Is tricking them in wrong?

My girlfriend was unwilling at first to wearing diapers until a few well-placed diuretics, stool softeners and muscle relaxers made her realize necessity at the mall one afternoon.

was it wrong to trick her into thinking she had a control problem?

Very wrong to have done that vanilla!!! its one thing to do that to someone who is expecting it but another who doesnt!!! how did you know what pills she is taking when you did that to her??? if she was taking a certain drug it could have been bad for her. be carefull who you do that to it cna have a bad 0utcome for whoever

I can only make a call from a distance - but it seems just wrong. I am assuming you want them to trust you ... so honour them by treating them with respect.

It is quite OK when you have mutually agreed to something and something else to force it on them. Can have quite the wrong effect in the longer term.

I hope the reaction wasn't as bad as I fear it may have been!

I agree it is wrong. If she starts to think she has a problem, she may go to the doctor with out telling you, costing her money to find out nothing is wrong. Also like mamasboy said, it is very dangerous what you did. The combination of medicine you gave her could cause real damage with you knowing it. Then like kiwi said, how can she trust you?

I agree with everyone and if you think that is wrong to to trick them like that then it must be wrong.

Do some thinking about the "Golden Rule" and then put it into practice.

I will take a bit of a flip to this, have you told her the truth about what you did? If not you need to and see what she thinks is a fair punishment for you to have to do. If you want to regain her trust then you must be willing to prove that you want it, and do what she asks to have a chance to regain it, and if i was her i would choose a humiliation punishment, like make you take the same things, go without a diaper, and go shopping with her, and SHE would get to choose when, and even IF, you get a restroom break.

Basically i dont think you were wrong i KNOW you were wrong and out of line with that one, as others have said you do not know what hse may be taking and there was an outside chance you could have done permanent damage to her or landed her in the hospital, or worse, what if she had major allergies to what you gave her you could have killed her.

I hate to get this harsh with a post, but i am hoping those that are thinking of doing the same thing realize it is FAR better to talk to someone you want to try diapers and to make a deal with them, you will do something they want if they will try diapers, you may even add that if they use it you will do other things.

She didn't realize her necessity. She didn't have a necessity.

This is why DL guys generally have a lot of trouble finding women willing to participate. They do sh*t like this to manipulate people into getting exactly what they want. It was both disgusting and dangerous the way you tried to control her.

Sad, and irresponsible

-Sky

I didn't think some people would stoop so low in order to get their way. You KNOW damned well you were wrong, vanillabear. Not wishing to be mean but she deserves better than you if this is your way of doing things. >😢

Read very carefully what has been written in this thread... and hope no damage has been done to the girl.

If this is true it was a crazy thing to do.

Shame on you man...

Lmao dude you are sick warped and wacked! Congradulations you just killed a little bit of my faith in humanity. SEEK HELP!

That's a really crappy thing to do. If I could, I would ban you from the site just to make sure I didnt have to hear from you again.

Wrong. oh so wrong. its funny though...

and it did get things going for you..

It's wrong because:

a) she didn't consent, first and foremost

b) playing around with pills is very dangerous, ask my ex-girlfriend who almost died of advanced dehydration and hypovolemia from too much diuretic intake

c) incontinence, even amongst the people in this community, is a very worrysome problem and can put a huge cramp in one's social life; just the thought of having this problem can create anxiety

d) it's a selfish and manipulative thing to do. Last time I checked, there were two people in this relationship! Try taking her thoughts into consideration

e) even if she did agree to wear, it wouldn't be a pleasant experience for her because in her mind she needs them

It's time for you to grow up.

If your asking if tricking them into thinking they need diapers is wrong then you must know that it wrong. So why would you do it? I can honestly say I would hate you for it if I were in her shoes. Especially doing something like this to her in public. She could have run into co workers or friends, did you think about the embarrassment factor for her before you decided to dose her?

It's one thing if she knows about it and its all role play but to attack an unsuspecting person is just wrong.

Dude for real im with every one else you are messed up she could of got seriously sick or even well you no you your brain instead of your well in your case head

I would say its wrong because they might think they have a real medical problem.

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b) playing around with pills is very dangerous, ask my ex-girlfriend who almost died of advanced dehydration and hypovolemia from too much diuretic intake

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this is the answer i woulda given you. why? because i AM that ex-girlfriend. everyone who said its wrong is correct for all the reasone theyve listed. its such a selfish and manipulative thing to do to someone youre supposed to be in a trusting, fulfilling, MUTUAL relationship with. not only do i hope she finds out, i hope she breaks up with you and presses charges.

Maggie, if I could give you 8,000 karma points for that one, I would.

I totally agree with what must people have said this trickery is totally the wrong thing to do.

Hello McFly....OH MY GOD...If you seriously have to ask this question..."YOU ARE TOO STUPID TO LIVE!!!" >😢 I really hope the girl is okay.

I wish I knew who your girlfriend is so I could tell her what you did. Then she could charge you with assault and battery. Seriously, how can you get your head that far up your own ass? And then brag about it on this site? You are, in fact, too f*#king stupid to live.

Seriously dude, did you really have to ask us if this was ok? I would go further to say that if she did find out she would most likely be your ex-girl friend. That was a deal breaker sport.

So wrong please do not pull that one again

I agree it was wrong but rather you need to get past this point now. Have you told her that you tricked her or are you going to keep this a secret?

As from experience I would try to lure her into it. By that I say try some other things like BDSM, Whips, and other fetish toys. Then later in the future say "Babe, I wanna try something that is really crazy, maybe....diapers?"

Honesty is a really great game player. But sometimes a little white lie doesn't hurt much. Rather than betrayal.

I disagree about this guy needing to get past that point. I think he needs to dwell quite a bit longer about this point. I think he needs psychotherapy. Can you think of any instance when it is considered normal behavior to drug someone for the purposes of getting what you want? When someone is drugged without their consent for the purposes of sex, that's considered rape. This act was not just irresponsible and immoral, it was criminal. I say this loser needs to spend quite a bit more time contemplating this. And it disturbs me that he sees it as "tricking her" as opposed to "assaulting her".

Drugs to obtain what you want from a Person carry a very stiff Prison Sentence here in Canada. We have had a case here in Alberta of a younger Lady drugged at a party and gang raped. The four men involved have just been sentenced to 7 years apiece in prison. Anne B good advice it is rape and the other charges were listed as attempted murder as well with the administering of a noctious substance to obtain sex. The four Boys wanted sex well they will be getting sex in prison.

Sounds like some fap fodder for the OP.....what a sicko

It's rude, and can emotionally hurt someone