This is a true story that happened when I was a kid.
I was in 4th grade at the time, so I was 8 or 9 years old. I had been having really bad pains in my stomach for a couple of days, and when they started to get worse my mother decided it was time to go to the doctors. I did not go to a pediatrician, I went to our family doctor who was a rather large man in his late 40's. When we got to the doctors, my mother came into the exam room with me which I did not think anything of at the time because she always came in with me. Up until this exam, I had never had my privates looked at by the doctor that I remember, so I wasn't even thinking that this was a possibility today. The doctor did the usual things, took my vitals, asked about my pain, then had me lay down on the table. He lifted my shirt up a little to push on my belly, asking me if it hurt. It definitely hurt when he pushed on my lower abdomen. He pulled my shirt back down and asked me to stand up. I guess he was worried about appendicitis. He asked me to jump up and down on one foot ( I guess this is very painful if you have appendicitis) and I couldn't do it without doubling over in pain. He then told me to sit back on the exam table and turned around and got something out of the cupboard, I could not see what it was at first. He then said to me, "I need to check your bum with my finger." I did not entirely know what he was talking about but just the thought of him looking at my bum was mortifying for me. He pulled a sheet out from under the exam table and told me to pull my pants and underwear down to my ankles and cover up with the sheet. A million thoughts were running through my head, but mostly I wanted to die from embarrassment. I had pink pants on with little green frogs on them. I opened the sheet up and spread it across my lap before I pulled my pants down. I only pulled them down a little bit thinking maybe he wouldn't notice. The doctor was over at the counter and now I could see that he had taken something that looked like a tube of toothpaste out of the cupboard. He put a pair of rubber gloves on and came over the the table. He told me to turn and face my mother and hug my knees up to my chin. As I did that, he gathered the sheet up around my waist leaving my bottom half completely exposed. He then decided that my pants weren't pulled down far enough so he finished pulling them down all the way to my ankles. I was absolutely mortified. I could not believe this was happening. I was so nervous, my heart was racing. So I'm laying there on the table in a fetal position with my pants around my ankles and he said ok I'm just going to take a look first. He went to part my butt cheeks but I was clenching them because I was so nervous. He told me to relax my cheeks, and I was like yeah right. So I did, and he spread my cheeks really wide. The cold air on my butt hole was not something I was enjoying. Next I could feel him touch his finger all around the outside of my anus. He turned that light on and pointed it right at my exposed rear end. He did this for probably a full 60 seconds. Before he stood up and walked over to the counter. I sat up and reached for my pants because I thought he was done. Boy was I wrong. He said, "lay back down we're not quite done yet. I thought, god what else could be possibly do? Then he squirted some clear gel onto his fingers and came back and sat on the stool behind me. He said just relax. He parted my cheeks again and I felt slimy stuff on my butt hole. Then he told me to take a deep breath and before I had the chance, he shoved his rather large finger right inside my bum. I gasped at the shock of it all. I instantly felt like I had to poop. He was wiggling his finger around inside of me for an eternity. He would pull it out a little, and then push it back in again. He was inside my bum for at least two minutes. He finally pulled his finger out and it felt like I was pooping. He then took a tissue and wiped my bum. I was horrified by what had just happened. He stood up and pulled his gloves off. I quickly pulled the sheet over by bare butt. He said that everything seemed normal back there. He pulled another pair of gloves out of the box and said that he just wanted to check one more thing. He snapped them on and walked back over to the table this time he was standing on the other side of the table. I was still laying on my side with my pants around my ankles. He came over to me and said, “I just want to make sure everything is working okay down here.” I was like, down where? He pulled the sheet completely off of me and lifted my top leg open at the knees. No one had ever looked at me in between my legs. I did not like this at all. He took his fingers and parted my lips and just looked for a couple minutes. He started to touch all around the outside. Then he let go and walked back over the the counter and squirted some more jelly on his fingers. I instantly snapped my knees closed when he walked away. When he came back over, he told me to lift up my top knee to he could check me. He then parted my lips again, and with his wet slimy finger found the entrance to my vagina and slid his finger inside. It did not hurt, but I did not like it at all. Then he wiggled it all around while he pushed on my belly. This went on for about 60 seconds or so before he pulled it out, and wiped me off. He finally told me I could pull up my pants.
The doctor then started talking to my mother and I heard him say was, “she is not going to like this but I would like to schedule her for a barium enema just to make sure that it is not appendicitis.” That is a story for another day, but I have never forgotten this exam.