Embarassment during real life medical procedures.

I've never felt excitation during a true medical examination, at least from that I can remember... and I underwent two digital rectal exams and one palpation of testicles by female physicians. Generally speaking, the settings are unexciting, and if you're truly sick you have other things to do than to fantasize.

My greatest embarrassment throughout childhood and adolescence was bending over a receptionist's lap for her to watch me get injections in my vulnerable bare bottom. Frightened and humiliated though I felt before bending across her lap, I often had an erection when standing up afterwards and a receptionist once told me that was normal for boys of all ages.

I have gotten an erection when, during my last STD check, the doctor was examining a brown discoloration on the head of my penis. STD checks aren't sexy, they're really kind of intimidating, actually - even if you're expecting nothing wrong - so I wasn't expecting it to happen. But it was a sexual health clinic and they've probably seen it happen a bunch of times.

The most embarrassing incident was when I was 14 I got an erection when a young attractive nurse was catheterizing me. I was very aroused and thought I was going to ejaculate. I think it was awkward for her too. She didn't say anything about it.

I've avoided my gynecologist for about 6 years now. I'm too worried that I'll show signs of arousal.

I struggle enough at the dentist. I keep my legs crossed and my hands clenched tight. They take it as a sign of anxiety and I run with it.

I had my gallbladder out at the end of January and I'm hoping I didn't say anything, but who knows?

I really need to put a leash on my subconscious thoughts.

As an adult and later as a physician, I think I've never really been embarrassed by any bona fide medical procedure necessary for me to undergo, and some I've secretly or discretely really enjoyed, like prostate exams and sigmoidoscopies. I've often told my personal doctors treating or examining me to just do whatever is required as it's very hard to embarrass me. Also, I always do my very best to be as pleasant and cooperative as possible when I'm with any medical professional taking care of me, as it makes it easier and less stressful for both them and me. Knowing what it's like from "both sides of the needle", I don't want to be a pain in any way to my docs and nurses, as that's how I'd ideally like to be treated while taking care of them.

Eric

Hawky said:

I really need to put a leash on my subconscious thoughts.

I so hear that and completely understand. The first time I was in Doc's office for a real medical procedure, we were already dating but no one knew really, at least in his town which is, at the time what we wanted. Honestly he was taking care of a boil on my ass. It was out of control and not at all attractive. Not exactly what I want my boyfriend seeing as how we like medical play, and not exactly what I want my doctor seeing either. It was a bit embarrassing, however, it was very painful all the time, didn't matter what position I was in or even standing.

So apparently, and I don't still remember any of this, but the other doctor, his partner and he were both in the treatment room because of the nature of the surgery. Anyway I woke up from surgery and as I was waking up I guess I said, "I so want to fuck you". Wowza. I did so right in front of his partner who had no idea that we were dating, lol. Next I said something along the lines of "you know I am a nurse and you have a bit of extra weight (which he really didn't so why I said it I do not know, lol) around your belly and statistics show that men who carry their weight there are more likely to have a stroke". Seriously? So then the big whammy of them all, Doc said something along the lines of putting me on an antibiotic. I guess even still being groggy I said, "I will never take all of my meds so you might as well give me a shot". I was more awake at that point and I do remember him coming back in the treatment room holding a big syringe filled with I am guessing Rocephin but I am not sure. He made me come back the next morning before I left and flew home. Again all three of us were in the room and I was the first patient of the day. I don't know if they had talked about it before but the partner was there first, then Doc came in. We went right back to the room so the dressing could be changed and they could see if it was okay. After the dressing was changed without Doc or the partner leaving the room he tells me he was giving me another ATB shot. So back over I went with my elbows on the table. That whole event scared the hell out of me, but about a month after it happened and I was healed up those events or some of them anyway have been some of the material that has fueled some of my hottest dreams. Oh, and I forgot the most embarrassing part. After we were done, I was the last patient that night because they knew it was going to be time consuming. Well Doc and his partner took me out to dinner which was great because I was so hungry. But they proceeded to tell me everything I said, word for word. I about choked. They thought is was so funny, and I do now as well, but in the moment I didn't know the partner at all so I was so embarrassed. Oy vey. So Hawky, trust me when I tell you, I know exactly what you mean. I pray to god that when I go to have my kidney surgery that I do not embarrass Doc by saying stupid crap as I am coming up out of anesthesia. That is his hospital and everyone knows who he is. You know, you don't shit where you eat sort of a thing.

Mashie

I've avoided my gynecologist for about 6 years now. I'm too worried that I'll show signs of arousal.

Thank you for your candor. Now I need to put a leash on my subconscious thoughts!

I've avoided my gynecologist for about 6 years now. I'm too worried that I'll show signs of arousal..

Hawky, that's 5 or 6 occasions of denying yourself opportunities for an enjoyable experience that's for your own good healthwise. Aw-aw.

Whenever i go for a colonoscopy, despite an all female staff, I think I'm too drained & feeling undernourished, that getting a nice hearty blood flow to the genital area is even a possibility. Plus, between the gown & the sideways position I'm in, i don't anticipate they're going to see it anyway.

During my first adult physical, when I was 23 years old and still a virgin. My examiner was an attractive middle-aged Asian female PA. She did the standard non-intimate stuff first, as is normally the case. I was wearing a gown and she worked around it. When she pulled the extender leaf out on the exam table and instructed me to lie down, I knew what was going to happen eventually. The combination of nervousness and anticipation gave me one of the most massive erections I've ever had in my life.

I casually draped my arm across my stomach and crotch in a feeble attempt to hide my huge boner. The PA told me to relax, gently moved my arm, and lifted the gown. She casually palpated my abdomen while my erection was on full display. She then moved to the testicle exam. This next thing was the funny part. She looked right at me and asked me if I ever did self-checks WHILE she's handling my balls! She then explained the importance of doing them, cancer prevention, blah-blah-blah, with my nut sack still in her hands and my penis hard as a rock. It was the most erotic experience in my life up to that point, and also the most surreal.

I WISH I could experience an exam like that again.

Never had a problem although I am VERY interested in what is happening. In part after a couple of hospital stays when quite sick and I really didn't care what anyone saw. One time as I was having a Foley catheter removed my only thought was "Oh now I will have to pee." I was recovering from bypass surgery and I really had every bit of energy knocked out of me.

Had an erection both times that I was being shaved prior to abdominal surgery. I have no doubt my face turned 50 shades of red the first time, but it wasn't such a big deal the second time.

I've also had a couple of cystoscopies done in the urologist's office, and the second time I became semi-erect while the nurse was injecting an anesthetic gel into the urethra, but I was flaccid by the time the scope was inserted.

I've never had any arousal at a medical appointment or hospital. And I've never worried about it.

Wonder if there is a causal link between worry and the occurance of that which you worry about.

I sometimes get a bit wet when my gynecologist does my pelvic exam and I think he notices but he's never said anything to me about it (thank god lol), when he sticks his fingers inside of me I sometimes tighten up on them a few times because they feel really good inside of me and he will just tell me to try to relax and he'll keep his fingers inside of me until I calm down a bit and relax

The thought of my gynecologist examining me, seeing me down there and touching me down there really turns me on quite a bit

That exact feeling is particularly embarasing for me....

One day while at my annual gyno check-up, the nurse asked me if it would be OK if a couple of med students could observe my exam. I said it would be OK. She had me sign a form. I was in the exam room with just my gown on. The doctor walked in followed by 2 med students. The doctor started off the exam as usual. He then had me lower the gown and checked my heart, lungs, and boobs. He handed the gown to the nurse and she placed it on the counter. The doctor told the students to check my heart, lungs, and boobs. It sort of embarassing to have my boobs examined by three guys while the other looked on. Then it came time to check my vagina. After getting into the position, the doctor checked me and then again told the students to check me. Each of them went through the entire procedure. The doctor told them to check my clit as well. After having three guys rub my clit, I was breathing hard. They could tell I was ready to have an orgasm. I was so wet that the last student didn't need any lube for the exam. I got dressed and left my panties off. I went to the car and played with myself for about one minute before having a big orgasm.

Ladyj, thank you SO MUCH for sharing that with us. OMG that's HOT !

I am alwas very much. I am always "affraid" of the sentence "please lower your pants". When they examine my genital area, I am always affraid of getting an erection. It never happend, but always big thing for me. Will have my checkup at urologist next wekk and I hope nothing will happen!

If so, I think the doc will not mention anything about it because they know that this can happen at anytime.

If you like, I cann tell what happend next week.

During a visit to family practitioner one of the newest male doctors on staff of 3 was to see me.

I don't remember main purpose of vist, except at one point the doc needed to check my prostate & ask me to position my naked body on my left side & pull my knees to my chest so he could incert his latex gloved fingers in my well lubed bum. During the motion of exam i acquired a erection, pale flushing of skin & stutter gasping my words.

After exam i turned over as my visible noticeable big cock spang forward the younger than me chinese doc noticed & became noticeably distracted in his voice as he was talking to me, nice guy doc...

I'm not sure if this is the right place to recall this event. My husband and I both have CDL's as it's required for our business, so I took a part time job as a substitute school bus driver. I was called in for a morning route and that morning my husband woke up early and we had a quickie before I headed out. When I arrived at the bus barn I was informed that all drivers had to give a urine sample for a drug screen test. There was a female there to assist and accompany the woman and a man to do the same for the guys, the man was running the test and processing the samples.

I had peed before leaving home but had drank a cup of coffee so was worried I would not be able to provide a sample. I was taken to the woman's rest room and told I could be alone in the stall and that the water in the toilet was treated and that the sample would be tested with a thermometer. It did take a few minutes but I was able to give a small sample but as I was trying to squeeze out a few extra drops some of the mornings fun dripped into the cup. I was horrified but left with no option but to turn in the sample. I gave the cup to the nurse and when we went back to the officer as he was taking the temperature he noticed the "floaters" and he asked, "did you have sex this morning". The nurse asked him why he asked that question and he held up the cup. It became very uncomfortable for all of us. I could tell he wished he had not asked and the nurse wished that he hadn't either. It actually helped my humiliation to see they were embarrassed too.

I have been partially aroused several times but the only full erection I remember was during a barium enema administered by a cute young technitian. I was already starting to get hard as she positioned me on my left side on the xray table. When she parted my buttocks and inserted the nozzle I couldn't stop from getting fully erect. Then she told me to roll over onto my back. The gown hiked up as I rolled over and as she adjusted it I 'm sure she must have noticed the rise under the gown. There was also some precum. She didn't say a thing. Probably not the first time she's experienced that reaction from a male patient.

Yeah I worry about that all the time. But I'm assuming the medical professionals are aware of how bodies work, and I think they would understand if a patient does get aroused, that it is a normal reaction.

When I was younger I knew something would "go up" during examinations and other procedures, so yes, I was pretty embarrassed, but not now. Now I just get embarrassed due to the whole situation and so on.

Recently I was pretty afraid that during a testicular ultrasounding I could get aroused, but nothing happened, well... I did ended up having a semi, but that was almost at the end of the procedure, when after checking my testicles he simply asked me to hold my penis to the other side while he checked me for hernia.

He removed the small towel and started to rub my right inguinal region, gently forcing me to keep moving my hand to the tip of my penis, leaving it almost fully exposed. Only then I got a semi, but just for a few moments.

It's been about 25 years now, but I had a fatty tumor removed from my left hip in the surgeon's office. I was bare from the waist down and covered by a paper drape as I lay on the table. I was lying on my right side with my left hip up. The Dr. covered me with a windowed cloth drape and pulled the paper sheet down far enough that he had access to my hip through the opening in the cloth drape.

As he worked on my hip, the paper sheet slid from under the cloth drape and fell to the floor, exposing my bare legs, The nurse that was assisting, picked up the sheet and pushed it up under the drape far enough to keep it from falling again. When she did this, she rubbed her hand across my bare scrotum and penis. Our eyes met for a second, but neither of us said anything.

I went in for an appointment for a sore throat. It was to be with a male doctor, however he was unavailable. Instead it was a nurse practicioner. I was being checked and she asked me when was the last time I had a physical. I said I could not remember. She told me to undress and put on a gown. She came back and checked me for a hernia. She the asked me to turn around and bend over the the table with my elbows on the table. I looked over my shoulder and she was putting on some latex gloves. She opened the drawer and took out some k-y jelly. She rolled over on a stool and spread my buttocks apart and examined my back side and then said she was going to insert a finger. She did so and a began to get an erection. Very embarrassing.

I had been home from the army about a week and had a job interview physical The PA doing the exam was a total knock out!! When she took my BP she put my hand under her arm resting against her perfect C cup boobs. She after the first time she took it said your BP is high?? It was the first time in a while I had seen a good looking woman. She started the rest of the exam and said I will have to check your BP again later as she proceeded to start the rest of the exam I felt aroused but had no control of it . After she completed the exam she took it again it was higher than before. She passed me on the exam but said my hearing was a bit diminished for my age. She suggested I come back for a hearing and BP check every few months. After about a year she told me I should have worn better hearing protection when in the army and she thought she may Know the cause of my High BP reading with a smile.

My first urological exam when I was 26 was embarrassing. I wanted to get checked out for a curve in my penis I had for a while, and at times would give me pain. I lied down on the table, raised my bottom and pulled both my shorts and underwear down. Just out of nowhere, my penis got erect when the doc started to palpate it -it was a male doctor. He said that something as light as a breeze can make it happen at my age, and not to be embaressed.

He needed to wait and have the erection go down to finished the exam.