Presenting Your Fanny for Treatment

Definitely the giver

Always let the giver spread the cheeks

The giver is in control. That's the humiliation of the enema.

My hubby and I have been into enemas seemingly forever ... and loving every moment of it. Recently, without me knowing, he purchased a medium-sized vibrator ... just for me.

Just the other night, he used it for the first time when we were playign our game of "following the instructions." We don't do anything super wierd, but when we were doing an "e" outdoors, he did have me stand with my legs spread as far apart as I could without losing my balance, had me spread my cheeks as far as I can and then inserted the black bullet (what a great feeling) and while I was taking the water, he slipped the vibrator into "you know where," turned it on and WOWOWOWOWOWOW. I thought I was going to climb the walls on our barn. I have had great feelings before, but never likethis. Wow!

The giver has always spread my cheeks when giving me an enema. Sometimes it's embarrassing, especially if it's a young female stranger. Such was the case once when a young female technologist inserted a balloon up my rectum for my barium enema. I was completely mortified, but she acted like it was nothing. On the other hand, when my 24 year old female colon therapist parts my cheeks, I'm not embarrassed at all. I guess it's because of the nature of her job, and she's already seen by butthole dozens of times.

It feels sexier when my partner does it. It is nice to be told to spread them wider as well. Both are great for me.

Hehehe - just be aware you good Americans

Don't come to the UK and say someone has a nice fanny

That's a vulva over here!!!!!

I have yet to receive an enema, but I think I would prefer the giver spreading me. A virgin at 55! 😃

During a closed-system colonic I pull up the top buttock while on my left side to make it easier for the therapist to insert the speculum. As I posted before, receiving a speculum or enema nozzle with legs up and back makes this unnecessary since the cheeks part naturally.

I love having the giver part my cheeks. i also love spreading someone else's cheeks for a long look at their little hole first. like this, http://enema-girl-18.tumblr.com/post/110280944737

I like to do the spreading of my cheeks myself to give the giver a nice view of her target. So I invite to her to make me a rimming and lubricate me with her tongue.

I prefer the giver!

I love to spread my cheeks for my giver, to demonstrate my anticipation and willingness to to receive their finger and then the nozzle.. I especially like doing this when I'm in the knee-chest "prone" position.

I am not embarrassed to hold my but cheeks wide opened, unfortunately it never happened that I was asked to do it for my enema procedure. Only way I am told to hold it opened is when nurse does rectal swab on me, she inserts small tip into my anus and then sends it to laboratory for analysis.

I would prefer the enema giver to spread my bum cheeks wide enough for him or her to observe my opened anus so that the nozzle could be inserted deep into my rectum

I would prefer the enema giver to spread my bum cheeks wide enough for him or her to observe my opened anus so that the nozzle could be inserted deep into my rectum

So i would do and had down in a medical siuation. My expierence is, that caregivers donot like if you are too naked or opened in such a situation. So i was in a situation at a female proctologist on an examination chair. I pulled down my pants and panties a little more down while lying in position but she made me know, that it is not neccessary for here, she could observe enough.

For a procedure, they taped my cheeks apart.

My cheeks spread naturally when Mom put me in the diapering position or an enema or a rectal temp tskiing

I prefer to open them and present myself for the giver. Willing for that nozzle and the solution to follow.

I prefer the giver to do it. I love the control mmmm

I agree with Toshe and it’s erotic and embarrassing

Definitely the giver, especially if they have never given me or anyone an enema previously.

I think sometimes neither. I would rather be put in the knee chest position and then have the examiner adjust my posture. They would separate my knees more widely and and instruct me to arch my back and tilt my pelvis in a away to stick my bottom up more. This combined with spreading the knees causes my buttocks to naturally separate and my anus is in full view. They use their hands to firmly position me to their liking before they put their gloves on. When they are done it is a much more embarrassing position. I also like the idea that like this, if they used a low viscosity lubricant like surgilube or KY jelly and were generous with it, then it will slowly drip down my perineum after they withdraw their finger, thermometer or instrument.

I both like the feeling of having my buttocks parted, and of being made to assume a position that parts them, such as squatting or on my back legs to my chest.

As soon as the giver is touching it is exciting with also a good feeling of submission