Ok so there are a few threads asking about how people punish but there isn't really any for the type i do. Luckily i have a gf so i cant just go the old i dont like that punishment much and not do it. I punish her the way i want and she punishes me the way she wants.
We have only just discovered our similar likes in bdsm and abdl but here a few punishments that i have used that she liked so far.
#1
Whilst she is naked she has her wrists tied above her head from a rope hanging from the ceiling, Her feet only just touch the ground for her to support her body, she has a large but plug in and i force her to pee onto her undies which are scrunched up in my hands to hold as much as possible. She is then gagged with them in her mouth and a ball gag. Then you can whip torture boobs or what ever you want.
Hint: As she is gagged she can make a shape with her hands as she cannot talk and use her safe word.
#2
She is made to kneel at the end of the bed where her ankles are tied to the posts. Then hands tied behind her back and made to go into the doggy position (on her knees and tits with her ass up in the air). She usually gets clamps on her tits which are tied with wires to the sides of the bed stretching her tits apart. The same goes on her clit and is attached to the end posts stretching it. Then she gets a fisting with disposable glove on my hand and vicks vapor rub as lubricant.
#3
She is restrained in the same position as number two. She gets an amount of suppository's which include ginger, lemon and the allmighty magic bullet which really makes you want to go.
And a soap but plug. She then gets bare hand spanked for however long. Then a Warm water enema, I usualy try to get at least 4 quarts into her. Without the plug in she is whiped with a stick for 30 minutes on the bum then getts and thick wadding of disposable diapers and plastic pants. She kneels on the ground and gets very brutal oral. If i think she is doing a good job then she is allowed to expell into her diapers.
(Some times as extra punishment she is kept in them until the next morning.)
#4
She is given medication to make her constipated for a few days then is given at least 5 magic bullet suppositorys and plastic pants. Then she is spanked till she expells. After that she gets more spanking and a good massaging of the feces through the plastic pants. The massaging usualy makes the feces go all over the bum cheeks on the vagina and on the front of her.
If we want to keep the pants on her to remind her of how naughty she is I just put a diaper over them.
#5
To make sure she stays nice and full you can lay her down and Powder her bottom hole to make it nice and dry. Then get a large tampon. (I use tampons because they are dry and cause friction, Pluss they are kinda a turn on for me, The Wider the better, Must be a disposable one) Insert it very slowly and then pull it back out very slowly. Do this a few times so that she can be reminded that she is being punished. Then leave it in. It causes discomfort for the whole time it is in.
You can change it every time you need to wash her and change her from peeing her diaper.(of course she cant poo because of the tampon) Every time you change it make sure you do the pulling out then reinserting it a few times. Do it with both the one your taking out and then new one your putting in.
Remember to powder the hole every time as well.
Oh 1 more thing. Since we are new to this and dont have much experience in knowing what we can handle we have safe words. This has been very handy as neither of us have to hold back. If anyone else is new to BDSM then i suggest safe words as a really good tool when starting your little experiments.