Music: before, during and after sex

Hi , I dont know if this has been posted before but does anyone have a select song or songs they like to play before/during/after sex

I like Closer by Nine inch Nails , reminds me of my days when i used to do erotic dancing at a bdsm club.

In times past, when I would be engaging in medfet play, I'd put on soft jazz or classical. I've found that softer music provides a much more relaxed atmosphere for a female patient who is about to receive some intensive procedures (such as a first-time enema or a first-time injection in her butt). Dr.X

.... Yeah... You know that song (and most of NIN's stuff, Trent has said so himself) is about rape?

Overall I'm not a big fan of music while doing it. It's either too distracting or always the wrong track, and the last thing I want to do is get up to change tracks 😜

I always have music on, for giving enemas or giving massages, or sex or punishment sessions. I play whatever compliments the mood, It seems it inspire me... I find the rhythms enhance what I do. I make my own music for the Ipod so I don't have to worry about getting up to change tracks. It's all good.

I like playing moody & sometimes spacey electronic music during sex & enema time. It's tends to heighten the experience for the two of us. And I especially like it because it makes me feel like I am in a late 70's to mid 80's porno film. - & that's a fantasy in an of itself. 8-)

One piece comes immediately to mind on this topic:

"Principles of Lust" by the group Enigma, over the years it has quite often helped to erotically go over the edge whether partnered or solo.

G.N. 😃

My alltime favorite album to play while doing Enemmas is

"Snowflakes Are Dancing" by Tomita. It is light classical

music done electronically. When Clair DeLune starts playing,

I totally relax.

Dan

Emmylou Harris, Together Again. Always works for me.

I agree Misty, I like a lot of Emmylou's music,

some of it is so moody and sexy, especially the "Wrecking Ball" album.

And what a great, unique voice.

Music enhances the mood for me!

Ahh yes slow jazz or new age like enya, enigma or even pink floyd or the moody blues

Classical music playing softly in the background, seductively.

I recommend the classic 1812 Overture by Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky.

The soft music representing the approach of the far off approaching army, the slow build as they get ever nearer, the sound of thunder, the attack as the cannons start to roar and then the marvellous tumultuous crescendo culminating in the pealing of bells - music to my ears if, as sometimes they are, they're not tightly clasped between a lovely pair of thighs.

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I recommend the classic 1812 Overture by Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky.

The soft music representing the approach of the far off approaching army, the slow build as they get ever nearer, the sound of thunder, the attack as the cannons start to roar and then the marvellous tumultuous crescendo culminating in the pealing of bells - music to my ears if, as sometimes they are, they're not tightly clasped between a lovely pair of thighs.

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You should listen to Beethoven's "Wellington's Victory March". . . . approaching armies, guns, cannons, musket fire. . . .good for multiple "re-entries" or in S&M, good flogging/spanking with brief rests between attacks. The Telarc recording is spectacular.

I have been toying with the idea of constructing a set of dildos that work like a speaker and would be inserted in a woman's cavities for a real stereo sound. If I am successful I will relate the details. I have been trying to imagine what Bolero, or the 1812 Overture would feel like. Of course there would be volume controls to find the "zone".

My girlfriend loves music, and during sex we often use the cable music channels as backround noise while we are engaged. Recently after the advice of a member on this page, I bought her the vibrator that works with a MP3 player or ipod, and vibrates along to the music. She absolutely loved the thing. I have never seen her orgasm so hard in her life, I dont remember what she was listenening too, but let me tell ya she went nuts!!!!

Not to break the mood or anything, but for me and my wife any kind of music at all, not matter what, is a definite mood breaker. There is no way at all to concentrate when there is anything rhythmic going on at the same time, especially music. It simply ruins everything and is a big distraction.

Willy said:

I have been toying with the idea of constructing a set of dildos that work like a speaker and would be inserted in a woman's cavities for a real stereo sound. If I am successful I will relate the details. I have been trying to imagine what Bolero, or the 1812 Overture would feel like. Of course there would be volume controls to find the "zone".

Get the Sextek ET-312B, a bunch of insertable probes and dildos, and the audio accessories they have for it.

All you will have to do it connect everything and your off!

The only real dom I was ever involved with was in Seattle and he had this whole ritual before a scene. It involved putting leather cuffs on my wrists and ankles spread-eagled on the bed, then lighting candles and turning on music before he put the blindfold on me.

The music was always kind of trance-like with a heavy rhythm/beat like Sarah McLachlan. All I know is that forever after that, whenever I'd hear that kind of music I'd just get wet thinking about the stuff he did.

"The Doors" "Riders on the storm" The sound of the thunder and the rain do it. 'Usta have one of those water fall machines that would play background sounds like a tropical rain forest, a rain storm, etc. That was nice.

I like to put earbuds in my subs ears with classical or jazz playing as a means of isolating her from the scene. It masks the sounds of what I maybe reaching for or preparing for her to keep her guessing. Earbuds with a blindfold really heightens the BDSM scenario for us.

No question classical music (I'm partial to Baroque), is great, but there is something about "Whole Lotta Love," Led Zeppelin that puts me in the mood everytime. 😉

Any song by Lords of Acid gets me in the mood. Love their music! And of course, one can't forget "Fuck the Pain Away" by Peaches!

We load the 5 disc cd player with soft jazz, light classical, and romantic type things we like and it's barely audible, don't want anything to cover up the moans, groans, and other sounds of pleasure.

I never know quite what to play. I hate the thought of making a sex mix playlist on my computer. It would just be weird, though I'll probably get around to it. Though I'd have to create several different lists for different occasions. A lot of the time, I play James Taylor since I have hours and hours and hours of his stuff.

Most recently Neil Young was played but that's just because I'd been listening to his stuff all day and didn't get a chance to change it or turn it off before the fun began. Neil Young is an amazing songwriter and singer but it's not exactly romantic or sexy to make love to his cds.

When I was younger, I had a playlist that included songs that I was hoping would work on the man to make him think he was in love with me. I thought between the lyrics he heard and the passion we had in bed together would do a mindfuck on him and make him fall in love. He saw through it, though and I felt embarrassed for being caught in a ruse. So none of that stuff anymore. From now on, it's only music that we both enjoy and music that may enhance the act. But nothing foolish like in my youth.

Nice topic. My current favorite band for when I lay my baby down is a Vancouver shoegaze band called Readymade. Perfect for nakedness on a snowy fall day like today. Mellow, not too ethereal like maybe Slowdive or something. Guitars vocals and hooks made for laid-back dirty lovin'... Check out out the songs "Cold Lamping" from On Point And Red and "The Fake But No Finish" from All The Plans Resting and tell me you don't get horned up.... The FBNF clip is on Youtube..

We do have a play-list on youtube we call the G-list.

Most of the music is good old soul.

Strangely enough we used it only Twice but just for the fun of it we keep collecting.

Thanks for this thread

We'll check it out.

Any recorded sound is a major distraction for me.

During a sexual encounter several years ago, I had music playing in the background. Afterwards, I would spring an erection every time I heard the song without the slightest thought of the previous sexual experience. The song was very popular. I had many embarrassing moments in the months that followed. From my psychology studies (Jung)in college, I think the phenomenon was called "Transference".

I wouldn't be able to hear it. There is a reason why I have 3 layers of glass on the windows!