Naked only once a year

In reading stories here and elsewhere, I keep hearing over and over how medical people see naked bodies all day long. But do they understand that for some of us unless you have a bad problem, don't get naked everyday and have someone you don't know touching your breast or sitting right between your legs with a bright light on.

Outside of my husband no guy has seen me naked and touched me in over 25 years.So when I got stuck having to have a complete check up by a male doc it was a big deal to me.I thought of leaving but would of felt kind of like a baby if I did.

I don't know why I started having sexual feelings as I was getting looked at. I have a very good sex life with my husband so I just am used to being naked for sex.

Now if I stay with a male doctor will I just get used to it.It was kinda fun once I relaxed. Having him touch me in special places which are only for my husband.

I had a friend that was an exotic dancer (this place did nude except for those very tiny g-strings) for a number of years in her early 20s, after she got married she decided that she would waitress in the same club. In this very sexually charged atmosphere, one of the things she commented on was how most of the workers including bartenders, managers etc pretty much lost the "effect of nudity", so in a sense you become anesthetized.

Nudists ( and I have a bit of experience here too) also report the same thing. Their nudity is still relaxing and intimate but it changes and loses much of its sexual charge. But of course play with my honey is awesome, because he is my honey 😃

One thing I love about this fetish is my feeling of embarrassment from my exposure, this is hard or near impossible to maintain for me with my husband as playdoc because he sees me nude every day. Still we keep our actual fetish play special and do it only every month or two, and we play with others as well. In the latter play I get more of the "exposure rush" of being examined by someone that is not my husband.

I understand. Doing anything too much can take away the newness of the experience.

Finding a good doctor you can feel relaxed with is not easy and I was really upset when I found out my regular one was gone.As much as she was a female she also was very easy to talk to and would make it easy to relax.

My first real exam ,when I was 17,was with a male doctor and he wasn't very friendly. He kept telling me to open my legs wider and I kept closing them. Almost sounds funny now but at the time I hated it. So I started seeing female doctors.

Now the play exam at home was really wild. We won't do that to often so as not to ruin the excitement of it.

Mashie, it is hard for a man to really understand your post. I believe everything your wrote, but seeing a nude woman is always a high for me. I love breasts and can't imagine that become "old hat." I guess I should have become an OBGYN and then maybe I would truly understand.

I guess what I am really trying to say is I understand it academically but sexually it doesn't seem plausible.