I have been sitting on this post for a few days now mulling it over, whether to, or whether not to add my two cents worth.
Again, I see two sides of the coin here because I am a nurse, and because I have been, and will be a patient at sometime or an other again before I take a permanent dirt nap, and God willing that won't be any time soon,(throwing salt over my shoulder, lol).
On the tail (pun intended) side of the coin, which will be my patient side, I can honestly say I hate pain, especially medical pain, whether it's something I have done to myself i.e., falling down the steps and breaking my leg for example, or pain caused by a medical procedure like having a cyst dug out and removed from my backside. Either way, I don't like medical pain, or let me rephrase that, I don't like medical pain when it's real medical pain for a real reason. I happen to like real medical pain i.e., during a play session, injections and the like. (Just had to toss that in there so no one thinks I've gone vanilla or something, lol, hehehe).
I am such a wuss when it comes to real medical pain that whenever any sort of pain medication, or medication is offered to control any pain I am currently having or could potentially have I am first in line. And if I think there might be a chance that I might have any pain and none is offered I always ask, and I am not shy about it either. I am also very picky about the pain medication or sedation medication I am getting too. (You know, we nurses, aside from doctors make the worst patients.)
I am such a wuss when it comes to real medical pain that one time I had to have an ingrown toenail cut out. The doctor stuck me with a diabetic syringe, which the needle is paper thin to start with. He had it filled with lidocaine and also had it buffered with I believe sodium bicarb which is supposed to take a lot of the sting out of the lidocaine, hahaha. He stuck me in the end of my toe once, squirted some in, I actually screamed, he waited a few minutes for it to start working, then stuck me again, and I screamed again, so much so that the doctor from the other side of the office came over and said I was scaring the other patients, so she shut the exam room door, lol. Anyway, the area wasn't getting numb, I have white coat syndrome as it is, so the thought alone of having that done had every nerve in my body standing on end, I was also scared, and really really hate my feet being even looked at much less touched, and even worse having something medically done to them, and I do not handle pain in any way like I should, so in the end, I talked the doctor into partially sedating me to take out my ingrown toenail. I know, pathetic right? I admit it, I am a total baby with real medical pain. Actually, I can handle quite a bit, but not with my feet especially. When I had the cyst lanced and removed from my backside, before he even got near me, before I even had my pants down, I made for damn sure the pain medications/sedatives were already drawn up, where I could see them, and were ready to go.
As a patient, if I have the option of not having to be in pain, you bet your hindend I'm going to take that option, and if there is a chance I might be in pain, then I don't make it a choice. However, on that note, I do have to agree, I think the lidocaine hurts worse than the IV stick itself. I have had a lot of IV's over the years, and prior to my kidney issues I gave blood on a regular basis and the Red Cross uses either a 14 or a 16 gauge needle I believe, and they don't use lidocaine, and so far, I have not minded any of the IV sticks in the past, keeping my fingers crossed. lol.
Now, on the flip side of that same coin, (the head side since I am the head nurse, again, pun intended, lol) the nurse side of me is also a strong believer in pain management. We are taught that pain is the 5th vital sign, and a patients pain is what they say it is no matter what kind of signs and symptoms they are having. And yes, I have seen my fair share of junkies and drug seekers who, after seeing enough of them sort, of make medical professionals judge, disbelieve, and often times automatically cut the pain scale rating a patient is saying they are currently having in by at least half, then medicate to what they, meaning the medical professional, think is appropriate. Which, is a tough call for us, especially when they are frequent fliers in the emergency room always asking for pain medications, rating their pain on a 1-10 scale, 10 being the worst they have ever had, as they sit there on their cell phones yelling at their spouse or SO that they better not be drunk when they get home, and there had better be enough cigarettes left. Unfortunately, for the patients who actually do come through the doors in legitimate pain, or with pain that is not easily seen, or is an easy diagnosis that is hard to detect sometimes, i.e. back pain for example, medical professionals often times also judge, disbelieve, or cut these people's pain rating in half as well so these poor people are not getting the medications they really do in fact need. But, trust me, that's a whole different topic, on in which I could and maybe someday write volumes on.
But back to the topic at hand here, as a nurse I have seen a lot of things over my almost 10 years now, from a nursing point of view. And trust me when I tell you, there are a lot of things you need to be fully or partially sedated for, and have pain management either prior to or post, or both for many procedures. A lot goes on to a patient when they are sleeping, all medically appropriate mind you, but a lot of it isn't pretty. So as a nurse, my best advice is, if they offer you pain medications, a seditive, or what have you, take it. If they are offering these things to you then that means that most of their patients have needed it, and you probably won't be any different.
Another thing I want to point out here is that everyone is different, everyone's body is different. I often read quite a few post on here about people going for colonoscopys and are not sedated. That's great if you don't need some. Me personally have very tight angles, for lack of better terms in my colon. I told my GI doc that prior to my colonoscopy back in July and one of the things she did tell me when I woke up was that I was right, I am smaller than most folks down there and in that part as well, so much so that they had to use a pediatric scope, flip me around on the table more than usual, manipulate the scope and my intestines through external palpation/manipulation, and they were still having trouble advancing the scope. There was no way I will ever be able to have a colonoscopy done without sedation. So, everyone is different.
Long story short, my slogan, "better living through chemistry". It's a good thing.
Mashie