Presenting Your Fanny for Treatment

Do you get embarrassed holding your cheeks apart or do you prefer your giver to hold them open

I prefer the giver to be in complete control of the situation!

Yes i agree i find it more sexy and relaxing to just lie there

and do everything for you after all giving up your most secret spot

is an act of trust and love plus i also believe that once your enema begins if you are in blissful state and want to help your giver or show your pleasure moving your fanny towards your giver or moving your hips should add to the moment

Part of the thrill for me is the touch of another person. Knowing that it will happen, but not knowing just how adds to the anticipation.

@sam42, that is exactly how I feel about it.

I want to trust the giver with everything. Touching adds pleasure to the experience.

Whether I'm giving or receiving, I like the giver to spread my cheeks and make sure everything is very well lubricated before inserting the nozzle or colon tube.

Definitely the giver must spread my cheeks. Unfortunately it's most often myself doing the cheek spreading 😃

I like to see what the giver does

Giving: I restrain the bottom and play with his hole until he begs for the insertion. Then I have him resist me. When I'm in I remind him that no matter what he does he cannot avoid the flow....

Receiving: I love the feeling of being penetrated.... fully and deeply.

When being given an enema I prefer to have the giver be in control. So I can just relax.

Wow,

All these posts conjure up some delicious images.

If I was receiving an enema I'd much prefer the giver to do the positioning and any baring of the bum required. What more submissive situation?

Now on the other hand, If I was giving, I'd like to be directing. I think I could add a lot to the recipients anticipation and arousal just by teasing the whole process of insertion and penetration out for a while.

- mcclane

When I am getting a enema, I prefer the giver to spread my cheeks to expose my anus. Yes, it's embarrassing, but in a turn on way!

Buttman Bill in Mich.

I perfer my partner to do all the work it is easier to relax and enjoy.

Certainly I'd prefer the giver to be in complete control and do it all, but only after I feel confident enough that my behind will not emanate any embarrassing odor during the initial parting of the cheeks, like when you first pop open a bag of chips. To avoid this, I first coat the inside of my cheeks with some cologne.

To the "right" partner, that which is parted would never seem "barn-like" -- more like the delicate petals of a delightful flower, opening to the gentle rainfall in the garden.

I like to do the spreading of my cheeks myself to give the giver a nice view of his or her target. I do want the giver to do the penetration part however. 😉

Yeah when I was getting them from my mom as a kid, I remember she would do the spreading with one of her hands. Now when I do it to myself, I do the same thing.

When I was given enemas in the diapering position as a young child, the cheeks spread naturally and did not need prying apart. With colonics now, I sometimes help the therapist by pulling up my upper cheek for easier access by the speculum.

Prefer to have what ever is comfortable at the time aswell as talking me through what they are doing so i dont get a fright when it actually enters.

All i can say is that as long as the giver is gentle, understanding and lubricates me and the tip of the enema, i dont care.

I would hold my cheeks open for an enema, if I was told to. Yeah, it'd be "embarrassing", but I like that.

I'd want the other person, for sure, to put the nozzle up my butt though, holding onto it to keep it there (and move it around a little 😃 ), and working the clamp.

Whenever I've had a colonic though, as I remember, the lady has always parted my cheeks for me while I laid on my left side. I had contemplated doing the cheek spreading with my hand myself, but never followed through with it. I don't know, but with them I liked having my cheeks spread for me. I guess it's that "extra touch" thing.

Having to part my cheeks to receive is wonderful. The embarrassment factor seems to add a lot to the atmosphere. As a matter of fact, the embarrassment factor is what really blows my hair back.

Without a doubt...the women I give enemas to want to be totally in my control...their pretty butts up in the air, on display, and I ALWAYS like to take my thumb and index finger and spread them before we get started...whatever the submissive appeal is, it just boils to the surface when I have them like that.

Oh most def i would want the giver to be in charge. it would be such a rush to have them have to keep "checking." that would involve opening or spreading the checks a few times to make sure everything was going ok. it would also be nice to have them have to keep wiping or cleaning my hole up during and after the process. its almost all about them being in control while im going through this. the different touches by the other person is almost just as a rush as the actual enema it self.

Would it help if I turned on the air conditioner for you?

Well, I prefer to have my giver do all the work and I think they prefer it that way too

I love to spread them with the hopes that I get tongued first!

When my wife and I were exchanging enemas, (long ago and far away) the anticipation of having a warm hand caress and then slowly spread my cheeks was the highlight of the event. I think that that sort of attention is the principal reason that I long to have a warm gentle lady servicing my needs.

My enurse really prefers me to be on my back

my legs spread waiting for her to bring in the bag

as for spreading my cheeks she finds it more pleasurable for me to raise my legs with my hands behind my knees

and presto ass cheeks are wide open to her

The diapering-type position that hose4fun describes is just like the one mom started me off for enemas. As he said, the target is wide open and clutching is impossible. It is still a favorite today.