Bi Fantasy

I am Shaneea, 37mwf new to site and to enemas for fun. Had infrequently for health and some colonices as well.

I have bi fantansies but no f I know to share this topic with. I was wondring what type fantansies other f have?

Hi Shanee;How about we both start out with a shower together,after we dry off and I then hand you a nice glass of wine.As you sip the wine ,I will spread some towels down on the floor to prepare for your gentle body massage.Using a fine body oil,you will slowy rubbed from head to toe in the gentle slow manor untill you're fully relaxed.

This time you given another glass of wine as I prepare your enema.For the fist enema ,I like to use a funnel and colon tube,the solution is two tablespoons of olive oil w/16oz of water.I now carefully lube your anus with vitmin E oil and I use the same oil on the tubing.With the pitcher of solution in hand,I fill the funnel haft way while pinching the end of the colon tube to prevent leakage.Now,I release some solution so that the air will be expelled .Gently the colon tube is inserted into you.The pressure on the colon tube is releast, I now hold the funnel higher to allow the solution to flow into you .When you take all solution,I will leave a small amount in the funnel to prevent air from entering you.I ask you to hold this while I massage your breast and work my way down to your pubic area.

After you have held the oil solution for about ten min,you are then given another quart with the tube still inside you from the olive oil enema.You now have a quart and a half of solution inside of you,by this time you may want to expell.

After you have expelled ,it's now your turn to give me an enema using the same procedure that I gave yours.

The second enema will be a 2 or 3qt enema of saline solution with each of us having our own bag.You click mine,I click yours ,I allow you to take 20oz then I shut off the flow,all the time I am massaging your bellie button area and slowly working down to your by now wet pussy.The clamp is turned back on,my penis is hard as a rock.The flow again is shut off as I gently work my penis in to you.We take our time and move with a gentle slow motion back and forth ,our clamps are released again ,the pressure is building ,the solution is gone,we can't hold back,oh my God what an orgasm.We take a deap breath and kiss.

Hi Shanee,

I don't have bi fantasies, but one of my recurring fantasies has to do with a male lover being "permitted" to have anal sex with me only if he's receiving a slow, warm enema with a dildo-style nozzle. Who knows where this one came from, but it's a favorite.

Arianna

Not being bi, I'ven often wondered what it might be like to have a male give me a large volumed soapy enema with that double balloon rectal catheter and he takes care of that fully erect frontal nozzle! Have had a woman do a strap on, and again wondering what it would be like for a m/m back door? :😃 ( naughty me )

Let us have a candid talk (or candid correspondence?):

1. I have serious doubts whether there is one single woman on this site.

It seems almost certain that everybody here is a man.

2. It is understandable that men derive some pleasure from enemas and fantasise

about women. Some express the desire to be given (by women) and some desire to give

to women. and we speak about straight men, not homosexuals neither bi.

3. Fantasy in men is simple normally uncomplicated.

4. Can we hear by women what their fantasies are?

These should be more complicated, more implicit.

But PLEASE - genuine women. NOT men.

Avi

While I share you skepticism when it comes to people claiming to be women on this, I must say that I have had a few members of enemas4fun convince me that they are in fact women, and I have no reason not to beleive them. They swore to me that they were women, and I beleive them until I can confirm otherwise. Honestly, it dosn't really matter to me because I know for a fact that the ladies like enemas. My wife likes them, the younger girl we got into enemas likes them, many of our kinky friends want to make appt. with the Doc for a 3H like them, the female owner of our dungeon likes them, as does many of her female friends. My enema class was almost half female, and none of them were strangers to the bag. If there are any real females on this site that are offended by the previous post, I am sorry.

Naughtydoc

Shanee, I am a couple of years older than you and while I have had a number of sexual rendezvouses with women, mostly in S&M situations and usually with other men present, I consider myself to be straight because I clearly have a sexual/love-making preference for men. As far as your oral-anal enema fantasies are concerned, they are obviously NOT typical of the population at large, but they could hardly be considered harmful, and if you enjoy the fantasy and can make it happen in real life, go ahead. The only advice I would give when realizing your fantasy is to be clean when licking and sucking. Shit eating is not exactly a healthful activity. From what I have read here, people on this board aren't into that anyway.

Depending on your relationship with your husband, it might be a good idea to let him know your desires. Even if he doesn't participate, you or he might enjoy having him watch. There is a book entitled "The Ethical Slut, The Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities" that you can probably still get on Amazon that discusses in and out of relationship sexual activities. One of the things the author brings up, is that even though you may have an open sexual relationship, you should tell your spouse or significant other BEFORE you have sex with someone else, not after.

The back door sounds fun, i would luv to have my legs over a young studs shoulders so i could watch his face while we had sex and he took a large soapy enema

For carmiavial (sic),

I don't know where you come from but, believe me, there aresome real women on this forum. All you have to do is read some of their posts. If you are an adult male you should be able to read between the lines in order to determine the difference. Sorry, I don't mean to be harsh. I know for a fact that there are some wonderful women on here bi or not makes no difference. 😃

Reading between the lines is a difficult matter. If you get into www.voy.com you will find some real guys that write like genuine women.

The fact that my plea of March 13 went without a female response (by now) seems to prove to an extent what I claimed. May be some women read here, however I guess the participants number will be smaller

CarmiAvi2000

It is easier for a woman to be Bi than for a man. (A am a straight male who doesn't have any Bi leanings). I have lots of fanticies to discuss, but no female to discuss them with. Just one othere note, how many of you women have responded to a personal message from a man who is requesting to corresponde with you? Going back to my line in this post about fanticies. Ladies, please respond to your personal messages (your privacy and identity are protected). If you don't want to communicate, just say so or tell us to go give ourselves an enema or 2. Just common Old-fashioned courtesy. Don't leave us hanging, unless it is an enema bag.

Well Shanee, it sounds like you know what you want to experience and it is, I think common, for most of us that have an anal fetish, to want to give or receive oral anal, or just plain give or get a good ass licking. Hope you find one to play with.

[size=12pt] Talk it out with your husband first. Know the boundaries and respect them, he may have some little thing that could change his outlook. Going for a little at a time is always better than too much at once. [/size]

Shanee wrote "As I posted previously, I am 37 mwf with some bi fantansies. One is oral anal before or after and enema. Is this commom or just gross. This fantansy is only with f. I dont have that desire wtih hubby. Other f points of view please

With me it is more than a fantasy. My GF and I use that technique often. It really is great on either side of the enema.

Hi Shanee,

Anilingus (Webster's defines as oral stimulation of the anus)can be incredibly exhilarating. I think it's much more commonplace than most people imagine. I even recall a Sex in the City episode that dealt with aniligus. I've done it to male lovers and vice versa, after a shower when everything's nice and clean.

I hope you get to experience your fantasy someday.

Arianna

I don't think it is as unusual as you think. i know a couple of flight attendants and they regularly engage in bi activities and give each other enemas. as they are opn the road all the time, they are afraid to pick up strange men. too many std's these days. and their sexuality doesn't go away. let's face it, we all need sex---whether we admit it or not. i think the only people who are not having sex, are those too old, crippled, or liars. i think it is also very common among college girls. they are in close contact in dorms and are curious to experience new things. and it is easier to have bi activities than hetro. i also think there is a great deal of difference in bi women than bi men. the threat of aids is a major thing among men. women do not pass aids this way. i would like to hear more from women about this.

I wonder when "Sex in the City" will have an episode focusing on the use of Enemas for pleasure?...That would be an episode not to 'miss"...FOR SURE....

Michael2

ps: Maybe someone in the "know" could put the bug in someones ear..Anyone out there know anyone in the film industry?.....

I'm a male, who considers himself straight, but has bi fantasies. However, my greatest fantasy involves giving an enema to a female while I orally stimulate her to orgasm. If she would return the favor, it would make my day.

I'm a male thaat has a fantansy and I have found that most of the women that I know don't want to be a part of it. I would love to have two women share enemas with me. If we get into sex that would be fine too. My wife how ever is not into enemas. But she once told me that if I could get some one to get one from it would be alright with her.

I would love to be taken care of by a rubber nurse for an entire 24 hours. She would keep me in diapers and rubber pants. I would have many rectal temps., soppositories, finger exams., enemas, and tampon inserts. She would breast feed me and wash ,dry and power my penis and bottom. I would be layed on a soft rubber sheet for all nurseing care. She would than give me oral sex 3 or 4 times during the day. All enemas would be given with a folding latex douche bag. At the end of the day she would give me a bath and a large cleansing enema.

I would like to give a lady an enema, and then have her put her painties on and expel into them. Kind of like she had an accident. This of course would have to be with someone who enjoys enemas and whom you engage in regular play with.

I have a wonderful new wife who is into sex toys including anal nozzles and digital anal penetration. All of this is wonderful and I have no complaints. She loves to give me an enema but will not take one and I respect her wishes. She loves to masturbate me but I have a difficult ejaculating unless I am alone doing the masturating. This wife is a new and wonderful experience but my two former wives neither liked sex or enemas and I developed a fantasy that works for me and that is the punishment. I always fantasize about a woman that has done something wrong and needs to be stripped and given a large soapy enema while being held down. In the fantasy she always says she will not do it again and is chastened. That does it all the time.

I think that at least .05 % of the participants are women and of that small percentage they may be experiencing gender confusion. Ah if it were not true!

Well I guess I am an ole stick in the mud. As I have written before except as a child all my enemas have been self administered. My fantasy is that my spouse would be interested in enemas for relaxation, cleansing, and, yes, FUN. My fantasy, I know "Oh so pedestrian", is take as hot shower with my spouse, where we scrub each others back and afterwards towel each other off. Now that our outsides are squeaky clean, its time for the insides. I give her a cleansing enema first. A very warm SS enema, 2 quarts slowly given and massaged in. Then its my turn. She does the same for me. We repeat the cycle until clear. Then its time for some fun. I give her a 2-3 quart saline enema with the green flex nozzle that has rings behind the tip. She is in the KC position. I lubricate thoroughly, and slowly work in the tip. During the first two quarts I move the nozzle in and out using the rings behind to tip to massage her and when its back that far I stop letting he feel the very warm water rushing inside. For the last quart, the nozzle is fully inserted and I stroke her till she orgasms. The massage her as she retains and relaxes. Now it my turn. She does the same for me, paying special attention to massaging my prostate during lubrication and administration. During the last quart she just strokes me keeping me erect. After I expel. We make mad passionate love leaving no orifice unexplored, no erogenous zone unfondled. I also fantasize just giving each other calming, gentle (but you know your getting one for sure) enemas for simple relaxation not necessarily leading to wild sex.

But getting my spouse to take or give an enema is a true fantasy. When our first child came along she was so far along they skipped the enema. When the next two came along, she sat in the hospital parking lot till she was sure she was far enough along she wouldn't get one. Sol its self administration and fantasy for me. I guess that's why I am mostly into enemas for cleasning and relaxation.

Thks Ginnie; yes we gentlemen of the bag are sincere, fun luving/fun giving, respectful of womens' needs, wants, desires, and fantasies...more women should take the time to get to know us...and what a connection that would make. the journey is the destination. 😉

I hope we are not still on that old horse about having no women on the site. I am most definitely a woman, not bi, but I am so curious about bi men.

I know my bi fantasies are real and I've acted upon them a number of time since I was 17, but I've become almost obsessed with desire for both, male and female at the same time, for the past 20 years which I've never acted on.

Spousal inattention is the main reason for my fantasies since my mind is always wondering what it would feel like for the female partner and my wife can't be quizzed as to her experience since she doesn't have any nor has she ever wanted any. There is no sex drive at all on her part and I've learned to live around it and she accepts my need for porn, enemas, shaving, lube, toys, and masturbation even though it's once in a blue moon that she will provide a hand job, (I've always felt that was out of guilt). Though not wanting to participate, she is very tolerant of my methods of relief.

Because of my wondering about her feelings during sex which she doesn't participate I've become more sensitive in my anal area, my nipple are extremely sensitive and provide many long hours of play. I find I am more attentive to other peoples needs in nonsexual ways. I find experience heightened arousal in feel good situations like "chick flicks" and gossip sessions. I think I have willed my body to make up for the absent partner input.

My fantasy is for her and another man with me in a wild ass romp, bone chewing, toy playing, enema giving/receiving, fucking session that would last the rest of our lives! I have a good compensation in a wife that understands where I'm coming from and puts up with me.

She never wants any sex and you feel that she is putting up with YOU? I think you have that mixed up, friend. It is you who is putting up with her and you can bet she knows it too. There must be some way to talk to her about it coming from the point of view of her needs, what she likes and why she does not want sex. Get her to the doctor, that's not natural.

After 44 years, do you really believe we haven't investigated our situation?

I've always had a fantasy about my wife or another woman sitting naked on a bed , with me laying naked across her lap . my ass up and my cock sliding down the front of her pussy . i'd love to have her slowly rub my ass and legs . after a while she could lube my anus and slowly finger me, by then my cock would be hard and rubbing on her clit. i'd then want her to slowly slide a nozzle into me working it in and out and release some warm soapy water in me.after i want her to continue fingering my ass until i cum all over her lap and pussy.when she is done with me i want to lay her across my lap and give her the same treat !