bag nozzle for the main event. THIS PREVENTS the side holes in the nozzle from getting clogged. I'm sure this would also work for an inserted finger not running into a roadblock.

My parents mostly mom used olive oil. My mom would dip a finger in some and then stick her finger in my butt to lube up.

Then she would rub some on the nozzle before putting that in.

I also used to get a deep finger when I got suppositories. My parents would push them way in, sometime more than one.

Our mom, and also our aunt always lubed us liberally with Vaseline, with her finger gong in as far as she could push it. Felt like she was lubing the back of our throats, LOL! Our aunt had much longer fingers, and my sister has very long fingers. As small children, we hated seeing Aunt Rachel pull out the suppository jar. By puberty, sis & I had frequent problems with constipation when visiting her. (wink!) I'm sure she knew what was going on, and frequently inserted two and sometimes three in us. I remember going to visit her after college, and being greeted with, "I'm so glad you're here! When you wrote about coming, I bought a new jar of suppositories." It was a jar of twenty-five, and over the week that I stayed, she emptied that jar. ( Her finger hadn't lost its touch!) Like Mom, she was very much into enemas, and they were very much into her, LOL! That same week, I recall getting three enema sessions of three enemas each. I would have loved to visit her more often, but she passed the next year.

Yep, mom always used the Vaseline covered finger first. It was a quick in and out. A real deep plunge.

When we were young and resistive she would say, "this is so you can't stop me from putting the enema in" as her slippery finger would work through clenched cheeks.

Enematically

Steve

This was my mothers technique. She used to stick her finger in the Vaseline, then insert into my anus. She would move her finger in and out then give it a twist on the end. Then she would insert the enema nozzle. Even as a kid I liked it. it was though she was finger fucking my ass. I have been a enthusiast of anal play all my life.

The lubed finger inserted before the nozzle or any toy makes for a MUCH smoother insertion.

"The lubed finger inserted before the nozzle or any toy make for a MUCH smoother insertion." –SwitchableSusie

Nurse's wisdom: Absolutely. It helps relax the muscles around the anus. A nurse experienced in giving enemas also may gently touch the anus with the tip of the nozzle or tube before inserting. Along with taking a slow breath through your mouth and then letting it out, this causes the anal opening to relax and makes insertion easier and more comfortable to the receiver.

You can learn a lot from a nurse who's giving you an enema, by just asking.

I love the preliminary lubed finger pushed in before my first toy or plug or enema nozzle/catheter of the day. It feels wonderful and certainly makes the next object smoother going in. I just wish my anatomy would let me get in more than just one or maybe two knuckles worth. I can just barely brush the bottom of my prostate with my longest finger.

Eric

Goodness, Yes....it's erotic with that mix of initial discomfort then pleasure. Not sure of my fav position...on all fours head down and/or on my back so I can also watch partner as well as feel prolonged fingering. Prior to enema, enjoy insertion of my jeweled butt plug, followed by oral and/or dildo play from which I orgasm. A nice slow, very warm enema series, including spanking, entices additional orgasms. All Good.