Is urethral play more of a male interest or female?

Hi All,

I am just curious if urethral play and catheters are more of a male interest or a female one. As a female, I love cath play. I just wonder how many other women are out there that also enjoy it.

Runude

Based on years of membership in a UP board. probably 99.95% of the devotees of urethral play are men. Although more interest is being shown by women, the proportion is still very small.

Speed

Even modern "liberated" women are more modest than men and their sexuality is more intimate/self-exploratory whereas ours may be more exhibitionist.

If you watch amateur AV in which women masturbate for pleasure rather than for the camera, you will see that they attend to the clitoris, g-spot and urethral opening. The purpose of the clit is obvious and running her fingers up inside toward the pubic bone is attending to the G-spot. But you will see where she will insert her fingertip into her urethral opening and scribe a few circles as she travels around the playground. I have found that my SO likes this quite a lot when I do it.

The urethra passes from beneath the clitoris through a cleft in the pubic bone and up behind the g-spot to the bladder. The distance from the urethra to the bladder is less than 2 inches and is surrounded by a lot of sensitive nerves. The "female prostate", the source of true female ejaculation just inside. From the past, I knew of girls who explored this with the slender handle of a nail polish applicator and made it all the way to an involuntary pee....and I actually got to see it once. Although she was slow and careful, she seemed to enjoy the sensation as much as I enjoyed watching.

My guess is that a lot of young women explore this but just don't make video of it or talk about it.

I believe it maybe more of a male interest but I can stand corrected.

This is one lady who can emphatically say, "I love urethral play".

Play On!

LadyDoc

This female loves to be catheterized!

Hi All,

I am just curious if urethral play and catheters are more of a male interest or a female one. As a female, I love cath play. I just wonder how many other women are out there that also enjoy it.

Runude

Runude,

I am uncertain of the actual numbers. I have noticed a definite tendency of men in these and other threads/forums to be more open in their discussion of catheter/sound play. It seems inconceivable to me that there are few women that enjoy our pleasure, being that so many of the same nerve endings are involved. Whether it is due to fear as a result of 'social stigma',lack of interest,bad experiences,outright dislike, or a combination of all of these, I do not know. Sharing your interest with us is a joy and you are most welcome 😃

sincerely,

G.N.

Even modern "liberated" women are more modest than men and their sexuality is more intimate/self-exploratory whereas ours may be more exhibitionist.

I f you watch amateur AV in which women masturbate for pleasure rather than for the camera, you will see that they attend to the clitoris, g-spot and urethral opening. The purpose of the clit is obvious and running her fingers up inside toward the pubic bone is attending to the G-spot. But you will see where she will insert her fingertip into her urethral opening and scribe a few circles as she travels around the playground. I have found that my SO likes this quite a lot when I do it.

The urethra passes from beneath the clitoris through a cleft in the pubic bone and up behind the g-spot to the bladder. The distance from the urethra to the bladder is less than 2 inches and is surrounded by a lot of sensitive nerves. The "female prostate", the source of true female ejaculation just inside. From the past, I knew of girls who explored this with the slender handle of a nail polish applicator and made it all the way to an involuntary pee....and I actually got to see it once. Although she was slow and careful, she seemed to enjoy the sensation as much as I enjoyed watching.

My guess is that a lot of young women explore this but just don't make video of it or talk about it.

Jackflynn7 made a very good post.

There is one important thing I need to add.

Many women like big circular motion over their labia, and the reason is because the clitoral crura lie beneath the labia heading back toward the pubic bone.

That's why so many women DON'T like little tongue flicks across their clits and prefer a broad flat tongue massaging the clit and labia majora.

To: Switchablesusie:

As an enthusiastic cunning linguist, I entirely agree. Licking like a dog on an ice cream cone gets the best results. I switch in brief suckling attacks to the clitoris, but keep them short, returning to long, fast licks. And yes, the tongue tip does probe the urethra a bit as well.

I am a female who really loves cath play. I really think it is more intense for a man though. They have a longer area to snake down and then you have to get past the magic button (prostate). I would have never imagined my hubby interested in such a thing, but he loves it and it usually ends up with HIM getting the tube rather than I.

I suspect that urethral play is fairly evenly spread across men and women. I love to masturbate with an 8mm sound in my penis, inserted as far as the prostate. If I am having an enema at the same time, it magnifies the range of sensations. I'm not sure that men get more enjoyment out of catheterising themselves, as it can sometimes be quite a painful experience. Also one must be very careful not to introduce any infection. I suspect that a woman, with a much shorter urethra, can in fact catheterise and masturbate with a finger much easier than a man.

I suspect that urethral play is fairly evenly spread across men and women. I love to masturbate with an 8mm sound in my penis, inserted as far as the prostate. If I am having an enema at the same time, it magnifies the range of sensations. I'm not sure that men get more enjoyment out of catheterising themselves, as it can sometimes be quite a painful experience. Also one must be very careful not to introduce any infection. I suspect that a woman, with a much shorter urethra, can in fact catheterise and masturbate with a finger much easier than a man.

I have no data on this, but I believe urethral and catheter play is more a male than female activity based on casual conversations I have had.

You can masturbate with an 8mm sound all the way in to your prostate? WOW! I'm impressed and amazed. You need to use a "J" shaped sound to get to the prostate and negotiate the quarter circle curve in the urethra to get there. How do you "bop the bologna" without injuring yourself while the sound is in that far? It seems to me the most you could do is a very gentle, slow stroking that would probably not be sufficient stimulation to cause an orgasm. I know if I did that on my husband, he would stay erect indefinitely, but not have an orgasm until I really started to pound his pud! The deepest I have ever inserted a sound into him is short of that curve while masturbating him. I hope you're careful when you do that. You have to be careful not to move around or change your position too much with a rigid sound in place.

Women can catheterize themselves very easily once the urethra is found, either by feel or in a mirror. Since the female urethra is so short, the catheter almost pops right into the bladder.

I note that Switchablesusie was very surprised at my being able to pass an 8mm stainless steel sound through my prostate. So would I have been, if I had. I would probably still be on the ceiling!

To clarify my original message, when I insert the sound, I let it go down as far as it is comfortably able, which is to where the urethra starts to turn up into the prostate. Sounds are preferable to catheters in many ways, not the least because they don't penetrate the prostate or the bladder and the risk of infection is greatly reduced. Thank you, Susie, for your concern, which is much appreciated.

Over the years doing exams on Women,urethral play just is not desired by women. It's a taboo issue.

Besides feeling wonderful, playing with dilators/catheters is a major visual turn-on...probably why men enjoy it so much..

I'm sure it's probably true that more men are into it than women, but that's also probably true for most of the more intense sexual fetishes. I happen to love it.

I was introduced to foley catheters by a Female. She didnt like getting them but loved to give them to guys as a tease. To this day I still get turned on at the sight of one thanks to her..

I have never been able to gain cooperation from my female patients to insert a catheter, but I sure enjoy it in myself. Not only a great way to massage the prostate from within, but once a 14fr is inserted, a rigid instrument inserted in my rectum and rubbed deep inside against the inserted catheter causes an explosive reaction that brings tears.

I've been sounding for many years, work in the medial arena, and have found no one else who likes it. I dunno, but I think it relatively rare. Now, medical professionals do discuss it, like most fetishes, and many admit to many other things, but not cathing or sounding. Of, course, I live in a very conservative area. Also, there is a difference between what people DO and what they ADMIT to. (LOL!) Joy-ful, do please tell me what you like! I've posted on other forums that i especially like sounding with a standard sound (although I've enjoyed others). It fees like a direct rout to my clit, and I love to gently "tug" on it so it pulls a bit on me. Sometimes I wear a pair of panties to keep it in and dust or wash dishes while drinking a diet coke to build a good pee up, Also, i love to have a partner watch and "enjoy" seeing my activities.

Sue, I think you've hit the nail on the head when you say that there is a big difference between what people DO and what they ADMIT to doing. I worked in the veterinary medicine field. I love catheter and sound play but would NEVER admit it to my co-workers. But here in kink-friendly surroundings, that's a different story.

LadyDoc,

It seems that in this environment, you will come clean about almost anything... And, me too! Such freedom; we should enjoy it in our own communities...

Could it be the anonymity that we share here?

Regardless, you are one of the best!!! And, I applaud you for all of the positive stimulus that you spread around Zity.biz.

Have a great weekend!

Hermann

Golly Hermann, you do make a girl blush! But at least I still can!

Yes, I think anonymity has something to do with it, but wouldn't some of us be just as comfortable sitting around a table at Starbucks talking about the kind of play we enjoy? I think we would, because we already know we have at least our kink in common.

I love the topic, interesting 😃

Well I can tell you, I played a fem once, and when I inserted the cath a Number 12, she went nuts 😃 Then she wanted me to use her virator at the same time on her. She Vibrated more & louder than her Vibrator rofl.........boy I thought she was cunvulsing he he he he.................

I am another woman loving to be cathed. I find it very stimulating. But I guess that manu just don't dare to admit it.

lupa

You can masturbate with an 8mm sound all the way in to your prostate? WOW! I'm impressed and amazed. You need to use a "J" shaped sound to get to the prostate and negotiate the quarter circle curve in the urethra to get there. How do you "bop the bologna" without injuring yourself while the sound is in that far? It seems to me the most you could do is a very gentle, slow stroking that would probably not be sufficient stimulation to cause an orgasm. I know if I did that on my husband, he would stay erect indefinitely, but not have an orgasm until I really started to pound his pud! The deepest I have ever inserted a sound into him is short of that curve while masturbating him.

Is it a Pratt, rosebud or other type of sound that you use on your husband while masturbating him? I've found a 25 French Pratt very pleasurable when masturbating because it just reaches the base of the prostate.

Both my GF and I love urethral play. She loves being sounded with a vibrating sound or having me insert a catheter in her with an extension and then we take turns drinking her nectar as she uses a vibrator on her clit. I will many times insert a catheter in myself and drink my own nectar. Very erotic for either of us.

As a female love urethral play with catheters and sounds. like the invasiveness in play. also live my bladder being filled after drainjng it into a bag then clampinf off. the feeling of the partners ckntroll is very sexually charged for me

I adore urethral play also. A good session with the sounds is magic. I've not been play cathed as of yet, it's on my to-do list. I love Master's finger in my urethra also, esp when he wiggles it around.

Love love tinkle tube play and all aspects of it. The body is a fun play ground if you just let yourself go and free your mind.

The Women's urethra is relatively short, therefore, one is fast in the bladder and there the risk of infection is very high. In the area of the vulva, it is almost impossible to work sterile. As be careful. In men, a meatus external and urethral stretch is relatively safe because the urethra to the prostate is about 19cm long. If one does not penetrate into the urinary bladder is the risk of infection is not high. Because the urethra can always rinse with sterile urine.