Hemorrhoid Surgery or Repair

Thru the use of enemas and application of Prep H and neosporin on the tears her hemorrhoid and anal cavity are repairing but there are some inner tears. 😢

She talked to one of her peers and he said what we are doing will help and is more than he would have recommended, but we need to find the cause of the constipation ( I think its stress from residency). ???

Does anyone have any pointers for the use of anal speculum? My wife is grabbing one to help the aid of the application of the ointment on her cuts. As a doctor she has no experience in this realm, so I told her to talk to a nurse. But figured this group has helped this far, we can use more.. Thanks

I've suggested we work on teaching her ass to open a little more (its very tight) so it can handle larger BMs.. 😁

She's learning I'll help her do anything and no matter what her ass is still hot.. 😄 nothing like a hemorrhoid to bring a marriage closer 😁

Thanks

No RX medicine helped me, and than the doctor who works on my neck said that some people are helped by beeswax. I looked it up on the Internet and found a recipe for using it: one part beeswax (ground up), one part olive oil, and one part honey. I swear it works on hemorrhoids and tears, although it is sticky to use. I apply it at night. You have to blend it thoroughly. I do this in the microwave with the container sitting in a dish of water. When it is hot enough, I shake it to mix completely.

Sounds like you are talking about an anal fissure . This is a tear in the anus that will be very painful when symptomatic. Anal fissure will respond to treatments but the resulting scar tissue will not hold up indefinitely. The longer you have one the shorter the times before the next pain cycle. Eventually surgical repairs will be needed. I am happy to report that after 20 years of anal fissure management I finally had the minor outpatient surgery. The results was a 100% success.

Hemorrhoidectomy is the most effective method of treating large, bleeding or prolapsing hemorrhoids.

Can I just ask my Doctor for a hemrohidectomy

Mine hurt and bleed constantly

All you can do is ask if your doctor would consider it. I don't why he wouldn't if it is a constant problem.Be prepared for the aftercares and do not sit on donut cushions-they make the hemorrhoids worse by putting pressure on them to pop out more instead of helping. One of our surgeons put a stop to using donut cushions because they cause more problems with prolapsing. All you can do is sit from side to sit if they are that bad or recline. Before and after surgery.Good luck and if you plan to do enemas afterwards,make sure you are healed. You will most likely be advised to use a rinse bottle to spray on the area to cleanse-do not insert until you have been given the ok.

How is anal dilation performed? Is it an effective/safe way to treat hemorrhoids? I'm looking for a non-surgical approach to treating mine, which have gotten quite severe (they pop out almost every time I shit and I have to stuff them back in).

Well a little update. My wife finally went to the doctor, he had to numb the area to look at it. She had a small hemorrhoid and alot of small tears. He prescribed some antibiotics to help with the healing, some heavy duty laxatives, and salt baths. He did state that if they helped continue with the enemas.

So she's making progress and the hemorrhoid is gone, and the small tears are healed. So we are keeping up with the regiment.. of laxative, ointment, enemas (she just likes them now) and salt baths.

I was able to finger her ass yesterday, 2 weeks ago that would have sent her through the wall, now she enjoyed it.

Her doctor stated her constipation and tight anus were likely caused from her residency stress.. (as he stated a lesser problem he sees) so he didn't say much about anus tightness. And stated the constipation will pass as the stress level goes down.. he jokingly stated.. "just in time for a pregnancy".. (all pretty common issues for residents (the parts of medical residency not talked about)

To answer the dilation question, we intend to start slowly stretching her anus slowly it once she's 110% healed. She said she misses the anal sex and never wants to have a too tight of a anus again, its too painful. Jokingly she said, I wonder how much you can stretch it.. So its a burden I must bear.. 😃

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How is anal dilation performed? Is it an effective/safe way to treat hemorrhoids? I'm looking for a non-surgical approach to treating mine, which have gotten quite severe (they pop out almost every time I shit and I have to stuff them back in).

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In many instances you can have them rubber banded.

http://www.health.harvard.edu/newsweek/Hemorrhoids_and_what_to_do_about_them.htm

Having had problems with hemorrhoids years ago until I had them literally ripped out (which was the way it was done in '73), I certainly feel sorry for anyone with this problem. After my surgery, the doctor told me that I had the remains of a fistula inside that had torn at some time. It took months to heal up. I also found that a small piece of aloe plant in the butt helped soothe things a bit.

My doctor also told me to sit on a harder chair like a kitchen chair instead of a soft one and to NOT use a doughnut since that keeps things spread open.

Good luck to you.

For those in need of rectal surgery for hemorrhoids or fissures, seek out a surgeon who specializes in colon and rectal surgery. There are many advanced techniques that are available today (hemorrhoid banding) and fissure repair which require minimally invasive techniques. Some are done under general anesthesia and others under concsious sedation, same type of sedation used for a colonscopy. Its not like it was 20-30 years ago, just sometimes uncomfortable to get up the courage to talk about the issues with the lower end.

The biggest problem we have is her ass being too tight now. We've gotten the hemmorrohoid in submission, but her anus is so tight (pinky finger is big) it rips every time she has a BM.. if we can get her to stop having BMs for a couple weeks I can get her healed and start stretching her ass. any suggestions?

I don't think making her stop pooping for 2 weeks is a good idea just to heal her up to stretch her.If she's that tight don't make it worse for her.Just my 2 cents worth!

^^^^ I remember about 7-8 years ago on the Jay Leno Show, at the beginning of the show where he used to have funny newspaper clippings viewers sent in, one person sent in an ad for a "hemorrhoid aid". It was called the "Rectal Rocket". It looked exactly like (because it was) a black butt plug! You were supposed to wear it 24 hours a day while the hemorrhoids acted up, and it kept your anus dilated so it could be re-trained to open when you had to poop! 😁 😁 😁 😁

As ridiculous and funny as this sounds, and that the newspaper ad might have been a gag, physiologically, it does make some sense.

My mother had a set of those black rectal dilators and used them for that purpose (at least that's what I was told when I asked about them out of curiousity) - they didn't help and eventually she had an operation.

^^^^ Lube her well and go in easy! 😁

Start small and work up in size.

Well we have received the expanable anal bulb.. and she's begging to try it.. She's tired of being tight assed 😃

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My experiences may be of interest. I suffered with piles for years and eventually plucked up courage to see a surgeon who told me I had an unbelievably tiny anus which he thought was the cause. He took me in hospital, gave me a general anaesthetic and stretched me up enough to take four or five fingers then inserted a sponge which I had to retain for a few hours. I was sent home with a large perspex dilator and told to ease it into my anus when in the bath. I became quite fond of my 'toy' and I have never had a problem since. Best of luck with yur problem which sound to me as if you need a GA and anal stretch.LOL

Well my wife finally decided to go to the doctor and see what someelse had to say. Her current doctor stated that she's go a spazmic anus.. so a small bout of constipation caused a tear fissure.. and the pain of that cause a down hill run.. causing her anus to tighten up (some much I can't get a pinky finger in it) and that has lead to all sorts of issues.. so he stated the cure will take 2-4 months of daily ointment, enemas and bowel care. So as she stated today.. anal sex seems like a dream, and a wonderful goal! she didn't laugh when I told her I liked watching her finger her ass putting the medcine in. So word of warned treat the anus delicatly ..

I've never passed for hemorrhoid surgery but always have wondered what goes on when you do so in the hospital. Anyone have experience ?