Could you go for days in a total sub role?

No, not for days. Hours, maybe? But not for days.

My husband is the King of his Castle and what he says goes and thats how we like it...Im submissive to him but not to where I am a slave..So I guess I do live it 24-7 just not hardcore. Domestic Discipline helps keeping me there and keeps him as the head of our home, I have always been turned on by dominant men. After awhile you both just ease into your roles and it just becomes the "Norm" .

I know this thread is old but still a good and needs some members to add to it.

Anyway I enjoy being a 24/7 sub. I have had one chance at it and did it. I wish I could go back and keep it going but life could not allow it today. I was 20 something and wanting more out of life. I came across a single man that knows what he wants and wanted to have a temp sub for a week. I interviewed with him and we found a match. It was to start Saturday noon and end next weekend sometime Sunday. I was willing to be all that I can be and left all things open with just a safe word to end the session. He was a willing experience dominate 30 years older than me and wanting to enjoy some play time. I was to to an all out come over and submit to whatever and endure anything but no lasting visible on my body which we agreed to. That was meaning no marks on my face, neck and hands.

I guess my story need to be in another section... Anyway... i have done total submission for a little over a week. Giving total control to a complete stranger as his home alone with no one knowing where I was. I enjoyed 80% of it but who has 100%. There was a few hard times that I made it through and in the end I love it. So as a full package it would be 100% do over and over and over. I was controlled 100% of the time, sleeping, eating, drinking, sex, bathroom... kept in collar and other restraints the whole time.

Anyone else enjoy this?

I would love to try at least a couple days of being controlled 100% even though it would be hard to make realistic. Being away from all my personal responsibilities for that time would be extremely hard for me to come by. If I could leave my life for a few days and be 100% controlled by a domme I believe I would enjoy that. Being told what to do when and how to do it. Wear what ever I am told, be held in bondage, orgasms controlled, serve anything from food drinks give the dominant baths. I would really enjoy a 24/7 lifestyle if I didn't have to worry about outside responsibilities.

Love being submissive in the right situation, with someone i know and trust. But just for some playtime. Not 24/7. I have a life i would not give up for any amount of money no matter how i feel about the the dominant.

Absolutely. I'm a total submissive bottom boi

I can for days. I enjoy the bitch role

Tried to be a sub lasted 5 days. Quite a story behind that. So I got interested in the D/s scene and wanted to explore. The first hurdle was that there's not much of it in India, so joined fetlife found people with similar likes and dislikes. Now I wanted to learn in a Safe environment so I got in touch with a Domme who was in the scene for a long time, she taught me most of my skills (Thank you Miss R ) the catch was that she would do all the things to me first so I could try to understand what goes on in the reviving partners mind( Receiving corporal punishment, humiliation, Chastity,roleplay,Enemas, etc basically she threw the whole book at me to find out my likes and dislikes ) .So I trained under her for almost a year and finally came the time for us to go our separate ways. She was quirky enough to demand a graduation ceremony/event where before separating I would be her sub for a week. I lasted for 5 consecutive days before demanding a break. :-)

That year was the best year of my life

Not only could I not be submissive for days, I so strongly identify with the Dominant role that I would have no interest in even trying to be submissive for five minutes. Like Popeye says: "I am what I am".

Yes, I am totally submissive to my wonderful wife. She is a nice dominant wife who would never do anything to hurt me. But she does like to get her own way all of the time. My job is to anticipate and make sure that she does. I love my job. If I can make her happy, I am very happy.

Absolutely not. I’m sub for sex only, the rest of my life I’m at the very least an equal.

Yes I could and so could my husband. We have both done it when our daughters were at sleep away camp for the eight weeks of summer and since being empty nesters while the girls are at college for the last almost three years we have gotten back into our old antics whenever we desired. My husband is especially good at holding still while restrained, and has done so twice while being mummified for 48 hours straight. I couldn't do that; it would drive me crazy, but we have done some rough mental hospital scenes where I was subbing for 48-72 hours. These are some of the scenes we enjoy.

In daily life our dominance is well matched and neither of us would dare suggest that the other should be submissive 24/7. The shotgun is kept under our bed and it's always loaded. 😁 😁 😁

Being a switch I have done it. It's very powerful and humbling and embarrassing. Butt it does give me a better insight of what the sub is thinking and feeling, and that in the end, {Pun intended } makes me a better Dom.

I would love to do it,but sadly real world life wont let it,

A full day is the most we have managed,but it is a cool idea for those that can,

Peace,

Caz

The sub role came on me slowly was married for a few yrs in my 40,s.Then out of know where started wetting the bed due to being diabetic.My wife is several yrs younger put me in diapers.She has become very dominate in the last few yrs always on the short end.With everything at home is now done [HER] way so been a sub along time.

I enjoy subtle sub/dom dynamics outside of the bedroom. For example, when I visit my Mistress, she likes to keep me plugged during the day - both as way to dominate as well as preparation for the events later to come. Sometimes she'll sneak in caresses and plug smacks here and there to remind me of my position. She also usually takes control of how our time is spent (if there's something that I want to do, I'll ask permission).

In conclusion, I don't know if it could be called total submission, but we do like to keep up the dynamics between us almost all of the time! It also helps that she's naturally inclined to be dominant (personality wise, etc) whereas I'm quite submissive by nature

I can for a trusted top who knows me well stay in sub mode and do some intense medical things for several days at a time. Orgasm denial totally helps.

Being a sub I think I could do it maybe not 24/7 because of work obligations,but definately after work and weekends I could see myself in sub role to the right Dom/Domme.

As a switch who loves sub I would love to try that for at least a day or two, mostly dressed in a lot of rubber and sneakers with anal play, plugs and enemas mixed with whatever sex she enjoyed. Sounds like fun, maybe for even longer.

Eric

Once I orgasm, it all stops. The world shuts down around me, and I've even passed out and woken up hours later. So I couldn't do a long stretch like that.

It's something that I would love to try. Staying in that mindset would definitely be fun, and it may be a little challenging coming right out of it; but nonetheless it's something I'd definitely be open to.

24/7 submission is something a sub has to take seriously and think long about. The relationship between sub and Dom/Do mm must be one of trust! At that point its not really play, but your life. A lot of discussion involved.

Having said that, weekend or nightly submission in a relationship sounds interesting!

I would not be able to do it 24/7. I like making some decisions for myself. I could do it after to work and weekends to a point. I would not be able to do it all the time due to wanting to be my own person. For a few hours I could.

That’s exactly how I feel FiestySue! I’m very independent in many ways so there are somethings I wouldn’t be able to give up my control of. I could do a day or maybe a weekend but that’s about it for me! It’s a mindset I would have trouble staying in for more than a weekend.

To those who have never tried a weekend …..I will only say that you reach a completely new level of emotional and physical bonding/release that you could only imagine. I've been both a sub and a domme in those situations. And having played with a partner for a few hours or a single night is really good ...but a weekend will blow your (and their) mind. You two will be totally connected and committed. And even if that only happens a few times a year, it still is great ...and a way to really build excitement/expectation and anticipation for days or weeks ahead of time. And those feelings will stay with you for several weeks afterwards.

I guess I am technically switch so days as a sub would be difficult - unless my headspace was really there. Would be interesting to see though.

It depends.

I.e., my sub disposition is dependent, responsive: relational.

i cannot relate to D/s scenarios that are dependent on rules vs relationship. E.g., i go on a kink site and a self identified "dom," who i have never met or have little to no relationship with, contacts me and starts making demands based on just the notion that because he calls himself "dom" or i say i'm "sub" that he can automatically dom me and i will submit because it's just an assumed rule that sub's submit, not matter what. And i have seen A LOT of guys with this notion, on both sides of the fence, to the point that i shy away from using the word "sub" to avoid the presumption.

For me, the thrill of a D/s dynamic is how deeply it can facilitate bonding and connectedness in a relationship. i see a Dom as the artist and the sub as the clay or canvas (the analogy helps me articulate, even though it's not perfect). To me, an artist has to know and understand the 'material' they are working with and how to work it in order to achieve the results they desire. That knowledge and understanding is realized and developed in ongoing practice.

i have stayed in a sub role for an extended period of time, but it wasn't just me submitting, it was me responding to a Dom who loved, enjoyed and knew how to elicit my submission, both in action and emotional/mental disposition.

Like most people said, I don't think I could go for days and days on end as a sub. I think I could do a couple days (2-3) but not like a complete week although I would like to try. I do like to control some of my own actions and because of that, my role as sub isn't really completely submissive. I should be willing to do whatever my dominant has asked me to do and I'm just not that way. There aren't a lot of things I won't do - but there are some things that I am just okay with and I have my boundaries - which is why, if I play, I will have to have safe words. I am not okay with anything highly sexual, painful (besides a spanking or a face slap) or uncomfortable. I want my role as a sub to help me learn something - not instill fear into me and cause me pain. If that was the case, then I can just ask someone to beat the hell out of me.

I think I would enjoy it as a normal part of a relationship. Not just meeting a dom and handing myself over. I would love for my husband to tell me things to do daily/make me, as part of our relationship. As it is, I do things on my own and pretend as though I'm being made to. Not the same but it atleast allows for a little of my submissive side to be slightly satisfied.

I've been thinking about this and it seems like there is no upside either way for me. I could certainly never play the submissive for very long, perhaps for a few hours, say an afternoon or evening. But longer than that and i would probably just refuse anything more and become resentful or probably even angry once my tolerance had been reached - and that would be fairly quickly I suspect.

On the other hand, I doubt I could ever play a dominant either, maybe even for less longer. I do not like giving orders or bossing other people around in the least. Not even sexually for fun ...