Fantasies mostly sex?

Over the months I've been a member here, I've read a considerable number of the stories posted. Many include a real emdical reason for getting an enema. M/F, F/M, F/F. Mothers/Grandmothers, even Aunts giving. Nurses giving. Dads at times. Why are there so MANY instances where the reciever is made to be NAKED? I simply cannot imagine a parent/relation doing that. Walt

It is simple, when getting an enema the floor should have a towel on it and the person should be undressed because of a possible accident.

this would mean wearing the clothes while expelling and the water, fecal matter as well as the smell factore will remain until you can get off the bowel.

You don't have to undress but if there is an accident well you will have to wear it until able to undress 😎

I myself don't believe a family member needs to have a person naked to do "medically necessary" enemas.That to me is borderline incest and not cool.Enemas for play between 2 consenting ADULTS not related is fine.If a family member is requiring nudity for an enema I would question the real reason why they want to give one.There are so many kids/adults who have experienced molestation from family members and I,having had my grandfather try to sexually molest me,would not want to be subjected to a enema from ANY family member that get their "kinks" from giving enemas that were not necessary.Believe me,any person who has been molested will tell you the same thing or at least think it.Please consider at least a covering for your child/adolescent when giving one for this reason!

I would have never thought of this because of my up bringing.

but you sound like you may have had a bad ordeal in your upbringing.

I am sorry if I missled anybody but my enemas where simply for medical reasons only and when we had bad stomach aches.

My mom preferred us to be nude but if we where cold we could leave a shirt or something on to stay warm.

I really don't think of to days society blues but do realize the dangers that are out there and do agree with this fact if your family member gives enemas just to be giving the and requires nude this is a problem I do agree.

Bagbug...I only mentioned this because I tend to forget that many kids were molested but push it in the back of their minds like it never happened.I was only molested once but I have NEVER forgot it and remember clearly that day and what he said to me.I know there are parents/relatives who only mean the best by having the kids naked but there are just as many who don't!I have posted about this subject before with this in the back of my mind but never voiced my reason why and now I do because of it.I don't know if he did this to anyone else in my family but I hope to God not!Thanks for your understanding in this delicate matter!

I my self forget the sickness of those out there and I my self have been molested by some one that took advantage of my innocents as a child but he was brought to court and lost his teaching credentials.

I only recognized the fact that you had a problem with molestation there because I am a care giver and listen to a lot of people that just need to talk, I have been trained to recognize out cries and simple little sentences to know when something has happend to them.

I hope you have reached out to professionals and that you heal in time. this is something that will never go away and you will always be on the look out for it such in this case.

prayers and hugs to you and hang in there,

there is good out there you just have to be carefull in finding it. 😃

This is an interesting question, because I have wondered this too, Walt. I question the motive behind any adult who would insist on a child stripping down nude to get an enema. I understand why bottoms (pants, shorts, etc.) would be problematic, but surely a t-shirt wouldn't get in the way.

Arianna

PS - Thankfully, I was never molested as a child. I'm looking at this from my perspective as a mother and a reasonable adult.

Walt; You mentioned nurses.When I was in a childrens hospital,I've been given enemas for surgery,constipation and for pracice by new nurse recruits.Some nurses required the patient to be naked,some did not.The enemas were given on a large white table in the bathroom of the boys ward,any kid who needed to use that bathroom to relieve himself could see another kid receive an enema. It was all business for the nurses.Remember,this was the 1940s,enemas were commom.On any given day, a kid was having one.On many occasions I have walked into the boys bath and saw a kid naked with a red colon tube up his butt while the nurse held the funnel.I always knew before entering the bath that someone was receiving an enema,the oder could be smelled all over the ward because the door was left opened for the other kids to use it.

I think it is impossible to give a pat answer to Walt's question. Clearly some childhood experiences had a negative turns and there are certainly many others with similar experience. Mine was different. I was apparently born with an elongated colon that either required risky surgury or a bit of help to the system with enemas. 60+ years later I have the same system and still support it with regular enemas. I was always naked for my childhood enemas whether from my mom, a housekeeper/nanny or an aunt. It just never occured to me that one would take an enema with any clothes on. As a young child I always was bathed immediately after the enemas were finished, and I continue that practice today. So taking off my clothes as a child for an enema was just like taking them off for a bath.

I am deeply sorry the original post gave anyone memories of abuse. Certainly was NOT my intention. Trust me, I feel no sympathy for any ABUSER. Childhood, or adult. I amdeepl glad my state of Washington has a "Lifetime commitment" law for these people. Yes, this law has been reviewed, and accepted by the US Supreme Court.

My intent was to determine if anyone could give a valid reason for complete nudity in giving an enema, and wondering if such in adult "play" is part of sesual feelings. TY, and again I am SORRy for any pain caused to others. I try to always be a "gentleman, " and a "gentle man." Walt

Walt....you didn't cause any bad memories.I was just speaking for some of the members who may have that in the back of their head and for any child or adult in that situation.Unfortunately we do have to consider that in this society now with molesters and child abuse that kids may get the wrong idea or impression and say something to the wrong person that doesn't know the reason behind the motives.Just because a parent gives an enema for a medical reason partially clothed or not with honest intentions doesn't mean that the kid won't say something to someone that may misinterpret wrong and make a scene.I question that most adults would do that but there is that one person who will.

Now total nudity between 2 adults is another thing altogether.That is usually done consentually and shouldn't be considered an issue unless one party is NOT consenting.

If the child or underage person prefers to be partially clothed and not naked that should be their decision and not made to feel bad for this because the relative/parent is getting some jolly off of it.It respects the person's/child's dignity to allow them to be covered in a way that makes them comfortable.I hope I made myself clear so that no one misunderstands why I posted my answer from a molestation/abuse stance.I know not too many people would think of this type of response but I felt it was needed.

Walt, I think it should have been evident to most, even those with negative childhood experiences, that you were not in any way trying to bring out unpleasant memories. There should be no question that you are both a "gentleman" and a "gentle" man.

'lady, I think we completely agree that the wellbeing, physical, psychological and emotional must always come first and you sensitively present the point. Even putting aside the extreme and bad cases, there are adults out there who think what they are doing in harmless, but in fact puts their pleasure above the emotional and psychological wellbeing of the child. This must not happen. Are there grey areas? I tend to believe not but ....If in a straight laced family a visiting female family member appears for afternoon tea in her underware with children present, we would probably all agree this is NOT on. But what about a household where the mother often spends much of the middle of the day at home wearing only her underware? The same behavior in one case can have a negative impact on a child and in another little or none at all ... unless we suggest that the child growing up in the second case is somehow damaged by the lack of clothing. A child who seldom had an enema in our "enema era" (40s and 50s) and was asked to take off all his/her clothing for one, could indeed be affected. I who had several enemas a month for years thought nothing whatsoever about it ... in fact I would have thought it rather strange if asked to keep on part of my clothing.

But Walt and 'Lady, I find both of your notes most sensitive, reflecting the kind of concern that we should all have for children and for others.

I will share with you just how "PURITAN" my oldfashioned mother was. I've an adopted sister a bit over 4 years younger than me. When J got her period sy sobut 13 years of age, Mother handed her a pad, and said "ask somebody else." J trusted me. Thank God for my high school "health class." A naked child? Only in the bathtub. Walt

In reply to the original post, I agree that a lot of stories do involve full nudity and that this isn't really necessary or for that matter realistic, unless of course the giver wants to make sure none of the patient's clothes are soiled.

But it seems to me there are also many stories in which only the minimal exposure is allowed, or perhaps more likely - just from the waist down. This seems more natural to me, and in a way more erotic as it exposes just the area intended to be violated.

I was never completely naked for any of my enemas.

The ritual of my many childhood enemas growing up in the '50s began with removing all clothes before getting into position to receive the enema. It was all very matter-of-fact, no discussion. As I got older and would see the full enema bag hanging when I was called into the bathroom, mom no longer had to tell me to take all my clothes off. I knew what was required. And those teen-year enema/masturbation sessions were always naked affairs. It was the way I was raised and I've continued the practice throughout my life. And being totally naked definitely enhances erotic enema partner play for me.

I was always nude because I got my bi weekly enema before my bath. Mom would have it waiting and I would know what as going to happen. I was glad when I went to the enema bag from the bulb syringe. Being this started when around 4 years old to when I turn 60 something it never bothered me because it happened so often.

Our parents house only had two bedrooms and one bathroom. My brother, sister, and I shared a bedroom into our mid to late teens. We saw each other nude almost every day, and occasionally our parents, so what. When one got an enema, the other two did as well. We were in the same bedroom together receiving an enema from our mother. Sometimes we were nude, sometimes we weren’t, it depended on what we had on at the time, just happenstance. As preteens our grandmother taught us to self administer enemas. Within six months we started, by happenstance, giving enemas to each other after school nude, because, we as a rule, took a shower afterwards. We had close friends who received enemas at home, some weekly, some biweekly, and others as needed. Our parents douche/enema bag always hung in the shower for all to see who used our bathroom, it was no secret. There were times, when close friends joined us in trading enemas with one another. For example, my girlfriend ask my sister to give her a couple of enemas one afternoon, because she was having bad period cramps and didn’t like the way her mother gave enemas. My sister gave her two enemas that afternoon and told her, “you needed to let my brother (meaning me) do it in the future. He gives me enemas when needed and I’ll, occasionally, let him give me a douche, he’s really good at it. Just be sure he uses the douche nozzle for your enemas, you won’t be sorry.” A couple of months later, my girlfriend ask me, if I wouldn’t mind giving her a couple of enemas for period cramps, I replied, “sure, as long as you’ll return the favor afterwards, and give me a couple enemas.” After that, we gave each other enemas once a month, with a few exceptions, till the end of our High School years, when I went in the military, and she went to college. As I’ve said, we didn’t think twice about being nude around each other or even our close friends. My sister and her boyfriend gave each other enemas, as did my brother and his girlfriend. It didn’t just happen at our house, but at our friends houses as well, it just depended on where we were at, when the need or mood arose. You’ve got to remember, this was the late 50’s and early 60’s and enemas were commonplace. Did we get each other off from time to time via mutual masturbation, sure we did, but that was as far as it ever went. This was before the pill, condoms were hard to come by for anyone under eighteen, and we weren’t stupid.

Did our parents or grandparents abuse us by giving us enemas in the nude? No they didn’t, and anyone who says they did, needs professional help... Period! They avoided anything of a sexual nature by having our RN grandmother teach us personal hygiene as preteens. Did they know what was going on, sure they did, neither our parents or our friends parents ever said a word. My brother and I found out years later, how much they knew along with our friends parents, in conversations we had with our mother after we both had little ones.

Most of the time if I was getting an enema I was wearing pajamas and mom would simply tell me to take the bottoms off. I also know that when my sisters were getting an enema they were usually wearing a nightie or a nightshirt and were told to just take their panties off. While I never saw this my younger sister did tell me often about her recent enema experiences. The nightie or nightshirt was simply pulled up above her waist, she got to lie over mom's lap and the rest was pretty standard procedure. I guess what I"m saying is that I see no reason for the patient to be totally naked. Besides in the middle of winter that would be quite chilly.