Best Way for Girls to Discipline Boys

I didn't read all the responses, however, it seems many of the responses are what the "miscreant" really wants done. I find the most effective punishment is corner time in the nude, blind folded, and no conversation (sensory deprivation) . The amount of time is determined by the degree of transgression.

Personally I end the punishment time with a 4 qt enema, the person still in the corner while I insert rectally a 30cc / 32Fr catheter, inflate and having a slow flow until I get impassioned pleas to stop and allow her to release. The pleas for release usually starts between 2 quarts and 3 quarts.

There are alot of ways. I use a variety on my boyfriend who is also my sub, Start with making him wear panties all the time. Second, spanking always works. Not torture but reasonable spanking. Use a strap or a belt. Have him stand in front of you and explain that he has to be spanked as part of his training. Then tell him that from then on when you tell him he is to be spanked that he is to report to you and he is to bring whatever instrument you order him to.

Then explain that he must then remove his jeans or slacks. Depending on whether you decide it will be over the knee or not will be up to you. If so, tell him he is to pull down his panties and get over your knee. If its easier for you, tell him to pull his panties down and then bend over a chair. Tell him he must count the strokes and then thank you after. Give him 15 to 25 strokes with the strap or belt and when its done rub some oil on his behind to cool it. Have him stand in a corner for a bit then tell him he can put his panties on. Another item that is a must is a collar and a leash.

Make him wear a collar all the time and train him to put it on himself when you go out. A leash of 6 to 8 feet works but also have a short leash of 4 feet on hand. Finally, and this is very important, put him in chastity. Mine wears a steel cock cage. He is allowed out of it to cum at least once a week. On those occasions he always is to cum in front of me. A couple times my girlfriends wanted to watch. If he doesn't wear it all the time, as mine does not, train him so that when you order him to put the cock cage on he does so in front of you, He must lock it and give you the key.

I also use restraints of various kinds. Leather wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs which he must put on and then which are locked. He has to attach the chain to the ankle cuffs, lock it and give me the key. I also have a full set of standard transport restraints which consists of shackles, a waist it chain and handcuffs.

A couple things that may happen. Mine often gets a vary hard erection when he is about to be spanked. That's if I take the cock cage off. I noticed the first time I put him in the transport restraints he got very hard. All of that means he is becoming well trained.

One final item is diapers and plastic panties. Get tight plastic panties and put him in diapers and the panties now and then for the night and when you go out. He can wear the cock cage under the diaper. You might also want to get locking plastic panties. The ones I use have a small chain at the waist which is tightened and then locked with a small padlock. I also ave a thin waist chain that fits over the waist and has another chain that goes between his legs. Even if he is in restraints this reminds him of who is in charge. Good luck

It is very simple. Jack him off or make him do it then set his ass on fire with a cane, paddle, strap, hairbrush, bath brush, whip or what ever your instrument of choice is. I will guarantee that no man is going to want his ass toasted with any of the above mentioned implements after being sexually drained. There will not the slightest hint of sexual pleasure when his rump subjected to a good beating.

If you want to really make him suffer top it off wit good hot soapy enema, that is defiantly not going to be desired in the post ejaculatory state.

I know quiet well from many personal experiences that being spanked on the ass and soapy water being run up the ass are extremely unpleasant after all sexual pleasure is eliminated before true punishment.

Rob

Personally I think different techniques work for different ppl that being said it also depends on why your being punished or what the infraction was.A good old fashioned ass beating with a strap or belt is one way followed by some corner time and make the beating as humiliating as you can,scolding,making him undress in your presence... yes a good soapy enema before ,during or after is another element as you can add numerous things to make the punishment as unpleasant as you can.

Boys are going to respond best as pointed out if they really feel it... Have him jerk off before you begin... apply some bengay to a finger and ram it up his hole... this will cause him great discomfort and make it painful to clench. rubbing your hand on his cock and balls will add more discomfort from the menthol cream... none of this is damaging but will cause great discomfort... At this point I would suggest taking a belt or hairbrush and spanking him till he starts bawling... at that point it is good to slow down and make the strokes harder... keep at till you are satisfied he has learned his lesson...

Alternatively grabbing him under the balls till his scrotum is tight and lightly tapping his balls will cause great pain... Personally since you cannot know the pain it might be best to avoid doing that but it is an alternative to spanking that is most unpleasant...

Put a spreader bar on his ankles and cuff his hands behind his back. Next put a diaper on him. Using a 10 long strap on peg him till he is sore. After you have had your fun, give him a nice long spanking series till he is bawling his eyes out. Next, give him a fleet mineral oil enema and a regular fleet enema. Pull up th diaper and place him with his nose in the corner.

Last night my wife told me she was going to take this fantasy and expand it some before doing it to me. First she dressed me in a bra, skirt, and high heels, with the cuffs, spreader bar, and diaper in place. She next took my temperature rectally. She replaced the thermometer with a 12" black strap-on and rode me for 30 minutes.

After pegging me she used a paddle on my behind giving me 30 hard swats and making me count each one, followed by a thank you mommy. Next she gave me three fleets, they were a regular fleet, a mineral oil and a fleet bottle filled with glycerin. After pulling up the diaper, she connected the spreader bar to the cuffs with a chain before sticking my nose in the corner.

@FunnStrict said

I didn't read all the responses, however, it seems many of the responses are what the "miscreant" really wants done. I find the most effective punishment is corner time in the nude, blind folded, and no conversation (sensory deprivation) .

You are absolutely right.

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I think @EnemaAndIvory posted one that I'm fond of. Make the male masturbate and edge to porn for a good hour or two with the stipulation that he NOT orgasm/ejaculate. Then, have him get on knees and forearms with his ass up in the air. Insert a lubricated finger into his ass and generously massage the prostate to express every drop of prostatic fluid possible into a bowl or on a plate (black dishware makes the fluid show up more prominently) placed below his cock. As he has been edging he should produce a generous amount during the massage.

Do NOT let him ejaculate. Do NOT let him orgasm. This will cause major sexual frustration for him afterwards. Make him lick up his emissions after the session is complete.

My question would be - the best for whom?

My favourite ways of being punished are OTK spankings and extended edging without being allowed to orgasm.

She should have sex with another male or female and let him know how hot it was

I like the spanking and enema combination, but I would suggest an addition - suppositories before the spanking. I prefer to make my own by melting 4-5 glycerine supps in the microwave, adding special ingredients, and then pouring into the finger of a latex glove to form. The burning and cramping inside coupled with the spanking outside will enhance the experience. Let him expel as he watches you fix the first enema, then repeat as necessary!

A large enema that he is forced to hold during a hard spanking. After expulsion, a pegging with a large strapon dildo while in chastity - like the way Cybill Troy does it.

...like the way Cybill Troy does it.

Oh, yes please! She is truly evil in all the right ways. I'd gladly struggle in bondage under her strict observations.

To upset them? Nothing at all.

As funishment, the sky is the limit, but I particularly like exposing/vulnerable positions. If they cum, I prefer it to be in a more demeaning way. You probably won't have a physical advantage, so controlling how they can or cannot move helps.

A male chastity device. The CB6K is good, not great, but it works. Install it, lock it and put the key around your neck on a little gold chain. In a very short time you become their world because you have deprived them from their favorite little toy.

For me it would be prolonged rectal temperature taking. Thermometer would be twistet while inserted and moved up and down from time to time.

Humiliation (as in humbling, ego-dismantling) of the captive male. It may take a surgeon and a surgical-equipment maker to do this properly - combine chastity-belt and catheterisation. Plus bowel monitoring (the way LittleAmy described it on this thread). Plus spanking with canes. And, if a suitable situation arises, rough prolonged sodomization (by female and male).

Crikey @squidgicunt , you have some serious plans there for your captive! Let me know if you ever want to see how effective this is in real life!

Humiliation (as in humbling, ego-dismantling) of the captive male. It may take a surgeon and a surgical-equipment maker to do this properly - combine chastity-belt and catheterisation. Plus bowel monitoring (the way LittleAmy described it on this thread). Plus spanking with canes. And, if a suitable situation arises, rough prolonged sodomization (by female and male).

I don't think I'll ever consider asking you for a date ... ha h ha ha.

By using a long, hard, thick strap-on enema nozzle on him and very gradually filling him up as the postoning action of the device pushing way in and taken almost out over and over again until all of the lubrication is worn off.

My wife had a built in way with out working on it .When started wetting due to diabetic diapers and mattress protector were put into effect and to top off when we go on a trip I must pack All my Supplies which hurts the male ego.

I would start by taking rectal temp followed by a 2 qt. Hot and soapy enema which he would have to hold for 15 min. Next he would get 2 more 2 qt plain water enemas to rinse out the soap. Now that he is pretty well cleaned out I would insert my index finger in his butt and massage his prostate gland while he masterbated to a complete orgazam. Now the spanking would begin . Bare from the, waist down he would be face down flat on our bed with a pillow placed under him to raise his butt up. I would whip his ass with our leather strap till real tears were staining the sheets .

I don't take discipline well and this whole topic makes me cringe. You'd have to tie me down and be well clear when I got loose. I'd rather have a root canal.

I guess, orgasm denial.

You tease him, then not permitting him to cum till he loses his mind.

I guess, orgasm denial.

You tease him, then not permitting him to cum till he loses his mind.

Or even better, edging until just before he comes, then dress him or you in any fetish clothes or accessories you know would turn him on. For me that would be a lot of rubber and sneakers. Preferably tie him down. Then start with a small 2 quart enema, with soap if you want to make it more intensely felt and challenging for him. Massage his belly. Edge again but deny orgasm, then after he's empty, as many enemas as you like to put him through, increasing the volume, soap and/or glycerin concentration and retention each time, with masturbation to the edge but no orgasm. Another nice addition to improving his discipline is making him do chores or submissive tasks like making you coffee or do dishes while he's full of enema water, including getting up from the bed or floor to stand up or walk around or even do exercises. When he's struggling to get up and when he's standing, it makes him feel and look as distended as possible. Most would find moving their big belly around somewhere between awkward and humiliating.

After several enemas of as much volume as you think he can tolerate (maybe 2->3->4+ quarts) forcing him to hold them for at least a half hour or more plus standing to show off his belly, EVENTUALLY let him come but only after holding his last enema for a long time, like an hour, or tell him he has to hold his last largest enema all night if he ever wants an orgasm. Either way, tell him he has to get his orgasm without masturbating himself by giving you PIV as long as it takes for him to come inside you. And of course you keep reminding him during PIV that you're making him work as hard as possible to get his orgasmic relief while fucking you and making him feel all the enema water inside him sloshing while he fucks you to get his orgasm.

And if you're so inclined, you can inform him that if you think he ever needs similar discipline again, he'll have to go through the same or worse enema ordeal before he has any chance of sex or an orgasm from you...............

Eric

In a public place tell him 'When we get home you are going to get a spanking that you will never forget!" Loud enough for others to hear!

And or while driving tell him " Pull over to the side of the road I need to spank you!"

Anything involving his ass or asshole, especially when over the woman's lap, totally submissive to her. Some guys can't enjoy it b/c they can't put their ego on hold. Too bad.

My wife spanked me in front of her sister and mother. She had me bend over a spanking bench, then used on of my belts till I was sizzling red and crying.

Woof… a lot of fun ideas here. I suppose if the intent of the thread is ‘ideas guys want to have inflicted upon them,’ a girl making me drink entirely too much water and keeping me from the bathroom sounds delightful. Two or three liters of a refreshing drink, plus time, makes for a very squirmy guy. Add in firm bellyrubs and very intentional prods and pokes to the bladder, and you're sure to have him struggling to maintain his dignity. And when leaks happen- and they will, it's an if, not when, kind of situation- it's too easy to follow up with further punishments!

If it's ways to actually punish? Well that varies. But putting me nose-to-the-corner in timeout, or just, barring me from orgasm for a few days? That's simple, effectively, and genuinely torturous.

Here's a question- where can I find a woman that wants to inflict such things upon me ;p