Intimate and naughty. Why are enemas so erotic?

From getting the enema equipment out and ready for use, filling the bag to capacity then inserting the nozzle.... opening the hose clamp and feeling the water surge deep inside is just so much erotic fun and what a great feeling!

An added bonus is that enemas are very beneficial to ones health!

I like the selfishness of it. It's something I can do for me, in the privacy of my bedroom, no kids around, just myself making every part of my body feel spectacular. Feeling my body react to the tubing, feeling the water (either warm or ice) inside of me, seeing my belly swell up when the water is inside of me, feeling it cramp, knowing how good it will feel when I finally let myself release. It's all good!

Filling the distended red bag and hanging it high... Staring at it remembering not to let the air out of the tube....Waiting and longing for the initial rush of hot water and wondering with much anticipation when the water will over come the air in the tubing and rush down to my waiting rectum... The rush is there and feels so good.... My belly distending as I alternately look at my growing belly and then the emptying bag.... The thought of all that water going inside of me... The wait of holding the water in and massaging my distended belly... Looking into the mirror and admiring the work that has bee done....The initial flood on the toilet interrupted by occasional log jams that stop the flow and then flow again.... Oh what a feeling... What is it about sticking a tube in one's butt and running in some water that makes it so appealing? This is just the beginning.... I love enemas 😃

The best part is standing and looking down at the nice round butt that your going to Lube. The feeling of the nozzle slipping into the target. Telling the receiver be lay still and breath deep, because he has to hold the whole bag. Then the magic as the click rings out and flow begins. >😄

I really do enjoy my enemas body first then my mind

😁 everything about it turns me on. Seeing that huge bag filled with

hot enema solution, feeling it flow in and then needing to release so bad

but knowing you have to take the entire enema. Hot,Hot,Hot!

Is it appealing or is it and emotional feeling, is it a memory of loving care or a feeling of embarrassment.

could we just long for a good empty feeling that makes us feel empty and better getting rid of that, that is toxic or is it a loving touch to help someone feel better.

do we want to embarrass some one for being bad or just play that they've been bad and make them hold it in plain view of all or do we love a full bellie and the look of looking like a prego.

Any way you look at it, it is an emotional feeling that we love in our life's.

appealing? no, feeling! yes and we love them all so lets just say we are all emotionally stable in our life's of enema and love the hell out of our self's .

Love it all and wanting more thanks to you all that sharing with me here

My hubby and I talked about this question and pretty much were in total agreement on why we enjoy enemas.

First, it is having your partner nude and in total submission, seeing all the curves of the body, the firmness of the butt, and the opportunity to do just about anything to pleasure your partner.

Second, we both occassionally like to take enemas while being across the lap of the giver. Both he and I enjoy the carressing touches during the application of the lubricant, the massaging and the feel during this process.

Third, the insertion, especially when a larger (but not too large) as nozzle is used. I love when he inserts, plays with me, and brings me almost the climax, while he enjoys having the nozzle moved, pulled partially out and re-inserted, played with and having me touch his most sensitive areas, without bringing him to climax.

Fourth, enjoying receiving the liquid, usually not an overbearing amount, but enough to take some time and provide enjoyment to the recipient.

Fifth, when we pleasure each other out of doors, we'll sometimes administer to each other before taking relief of ourselves ... if I receive first, I administer to him, etc., ... then we both use the outdoor privy, a two-holer. There's something unique about being with your partner when you're relieving. We'll even do this for the second or third enemas ... it is a real kick, if you know what I mean.

What is the appeal of giving or receivng an enema? I think I've pretty much explained why we get so much pleasure out of this recreation. How about you?

Isn't it interesting that we enjoy an activity (fetish), for a variety of reasons, that most people find disgusting. Previous posts have covered many reasons and perhaps that's a key. We can enjoy different aspects of our fetish perhaps at different times.

Maybe once in a while all the aspects.

It's like someone that loves you taking care of your most personal and private needs.

One Saturday I was sitting on the toilet trying to poop and it wouldn't come out. I told my wife I was constipated, and she kissed me and said, "I'm a nurse and I can help you go potty. I told her I didn't want a laxative. She said, "I'm not going to give you a laxative. I'll give you a nice warm-water enema. I know you don't like enemas, but they work, and I will give it slow and easy. I don't like giving enemas, but since you can't go, you have to have an enema."

She filled her latex folding douche bad with warm water, put a packet of enema soap in the water, and hung the enema bag on a towel rack. She said, "I know how to give an enema," as she put extra towels on the bathroom floor and covered them with several thicknesses of newspaper. She had me lay on my tummy, put rubber gloves on, and pushed vaseline in my rectum. As she slipped the nozzle in me she said, "You're not going to like this enema, but you're so constipated and really need a large enema."

My wife gave me three enemas that morning, and two more that evening. It was determined I had lazy bowel syndrome and enemas would be necessary when constipated. My wife has become a wonderful enema nurse. She purchased a large latex see-thru enema back with a large curved douche nozzle, a rubber sheet, and put a rubber on my penis because I sometimes cum while she gives me an enema. I get three or four enemas on weekends and two on Wednesday evenings. She even plays "Mommy" and I get to suck on her breasts during my enema. We always have intercourse after my enema and then I get to giver her a douche.

Life is great.

Simple words, and activities. "You don't look well, sweetheart. Let's get your pants and shorts down. and I will check your temperature. I think I need to give you an ENEMA.

For me it is the feeling of fullness in the rectum. Water is sooo convenient a toy. It also relax and clean the rectum for more play (which is how I initially got started with enemas).

Nowadays I really appreciate the routine of the thing; preparing, disrobing, finding a relaxing position etc. and then enjoying the slow flow of water in and out of my ass - kind of meditative.

I rarely climax from enema's but they can be a great turn-on. Like to play with my girlfriend but for other reasons; I think she look endlessly loveable when she stands there, lowering all defences, looking vulnerable, and letting go of herself - just for me.

For me, the lead-up to the enema is important. The anticipation, preparation, dialogue and then the administration to the female that willing submits to the erotic aspects of the entire process.

Joe

I am not sure if we will ever get an empiric answer - other than a survey result, which is still somewhat subjective.

I think the origins of the satisfaction index are more psycho-sexual thangender based, and each persons make up and approach will be a function of this personal and complex mix.

I think, and I did post on this once before, that women may be more adaptable and accepting of enemas' since they do not have the male 'penetration' thing, and the fears that must go with this, and are probably more accustomed to be more routinely probed and inspected in this intimate area.

Speaking for myself, I am both a giver and a taker, and my spouse and I have all sorts of subliminal messages we send out aboiut it - but I do prefer to be a receiver.

I also posted on my very early childhood experiences in the stories section, which I think go a long way to explaining my imprinting.

At the end of it all (again, unintended), I think it is about how you feel, and this is probably less a function of gender than other factors

I believe both men and women enjoy enemas just as much as each other and this is personal to each one of us.

I have to say I really enjoy enemas and I am a male.

I love the feeling I get with enemas as well as the bennifit, I also have a great feelind when I rub just above my penis the area that women rubs and bring them selfs to orgasum, I have brought myself to orgasum my self a couple of times while rubbing this spot.

I would have to say that both women and men enjoy enemas, maybe differantly but we all love them and relax by having them so I do dissagree sorry but I can not see enybody enjoying some thing more because of gender. I enjoy myself and my way of excitment just my thoughts

Male or Female... whoever owns the nozzle in their ass is enjoying it most at the time!

I would guess it's the men who enjoy enemas more. It also may be that we are more open and forward about. Maybe the ladies are a little more private.

Sounds like one of those questions that would take a university grant and scientific study of a 1000 individuals to answer. I have only one good sample: my ex-wife. Based on my years with her, I'd call it dead even. She was always up for receiving, and left no doubt she E-N-J-O-Y-E-D every one I ever gave her (and that was many!). She took real good care of me on that score, too -- I used to crave the coming of weekend afternoons, our favorite time to play. She lives 3/4 of the way across the country now, so we can't get together for "old time's sake" and our mutual favorite hobby. But we talk, so I know that while there's a lot we don't miss about each other, playing with bags, bulbs and soapy water is one thing we do miss.

I tend to agree that women may like them slightly more than men, but not that much more. I know that there is little more that will do it for me than to be lying across a lady's lap as she fills me up and strokes me with the other hand, reasuring me that I am a good boy and this is normal.

I enjoy them more than wife. She takes them for constipation and enjoys how she feels when she is cleaned out but does not find the enema pleasurable. I keep hoping someday she will find them erotic.

Ì think for both its the same pleasure

Me, tonight I plan to cuddle with my red rubber overflowing bag.

Nice and slowwwwwwwww

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Me, tonight I plan to cuddle with my red rubber overflowing bag. Nice and slowwwwwwwww

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Ssssoooo, now I am wondering, and a hopin, that bethbeth will write a short novella and tells us of her exploits last evening.

beth, the floors is yours...

I think that the guys benefit from the prostate stimulation, they just need to get past having something "enter" the backdoor! As for the women, the act of penetration is easier for them to deal with, they seem to be more concerned with the messy side of the practice.

In any case, I think that when two people that care for each other decide to experiment and try new things- it usually winds up being a fun time for both. The stigmata associated with whatever form of play they choose seems to dissolve as they find new ways to excite each other and themselves!

I think that men and women enjoy enema's for various reasons. I don't believe that one enjoys them more than the other.

I am a woman, and I truly enjoy my enema experiences. I do believe our counterparts would enjoys them as much. I don't really think it's a guy vs girl thing. Let's all enjoy them together !!

I enjoy the warm relaxation of a good enema administered slowly and gently. Cramps or discomfort of any sort would ruin it for me. But I know there are others who find the cramps and pain stimulating and exciting. I suppose for others it's all in who is administering the enema.

Don't see how it's a guy/girl split. Both can enjoy them.

I never imagined women liked the feeling so much