Facing your partner when they lube you up and give you an enema

I know its the ultimate sacifice to give up your most secret private area for a very personal act

who among us would prefer to be facing their giver when they depants you lube you up slowly then insert the nozzle or tube

or would that be too embarressing

If I were facing my partner (wife) during an enema, for me it would be an intimate setting even if it were another woman. I would feel more excitement than I would embarrassment when her hands reach between my legs to prepare me for the nozzle.

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i know its the ultimate sacifice to give up your most secret private area for a very personal act

who among us would prefer to be facing their giver when they depants you lube you up slowly then insert the nozzle or tube or would that be too embarressing

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I don't think it is embarrassing or a sacrifice at all. Extremely exciting for the first the first time or two between new partners, but even then, things tend to even out a bit and tend to settle at a level where partners are excited to be with each other, but there is a different excitement level and experience with new vs old partners. Once you know each other, it isn't a big deal at all to present any body part for any activity.

I usually self-administer. I have found that I don't need to lube the first enema. My rectum has enough natural mucous membrane that it is not needed. By the second enema, however, that mucous membrane was washed away by the first. I have found that the right amount of lube is best obtained by essentially opening the cap to a tube of KY Jelly and putting onto the applicator the amount you get out without consciously squeezing the tube.

I prefer to be turned around and looking over my shoulder. It heightens the anticipation and loss of control, that I crave.

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I usually self-administer. I have found that I don't need to lube the first enema. My rectum has enough natural mucous membrane that it is not needed. By the second enema, however, that mucous membrane was washed away by the first. I have found that the right amount of lube is best obtained by essentially opening the cap to a tube of KY Jelly and putting onto the applicator the amount you get out without consciously squeezing the tube.

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Bemoaning the lack of anatomical correctness from another thread started by someone else, I felt I had to correct this misconception before it goes farther.

A MUCOUS MEMBRANE or MUCOSA, is the innermost LAYER OF SPECIALIZED CELLS surrounding the lumen or space within the tube (of the colon, eyes, mouth, nose and most other internal body surfaces).

The mucus or "slime" or "slippery stuff" coating the rectum or other epithelial linings of various tissues IS NOT a mucous membrane. Also, the "slime" inside the rectum lining the colon walls is "mucus," the membrane is "mucous." A mucous membrane does not get washed away or else we would all be dead.

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I prefer to be turned around and looking over my shoulder. It heightens the anticipation and loss of control, that I crave.

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If the lack of control is what you crave, maybe you need the threat of a good smack on the ass so you DON'T turn around to see what's going on! 😁 😁 😁 😁

Thanx group

i had it that way only once long ago by a nurse

i was most embaressed and when little winky arose she thumped it

it was even more embaressing considering i was in a military hospital ward getting patched up from wounds i got in viet nam

once a month in that open ward we all it

after that doc,s changed us to suppos

I prefer to face the individual as she is gently applying lubricant to my rectum or penis(for other scenarios such as sound insertion with or without enemas, or anal sex). No matter if it is someone new or that I have gotten to know,for me, it heightens the eroticism and emotional bond.

G.N. 😃

I think looking at the person lubing you is a great turn on.

My husband does NOT "lube" me!

When it IS necessary to use some KY jelly, he puts it on the nozzle.

Whether you do it yourself or someone does it for you, there's nothing like placing a good glob of KY or other lube on your finger and around the anus and slowly insinuating a finger or two DEEPLY into the rectum to lubricate the path for the colon tube or balloon. 😁 😁 😁

I would really enjoy a woman lubing me up before she gave me an enema. She could insert one, and then two fingers and give me a thorough rectal exam and prostate massage. Would enjoy laying on my stomach, legs spread, and let her do it for 30 mins to an hour. That would be very exciting!!!!! 😉 😜 Then I would most certainly return the favor if she liked. 😉 Hopefully someday.....

I really think looking at someone getting ready to give you an enema is a turn on and a way to let them know how you feel, rememmber when you have that ummm look they kmow that you are enjoying your self and wow what a way to love each other 😃

I like to lay on my back, with my legs spread and knees slightly raised. I love to look at my wife when she is giving me the enema.

Sometimes I am not sure about the look on her face though.

We rarely need lube!

I am in my 30s and in decent shape so I can use most nozzles with no lube at all.

When I do need it, it's just a little on the nozzle itself.

Whether you NEED lube or not, I think there are many of us here who find that good lubrication of the anus is a pleasant part of an enema, especially if done by a partner.

The slow and sensuous application of cool lubricant is a wonderfully exciting phase of the erotic enema ritual. Seeing the administrator may sometimes enhance the experience, but it's the physical sensation that's most thrilling - - the first tender touching of the intimate area.

We rarely need lube!

I am in my 30s and in decent shape so I can use most nozzles with no lube at all.

When I do need it, it's just a little on the nozzle itself.

LisaK - you can get away with things if you are careful and give to yourself. If you are with a partner or just want things to feel better lube never hurts and often helps.

It's Lubriderm for me ALL THE WAY! you can find it easily at your pharmacy