A better turn-on,.."exposure" or actual "flow"

I was asked by a member what "turned me on" more, the "exposure" of my butt and anus to anyone present before the enema nozzle is inserted or, the feeling of the actual "flow" of the solution entering my rectum.

After thinking about it, I replied to her. Then I thought,...I wonder how others would answer this question ? So, I decided to post my response and and ask what others would say absed on their experiences.

Here is my reply:

I guess I must be a "closet exhibitionist" because, ever since I was a toddler, (so I'm told) I have always loved walking around without clothes on, whenever I could. In fact, I remember that, at about age six or seven during the summer at my grandfather's cottage on Cape Cod, I would "backup" to my bedroom window and stick my bum into the half-open window and spread my cheeks to "show the world" my bum hole, secretly hoping that a passerby would look up and see me. It was a combination of feeling very "naughty" and "daring!" Plus, the excitement of actually "thinking" about doing it, coupled with the "image" of what it would look like from the street and then possibly "getting caught" was very "arousing" at the same time. I actually do remember playing with myself while doing this.

To answer your question further, I guess I like the "exposure" aspect as the number one feeling. Kneeling on the bed or floor with my butt and anus sticking up high in the air open to "public" view with my head and chest resting on a surface is a huge turn on! I feel so completely "vulnerable" Then, feeling something like a rectal thermometer or enema nozzle being slowly inserted into my little brownish rosebud gets me REALLY excited. I usually like to reach up to my pubic area and "tease" my clit, very "intermittently" at first, then gently stroking it more steadily, as the flow of the enema solution continues to enter my rectum.

The actual "feeling" of the "flow" of the solution entering my rectum is nowhere near as intense as the act of totally exposing myself and the insertion of an instrument into my butt.

I have never tried "Vicks" as a lubricant but it does sound very arousing, knowing how it felt being rubbed on my chest as a child when I had a cold or flu. I will definitely have to pick up a small jar and use it next time. Thanks for the suggestion.

What are your thoughts ?

Vicks will definitely give you a very warm glow! Beware though that it does have a smell of menthol which will linger for a while and may need a bit of explaining away to others!

For me I believe it's the exposure and vulnerability of having yourself under someone's control.You resist the idea and at the same time feel butterflies.Vicks has a sensation all it's own but not bothersome.

What's up with all the "quotes"?

Vick's is just menthol, as long as you don't use too much it shouldn't hurt anything, but yeah, it'll warm you up!

As for exposure vs. flow... Well, I'm not much of an exhibitionist to start with, so I'll go with flow. Then again, us guys have all kinds of neat things for water to hit 😃

So far the biggest turn-on is when my partner unclamps the hose...

Quotes?Not sure what quotes you saw unless it's about the vicks in which case we were just expressing our views on the subject.

I think the exposure and the filling are both "turn ons" for me. Exposure to a trusted enema friend is very meaningful to me. (F/M)

I'd second that!! 😜

Paula, I like the thought of maybe getting caught, to me, thats a real turn-on.

For me it is the exposure and lubing. I get turned on when a finger is in me lubing and prodding around.

Given that I was raised in a household where we were normally naked around the house, the exposure is “meh”. But the feelings as the hot sudsy fills me gives me a raging stiffie, and does "it: for me every time!

@Nixie For me it is the exposure and lubing. I get turned on when a finger is in me lubing and prodding around.

Thanks for bringing up this old thread. Being fingered and probed always felt good, but dreaded the enemas that followed.