Would You Want Him or Her At Your Gyno Exam

I asked to go to her last gyno exam and it was ok by her. What a surprise, the doctor, female and about 40, was ok with me being there and wondered why more men did not go to them. Yes I did learn alot and yes it did make me horny . So my question is,would you go to your SO gyno exam if you had the chance and ladys would you want him or her there?

Without a shadow of a doubt! 😃

Nooooooo. thats my private time. i'd be so uncomfortable with the boyfriend there. thats why i dont go to a male gyno.

My husband attended almost all exams with me from about age 22 until about 34, and has periodically attended since. We never even caused a raising of an eyebrow with the request that he be present. I have heard of that happening but not to myself or anyone that I have known.

I loved having him there and it was certainly something that helped us build our mutual interest in this fetish.

Hubby has only been to one exam and multiple ultrasounds. I prefer having him there, but he prefers not to be there.

Yes, I would definitely want my SO, who is also my medplay partner to be there if at all possible. It would probably fuel several steamy play sessions, plus we have a legitimate interest in one another's health care.

Play on!

LadyDoc

My Boyfriend has been there lots of times with me, I actually really like having him there.

I have had several b/f's go to mine

Of course I would, I have made it a staple to go with almost all my past girlfriends since I was senior in high school. After initiating the idea, I was always asked to go with them for future examinations.

Mine has been several times, usually when I'm worried I'm going to get bad news or if it's going to be unpleasant, like a culposcopy, so he can hold my hand. Yes I can be a baby at times.

I would go to every single one of my wife's exams if she would let me, however it's just not always feasible. I went to quite a few exams while she was pregnant, but those weren't usually very sexy. The very first one I went to she was due for her annual, so that one was awesome! Sat in my seat with a raging erection the entire time. Yay! ?

My husband has been to all of mine except for one. I would not have it any other way. I get horny just looking back at him as he is watching the doctor inserting the speculum and fingers into me!

It's embarassing enough that I don't think that i would want my SO in the room.

I've been fortunate to attend many of my wife's gyno exams. She likes me to attend because she knows of my interest in the exam and the comfort it gives her with me being there. I've never experienced any issues with her practitioners while being there in the exam room with her. There's been multiple practices that have different examroom setups, so I'm not always able to see anything but can hear everything going on perfectly! This works for us but understandably this isn't for everyone.

I'm a big girl and I'm fine with having my husband being at work when I am having my gyn exams. I don't need anyone to support me. I am capable of doing that myself.

If there was a critical situation being monitored, I would want him there to take notes or to ask questions my long written list might not have included.

When I was pregnant he came to a couple of exams because being pregnant was a special time in our lives.

I do not even open a door to a doctor office without my man. Either he is on my side or I don't go.

I would love to have a significant other there with me to share the experience and perhaps we could “ recreate” it later.

Especially when something is wrong I really wish I had someone with me, not only for moral support but like Susie mentioned, to take notes and perhaps ask questions that I may not think of.

Sometimes when you are getting unsettling or surprising news, even though the dr is asking you if you have any questions, your mind is going in so many directions you fail to think straight.

Bridgette, agree. I try to have have someone accompany my to any Dr. Because of nerviousness and stress I can miss a lot of what he/she says and you can"t just call them back.

Yes it is often desirable to have somebody with you, even if you are having follow up appointments for a known problem. They can easily throw you a curved ball and come out with something totally unexpected, and your head just goes into a spin. Having someone with you who can remain focused can be a good plan....

And of course if it is just a routine appointment, for some that could be rather horny watching and being watched!

I do not even open a door to a doctor office without my man. Either he is on my side or I don't go.

YOU are supposed to be on your side.

Why does his accompanying you have anything to do with YOUR taking care of yourself and whether or not you go to the doctor?

I always asked my boyfriend/fiance if he wanted to go and he always said no. He was weird about things like that. Actually weird about a lot of things. If I had only been with him a year or two I would have thought for sure he was cheating while I was at my appointments. I mean that is the reason we split up. I caught him cheating with my ex-best friend. But I mean it would have been a perfect time because my sister and I always went together. He was afraid of my sister. Like I said I got shortchanged because of my sister. She was born two years ahead of me and she got all of the good parts bigger boobs, a bigger ass, bigger labia ( we always joke about her labia because she has big ones and mine are thin and small) and she is taller. If she would have caught him she would have torn him up but, I was the tomboy/firecracker. I guess that slipped his mind until I caught him. But anyway he never went even when I was in college. So I knew he wasn't cheating but I never thought to ask him why he did not want to go. When I worked at the OB/GYN clinic we would see men with their wives/girlfriends more during the second checkup after it was confirmed she was pregnant. But on normal exams, you didn't see that many. Some it freaks out and by being on here some it makes horny. Some guys you can mess with if they are sheepish about things. My sister and I used to ask him to get us tampons on the phone. He would always say shut up get them yourselves. He would turn red if you were at the checkout counter and I put tampons on the counter. But I guess there is a point where you can take it too far. I have mentioned that our parents were really religious. We were at mom and dads during the Christmas holidays once and sent him to the store to pick up some baking items. At this point, we were already engaged. We had been together for years. We decided we were going to need more eggs and mom called him. She told him to please buy another dozen eggs. Mom said I'm sorry but we forgot about eggs for the meringue. At the same time, my sister and I got next to mom and both of us said to tell him to buy some tampons. Mom not thinking because sis and I had dough and all on our hands. So mom says oh and pick up some tampons and we said to make sure it is Tampax Multipack, Unscented. We were laughing and mom wasn't. She said he hung up on her and he is probably mad, shame on us. When he got back sis and I asked if he got the tampons. He said that he lost the signal and didn't know what to get. Then he said he wanted to talk to me outside. He was furious.

So I guess it is for some and not others.

Absolutely would not want my fella there as I was being examined....that would be a rare moment of 'me time' that I'd want to savour on my own, in peace. Having him there would just completely ruin it!

Couple years ago my wife had some symptoms that could have indicated endometrial cancer. Her GYN wanted a tissue sample from her. Two N.P.'s did the exam and got the sample. She was nervous, because they told her that getting tissue samples could be VERY uncomfortable. She asked me to go with her and I readily agreed. During the procedure she was in a fair amount of pain and I stayed up by her head and tightly held her hand. When the pain was worst, she squeezed my hand hard.

The tissue sample turned out non-malignant and she thanked me profusely for being with her during that exam. That's what people do when they love another; she's my gal and I will help her any way I can.

I never really thought about having a partner with me, I just go on my own. Maybe that's a more British thing. I don't know anyone who has their husband or boyfriend go with them.

I’d be happy to join wife, but she has no need. That was different during her pregnancies where I joined her for all of her visits. The first visit always included a full exam which was a treat.

My ex and I always attended each other's exams. The dr allowd me to look over his shoulde through the speculum (including the insemination for both my kids). Such an amazing experience.

I would without a doubt go to the exam. I’d also do my best to get on the doctor’s good side and try to get the best view of the action that I possibly could.

A goal would be to learn techniques that I could take back to our play exam group. 😃

I have been in a relationship with my SO for a few months and it is going well enough. She is a strong, solid and confident partner (a characteristic I cherish and respect). Although I don't see it happening, if she did ask me to be with her for moral support I would certainly do so.

I never really thought about having a partner with me, I just go on my own. Maybe that's a more British thing. I don't know anyone who has their husband or boyfriend go with them.

@Fbella76 Certainly not me. I was not welcome at anything that had to do with my wife or the births of our two sons.

@Mark8 why no need now?